Tinder

Cunt_Robber · 2017-02-12T23:08:44+00:00

If there is a match, this means both parties have already "liked" each other. Skip the introductions, the back-and-forth chats, and trying to impress her or sound funny/smart/charming/alpha over tinder/text. Your first message should prompt her to a face to face meeting, whether it's a simple coffee date, drinks, etc (whatever your strengths are, really, and wherever you feel most confident in yourself and your ability to game her). If she wants to chat, ask for her number. If she shit tests you saying she doesnt know you, tell her you matched and so you know she's interested (maybe add that you like to skip the pointless chat messaging and prefer to talk to beautiful women face to face).

Basically, skip the pointless steps that women get validation from. Go for number or face to face meetup, since you already know theyre interested since you matched. If they keep trying to chat but evade giving you number or setting up a date, IGNORE THEM (great way to practice abundance mentality). This way you don't give them validation. It's that easy. If you don't get results, something is wrong: lacking SMV, crappy pics, or boring/weird bio (do some self-reflection and learn to be mindful of how you sell yourse - I mean, how you portray yourself).

Conclusion: Women who want to fuck usually get right down to it. The ones who are after validation evade and don't let you escalate even after you pass their shit tests. Minimize the validation and go for what you want. If poor results, it's a good way to find out you have some self-improvement ahead of you and to set some goals and invest in yourself. Hope this saves you some time and clears things up.

Kalidane · 2017-02-13T01:39:11+00:00

I deleted Tinder. I wasn't good at it.

Had lunch with a girl today. Loud conversation about why fat girls can't have Brad Pitt even if they wear makeup and love themselves and are happy. Lunch ended and she left (she annoyed me a bit and I'm busy today).

Cute girl from the next table then got up to leave and said bye and waited for a response. I got up and told her I'd see her here tomorrow at 12 and I left. Don't know her name or Facebook or number. Don't care. She has fun looking boobs.

I don't use Tinder because I'm not good at it.

ashleyshafer27 · 2017-02-12T22:31:44+00:00

Girls using you for validation. Raise your smv so they want sum fuk.

harkrank · 2017-02-13T04:22:29+00:00

Your problem is that you are wasting your time. Ask for a date as soon as possible and you will find out as soon as possible if she wants to see you or just wants validation.

willswag910 · 2017-02-12T22:42:20+00:00

I've tried going for several days I've tried going for the date as soon as an opportunity presents itself and everything in between

DoubleT06 · 2017-02-12T23:11:22+00:00

How long are your conversations?

Are you moving from Tinder to texting?

jttjt · 2017-02-12T22:39:25+00:00

This is par for the course with tinder. Sure raising your SMV will help but you're just gonna have the same problem with the hotter girls that you match with. These girls have a million guys to choose from and it takes a lot for them to want to meet up with a guy from the internet. And it's hard to give them a lot when all you can do is send messages and have pictures.

cazzah123 · 2017-02-13T11:59:56+00:00

It's not your problem. 90% of women on tinder are there for attention unless you are 1% top model kinda guy. It's not you, they just won't meet, period.

The ones that will, you can tell. They will give you their number fairly quickly and will agree to go out. Normally quite quickly too.

That's tinder. You need to be very forward to sort out the genuine women from the attention seekers.

Title	Tinder
Author	willswag910
Upvotes	4
Comments	19
Date	February 12, 2017 10:24 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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