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Panic attacks are a real thing. If you'd like to choose not to be involved with someone that struggles with mental health, by all means do so. It's the same as deciding not to date someone with bad credit, or who has to take care of their ailing relative, or someone who works nights and sleeps during the day. But pretending that mental health issues are 'made up' is belittling to people who suffer from them. There's no magical 'breathe and calm down, relax' solution to panic attacks. It's pretty…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 12:37 AM
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Most girls have no fucking idea what it's like when a dude actually puts some real strength into manual (using hands) sex. You can basically imagine you're trying to lift her up off the bed using just your index and middle fingers or just your middle and ring fingers inside of her. Or pull as fast and hard as possible with that hand. You'll feel how strong those muscles are and they'll work against your hand/arm. Done right, her legs will be twitching and feel like jello afterwards because her p…
/r/askTRP20/03/16 11:35 PM
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That's a DC phenomenon more than anything. DC attracts those who seek to gain power or feed off of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 10:35 PM
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You've identified the fact that this is extremely psychologically unhealthy for you. Unfortunately there's no "solution" to this that fits what you're probably wanting. You want some foolproof way to test her loyalty so the part of your mind that is nervous will finally relax. That just doesn't exist, the only way to trust is pure faith. It's extremely common to feel this way when you've been cheated on in the past. Ultimately the only thing you can do is to try to avoid women who seem like they…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:24 PM
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Facts: Combat sports without full-contact sparring don't train you to fight they train you to punch and kick the air or someone who's not fighting back. Combat sports with strikes to the head during sparring can lead to concussions and brain damage. The brains of boxers or MMA fighters look like those of 80 year olds. Google microconcussions. You put yourself at risk for long-term debilitating injury (think joints especially) from doing almost any sport, but combat sports are one of the more dan…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 06:57 PM
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UK is worse. Trust me I've lived in both.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 12:04 AM
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Especially if you have any UK or Australian accent.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 12:04 AM
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When you are "expressing your anger" you are just feeding it. You are focusing on it. It's like a fire and that feeds off you focusing on it. The point of the "walk away, take a deep breath, relax" advice is that by removing your focus from the anger, you are putting the fire out. Ultimately the reason they say to "relax, count to ten, breathe" is cause that's the shit that actually works. Exercise does help with anger because it takes that energy from your emotions and uses it physically. But i…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 08:04 PM
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Ahh yeah I can see how my post could be ambiguous depending on how you read the tone. Yeah to be honest the Tenga flip hole (it's the only toy I've used) is ridiculously hard to last with, especially if I use the vacuum-generating buttons. I have to go really slowly but then again I haven't had it for more than a few months. I'm kinda glad real pussy isn't the same though cause I can make sex last, cause if real pussy had the same texture and vacuum-suction as my toy it seems like it'd be over i…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 11:24 PM
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I can't tell if you're talking to me (I use a vagina, my Tenga flip hole, or hand if I'm feeling lazy) or a hypothetical person. But assuming you didn't misread my post and are talking to hypothetical primarily-hand-user, agreed lol.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 09:40 PM
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If someone is really such a pussy that they're rejecting girls because they've given up or are afraid of negative consequences (read: given up), then rather than trying to chemically castrate themself they may as well invest in the Autoblow 2 or Fleshlight + Vstroker and in the mean time fund as many sexrobot kickstarters as possible.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 07:47 PM
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There are two factors. You and your environment. You're correct that university is one of the easiest environments to get laid. There are other situational SMV arenas that can be even easier. Bartender. Supermodel photographer on location in Bora Bora. Being management in a meeting room telling people what to do. English teacher in an impoverished country. CEO. Coolest guy in a niche hobby group mostly filled with betas. You can also improve yourself. I'm a lot cooler now than I was in universit…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:45 AM
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You're only sabotaging your own life if you hold it against them. Instead of punishing them, work on yourself even harder!
/r/askTRP23/11/15 06:10 PM
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This is so bad that I'm convinced you're a troll. If not, I'm really sorry. You've got some serious self reflection to do.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 05:18 AM
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Yes, there are women who won't test you in that way. You must not have that much LTR experience, because there are certainly girls who will shit test much less.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 04:10 PM
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cheated in the past addictive personality sexually and otherwise thinking about having kids with her
/r/askTRP20/11/15 10:53 PM
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Nobody here can tell you why you shouldn't be angry if they don't know why you are angry... "cause feminism" isn't a reason. But perhaps you should realize that allowing feminism to make you angry and affect your mentality negatively is having an external locus of control. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Locus_of_control "A person's "locus" (Latin for "place" or "location") is conceptualized as either internal (the person believes they can control their life) or external (meaning they believe thei…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 12:25 PM
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I got one ONS and a cute "girlfriend" (probably more of a fuckbuddy - I don't think she was seeing anyone else but neither of us cared to define the relationship) that provided me with consistent sex. Beyond that, a decent amount of kissing at clubs with randos. My experience as a short, foreign dude in Scandinavia was that the women there are incredibly beautiful and fairly down to earth, but it wasn't the easiest place I've ever been. I think a lot of people there date within their social circ…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 07:51 PM
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Romance is a great thing to have as a guy. It's just that a romantic unattractive guy is still an unattractive guy. A romantic attractive guy is awesome. So romantic gestures mean nothing if the guy isn't already attractive to the girl, in fact, they are creepy. But if she already likes you, then a little romance is a killer weapon. It's all about not overdoing it tho.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:54 PM
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Have you considered that it may simply be sexual anxiety / nervousness with a new partner that caused / causes your problem hooking up, not the "fetish"? It's incredibly common to go limp due to nerves / adrenaline, especially if you are younger / less experienced with one night stands / new partners. It's also common for guys who encounter that problem to freak out, ask what's wrong with them, and come to some random conclusion. Just a thought. If you find naked women sexy, then you don't have …
/r/askTRP04/10/15 06:03 AM
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Great analogy.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:24 PM
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Reading a couple of books is OK, assuming you aren't a shit, slow reader. But don't neglect going out and practicing these things. You can read shit for 4 years then finally go out and do it, or read nothing and go outside right now and start doing it.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:52 AM
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Really loud white noise with earplugs does in fact work. If the foam earplugs are uncomfortable, try Radians custom molded earplugs, they are on amazon. You mix the two materials together, push them into your ears, leave em for 1 hour and they harden / solidy to your ears shape. And as far as white noise you might need a bluetooth speaker that has decent volume / bass. I recommend whitenoise.com on the brown setting, or on Android the app "Noise Machine".
/r/askTRP22/09/15 04:38 PM
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First step is acknowledgement. Next step is to do something about it. Force yourself to override your instincts on this. Fight.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 01:56 PM
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Or you could move to greener pastures.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:37 PM
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Did you not read the part where he said "moderation"? He didn't say you shouldn't do those things as part of being social.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 09:23 AM
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80/20 rule applies to TRP. 20% of the content and ideas are useful and provide 80% of the value. 80% of the content and ideas are mostly garbage, not useful and combined provide maybe 20% of the value. Disregard 80% of the stuff you read here - the overly cynical, the overly pessimistic, the overdramatic, the "all this are that", the rigid beliefs about SMV, and just work on two things: self-improvement and saying "hey ___, I actually think you're cute. wanna grab a drink this week?" or "you're …
/r/askTRP13/08/15 09:40 AM
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Honestly, do it. Do your research on good places to go in the US and good nightlife areas in that city / cities, get a little tipsy, and approach with naive tourist game. I think you'd be surprised. Some places in the US it will have more of an effect than others. Half of NYC is foreign people, so you won't get it as much there. Chicago, more of an effect. The smaller the city or the more towards the center of the country, the more of an effect. Or I suppose you could also just do research on pe…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 06:51 PM
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It may be more true in UK than in some parts of the US. Believe it or not there are many cities of 100,000-500,000 in the US that don't even have clubs, just bars / pubs. Keep in mind I only spent two months in the UK so I might be full of shit, but I think promiscuity is more socially acceptable in the UK than in many of the more conservative parts of the US. But if I was from UK and was able to move to the US I'd do it in a heartbeat because the accent will raise your SMV by 1-2 points.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 06:17 PM
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I think slutty girls tend to be more detached emotionally during sex and IMO girls who are in love with you have better facial expressions / look in the eyes during sex. So for me it's the opposite. I feel like just one more dick on an assembly line when I'm with a slut, but when I'm with a girl that I've built some emotional intimacy with and who loves me or cares about me it's easy to tell the difference in bed.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:34 AM
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You didn't talk once in your self-pitying post about what you try to do to meet or approach women. What are you doing right now that's netting you 3's and 4's? What are you trying with the 5's and 6's? What are you trying with the 7's? Have you tried with them? This is the actually useful thing you could include in your post. The pretty fucking obvious answer to your question is practice and improve your game, your self-confidence, your charm. You have such a blessed, amazing life but you are sq…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 10:24 AM
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Return of Kings has been garbage since the beginning. RooshV blog has some good insights on geographic-based stuff.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:20 PM
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How do you train a cat not to walk on your kitchen table? Spray it with water when he comes up. How do you teach a teenager not to sneak out at night? Disconnect her phone service. How do you handle a grown adult destroying your property? You show her there are consequences to her actions. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retributive_justice "Retributive justice is a theory of justice that considers punishment, if proportionate, to be the best response to crime. When an offender breaks the law, jus…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 11:06 AM
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I really hope he took scissors and cut up her favorite jacket and purse.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 10:31 AM
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The only way is to try it. Step 1: Go talk to girls at a bar or coffeeshop or on the street or wherever. There are 1000 different ways you could "approach", "open", etc. But really it doesn't matter how you do it so long as you go out there and try it. Step 2: Have lighthearted conversations with women and strangers where you can tell they are responding with comfortable / happy body language. Step 3: Actually say something like "hey you seem pretty cool, do you wanna grab a drink with me next w…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 10:58 AM
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The best revenge is to simply ignore her. She did this because she wants your attention. Don't give it to her. If she pulls some shit again, THEN you go nuclear. Cause she's proven that she's not gonna learn from your non-reaction. But I think your best course is to just ignore it.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 04:06 PM
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Do you want to save things? Become a more attractive man. Dread game. Better resources for you than this sub or the main trp sub. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/top/ https://archive.is/3dR2h http://marriedmansexlife.com/ If you are set financially, why not just say fuck it and become that badass you used to be once again? Why not quit your job and go full-time on rock climbing, skydiving, and riding motorcycles? Or do whatever you find fun? Don't do it with the goal of impressing her, b…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 04:00 PM
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These sort of holiday destinations are basically hypergamy and whoredom on steroids. Sausage fest, being a slut is even more socially acceptable than normal. If you are a top tier guy and aren't turned off by sluttiness it can be heaven. If you are not a top tier guy prepare to watch guys who are 7s get rejected by fat girls. Prepare to see a girl makeout with one dude, walk away, and start making out with another dude. Prepare for the girl you're gaming to tell you she has fucked a different gu…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 08:51 AM
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This might be the best comment I've read in this entire year. Kudos.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 12:49 PM
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You only ask such a question because of your inexperience. The truth is you will never get such a woman. You won't. But the other truth here is that even being with a pleasant 6 is a very happy life. And you haven't even experienced that so you don't even realise how great it is. I really suggest you get your shit together and do whatever you need to do in order to experience that. As a 30 year old virgin you should really be disregarding 90% of the advice here about oneitis, plate spinning, avo…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 12:43 PM
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I wrote a post about this: https://archive.is/G6yqM
/r/askTRP01/07/15 10:02 AM
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Girl asks question. You feel like you have to give an answer. Mistake.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:16 PM
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Could be for 10000x different reasons.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 11:32 AM
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Had to scroll down way too far to find this post. Guess reading is too hard.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 10:06 AM
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The OP misread/misinterpreted the post and everyone here seems to have just gone along with his mistake rather than reading the DB post and seeing that the guy was also cheating and forced the open marriage. Kinda a great example of what this sub is becoming more and more about, reinforcing one's own views and values without regard for the facts of a situation. Blind adherence to dogma. RP/BP circlejerking.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 10:05 AM
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Can I ask where you're located?
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:04 PM
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Agreed, but only the Sith deal in absolutes. You have to filter what women say to find out what they mean, but that doesn't mean everything they ever say is a lie.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 04:37 PM
