Troubled Sex

throwaway4target-yay · 2018-03-03T04:36:24+00:00

This is one of those proverbial cases where advice from anonymous sages on the internet really isn't going to cut it. The fact that you are asking tells me you haven't had this conversation with your doctor. Why? The MD should come before the therapist. You needed to ensure that there isn't something more profoundly wrong here like a fucking month ago...

That said, it feels like this could be entirely in your head. You had no problem spluging all over yourself when you had the nice, safe barrier of your extremetube screen separating you from the woman. But you can't handle a real girl? Then holding your load made you feel asexual? It really seems like this is a psychological hang up. I'm hoping you have already done your research and know all about things like emetophobia and vomiting during sex? Because it matches your situation and, again, is entirely psychosomatic.

There is a small chance you have an endocrine problem, which can potentially be a big fucking problem. So again why you haven't seen a doctor is beyond me, or if you have omitting that from your post was a hell of an oversight. But my intuition is that this is in your head. You need more help than reddit can offer. Get it, and good luck.

[deleted] · 2018-03-03T04:19:32+00:00

You answered you're question. If it doesn't please you, don't do it. I see what you mean by foreplay being more pleasurable. Masturbation seems to ruin sex everytime you do it so I quit altogether, which in turn made sex more pleasurable and valuable for me. Sex only has as much value as you give it, so don't beat yourself up over it.

ronmexico8 · 2018-03-03T04:37:11+00:00

Talk to a therapist. Porn is probably the root cause. More sex is probably the solution. I hate the smell of latex so if I haven't had sex in awhile it bothers me. Once I started getting laid regularly again, the bother goes away.

QuanTheGreat · 2018-03-03T05:45:40+00:00

Check your testosterone levels.

ThatKassiusGuy · 2018-03-03T04:30:10+00:00

Maybe you're gay?

BurnieSlander · 2018-03-03T05:34:55+00:00

Maybe an odd question, but are you holding your breath during sex? Also, what’s going on in your head during sex? Are you able to focus on the experience or do you have a constant inner monologue running?

jeromeantoinecarter · 2018-03-03T16:25:00+00:00

How old are you? Over 40? Get your T levels checked and get on TRT if needed.

Title	Troubled Sex
Author	bigjoewanghoe99
Upvotes	7
Comments	11
Date	March 3, 2018 3:29 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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