Tips om going permanent monk mode and accepting what is

partyn3xtd00r6 · 2021-02-16T17:09:15+00:00

Lift weights and eat healthy to get your mind and body right
Make as much money as you can so you can have access to a higher quality of life

Rustrike · 2021-02-16T17:20:19+00:00

There's a lot of women that fuck grandpas with a yacht and a nice villa in Miami. Obviously they barely have any conversations with them. Remember, a man has a number of way to increase SMV: assets, looks, social status and personality. A woman only one - looks.

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lmann81733 · 2021-02-16T17:06:36+00:00

Everybody gets demoralized at times and I’m sure you do have it harder than some others. But your situation isn’t hopeless, I’m sure there’s somebody who’s had it worse who’s succeeded. Convincing yourself it’s hopeless is just an excuse to not try probably because you’re afraid of failing or your lazy. You don’t want to go down that road.

And if you’re gonna reply to argue why you really are doomed, don’t bother. If you want to fight for why you should live a lonely isolated life I’m not going to try to convince you otherwise.

clickherebaby · 2021-02-16T17:06:39+00:00

First off, I'd say around half of all people, give or take 10%, have things they have to accept. There are people who literally walk through life and everything happens for them. It's especially obvious when you tell them of a struggle they've never heard of, and they try to dismiss it.

Id consider myself socially inept. Maybe borderline autistic. I think 99% of people see me and will flat out assume im normal. Tall, handsome, nice hair and in good shape. I have the ability to sometimes really be impressive socially, but its never been consistent so its not really me. It actually works against me because i set up an idea of who i am and almost never live up to it.

Right now I'm just making more money than i ever have and am focused on my health. Ive been in and out of depression for years but its a part of my life now. Its not so detrimental that I'd want to see a therapist again. I know what it's like to struggle immensely and to still move forward.

There's 8 billion people. It's mathematically foolish to think everyone is going to have the top human experience in all aspects of life. If everyone could achieve it, then it wouldn't be as revered.

Herdsengineers · 2021-02-17T03:20:48+00:00

I don't know about permanent monk mode, but if you aren't ready for a relationship right now then you aren't. Pushing it will only hurt you more. I'd advise you to go see a therapist that specializes in helping adults with autism learn new skills. Just because you haven't learned "people" skills as it relates to dating doesn't mean you can't. Just being here asking this tells me that maybe with the right coaching, you can learn. It just hasn't come naturally to you. Try getting a little specialized help and see how that goes. If it helps you, eventually you can grow to a point where you can pursue a relationship.

Just be very careful, you're autism will leave you vulnerable to certain styles of manipulation that women excel at.

FYI - my son is a mostly functional Asbergers type, I have a mostly non-functional autistic nephew as well. I've seen in some cases, the specialists can help alot. It's worth a shot for you.

Title	Tips om going permanent monk mode and accepting what is
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Date	February 16, 2021 4:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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