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This is why online dating is a much tougher process for shorter dudes. For short guys, I recommend meeting women by making tons of female friends or by approaching in real life (during the day or in nightlife, whichever you prefer). Confidence/attitude and genetics are the two big components of attraction. Online game doesn't really let you display the former. But walking up to a girl confidently and saying hi does. And not a lot of guys do that.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 01:56 PM
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Generally speaking a not-fat guy has it easier. But there's always a niche. Same for short guys. There exist women who prefer fat dudes or short dudes. So if your goal isn't to spin plates but just find one girl, then yes you can be successful. You just need to get rejected 5x more often than the guy who isn't fat. Which sucks. But if your question here is "is what I want ever attainable?" then the answer is yes. But if your question is "is what I want attainable for me with the same level of ea…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:56 PM
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It's just a perspective that needs a bit of tweaking. You need to learn to correct yourself when in those mental situations, to tell yourself "the only one I can compete with is myself, anything else is out of my own control and not worth worrying about". There's always gonna be guys better than you, and there's nothing you can do about that. All you can do is strive to be a bit better than you were a week ago. And the second point, is to realize it doesn't matter if you are absolutely the best.…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 07:28 PM
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I mean, here's the thing man. If you suddenly completely change as a person to become more like this masculine ideal people in this sub strive for, it's gonna be noticeable and could be kinda weird. It's best to make changes somewhat slowly not to suddenly do a 180. You don't have to 100% kill the beta, just slowly dial it down a bit and dial the non-needy badass up a bit. It's a balancing act. But don't overthink this shit too much. If you wanna laugh and smile and kiss her and gush do it. Just…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 07:21 PM
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It's likely a game problem not an SMV problem.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 11:57 AM
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If your goal is just to rack up notches, then go for it. But if you ever want an LTR I wouldn't use lifts. I would wear nice shoes with maybe a one inch heel. But if you are wearing a serious heel/lift, as soon as she realises it she's gonna know you're insecure about it. Solution? Just fucking approach more. It works for anyone, no matter what their handicap is. Solves all problems.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 08:27 PM
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Awful advice, it's addictive and your body builds up a tolerance to it like it does with caffeine.. And the withdrawal is bad.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 06:37 PM
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Your friend is an idiot.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 03:19 PM
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Sometimes you just have the feeling in your gut that says "I don't like this". And that's OK. Tends to happen more often with promiscuous situations.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 11:40 AM
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Typo. Shoot me. We have absolutely no context here from the OP, so it's rather pointless for us to jerk off about the proper response anyway. But my texting game is short and sweet, but that doesn't mean I never write more than three words in a text. Painting an erotic picture with words that shows dominance is a risk that can either turn her on and set the tone for a date as sexual or can be creepy to her if she doesn't want to fuck you. But at that point, you were already fucked anyway. When a…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 05:48 PM
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The way she asked shows she wants you to. She's inviting you to play in an implicit/implied frame. You both know that you are going to seduce her but you're both pretending it's not the case. But your response should imply that you are actually going to, without making her feel like a slut. Maybe something like "Of course not, as much as my imagination runs wild when I picture myself ripping your clothes off and pinning you down, I can restrain myself...probably. Come over and we'll just have so…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 04:20 PM
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You want to be making such small escalations that they never are things you need to ask permission or warn her you're going to do. Like if she's already used to you doing A, then she probably won't freak if you do step B, etc. But it's key that you act nonchalant about it and don't let her thoughts get in the way. She should be turned on already and in an emotional/sexual mood. If you are rubbing her clit while doing any of these steps you'll have a much better chance she won't freak. Or if she …
/r/askTRP17/05/15 03:49 PM
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Sorry man. That's something that you're going to have to get lucky with in an LTR. The best thing you could do is to just move slowly and carefully. Start with washing her whole body with soap while you shower, soaping up/cleaning the outside of her b-hole as part of thats so she gets more comfortable with you going down there, then sometime later you can do the same and go down on her and bring your tongue down to the b-hole-land, then move on to rubbing the outside and just massaging the outsi…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 03:33 PM
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I'm talking about historical averages. Like if you look at the last 100 years decade by decade. Yes we're in a downturn. Will it last forever? No idea. But historically if you look at the big picture it's a fair estimate over the type of timescale of an entire person's adult life.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 01:27 AM
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If you do want to read more about this shit I highly recommend this as a starting point: http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2011/04/06/meet-mr-money-mustache/
/r/askTRP15/05/15 03:35 PM
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What are your expenses? Unless you have a lot of loans and kids they seem way too high. Protein doesn't have to be expensive, you don't need to eat nothing but grass fed bison, eggs are cheap, whey is cheap, chicken breasts aren't expensive. You must just be going out to eat all the time. I guess you must be spending 4k a month on rent in Manhattan, driving a brand new BMW. I just can't imagine it. But yeah, the way I see it there are a few ways through life: Find a job you love. Don't worry abo…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 03:31 PM
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Do you have an exit plan? Do you have a high yearly savings? Do you have a number, that if you save up that number, you can have a good 3-4% yearly investment income? I would find some ways to spend that time at work that are entertaining or grow your personal skills. You could easily spend extra time learning a foreign language (or multiple) using Michel Thomas and Pimsleur audio courses (can be torrented), you could entertain yourself by listening to audiobooks of your favorite literary genre,…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 03:16 PM
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You need to learn to love yourself.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 07:53 PM
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I've been doing this 2-3 nights a week as I just moved to a new city (also new country, but still anglosphere so no language barrier). I seem to be able to find a group to join for the night without too many problems, but converting that into an actual continuing friendship seems more difficult. I've had dudes friend me on FB or exchange phone numbers but then not respond to messages. Is this something you've experienced at all? I'm pretty sure it's something that just comes with the territory t…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 11:05 AM
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Wrong. They matter insofar as they allow you to garner acceptance to a prestigious university and/or merit-based scholarships. I had a full-ride in uni with merit-based scholarships that I wouldn't have had if I wasn't a huge nerd in highschool. This left me with no debt and a significant head-start in building savings for early-retirement. So time in high-school can be used productively, but you're right in the sense that many of my classmates who worked hard never received any reward, I was lu…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:08 PM
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Everyone is different man. You can't model human behavior to the degree you wish to. It's simply not possible, there are too many confounding variables and differentiating factors in every situation.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 12:32 PM
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You can't take the experience of one couple and draw generalisations from it.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:22 PM
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Don't overthink this shit. They are just excited you are taking steps to improve yourself, but they think you should have done so long ago. Can you really disagree with them? It's sad they aren't more supportive, but I'm sure they weren't thinking much with their comments. Just saying whatever came to mind.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 08:18 PM
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I think it's too risky to try to introduce someone to any of this reading material. You are either a more open-minded than normal person or are just so used to it so you don't realize how fucking crazy a lot of it sounds to a normal person. Even a lot of the TRP sidebar is ridiculous. If she already is somewhat naturally submissive, then sounds like you don't have any problems. You say she submits to what you say 90% of the time? Good. If she submitted to you 100% of the time it would be fucking…
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:59 PM
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get out of the military. it's poison for dating and relationships
/r/askTRP22/03/15 07:37 PM
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If she was your first LTR, this is the important lesson you'll come to realise: 99% of the things you miss are aspects of being in a relationship, not things that only she can provide: the both the physical and emotional aspects. A lot of thing suck being single compared to having a GF. But realise that you can get a new GF or partner who will provide you with the very same things you currently miss so much.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 05:25 PM
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Yeah it's likely that she either 1) didn't think you'd be able to do it or want to do it or 2) didn't think she'd care if you did (which might end up coming true or she might be upset after all). Regardless, I can't see a downside from it no matter what her reaction is. And you've been with only her for such a long time, I think you truly underestimate how freeing and empowering it will be to know you have somewhere else you can go for love and affection. "Abundance mentality" as it's called on …
/r/askTRP23/02/15 10:37 PM
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I'm putting off Part 2 until I actually have something interesting to say or when I'm feeling particularly inspired. But I kind of cut back from TRP the last few months as I've been a lot busier IRL and also there's not much more value for me to gain from this place. I find that revisiting quality source material is usually more beneficial for me. But honestly, 99% of the advice here is really fucking obvious and the place that people keep failing is that they don't go out and live it or try it.…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 09:41 PM
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She probably suggested it to you to make herself feel less guilty, but it doesn't matter whether she suggested it or not. It's a good idea. If you spend the time, money, attention you are investing in your wife on another woman, prepare for her to either 1) be jealous and have her mind fucked, in which case there are several different roads things could go down (some probably good, some probably bad, very hard to predict) or 2) not care, in which case you can have a mostly platonic marriage unti…
/r/askTRP23/02/15 09:20 PM
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His comment isn't useful in the least, and you only need useful advice, not pity or spite from internet warriors. There's a lot of decent advice in this thread. I think you should find a fuck buddy or girlfriend. You've already said that aside from the fact that she's stepping outside the marriage your life isn't so bad right? Nice job, nice car, good kids, everything's stable but she isn't being a loyal wife. Well, find a loyal girlfriend who can give you that part of your life back. It's not e…
/r/askTRP23/02/15 08:23 PM
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Except bitcoin is speculation. Gold doesn't have the volatility bitcoin (currently) does.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 08:08 PM
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Perhaps you should add a link to the sidebar titled "Short? Asian? Disabled? Will this stuff still work?" with a link to my beautiful post on the subject: https://archive.today/YRcpb
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:47 PM
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The difference is that these dealios have a dual layer where when you rub it or when friction is applied to your crotch the outer layer slides horizontally across the inner layer so that instead of feeling anything touching or rubbing you it's dissipated by the sock. I know that sounds like bullshit but it's difficult to explain if you haven't seen one in person. Here's a pair of regular socks that uses the same principle: http://wrightsock.myshopify.com/pages/anti-blister-system "Friction and s…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 09:26 AM
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Not really.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 09:21 AM
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Are you circumcised? This is extremely relevant to the situation at hand. If you are, you can pursue what is basically a dual-layered sock dealio for your johnson that prevents friction from reaching your glans. The idea is that if you wear one of these around-the-clock for long enough, your dick head will start to dekeratinize (basically, the dry skin sloughs off and eventually the texture of the glans becomes more like the inside of your mouth - a mucous membrane - as it is in uncircumcised me…
/r/askTRP15/02/15 11:18 PM
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Don't use the word female when you aren't describing someone scientifically or clinically, it's kind of embarrassing. Your question is way too vague and without context for you to get any good responses. Maybe you should delete this and repost with more information.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 11:42 AM
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He's coming from a position of abundance where he doesn't want this plate anymore. She's too high drama. He's trying to let her down gently and detangle himself gracefully while not shitting more upon her already shitty life where she has a fucked up broken family and a husband that beats her.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:09 AM
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Really? If you can soften the blow for another human being you know you are hurting - and doing so doesn't hurt you yourself at all - why not? If revealing anything about yourself or about your motives is too dangerous and painful for you in any and all situations, then your rationale makes perfect sense. It takes more courage and fortitude to put yourself in a vulnerable position like OP did than to send a 'we're done' text message. It's definitely more risky. But his intentions were clearly to…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:24 PM
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I guess that makes sense if you're worried about being attacked? From reading the OP I didn't really get the sense that he's worried about her being able to do anything with that knowledge. If she tries to say something emotionally hurtful using the knowledge she's gained, he can just walk away. But I agree that in some cases it's important to protect yourself.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 05:57 PM
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Because some people have empathy and believe in treating others with kindness, even when it's not necessary.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 05:10 PM
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Sure. There's actually an excerpt on exactly this from Models (and it even relates to going to the gym): The way to attack anxieties is through incremental, but high volume exposure. Not single, extreme exposure. To develop lasting change, you come at it from the opposite angle. If you’re afraid to approach women, then you find the EASIEST and LOWEST INTENSITY way to approach, and then do it in high volume. So for instance, you would approach 10 women in an hour or two just asking for the time. …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:52 AM
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"Shrug and say "Alright," and stand back in line" ^ Exactly what you do. "awkward as hell in line for the next five minutes" ^ You feeling this way is why you're not as successful as OP. This is your ego speaking. The solution? Learn to give less fucks. Learn to be outcome independent. Learn to be amused by the world instead of frightened by it. Learn these things through exposure therapy (doing things that make you feel "awkward as hell" until you subconsciously learn that they really aren't a …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:45 AM
1

