Tinder convo, what to do next?

LewisCross · 2017-07-10T14:50:35+00:00

What supernova said.

All texting like this should lead immediately to setting up an in person meeting. Don't text for the purpose of just conversing, just to stay on a girl's radar. You text a few lines, then suggest an in person face to face. This girl is open to a meeting. So the next communication should be something like

"I'll be at X at Y date/time. Meet me there."

And she either says OK, or says can't, how about Z at A date and time, or she says "can't". If she says the first or second things, you say great, see you then. If she says the third thing you suggest something else. If she still says can't, she's not interested, you leave it. If you set up the date and she flakes or blows you off, cut off all contact and delete her info.

All texting/messaging/use of social media/use of online dating sites should be geared toward getting to the in person meeting as soon as possible. This girl is down for that. Suggest it right away.

ThaSupernova · 2017-07-10T14:05:36+00:00

Yeah. That's the plan. I'd ask for her number in the very next message and then get straight to logistics. Find out when she's free and then offer a specific date/time to go. Meet up and escalate from there.

mmurph200 · 2017-07-10T14:11:13+00:00

yup you answered your own question all you could do by messging more is fuck it up

BlackMisc · 2017-07-10T14:51:48+00:00

shes looking for a buddy? brooo throw some sexual innuendo in there

AchillesHeel77 · 2017-07-10T17:02:06+00:00

Me: At least you have someone to get sushi with now

Her: Perfect, I've been needing a buddy!

You are trying to qualify yourself, she should be qualifying for you. Not a good start as you are giving her the power.

Next text just say "Great send me your number" No question mark, just direct/demand.

ALSO: Edit the post/update us I want to see how this plays out lol.

failingtheturingtest · 2017-07-11T00:23:26+00:00

Put your hoo hoo in her cha cha

Title	Tinder convo, what to do next?
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Date	July 10, 2017 1:07 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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