First post to Asktrp. 5'11, 170lbs about 15% bf. Lifting 6 years steady numbers all round.

Recently found TRP after some difficulties in LTR of over 10 years. Started implementing basic ideas like STFU and passive dread. Still working on maintaining a stronger frame but it's getting better.

Read NMMNG, MMSLP, onto The Rational Male and WOTSM.

I'm pretty alpha in a lot of ways, an outdoors man and I'm always a 'do' person if you know what I mean. The reason I found TRP was that I had some doubts over my LTR's faithfulness and had begun to doubt myself and actually turned quite beta in my responses to her.

Anyway I started concentrating on my own shit and implemented some slight dread towards her, nothing Rambo I don't believe but just teasing etc. It certainly seems to be working both in her reactions to me and my own self esteem. The problem I'm seeing is that now she's starting to act a little bit too paranoid that I'm cheating on her. I'm 3 years younger than her and in better shape and probably a few sex ranks above her. Before when I was being a beta bitch she was stoic etc, now she seems to be going a little crazy inside with doubt about me.

Am I pushing it too hard and should I back off or should I steam on regardless and just be cocky/confident and retain frame as best I can?