To soft next or not?

fnordsnord · 2018-02-05T18:26:30+00:00

What have we learned, Dorothy?

Do NOT expect a woman to keep her damn mouth shut about ANYTHING. Women's status is, in part, measured by the number of secrets they can spill.

I get you feeling angry and betrayed, but that's like being mad a cat for eating your pet bird. You left a cat and a bird in a room together. What did you expect to happen?

If your panties are in a bunch and you can't get past it, go ahead and next her. But be aware that you are nexting a woman for acting like a woman.

EnzoGold · 2018-02-05T16:37:27+00:00

Soft next you can't trust her. Also if you didn't know you shouldn't tell women shit you don't want people to know.

juliusstreicher · 2018-02-06T02:26:19+00:00

The damage is already done. Follow your instincts, now.

JerryMullin1978 · 2018-02-05T16:35:43+00:00

In a calm manner, tell her why you’re upset. If needed flip the script, and put her in your shoes to show her how you feel. Ask her how she would react? Judge her reaction. If she doesn’t seem to care, demote.

By the way, if I was dating a girl exclusively and she went around blabbing about my business, I’d have serious trust issues going forward.

Title	To soft next or not?
Author	flakersgonnaflake20
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	February 5, 2018 3:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7vfmhm/to_soft_next_or_not/
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