Alright so basically matched with a girl on Tinder. Her bio was kinda lengthy and it said "NO HOOKUPS PLEASE AND THANK YOU" which in my eyes means she has probably hooked up and regretted it. After sending a few messages back and fourth she gave me her number. Then she went onto say how I was the first guy to ask her out. Then she goes on saying, "No. I actually mean no one asked me out. I started using this app a few weeks ago and only met with one guy who wanted a tour of the city".

Anyways so we sent a few lines of text and set up a date a week out (our schedules didn't line up). Didn't text her until the day before and to ping her and she messaged immediately. Next day comes around and we meet up for lunch (the only time I was available). I could tell she was pretty nervous (stuttering words) but we had a bit in common. After talking to her I think she was raised very sheltered. She was born and raised in China and was heavily pushed by her parents to study. After we finished eating and split the bill, she asked where are we going next. Took her to a near by museum and we walked and talk there and once again she asked whats next. So I took her to a near by mini zoo which she seemed to enjoy. The places I took her were kinda lame but oh well. I then suggested we go back to her campus and show me around. She showed me around and after I bit I was like, "How about we go back to your place and watch a drama". She told me her room is very messy and she doesn't want me to see it in that way. Told her I wouldn't mind but she insisted. She walked me back to the car and I dropped her off on my way out.

Later she texted me the shows I asked her to recommend. Told her we should watch some together on Netflix and apparently she needs Chinese subs instead of English even though she reads English fine. I then I said I'd be available after X tomorrow (since our days wouldn't line up until next week) lets meet up and watch something. She text me with a "Tomorrow?! Sorry can I have some time with my friends tomorrow :'D". I wasn't sure if that was a question or a statement so I asked her and then she was like "It was really fun today and I saw a lot of new things! But I still feel it is just awkward to meet a guy 2 days in a row. I don't know if it is common for Americans, but I have to be honest it feels like we are kinda moving so fast... We didn't even chat much on the internet before you asked for my number! and you suddenly asked me out while this is my first time to get this kind of invitation so I may not act properly in many ways.... But I am feeling a little bit awkward to go out again tomorrow... I'm sorry."

I just replied with "Okay, no problem" and went on to fuck another girl that night.

I've noticed with a lot of "home grown" Asians tend to move slower than American girls. Most of those Asians I usually banged on the 2nd or 3rd date. Also I had suggested I'd pick her up for our date but she adamantly insisted that she take the shuttle because she didn't want to get in a car alone with a potentially dangerous man and went on about crime rates. So at least she is smart. I didn't really escalate and I did mess up by saying I'd be free after X tomorrow and lets watch a drama at her place.

She is cute and short, just the way I like them. Is there anyway to salvage this?