You could ask the same question about the general knowledge that human beings have that everyday brings us closer to our last. That each decade we live going forward our bodies are going to get older, shittier, start to break, if you live long enough you're more and more likely to get cancer. The answer to your question is that you just don't spend all of your time thinking about it because doing so isn't enjoyable or useful. Within the context of this sub it's meant to be a reminder to savor th…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/15 01:07 AM
3

The piece you're missing is that no one ever believes their partner will cheat on them. Of course you don't want to wife up the town bike, but you absolutely can't predict whether a woman is going to be loyal in the long run with 100% accuracy. You can only decrease the odds somewhat by filtering properly and you can always control how you react to any infidelity (zero-tolerance no contact). They are operating under the assumption that you never will be able to fully assume 100% loyalty and for …
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/15 12:26 AM
0

What a bullshit question to ask. The point of OP is to not give up. Your question is literally "what if you don't feel like it in the future...?"...the entire point of his post is that you need to overcome your insecurity and go for what you're afraid of. I cannot believe you are the top post on this thread, grow some balls.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 08:41 AM
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If you have other issues besides just "women" then you can't really look to TRP as your one and only life advice. Some of the advice on here is absolutely terrible if you have financial problems, emotional problems, self-esteem problems, or social awkwardness problems. This is not the proper community to learn how to be a good friend or make a lot of guy friends. Nor the right community to learn how to love yourself (a lot of the advice here could be disastrous for you if you aren't able to love…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:50 PM
2

OK, I don't disagree with anything you said and in my opinion her original post doesn't really either.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:44 PM
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Why don't you disagree with some stated points she made and explain why. I think she makes the a great point point that coming on too strong or going for sex the first time you meet a women is a great way to miss out on some unicorns (or if you don't believe in the term - women who are as close to them as you'll get). I also think you're less likely to meet a quality women at a club. I invite you to disabuse me of these notions though. I'm here after all to learn.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 04:46 PM
2

As much as you wish - being a better first mate won't magically make an unmotivated guy motivated. You have to decide for yourself whether he's worth it or not - as he is and with the potential that he may grow up a bit and the potential that he doesn't. Unfortunately no one here can give you any advice that's going to magically make him a better man.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:06 AM
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They are unrelated to RP. If you like them, get them. If you don't like them, don't.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:35 PM
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The anger makes sense when you consider that the types of guys more likely to join this sub fall into three camps: 1) guys that have been fucked over by women who they've dated or married (cheated on, left, or whatever else), 2) guys that have just failed with women overall, and 3) guys that just find this sort of shit interesting. It makes sense that guys 1 and 2 are sometimes angry. The point of the sub is to help those kinds of guys to navigate relationships and sex in a way that protects the…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 05:17 AM
3

THAK YOU FOR THIS. I fully acknowledge that "monk mode" can/could be used for its true intended purpose, but the mere fact that it's about ignoring women and delaying attempts with women means that with guys who are still nervous around women / have approach anxiety it's like moths to a flame. Yes - not all people on this sub who say they are pursuing monk mode are like this - but go spend a few days on /asktrp/ and you'll quickly see what I'm talking about. I know from personal experience how e…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:16 PM
2

If you sleep for 8 hours a night, and work for 8 hours a day, you only get 8 hours for pleasure in life. As someone who has had an hour and a half commute from SF to Palo Alto and and back and also worked from home, it truly is worth moving somewhere or getting work that allows you to commute for only 10-30 minutes. They say money buys happiness but so to does freedom of time - and if you can save 1-2 hours a day of commuting that's 12-25% of the free time you have in your work week back.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/14 06:08 AM
1

I can only imagine that it's the approach itself / your game itself then. Why are you running out of opportunities for real life dating? If this is what you care about then keep joining new social circles / getting into new clubs/sports/organizations if that's what it takes. Or just going to new places and making hail mary approaches "hey I don't wanna be that guy but I thought you were really cute and was wondering if you'd like to grab a beer sometime". If nothing else you should be able to th…
/r/askTRP19/12/14 09:23 PM
1

If you have abundance already (meaning you're confident you can fuck other women with work put in) then don't shit where you eat. If you lack abundance (new to game or weak game) then if the opportunity presents itself why not? If you get into a shitty situation you can move somewhere else right? Unless you are signing some long lease and are going to be locked in with some oneitis you develop for a roommate you fuck and then she cuts you out - you can always just leave.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 08:08 PM
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I don't think there's anyway for you to determine which of several possibilities (which other commenters here have outlined) it is. Believing you can 100% pinpoint her motives (when there are several possibilities) is arrogant. The important thing is to handle the shit-test correctly which it sounds like you did. Getting butthurt would have been failing it. You can either accept that she may be fucking other guys and not give a shit since she's just a plate - or you can next her.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 08:03 PM
1

It might just be a confidence / game issue. Is your body language and way of speaking relaxed and confident? If you imagine how George Clooney would speak to a woman sitting nearby at a bar in a hotel lounge - is that the way you communicate with women?
/r/askTRP19/12/14 07:59 PM
2

Neither you nor anyone commenting here is getting to the crux of the issue: how do you define getting rejected? What step are you getting to with attractive women before you quit? From the comments here so far the furthest it sounds like you get is to having a conversation and then you don't think they are feeling it so you bail. Have you tried pushing it further than that? You have to assume attraction and keep pushing until you get a hard "No." IOIs are great, but if you want to get the most g…
/r/askTRP19/12/14 07:55 PM
1

Ending it isn't going to help you if you're bad at this stuff...you need experience to learn. I think you're overthinking things. If you enjoy the time you spend with her, you don't need to end iti for no reason.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 05:11 AM
1

These are the two articles to read related to your experience: http://therationalmale.com/2012/11/01/mate-guarding/ http://therationalmale.com/category/game/relationship-game/
/r/askTRP16/12/14 09:22 PM
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Even though everything in you wants to react that way - it really does no good. I agree with the others that the reason she's saying those things is because she's afraid that YOU are going to be getting IOIs from other girls so she wants you to remember that she is hot and sexy. I think she's betraying her own insecurity here. If she was just wanting to fuck other guys she wouldn't be telling you about it she'd be keeping it secret. The highest status response is always the one that the guy who …
/r/askTRP16/12/14 09:20 PM
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The love a man has for a woman and the love a woman has for a man are predicated on different terms and manifest themselves in different behaviors. I'm not going to try to say whether men or women love more because it doesn't make a damn difference in what I want in life. If you don't want love because you're afraid that one day you may lose it or it may be taken away from you - then you may as well kill yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 02:29 AM
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And your point is? Sometimes life shits all over you. Sometimes women shit all over you. Sometimes men shit all over you. Doesn't change the fact that love is probably the best feeling in the world.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 01:56 AM
2

It's different for everyone. The only thing you can do is experiment and see what works best for you.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 01:47 AM
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Men get more than sex and companionship from women. They get love. You won't get love from a hooker. I'm really sorry if you've never experienced a woman's love. It's a great feeling. /inb4 men & wimmen dun luv same, so ur rong
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 01:37 AM
1

