Tinder hookups

SirKolbath · 2017-10-21T04:29:25+00:00

One thing you definitely should never do, ever, is read the article on the sidebar about how to use Tinder. There's no possibility that it will help.

zuhbooze · 2017-10-21T05:00:47+00:00

250 and only a few meet-ups?

Lay off the messaging trigger thumbs. Get a match, ignore it. If you must send a message, send one then forget about it.

Either you live in a heavily populated area or your pictures display high enough SMV for them to swipe right. Regardless, based on your post, if true, the reason you're not meeting up or closing is you're too availible or your text game sucks.

DiscordantMonk · 2017-10-21T06:32:05+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5ossjl/tips_from_my_tinder_success_most_can_be/ This is a solid approach

max_peenor · 2017-10-21T14:43:03+00:00

never keep the conversation going

They are tinder sluts. Why are you trying to keep conversation going? Arrange meet up or next.

doctorlw · 2017-10-21T19:28:09+00:00

First, you should also use Bumble. Quality / response rates are higher than Tinder.

Quick tips regarding getting meetups:

1) Move quickly, if you don't set up a date within a week of matching, the odds of a flake go up exponentially

2) On the same note, minimal messaging back and forth before asking for the girls number. You should have the number in 3-5 messages tops. My pattern is usually something like: 1. Hey hows your week going, 2) what part of town do you live in 3) ask for # to meet for a drink. Message sporadically, don't answer immediately or wait longer than 24 hours to reply (unless you are actually too busy, don't sweat it too much). 4) pop phone number into facebook to confirm they look like pictures before you text them (not all will be on social media but many will)

3) Pick a bar where you enjoy going to and won't mind being at alone if she flakes. I actually tend to pick nights where I am planning on watching a sporting event on tv anyway and if she flakes just watch the game as I would have anyway. Most girls who flake will not meet up in the future, but don't be overly quick to dismiss them either. Many 1st date flakes have ended up being great girls in the long run. Play it case by case, it is not an automatic next as the mantra here goes.

TehJimmyy · 2017-10-21T20:26:00+00:00

mfw 0 matches.

norcalguy510 · 2017-10-21T09:25:23+00:00

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theoldnick · 2017-10-21T10:35:08+00:00

dont chit chat on tinder, push to MEET ASAP. 3 messages MAX then propose date.

MuhTriggersGuise · 2017-10-21T14:21:33+00:00

I find meeting in real life way better than apps. Since you are matching a lot in an app, then bombing when you meet, it tells me your text game and in person game sucks.

If I were you, I'd drop the tinder and work on meeting people in person. It will force you to work out your weaknesses and quickly get to the bottom of what's wrong. Right now tinder is a crutch and a hinderance. Once you have the in person game worked out, you can use tinder.

stro85 · 2017-10-21T14:31:04+00:00

I hate tinder. I have went out with some of my matches and I didn’t have fun. I would much rather meet people in real life and ask them out there. Tinder is only good when I’m out of town and have a long overnight.

Kommanderdude · 2017-10-21T15:02:08+00:00

The number 1 problem I see with men on tinder is talking too damn much on the app. If you don’t get the number in 5 lines or less she’ll get bored with and your pussy drying conversation.

Peter_B_Long · 2017-10-21T16:39:52+00:00

Try and be more bold and initiate a meet up quicker

TrenGod37 · 2017-10-21T16:50:59+00:00

Get off tinder aka validation book. And go out and meet women in real life

Jsieijejeieokkd · 2017-10-21T11:48:37+00:00

A good opener "you look like trouble"

Try to notice something as well most girls put a lot of thought into what they post.

Title	Tinder hookups
Author	CameronBronson
Upvotes	22
Comments	21
Date	October 21, 2017 3:55 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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