Tips for one night stands?

microgum · 2018-07-04T07:17:22+00:00

Realize if you're getting a girl nighttime hours she knows what she's doing.

She doesn't think you're taking her to lunch at 12 AM.

I'm in high school so venues have always been random public places due to parents. (Parks, Abandoned houses, Baseball Field Bathroom, whatever)

Obviously, I would advise against using public places unless that's your thing, just be safe legally. I tend to be more reckless since I'm 17.

Most ONS go something like this for me.

1) Met her at a party, social event, whatever.

2) I get a number close or whatever at said event.

3) Text a bit, small pings, logistics. IF I tease a bit the girl always says something like "Oh, I'm not that type of girl" it's basically text ASD. She doesn't want to act like she's going to have sex with you before you're there so she doesn't feel like a slut, yet this chick wants to meet up in the middle of the night so you know this is just an indicator of interest, whereas most would assume it's a "Oh no! Friendzoned again!!!"

4) Proceed to do the least amount of talking you will ever have to do during a ONS because if she's already down you have it... don't really need to game, pass a few easy shit tests, tell her to get wherever, take whatever off, it's over.

5) I ALWAYS send a comfort text after. Nothing fruity, not a "Wow! You're amazing!" but something relating to the event, eg: Had sex with her on asphalt? then send her something like "Hey! Hope your knees are okay from that asphalt. Cheers!"

This will lead her to respond in a way that double confirms your consent in case she tends to regret it later due to a boyfriend she has or whatever, and falsely calls the feminist warhorn of rape.

Here's an example:

If it's ONS on vacations (hotels, cruises, hostels) it's easy mode.

Girls love the idea of romance. Oh wow, a British girl found a wild, cowboy, American in Spain. She wants that idea of an American Romance and you want the nut. Go fulfill it.

There's a song about that.

Now on how to feel less nervous about it? Realize it's stupid to feel nervous about it.

Same with approach anxiety.

Men have led armies, toppled countries, created life, yet you're scared to go say hi to a girl or create attraction with a girl.

Shoot your shots, when you're 90 dying in your hospital bed you won't be sitting there going "Fuck! I wish that girl in my 20's didn't reject me! It entirely ruined my life!"

You're more likely to think "Why didn't I do these things in my life?"

Cheers.

BeeBopJoe · 2018-07-04T04:18:16+00:00

Just screen for logistics and escalate. Simple

Morphs_ · 2018-07-04T04:44:35+00:00

Have condoms, drink some alcohol to feel relaxed, use some stuff like Cialis to make your dick hard and to further prevent anxiety.

boy_named_su · 2018-07-04T06:15:12+00:00

Be cool, have fun, no expectations. Oh but you have a bottle of wine in the fridge and Mario Kart. Maybe she should pop by for a quick hangout...

You should hit more than one place before your place so it feels "natural"

Also, setup a camera in your bedroom for legal evidence later just in case . And girls often don't like having their twats licked on first fuck FYI

When you wanna get rid of her in the morning, go to Starbucks together, so its easier to part ways

Bruchibre · 2018-07-04T10:02:06+00:00

Remember that ALL girls are “not like that”. So you have to build up some sexual tension before they become like that. Unless you are attractive, the process is shorter. Anyway you are in holiday so have little to lose. Last but not least, lower your standards.

Title	Tips for one night stands?
Author	QuantumSpecter
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	July 4, 2018 4:12 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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