You're already making incredible strides. Congrats on the weightloss and keep it up.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 03:50 AM
6

Forget what some dumbass here on TRP said. No one here knows you. It sounds like you have some personality traits you'd like to change. So what. Every guy has to learn these things. You want to become more assertive. OK. Time to start trying to become more assertive. You want to stick up for yourself. OK. Time to start trying to stick up for yourself more. You want to be less passive aggressive. OK. Time to start trying to be less passive aggressive. Please, please realize that this sub can be s…
/r/askTRP11/12/14 03:47 AM
2

I'm an American but I'm moving to Europe in 2015 and living nomadically. I like to talk fifty different strangers when I go to a bar and often start conversations with people sitting around me at coffeeshops. It's going to be interesting to see whether my American game works in Europe (Northwestern, North central, and Northeastern are the current plan without being too specific). My approach is 90% daygame and often simply one sentence and no game at all: "Hey I don't want to be that guy, but I …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 02:36 AM
1

Yeah I agree that it's really important to understand where the line is, and also to be careful when reading MM to not let it make you come across as beta. But of course, with all things you read online you must filter the bullshit extremist parts and take the good parts. If you're intelligent enough to do that, you'll be successful, if you're not intelligent enough to see which parts are going too far, then you're probably going to fail anyway. There's a lot of stuff posted on TRP for example t…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 02:32 AM
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Wasn't a good move to say that IMO. If you were trying to have a conversation with about her how you wanted her to start cooking more, and she got frustrated and said "Don't tell me to cook, you can't even last longer than 5 minutes in bed without pausing", what would you think? You'd think she was getting defensive, was changing the subject, that it was a needlessly low-blow. Basically, you lost frame because you let your wife bring your mood down. You let her control you emotionally. And you d…
/r/askTRP02/12/14 04:29 PM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ltv5n/short_dude_game_part_1_im_55_and_being_short_isnt/
/r/askTRP02/12/14 03:07 PM
1

I've already stated several times in this thread that my interpretation of his writing is such that "I cry every night and think about how much of a lonely loser I am because I cant laid" is not what he means by vulnerability. I would never suggest saying something like that. 90% of the shit he wrote in the book is TRP-compatible. 10% isn't. If you can't recommend the book because at one point he wrote a sentence that it's OK to be open about your feelings or insecurity to your SO, then all the …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 08:34 PM
1

Things are hard. But the juice is worth the squeeze my friend, it really is.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 05:10 AM
0

Check my submission history. I wrote a post about game for short guys (or just guys with low SMV). The truth is that you can still win the prize, you just need to accept the fact that you're going to have to work 5x harder and want it badly enough to put work in. Or you can give up, invest in porn and fleshlights and play WOW (MGTOW). Totally up to how badly you want success.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:52 AM
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I think we agree that displaying weakness, instability, or insecurities are all unattractive to women. And I don't think Manson really advocates for that. I read his "vulnerability" as being who you are without reservation, self-consciousness, or pretense, and if a girl isn't interested then you're both better off without each other. If Science Fiction and Fantasy books are an important part of your life, and you have sexual abundance, then you don't want to hide the fact that you're a nerd beca…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 10:46 PM
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No I'm not conflating them, that's my whole point. I want people to see that there's a difference. I believe displaying weakness is bad, but making yourself vulnerable (by taking risks and exposing yourself, even if that means telling your date that you enjoy Magic the Gathering). But actually, the whole point I'm trying to make is that the word "vulnerable" can be used in different contexts, and not all are bad. I don't think we actually disagree at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 07:55 PM
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The thing is, this isn't what I took away from his book Models at all. Have you read any of the book (or summary) yourself? Someone summarized the chapter of his book on Vulnerability. This is that summary: When most men hear the word “vulnerability,” their immediate reaction is to associate it with weakness. In general, men are raised to withhold their emotions, to not show weakness, and to ignore any hint of introspection. I want you to think of vulnerability in a more broad way. Not just emot…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 07:52 PM
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I fully expect someone in these comments to begin the anti-Mark Manson rhetoric, so I'll pre-empt it by explaining that the way he uses vulnerability is different than the typical English usage. His "vulnerability" is about putting yourself in situations where a person would typically be "vulnerable" to attack or pain. This allows one to demonstrate that they are in fact strong and can handle being smacked in the face without crumpling. In effect, putting yourself in situations where you're goin…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 05:34 PM
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Dude you didn't shit the bed. You're overthinking this. Just ask her out. Either say "when are you free this week?" or "Wanna grab a drink Thursday night?"
/r/askTRP24/11/14 01:18 AM
1

I think there's some connotations around 'monk mode' which are extremely damaging. It's one thing to say, "I'm going to stop worrying about girls until I lose 100lbs since I'm a fat fuck", and I guess that's..OK...though not ideal. But I see monk mode being used here as nothing but an excuse by men to avoid taking risks with women. People here will read a bunch of blog posts, watch inspirational videos, lift weights, and get a better job, but then not actually make any progress towards getting b…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:40 PM
1

Yeah it really depends on the type of work. Some work is less taxing (physically OR mentally) than other work.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:29 PM
1

If you read any travel/expat PUA sites, you'll see the common opinion is that Anglosphere women require being more of an asshole. In Latin America, Asia, and parts of Europe you still need to be a strong man, but you don't have to tease as much or as viciously as you'd have to with a ball-busting NYC lawyer. http://mavericktraveler.com/how-my-life-regained-harmony-after-i-stopped-dating-american-women/
/r/askTRP21/11/14 05:50 PM
1

I mostly agree, but if you had to choose between only working 10hrs/week for 50k or 90hrs/wk for 250k, and there weren't many other good guaranteed opportunities to fill the rest of your time if you took the 10hr/wk job (entrepreneurship is not a guaranteed pay out), then you'd be a fool to not take the 250k job. You could work that job for 5 years and then retire to Colombia and live off interest.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:32 PM
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I really wish no one would ever use the words monk mode again. It's such a cringeworthy term. Why can't we just say 'self-improvement'?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:17 PM
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What is wrong with you? You come here to bitch because you've never seen someone do something and therefore it's impossible to do? Admittedly the UK has a more socially reserved culture than the US (where Manson is from), but that just means you have a chance to stand out. One of the biggest names in daygame is Krauser and London is his main stomping grounds. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAIa25Uoo5M You seem so incredibly negative and like you're looking for excuses to fail. Why not instead t…
/r/askTRP19/11/14 03:19 PM
1

You may as well go full alpha if you think you want to try saving it. But it sounds like it's probably too late. Dunno if you're slumming it as a poor English teacher or if you have actual cash, but if you have money time to start looking at getting a lawyer buddy.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 03:12 PM
1

If she mentioned a boyfriend it's likely because she wanted to tell you that she was only interested in being friends, not fucking you.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 02:23 AM
1

Sure, and I'm not saying that women don't see through these things sometimes. But if you offer to meet a girl for drinks, she's not necessarily going to immediately think "oh this guy just wants to go for drinks since he wants in my pants! If he didn't he would have invited me to go to the zoo!" Same with offering to drive. Some girls will definitely see through it, others won't. The point as you said is these things are plausibly deniable anyway. She can't be sure that it's your intention. And …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 02:16 AM
-1

90% of the posts in this thread are shit, but I'll bite. Here's one example of how this one applies to game. Going on a date? Do you have a car? Offer to pick her up. If she asks why, "Some consider chivalry dead, but I'm trying my best to keep it alive." 3 hours later, it's time to go home. But you have no choice but to go back to her place. If she's turned on and she's ready for sex, it's much more likely to happen if you're already sitting in front of her place at the end of the night. But di…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 01:43 AM
1

Only one way to find out mate. You are afraid. That's fine. But time to conquer your fears. Just start off by being friendly. You don't have to go from complete silence to inviting them to a party. Just baby step it up with these people.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 01:35 AM
3

Gonna be really honest with you. "Now it's just weird to try to talk to my classmates." ^ This right here is not normal. This is the problem that you have. Not that you are a virgin, not that you aren't fit enough, not that you don't have good enough game. Your social anxiety is what makes you think it'd be weird to talk to your classmates. It wouldn't be weird at all. The good news is that "social anxiety" is something you can overcome. You just have to push yourself into situations that are a …
/r/askTRP15/11/14 05:57 PM
3

Sounds like you are violating the rule "Think As You Like But Behave Like Others". You can either be a no-bullshit guy that pisses people off and alienates and loses friends, or you can blend in with the crowd, pick your battles, and work within the system. Be an idealist or be a pragmatist, it's entirely your choice.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 05:49 PM
3

Meet people. This isn't even about meeting women. You need to learn to meet people and make friends. Google or search on Reddit for "how do I meet people?" "how do I make friends?". AskReddit has hundreds of those questions with hundreds of responses. Take the advice given to people trying to meet friends. Clubs, organizations, amateur / for fun sports teams, acting class, dance class, whatever. Do things that allow you to meet people.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 05:47 PM
-1

I don't think you broke frame by getting pissed, but I think texting her and calling the next morning was a little frame-breaky. You have a right to be pissed about that comment. BUT, I think texting and calling the next morning was sort of admitting defeat.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 05:45 PM
2

Performance anxiety. Google it / search on r/sex. Very common.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 04:32 AM
6

Dude. She flaked on you to basically tell you to go fuck yourself. And you apologized? Sorry man but you are putting the pussy on a pedestal. Big time. She's probably thinking "wow I blew this guy off just for the fun of it to see what he'd do, and he apologized to me? what a desperate weirdo". A girl flaking is grounds for deleting the number and no longer texting her. If she texts again just ask "who is this?" and then when she asks why you deleted her number tell her you don't date girls who …
/r/askTRP13/11/14 04:33 PM
1

For one, your face does continue to change a lot into your early 20s from the influence of testosterone. I had a non-existent chin/jaw all through highschool but it's ended up at an OK point. You'll become more masculine facially as time goes on. Two, if you want PM me a face pic and I'll try to tell you honestly whether you're just imagining this or if you aren't the most beautiful man in the world. But to be honest, even if you aren't a 10/10, if you improve yourself in every other way you can…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:13 PM
5

Sure I can write about that in Part 2. But to be honest I'm 90% daygame. My opinion is that daygame allows you to truly demonstrate a level of confidence that 90% of guys don't have. There's no real way to fake it very well (or at least, faking it takes a bit of practice). I believe as a short dude a club or more douchey bar is one of the worst places you can meet women for multiple reasons. The girls who often go to clubs are more likely to be sluts, hypergamous, carousel riders, and have high …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:10 AM
5

