Some context. I'm 31, in decent shape (I work out, but I wouldn't call myself jacked). I never have too much trouble finding an attractive girl to go out with. However, I have yet to meet a girl that I'm really into and would trust having a LTR with. Spinning plates is fun and all, but it takes time out of my days that I could be using to improve myself.

I'm an Asian guy that comes from a background of arranged marriages. My family has suggested that I go down the path of bringing a girl from my home country, marry her, and settle down. I've seen pictures of the girl they have in mind and have had video calls. She's cute, 22 years old. Limited life experience and conservative. Because she lives in a poorer country with conservative values, I know I will have no problem maintaining frame in this relationship. I'm leagues better than any guy she could have ever possibly met. This makes it more likely that we have a stable relationship.

While it's nice having a dependable girl who can stay at home, I also really want an American "girlfriend" type who might be less dependable as a long-term partner, but is also a lot of fun. I think this might also help me maintain frame in both relationships, as they each would know that I have options. A red pill youtuber (Entrepreneurs in Cars) says that "women don't mind sharing an alpha" and I'd like to know whether you all agree.

I want to see if I can have my cake and eat it too without my cake getting jealous. Game plan would be to marry this girl (with pre-nups and all) and after 2 years broach the subject.