I've recently swallowed the pill. I've been reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy". I was raised by a blue pill father, but I always sensed that something was 'off' about the was I was raised. I married my ex-wife due to a bunch of shitty blue pill reasons. She treated myself and the kids like shit, so I divorced her and moved on. I have since re-married. My new wife understands why I did not want to ever get married at first, and is very traditional. She has my back and we get along well. She is constantly researching and looking up articles in reference to men's rights to try to help situations related to my ex-wife. Since I have been lurking TRP and reading NMNNG, we have both joined a gym, I have not been afraid of many things that I was before, and I have started taking more control of my own life. My current wife has noticed the difference in my attitude and it seems to be encouraging growth in our relationship. She respect that I will do what's right for the family, and she backs me up 100% even when shit hits the fan. In turn I respect her and if she needs (and sometimes wants) something, she knows I will provide for it if possible.

It sounds like I would need to cheat on my wife to be in line with TRP and frankly I wouldn't do that with my current wife. I think being the leader in the marriage and not taking other people's shit is still TRP.

Is it possible to still be Alpha / TRP if I am married and respect my wife but not take shit from other people?