This gets asked about once a day in /r/sex. Go do a search on that sub. The tl;dr is that it's called performance anxiety.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 11:23 PM
3

You don't go out of your way to bring up good points about yourself but if you are a high SMV man, even just normal conversation will lead to people asking you questions that raise your value. "What do you do?", "What did you do last weekend?". And even just having a conversation with a confident, relaxed tone is selling yourself since you are demonstrating your confidence.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:57 PM
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Totally agree. Girls who are just a tiny bit shorter are those that I find most receptive. In all honesty, I think they are used to guys who are around the same height being nervous or unconfident, so when you demonstrate the same confidence that a really high SMV guy has they are a little mindfucked. But I wouldn't stay away from 5'0'' girls. I would still hit on all girls who pass the drunk goggles test. Let her reject you, don't do it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:00 AM
1

I'm 5'5''. And yes. The bullshit here you read over and over that confidence, holding frame, and amused mastery are what matter is true. I'm dating two girls right now, one is 18 and has enough orbiters that she gets 50 FB likes on a profile pic. The other is a sorority girl who was highschool cheer captain. A month ago I was in another city for work and I fucked a model / gogo-dancer / boothbabe who was staying at the same Airbnb as I was. She had a boyfriend who worked with her at clubs in Mia…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:53 AM
1

You wrote above how you tried to stop seeing other women sexually. I believe it is this mindset change that is the primary problem. I'm not sure how you change this but I think you need to try to think perverted thoughts about your wife. I think you have to just try to imagine as many nasty sexual things about her as possible, picture her doing whatever is sexy to you. I think you NEED to think about her as a sex object for a while until you bring your perspective slightly more back towards norm…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 04:17 PM
3

Height's not everything brah.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 02:00 AM
1

You have officially spent 1000% more time than the average man has on how to perform well in bed. And this obsession with performance is actually what has sabotaged you currently. In your post and all of your comments here all you demonstrate is that this isn't about feeling pleasure for you, it's about making sure you are good enough at sex for your wife. YOU ARE REALLY INSECURE. YOU VIEW SEX AS A PERFORMANCE IN WHICH THE QUALITY OF YOUR PERFORMANCE MEASURES YOUR SEXUAL ABILITIES AND MASCULINIT…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 12:27 AM
1

Quality already has dropped. The sub used to be about sexual strategy and the sexual marketplace. Now its increasingly crossposts from /r/relationshits and TwoX with TRP members posting on those threads comments (which will lead to TRP being banned), posts that are basically MRA bitchfests about current events and news, and shitty game posts / Field Reports from people who've been on 3 dates in their lives. Would be interesting if posts from Rational Male, Chateau Heartiste, Dalrock, Roosh/RVF, …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 11:27 PM
2

This increasingly shit quality whinefest sub is going to get banned if the crossposting submissions from /r/twox and /r/relationshits continues and retards keep going over there with TRP throwaway accounts and posting.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 11:24 PM
2

If that's what she said, you shouldn't be worried. IMO, just ignore him. Also, do some stuff that really cements your relationship. For example, make memories by going on an awesome roadtrip or vacation together, or do something more rare and meaningful like going to a concert or orchestra. Basically, if you're still worried about it just do something that makes the relationship slightly more serious to her. But don't say anything to that effect.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 03:56 AM
6

At the end of the day if she doesn't choose you over him out of her own volition and completely without being pushed/pulled, then you'll never have completely buried the issue / removed doubt from her mind. I think you have to do two things: Be the most unneedy guy in the world about this issue. IMO if you do anything that shows you see him as a threat then he becomes a much bigger one. I think you just act as if you don't even realize he is one and if he comes up in conversation say 'oh he seem…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 03:30 AM
3

What makes you think she didn't just actually want you to change position? Being RP doesn't mean you can literally never take a suggestion from your girlfriend or else you are weak. This isn't r/im14andthisisalpha
/r/askTRP04/11/14 09:57 PM
1

If you are just bored and want to imbibe substances, I highly recommend this shit http://www.amazon.com/NOW-Foods-Raw-Maca-750mg/dp/B003O1NUMC/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1414263147&sr=8-2&keywords=now+foods+maca It could take a week or two of taking it everyday before you start to notice it though.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 08:40 PM
2

In the same post they link to here: http://www.reddit.com/r/quittingkratom
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:38 PM
1

Wealth turns into SMV when you use that wealth to become a social leader / leader of your group. If you can gather a group of male and female friends together and you use your authority, wealth, and power to achieve high social status that is when you've put your money to work. But I don't know the mechanics of that, only that it's what money does for you with women.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:36 PM
1

The only advice I can give you is that if you have significant assets the divorce rape take half your shit phenomenon is a much more important factor in any marriage. I can only advise not marrying anyone. Spend the rest of your life with the same girl (except in a common law marriage state), but don't give away that financial leverage over yourself. If you meet a perfect angel but non-marriage is a dealbreaker for her, then so be it find a second angel.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:34 PM
2

Never heard of it until now but honestly doesn't look good. http://www.reddit.com/r/kratom/comments/20to89/kratom_withdrawal_is_very_real/ I mean just look at this post ^ and that's in the kratom sub. From the little description it sounds like its for wellbeing and an opiate-ish kinda high. IMO not a great thing to take a drug to feel. I can vouch for maca, horny goat weed, and tongkat ali though for making me feel hornier and get more random boners during the day. Which for me is pretty fun.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:31 PM
5

If your goal is to enjoy life at your current pace in the way you currently are, and you are succeeding at that goal, then you are fine. If you ever have a nagging voice in the back of your head berating you for being lazy or not achieving more, and that voice isn't just the result of social conditioning / validation-seeking, then perhaps you aren't living up to your goals. But it's all about understanding what it is you want, and then getting there. Everything else is just hamstering failure. M…
/r/askTRP29/10/14 06:13 PM
2

Manson's vulnerability isn't about telling your GF about crying in front of your girlfriend or telling her you are afraid of dying. It's about taking risks, being willing to tell a woman you're interested in her or go for a kiss at the risk of being rejected, or putting your true self out there (being congruent) because you don't want to date a girl who isn't into the real you (example: if you are into tabletop gaming, don't hide your Warhammer collection. If she doesn't like it, she can fuck of…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:43 AM
1

I agree that she's not looking for logic, but if someone says something stupid and disrespectful to me, I tell them they're wrong and why, like I would with my kid brother. If she wants to tango, I'm gonna tango. If she doesn't back down if she's wrong, THEN I would soft next. But I'll give her the chance to back off if I call her bluff.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 02:49 AM
7

Zyzz is too big for a lot of girls. Brad Pitt in fight club is what they want.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 01:14 AM
1

I would have just replied "Honestly confused, which boundary did I cross?" and then if she replied with a boundary that didn't make sense to me I'd say "hmmm, doesn't seem like a big deal to me" then just tried to move on with the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:02 AM
-1

Great. Unfortunately, that's just your spin on morality. This is how this conversation seems to be going from my perspective: Me: There are many brands of cereal and some people like Brand A, some like Brand B, and some don't like cereal at all. This forum isn't about what brand of cereal you like, it's about ways to improve the cereal eating experience. You: Yeah but Brand B is the best, it doesn't matter what anyone thinks.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:29 PM
6

Morals exist. Morals are a self-defined set of constraints one places upon ones self. Just because you don't subscribe to a set of morals doesn't mean they don't exist outside of you. Christianity defines a set of morals for example. See the Ten Commandments. Morals are subjective. I never said they weren't. I'm not suggesting you change the way you live at all, merely pointing out that the statement that ""Sexual strategy is AMORAL" isn't a statement that is giving the stamp of approval to all …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:13 PM
5

Amoral: unconcerned with the rightness or wrongness of something. "Sexual strategy is AMORAL." means one is free to use TRP as a tool to whatever ends one wishes. Whether they be moral, immoral, or none of the above. But it doesn't sanction that using it immorally is the correct path, just that it is one path. It's up to the individual to decide on their own. Edit: I get the sense that many members of TRP don't not the distinction between immoral/amoral. Which is unfortunate as it changes the me…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 02:30 PM
2

Asking if he is attractive was needy. In the future, the frame you want to portray is that you believe you are the best. Why would someone who's the best ask about another man's looks? He wouldn't, only someone who is threatened would. Showing your girl that you are threatened by this guy (which it sounds like you already are) is only going to make her think "hmmm, why is my BF threatened by this dude? maybe he really is better". Anyway, IllimitableMan's advice is good. The selfie part might be …
/r/askTRP27/10/14 04:14 AM
2

Are you looking in the right places? Are you heavily immersed in art and music related culture, groups, organizations, classes? Where are you are trying to meet people?
/r/askTRP17/10/14 07:23 PM
0

Lookup the statistics: there are more men at the highest levels of IQ and also the lowest levels. Women tend to be slightly more distributed towards the center. All the people on TRP who say "women are less intelligent" are actually using imprecise language. What they mean to say is that "women's perspectives are more informed by emotions and less by logic" when compared to men. Women use emotions, empathy, and intuition more than men do. Men tend to be more purely logical. This biological diffe…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 04:15 PM
1

Sorry dude. You're looking for someone here to tell you that your failures so far aren't your fault. That your negative SMV features (short, bald, cute facial features) are responsible for your failure. The truth is that even if only 1/100 women would want to fuck you, there's not a man alive that can't get laid by someone even if she's 1 in 6 billion. I'm 5'6'' and I fucked a model with a boyfriend a few weeks ago. I looked him up on Facebook later and he's more attractive than me. I'm unremark…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:27 PM
19

I think the new dream is living frugally in a bachelor apartment with football, beer, and video games, never getting married, hanging out with your buddies 5 nights a week, saving thousands by skipping getting a wife and having children, and then retiring early.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:10 AM
14

I think the reason people here are disagreeing with your lifestyle is that 95% of men are never going to "manage to fuck four women in two states in one day". For you and your husband it works because your husband really is a big enough badass to get laid whenever he wants. But the common TRP idea is that for 90% of dudes they are not going to be able to get as much casual sex as the woman, so open relationships are usually really unequal. So this push on Reddit (/r/sex and /r/polyamory I'm look…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:46 PM
17

It's really, really hard not to be a mess after breaking up with someone you've dated for years. Can happen to the best of us. I know I've done beta stuff in the same situation. You've hit rock bottom emotionally and relationship-wise, now it's rebuilding time. Remember that you are a well-educated, well-off catch. You like intelligent girls right? Well guess what, intelligent girls like intelligent, successful guys. Focus on activities, clubs, and organizations that have intelligent people and …
/r/askTRP11/07/14 08:51 PM
0

This has nothing to do with TRP.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:06 AM
7

Those questions aren't necessarily shit-tests. Just because you could say something that maintains frame or say something beta as a response to what someone says doesn't mean they are shit testing. Anyway I'd just reply "Have fun" and that's it.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 03:00 PM
6

Consult a lawyer not Reddit, this is your fucking life. And it's not worth going after her or her friend if it risks fucking yourself over. Better off dropping it and living a good life for revenge.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 05:58 AM
2

I look in the eyes of almost everyone (but most never look back at mine while I'm still looking at theirs, we just don't have the same timing). Don't let yourself try to overly systemize or make rules for things, just try to push yourself out of your comfort zone and slowly amp it up.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 02:51 PM
3

Here's the thing. If a girl you're interested in locks eyes with you and you lock eyes with her, don't break it first. Stare into her soul until she finally gives up and looks away. If you guys keep sustained eye contact for 2+ seconds you can give a smirk or cocky smile. Anything else, doesn't matter what your eye contact is, other than the fact that it's pretty weird to be having a conversation with someone who is afraid to look you in the eyes (Western centric POV here). But yeah, I used to b…
/r/askTRP30/06/14 04:22 AM
5

Eye contact is an important thing but I don't think that means you can't look away. If I'm walking by someone I might give them a 1-3 seconds of eye contact (I might not break it if it's an attractive girl and I want to signal my interest to her) but you don't need to stare into someone's eyes for 10 seconds if you are walking towards each other from far away. It seems like perhaps you're specifically trying to learn to be less introverted / socially anxious? I think there are probably separate …
/r/askTRP30/06/14 01:44 AM
15

One step at a time man. One step at a time. Set small goals for yourself and realize that your long-term goals are about winning the war, not about the individual battles. And most of all realize that optimism is one of the greatest strengths anyone can have. Take motivation from your frustrations today to go back out there and work hard tomorrow.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 01:26 AM
1

Do you want to get AIDS? Because that's how you get AIDS.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 09:09 PM
6

Stop being a complete pussy.. If your wife kicks you, pushes you, does anything physical with you. GRAB HER FUCKING ARMS AND RESTRAIN HER. YOU ARE A MAN, act like one. You should never, ever be in a physical confrontation or fight with a significant other. But if she starts one, you end it. Pin her down, hold her hands behind her back or pinned to the bed. Let her go when she's calmed down. You do have an abusive wife. But 9/10 times men are physically stronger than women, you have the physical …
/r/askTRP29/06/14 09:04 PM
19

Can we just...not do this fanfic thing?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:22 AM
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Just realize that by marrying her you're gambling with financial servitude as the cost of failure. I understand that marriage is unavoidable for many due to the cultural pressures telling women their relationship is only valid if it includes a fancy wedding and marriage, and for you it's not even that - you need to marry her for her to get a visa, but...marrying someone you'e barely spent any time with is an incredible gamble and in my opinion stupid. But to each his own.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:20 AM
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OK well I'm not advocating spinning plates, I'm just saying that as a 5'5'' white American your place in the American sexual marketplace is much different from your place in the Philippines sexual marketplace. This girl might be the best girl you've ever been able to get in your life from an American perspective, but if you spent 3 months there you might be able to find girls who are twice as cool, smart, down-to-earth, attractive etc. Your stock is worth a lot more on the Philippines exchange a…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:54 AM
8

He's just talking about /r/askwomen but you don't want to go hunt that thread down it's just a bunch of name-calling of men who date foreign women.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:48 AM
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OK well either way, just realize that there's no need to rush into a serious relationship or get married (oops you're already engaged) with the first Asian girl you meet on the internet. If you could manage to visit for a couple of months or live there, you could date 20 different girls over the course of a couple of months and enter into a relationship with the best one. Any sense of urgency to get married is artificial. You don't have a wall, she does.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:47 AM
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Hey buddy, Filipinas are really, really awesome. But if I were you I'd only get engaged to one that I'd met in person on the ground there. If you show up there as a white dude for two months you'll be fighting women off. On the other hand, while 90% of Filipinas are awesome and would make good wife material, there's a large group of women in the Philippines who make a living chatting with foreigners and getting them to send money and trying to extract resources from foreign beta bucks. There are…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 12:33 AM
1

There's plenty of cures for that. One would be getting off the internet and stop reading about injustices that complete strangers encountered. Go outside and volunteer, join a book club, and don't focus on this online bullshit discussion forums.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 11:25 PM
3

Do the dishes with the woman.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:42 PM
1

Dude you are kind of a retard for posting this stuff to Facebook. http://48-laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2008/12/38th-law-of-power-think-as-you-like-but.html
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:27 PM
1

What you are missing here is that you need to go find a different women. Who is actually attracted to you. This past history you guys have together is going to fuck things up. You need a clean slate.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:55 AM
1

You'd get better answers in /r/seduction most likely. Go buy or torrent Mark Manson's book Models.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:38 AM
1

You're emotionally unhealthy if you want that bro. Extremely emotionally unhealthy.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 11:52 PM
33

I think by all of these rape stories what you mean is all of these rape stories that are posted to TRP as masturbatory pieces. It kind of makes sense that legitimate stories about rape aren't being posted here, doesn't it? Because they don't reinforce our echo chamber.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 11:16 PM
3

"Contempt is the number one factor that tears couples apart. “It’s not just scanning environment,” chimed in Julie Gottman. “It’s scanning the partner for what the partner is doing right or scanning him for what he’s doing wrong and criticizing versus respecting him and expressing appreciation.” Contempt, they have found, is the number one factor that tears couples apart. People who are focused on criticizing their partners miss a whopping 50 percent of positive things their partners are doing a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 11:03 PM
2

No need, but it was fun to type. I'm in a Samuel Jackson sort of mood.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 07:39 PM
0

There is no consensus motherfucker. TRP isn't a holy book. It's a thoughtspace.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 03:02 PM
10

I doubt you'd be making this post if it didn't even phase you.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 03:00 PM
5

Dumps you to get back on the carousel, has some fun, and and as soon as she decides she wants stability again comes crawling back and you jump into her waiting arms. You're not behaving in redpill ways in a lot of ways mate. I'd do a lot of reading of rational male, dalrock, chateau heartiste, etc. Lately she has gone back to acting disinterested, putting friends before me, not calling or texting first. She doesn't desire you. I said I wanted a happy positive relationship where I am appreciated …
/r/askTRP26/06/14 02:16 PM
4

Primary users: incels and really ugly chicks.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 04:38 AM
1

I think you and I probably agree more than this discussion really suggests, and that our disagreement largely stems from the fact that I just assume from OP's story that they might not have actually gone too far and that it's quite possible he misinterprets "maintaining frame" and "being alpha" and is overdoing it and overly trying to avoid being seen as weak. You on the other hand assume his story is true and that his friends did cross the line. Both of our interpretations make sense in my opin…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:13 PM
3

The other side of the coin is you are overly sensitive and a pussy if your friends teasing you is able to really get under your skin. A lot of guys give each other shit when they are friends. The OP himself says that his friends are this way. In this particular instance OP felt they went too far. But once a group of guys has established this kind of group dynamic, going aggressive like you described is kind of violating the social contract you've all collectively established. You've implicitly a…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:43 PM
9

It's a metaphor for the part of someone's mind that is responsible for rationalization. A hamster spinning on a wheel.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:29 PM
12

And afterwards when you are gone they'll laugh about how butthurt and flustered you got, and agree that you're an asshole who can't take a joke.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:22 PM
2

It's somewhat ironic that in this sub we criticize girls for being teases and attention whores if they don't hook up fast, but we call them sluts and low-value if they do put out fast. Guess you must only seek sex and not unicorns. Because a unicorn would definitely fall into your tease/attention-whore bucket. Which do you prefer? For me it's all about a happy medium but I don't expect sex on the first date/encounter every time, but from the downvotes I guess I must be the minority. Clearly OP h…
/r/askTRP24/06/14 09:47 PM
2

No idea why I'm being downvoted. Guess true alpha magic dick TRP members get the bang every single time and have never had a girl turn down sex. The guy who I responded to is suggesting that if a girl doesn't fuck you every single time one comes over you are literally "fucking up everything". You agree with that OP? You think it's realistic that you get every single girl who comes over to bang the first time no questions asked or you've literally "fucked up everything"? I was defending you by ca…
/r/askTRP24/06/14 04:08 PM
1

She is not worthy.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 02:22 PM
-4

Have you ever even had a a girl in your bed? Sometimes they say no retard.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 02:20 PM
3

You sound like a psycho.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 05:02 AM
2

He's making fun of you that you're trying to make it work after your wife came home at 10AM.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:20 AM
1

One text conversation is not condemnable. Ongoing conversation/friendship with an ex is. As long as it doesn't start moving in that direction I think if you try to set a boundary at this point you just seem insecure.
/r/askTRP21/06/14 09:59 PM
1

You are (were?) a psycho with trust issues. She was a slut. She is in the past. No contact is really the only way. You can change, become a stronger, better man, and overcome your trust issues. But your trust issues will keep undermining any future relationships you have unless you learn to overcome them.
/r/askTRP21/06/14 05:09 PM
2

You have interview anxiety the same way many dudes have approach anxiety or date anxiety. How do they get over approach anxiety or date anxiety? Repeated exposure.
/r/askTRP21/06/14 02:59 PM
3

alreadyredschool, never said he shouldn't try to break through the resistance, just stating that nexting her is stupid if he's an 18 year old with no other options and she is high quality / RPW-ish (and not a slut). That's why I asked if he has other options to get sex easily. I meant to imply that if he does, then next her and date or spin one of those other girls instead. But if he has no other options or has shit game, then he shouldn't next a girl just because she's not putting out immediate…
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:09 PM
1

Withdrawing affection is an idea we've all thought of for reigniting interest, but unfortunately it works half the time and pushes her further away half the time. Dread game is what you need man. It's the exact prescription for your problem.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:50 PM
13

This all comes down to whether your SMV is higher, equal, or lower than hers, and whether your SMV (and hers) are higher, equal, or lower than the average type of young guy who attends nightclubs in your area. These factors influence whether or not it's a good idea to bring your GF to a nightclub. From what you wrote above, you see it from the perspective of being one of the higher SMV guys in the club, imagine it from the perspective of being one of the lower SMV guys in the club and perhaps yo…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:46 PM
4

Sounds like you're looking for some scenario where beta-bucks teases but doesn't deliver the goods. So one thing would be promising a really awesome trip to the Bahamas if she's a good girl this week, then she fucks your brains out for a week, then you tell her you made it all up and dump her. Is that what you want?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:43 PM
7

Dude, it's only six months and she sounds like a really great girl. Do you have other options that you can realistically get sex from other high quality women within the next six months if you wanted to? If you don't, what do you gain from breaking up with her because of this? But if you do, then I guess drop her and fuck someone else.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:33 PM
2

There are many, many men who read this sub that don't go 100% RP or just take inspiration from the ideas presented. I'd wager a fair portion for men here will trade implied commitment for sex, but then apply RP to setting boundaries, being non-needy, being a leader, etc. But in my opinion the RPW idea of not putting out until you have commitment means you are going to lose a lot of RP men. I can understand not putting out on the first date, but by date 3 or 4 if you haven't most men (RP or BP) w…
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:27 PM
-4

What an entitled child you are. "I COULDN'T FIND THE INFO I WAS LOOKING FOR BECAUSE I SUCK AT THE INTERNET, THEREFORE YOU I WILL ORDER YOU TO SUM UP THE IDEA." If you didn't find what you want on Reddit, next step is Google. The very first search result seems pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 02:12 PM
13

but smart enough to go into a lucrative trade rather than go 200 grand into debt to become a barista.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:30 AM
-4

There's this search function on reddit that even lets you search specific subreddits only. You can even sort by top posts. Try it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:09 AM
11

Keep up the good work man, and dread game, dread game, dread game. If you want sex more than once every week and a half, don't be afraid to get it elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 10:38 PM
46

I don't have kids and don't think I want them but "there is literally no upsides to being married and having children" is pretty dumb. Most people who have kids would tell you that it brings great joy to their lives. Unless you think literally all of those people are lying to themselves, there are upsides.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 10:34 PM
8

For me it wasn't even actually like she did anything bad, it was just that I lost sight of my mission and became complacent and content. That's why the RP maxim that your mission should always come before women (excluding life-long partners / wives) made things click so much for me. It's not even just about the fact that your woman will respect you and be more attracted to you more for it, it's that it's so important to being self-actualized and achieving what you want in life. A girlfriend you'…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:59 PM
1

Whether she's attracted to you.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:14 PM
1

Direct vs indirect is one of the most basic game concepts. Google it.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:11 PM
16

If you are an entrepreneur having a GF/wife can really interfere with that if you aren't careful. I've experienced it firsthand.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:57 PM
3

It's all about how you frame your post. If 30% of your post was about why you didn't want to commit to her or why she's a cunt, then everyone here would be reacting differently. | We have a great family life together, and I love spending time with her and my kid together. | I need to get out there and live my own life. You haven't given anyone any reason to believe you are making this decision for a good reason, so people are going to criticize your decision. Giving a son an absent father requir…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 04:31 PM
1

That's a tough call man.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 06:00 AM
-1

RP is about sexual strategy and nothing else.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 04:11 AM
1

You are freaking out and way overanalyzing things mate.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 12:59 AM
-1

The first step is to workout. The second step is to keep doing it. Too bad most people are too weak to commit to anything in their miserable lives.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:51 PM
3

There's a power dynamic in every relationship and it's obviously a continuum from BDSM-style powerplay to one partner being slightly more of a leader to full equality, etc. I just can't even imagine being in a relationship where the power dynamic was such that I'd ever take orders from my SO.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:12 PM
1

Whoever can walk away easier has more power. If you can replace her easily and you have more options then you have more power than her, and vice versa. If you don't have any other options it's because you have low SMV.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 04:04 PM
2

You are reading way too much into this, it was just the first on-topic response she thought of since you mentioned her job.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 03:16 PM
2

The whole culture there is built around mate guarding. Don't disagree that it probably reduces infidelity there, but it's not really all that relevant to the discussion here.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 02:28 AM
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There's a bit of a difference between a club and a brothel, and a bit of a difference between getting validation / attention and fucking someone. Anyway, restricting your SO's activities is mate-guarding and the wrong approach to get her to not fuck other guys. You cannot negotiate desire. If your girlfriend wants to go clubbing without you it just means you need to run more dread game, disengage, give her less commitment / treat her more like a plate and less like a girlfriend proportionally to…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 07:53 PM
13

Check out these faces of people we'd call amused. Amused has the connotation of being entertained by something that is unable to pose a threat to you. Think of how you'd feel if a 4 year old was punching you in the leg to try to hurt you. You'd just laugh quietly because its entertaining that he's trying so hard but is unable to affect you. http://www.returnofkings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/nifong.jpg http://www.zengardner.com/wp-content/uploads/091110.Obama.smirk.jpg https://thesunnah.file…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 07:31 PM
6

I don't know if you are still with her, but any woman who says your dick isn't good enough in a non-joking manner should be nexted immediately no matter how long you've been together or what your history is.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 05:17 PM
1

Amazing post. I can't understand how bluepillers don't see the evolutionary instinct behind slut-shaming. Evolution shapes animal behaviors, and of course a male animal has a genetic imperative to ensure it's own DNA is passed along and not the DNA of another male. Telling men to be attracted to sluts is telling women to be attracted to men six inches shorter than them. Even if the woman logically understands that it sucks for the short guy that fewer women are attracted to him and it's not real…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 05:08 PM
0

No not saying that at all. I'm saying that marriage is a legal contract that provides a man with very little aside from a few tax benefits, legal benefits for if/when you become incapacitated / die, and that's about it. And the list of negatives if the marriage ends in divorce can be incredible for a man. Never said that women had bad intentions just that getting married puts you at great financial risk needlessly when you could enjoy all the benefits of a committed LTR without getting hitched. …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:21 PM
2

It's your choice to be offended by the strong language, but as usual I see no attempt to address any claims made by TRP, in this case that marriage has become an incredible liability for men due to modern divorce statistics, no-fault divorce, child custody and child support law.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 02:50 PM
1

"The reason we always seem down on the lowly beta is when their beta traits outweigh any alpha traits they may have. They get all the cons of a beta, but none of the pros. Men, if you're looking for a long term relationship, you need to balance alpha and beta traits. You won't keep a woman around with purely alpha behavior, just as you won't with purely beta behavior. Remember that when you suggest a man is a "beta" what you really mean is that he lacks alpha qualities and lets people take advan…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 03:38 PM
0

It doesn't really hurt anything but your pride to try sending another text or two to see if she bites. Might try telling her you just want to hang out as friends because you think she's a pretty cool person outside of sex. If you do this, she might end up initiating sex herself down the line. You also might try beta-ing it up a bit and telling her that you'd really like to try and make things work because you think she's a pretty special girl beyond just being good in bed. Neither of these strat…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 05:41 AM
5

Your missing the point if you think being alpha requires you to be abrasive. Take the parts of TRP you like and ignore the parts you don't. No one has ever said you have to accept everyone else on this forum's ideas or none at all, and even if someone had said that - who gives a shit? Why would you listen to / obey some dickwads on the internet?
/r/askTRP04/06/14 05:38 AM
3

You can't. You can only lead by example and hope they see your success and ask you about it.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 05:36 AM
2

Just turn it back on her. Silence and stare at her like she's crazy. "I can't believe that's all this has been to you."
/r/askTRP04/06/14 01:43 AM
4

College or no - this is the wrong question. Some majors will guarantee you a good job when you get out. But you don't necessarily wanna join those majors just because they pay well if you'll hate your life doing that job. Do research on different careers and see what types of studies are required for those careers. See what kind of pay those careers get, how much hours are required, whether people in that career are respected, whether that career has a future or is going to be gone in 10 years b…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 01:38 AM
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Roosh really isn't the best guy to go for for this, but: http://www.rooshv.com/8-things-american-women-must-do-to-make-themselves-more-attractive-for-men Don't be like this: http://www.rooshv.com/women-who-own-iphones-lose-the-ability-to-love
/r/askTRP02/06/14 03:57 PM
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Have you ever been in love with someone? Have you ever been in a long term relationship? "Making love" means having sex with someone that you love. It is different than a ONS. Kind of hard to explain though if you don't know what being in love feels like.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 05:00 AM
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I'm not a shrink so I have no idea. But google some shit man. http://www.apa.org/topics/anger/control.aspx?item=4
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:53 AM
1

If your anger problems are to the point that you really feel like choking someone, you need to see join an anger management group or see a therapist. Shit's not healthy bro. At the very least, you need to consider your anger problem to be a real problem and take steps to practice managing it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:11 AM
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Have fun. http://www.rooshv.com/category/girl-behavior http://www.rooshv.com/category/travel http://www.rooshvforum.com/forum-3.html
/r/askTRP31/05/14 06:29 PM
1

Haha well the second paragraph definitely makes sense to me, but I still think men who are balding should just embrace it and buzz it all off. Guys like to talk about how their headshape isn't good enough to pull off a shaved head but I think that's bullshit. Everybody has a different shaped head and for some reason everybody is convinced that their own headshape is fucked up and looks bad shaved. I thought I looked kind of weird when I've shaved my head before but everyone else said it looked g…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 12:03 AM
2

I have to say this: “So I let my 90k a year electrician husband fuck me in the ass, because he beat up some homeless man which earned him dark triad points. Maybe if he gets a raise or ups his dread game level than I’ll let him fuck me in the ass regularly like I let my old alpha bad boy Jamal." Is probably the funniest thing I've read today.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 04:45 PM
1

"Hair loss medication, Propecia (finasteride) may be linked to a side effect of sexual dysfunction, a problem which may not go away after treatment has stopped, researchers from George Washington University reported in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Propecia is a popular medication taken for male pattern hair loss."
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 04:42 PM
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"Propecia (finasteride) may be linked to a side effect of sexual dysfunction, a problem which may not go away after treatment has stopped, researchers from George Washington University reported in the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Propecia is a popular medication taken for male pattern hair loss."
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 04:42 PM
2

Stop feeling bad for yourself. You're 6'2'' and have a good job and you wanna cry and give up since you're gonna have to go Vin Diesel-mode? That's fine, stay in and play video games. I'll be fucking the girlfriend you could have had.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 04:41 PM
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| I try to conversate with them and approach them but 99 % of all women are fucking stupid, boring, horrible conversationalists that don't know right from left and are completely inconsistent all the time. There might be something wrong with you or your approach to life if you don't enjoy conversations with any women. Have you considered that your expectations are too high? In terms of what you expect to get out of a social interaction or conversation? | I have a hard time faking interest like m…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 04:16 PM
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That's incredibly strange. You should blast out a text asking all of them, maybe one or two of them will have a genuine sounding answer.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:37 PM
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Online game is like that. If you go up to the same women in real life and chat them up they'll respond much more positively. Do that.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:47 PM
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Why not just pour bacon grease down the kitchen sink?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 02:32 PM
3

Stop with the oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:38 AM
3

The important part is to display obvious rage. You could do so with a whisper or a shout, but the emotion has to be clear.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 04:54 AM
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Getting super pissed, yelling for a minute or two, and then saying something like "I"m going to stay somewhere else tonight" and leaving without another word, can be an incredible turn on for her. A girl I'd been dating for a couple weeks started texting an ex when I was hanging out with her at her place and wasn't responding to me when I tried to have a conversation with her, so I walked over, saw she was ignoring me to talk to an ex, and I flipped my shit "how the fuck can you disrespect me li…
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:49 AM
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Find engineers. Some of them are never around women because all of their friends are guys from their programs. They are responsible (studying a difficult degree that pays well) and because you'll have very little competition you should be able to have your pick of the litter. I had friends in an engineer-specific dorm / academic program hybrid where the gender ratio was 1:3 female:male and there were plenty of guys who were attractive + responsible but still sexless because they did a poor job g…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 09:04 PM
2

I had a long-term girlfriend that never turned down sex from me once during 2 years, never complained about not getting enough sex but also never asked for it. On the other hand she also initiated herself probably five times ever (physically like you want or verbally like you don't want, she did neither). She was always responsive once I started doing even the slightest foreplay. Sometimes I wished she'd initiate or come on to me for once and I'd talk to her about how I wished she'd want it spon…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:40 PM
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Telling her that is as good as admitting you're butthurt and have given up, not a great way to make her attracted to you again. Learn about dread game, self-improvement, passing shit-tests, and non-neediness. Check out Married Man Sex Life blog and start reading. But confronting your wife like that is a great way to ruin any chance you have of improving things. Good luck.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 03:00 AM
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If he looks up to you then you truly have the chance to have a heart to heart conversation with him. I wouldn't even talk to him about women or RP stuff, but just about working hard, having goals, not putting himself down, self-respect and self-esteem, etc. Example of part of the conversation I would have: You: "I hear you putting yourself down a lot, you shouldn't do that, I don't like listening to you do that because I know you are a cool guy." - Help him build his confidence. This goes along …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 08:51 PM
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Sounds like it does bug you.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 05:26 PM
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"They're children, dumb, and only exist for me to play with/fuck." You think other people exist only for your benefit? Sounds like you're a sociopath. Congratulations.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 06:14 AM
1

the sooner you tell her the better man.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 06:05 AM
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"I need a real man" is about as big of an insult as you can give. I think there's probably a more constructive way of saying this that won't risk nuking your relationship.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 06:04 AM
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I was gonna type up a comment about everything you did wrong but it got to like 5000 characters and I gave up. You need to reevaluate everything you thought you knew about dating. You are acting like the opposite of what a man should aspire for. I don't even know where to start.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 12:54 AM
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Good luck finding a girl who has less than 5-6 sexual partners. I will say it is somewhat questionable though that all of them were FWBs. Makes her seem like she doesn't consider sex to be an emotional act just a physical one. Still, good luck man.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:12 PM
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The contradiction of pursuing casual sex while advocating for traditional values, by RooshV: "There is an argument floating around that goes like this: I’m just as bad as feminists in destroying Western civilization because I advise men to pursue easy sex instead of seeking marriage. How can I reconcile the fact that I advocate for “traditional sex roles” when my tactics can be used for pumping and dumping women all over the world? The answer is that I, along with all other men, are not given a …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 09:06 PM
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You seriously don't get how this sub works if you think there's a one size fits all relationship dynamic that all readers of this sub are looking for. There's no TRP Bible: no real guiding principles that all here follow. This sub is just a bunch of guys with different experiences, beliefs, and aspirations discussing sex, relationships, gender relations, etc. in a non-restrained / un-politically correct way. Every relationship is different, but to give you at least a little bit of an answer: the…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 07:15 PM
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You're jealous. Stop being jealous because it's emotional poison. And you think they have no game, but they obviously have better game than you. They are seeing results, and you aren't, so they're doing something right or they simply have higher SMV than you. Most likely they have better social skills.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 04:51 PM
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I'm short but not that short - in other words I've felt first hand the ways it's a disadvantage - but I won't pretend that the odds are as stacked against me as they are against you. It's important to have realistic expectations in terms of the quality and quantity of girls you can attract. You won't ever be spinning 3 plates, but you can find a relationship and get regular sex if you don't have the same standards a guy with higher SMV does and you work on your inner game (confidence, self-belie…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 03:45 PM
2

Strawberry field game is retarded canned nonsense.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 03:36 PM
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If a girl only fucks you once a month it means one of three things: 1) health problem causing temporary loss in libido, 2) naturally low libido, or 3) not attracted to you. The first can be fixed possibly if she went on or off some medication and it's caused this. The second - you're fucked and if it won't work for you just break up. The third - you can't do much other than try to be an attractive guy, but if she used to fuck you all the time but doesn't now, you're probably better off just brea…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 03:35 PM
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This guy sounds like a loser.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 03:30 PM
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Yeah...not sure that's exactly the right way to go about it. But, good luck! | without words, but just actions Yeah, I would not have a conversation like the one you had again. I would set boundaries and take actions that show you won't tolerate disrespect. What you did is more like throwing a temper tantrum or complaining. I think walking away and disengaging is more powerful and allows you to keep more dignity.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 03:04 AM
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When you are new to a town or have a small social circle for whatever reason, you need to actively work to build those networks. So instead of going to a few bars solo, spend your spare time right now getting involved with 5 different organizations - a running club, a volunteer organization, a yoga class, hiking group, book club, whatever. If you got to 2-3 meetings and there's no young people or terrible gender ratio, quit it and join another (unless there are some cool guys your age you think …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 07:28 PM
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If I had one piece of advice to give, it's that it takes two to fight and two to argue. If you feel like it's pointless to try to argue with someone, you have to be willing to refuse to do so and to either ignore them or walk away. That doesn't mean you stop showing affection towards your loved one, but it means you decide you won't cooperate with or be part of nasty communication. If you're talking to her and the conversation takes a turn for the worse where it makes you feel bad or upset, leav…
/r/askTRP24/05/14 05:14 PM
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There was a thread submitted to TRP shitting on this guy a few days ago (before he committed these crimes). The posts title was male hamstering and the pain of the omega (can't crosslink to due automoderation bot).
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:57 PM
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What exactly is it that you think this submission contributes to the subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:35 AM
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You can request that they remove you from Lulu here http://company.onlulu.com/en/deactivate/ so if you're really worried about it this will take one minute to do. But chances are it has nothing to do with that.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 02:21 AM
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You don't really have to go to bars either. If you can get a friend to buy you a bottle of wine you can do all sorts of other stuff - picnic, walk at a park, etc.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 04:51 PM
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You can meet them at a bar and then go to their apartment. Of course the chances are higher that logistics dont' work out or she freaks when / if she finds out you live at home, but it's worth that chance to try to get laid. In fact, in my case the girl was 2 years older than me and freshly divorced. And this was my first ever cold approach that led to sex. Here's how I worked it: Met a girl at a coffeeshop, got her number and told her we'd get drinks. Tell her to give me her address and I'll co…
/r/askTRP22/05/14 04:30 PM
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What the fuck are you going on about? If an obese woman who didn't shower saved your life would you fall in love with her? What are you retards expecting?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 03:14 PM
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TRP isn't a philosophy it's a bunch of random people talking about some shit on the internet. You aren't required to go through some checklist and cheat on your wife in order to be alpha. The world is full of dickwads and if you don't think for yourself and only accept the parts you like, you're still plugged in.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 02:40 PM
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So what were you doing that fall? Just hanging out? Going on dates? Online communication only? Were you her orbiter? Were you hooking up at that point? Were you just casual acquaintances who occasionally spoke? This makes a big difference.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:25 AM
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Your girlfriend sounds like a bitch. You've already tried logic and arguing back, sounds like the next step is ignoring her whenever she's a bitch and if removing attention doesn't work maybe it's time to rethink the relationship.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:22 AM
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Ask your GF about her exes and see what she says. Might be an interesting chance to see if she lies out her ass or if she seems like an honest person.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:20 AM
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Talk to a lawyer not TRP. You have a lot to learn OP. For starters, you're mostly likely not ever gonna see any of that money again. Second, you should stop paying for her shit immediately. Third, you should be single.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:19 AM
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No. No woman has ever pined after a single man and been unable to notice any other guys because of it. It's never happened. Ever.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:15 AM
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Perhaps rather than saying you shouldn't "hold frame" in that situation, you should say one needs to validate them or make them feel comfortable that you are attainable. Or raise their value without lowering your own.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:59 AM
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I think paying for sex is lame but this is shit advice. A round ticket flight to Europe could easily be $1000+ and for that amount of money you could pay for a high class escort in the US or go to multiple prostitutes.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 08:40 PM
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Already replied but I have one more thought so I decided to make another comment so you'd get the second notification. Your reasoning of "They basically want to be leeches and get those good feelings and enjoyment of life from me, without offering anything, and I don't like that. And I want to communicate that to them somehow." is exactly what is happening. You are right on the mark with what the situation is. But you cannot, absolutely cannot and will not be able to explain that to your girlfri…
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:55 AM
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This guy is my favorite RedPill blogger and he comes at it from a Christian POV. Of course, he actually criticizes modern Christians for turning their back on what used to be common sense traditional values, so if you don't get that you might misconstrue his articles as being anti-Christianity when they are actually anti-modern liberal Christians. http://dalrock.wordpress.com/ For example, check out these articles: http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/09/28/rejoice-in-the-wife-of-your-youth/ http:/…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 06:49 AM
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I don't think it's even necessary to say that. Especially over text -> the best response with texting is very, very often no response at all. In person -> I'd use "why are you so hung up on this?" with a grin and make fun of her for it. Start roleplaying that it's her obsession and tease her about being some sort of therapist.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:42 AM
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The best thing to do in this situation is not to respond. If she keeps bringing it up, tell her "look, why are you making such a big deal out of this?" Amused mastery frame -> treat her like she's your kid sister and your teasing her when you deflect this. The fact of the matter is that you are avoiding your exes because being friends with them is a reminder of a painful past. But you obviously can't tell that to your GF. So the only way to proceed that maintains strength is a non-answer. Any an…
/r/askTRP20/05/14 06:39 AM
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| guy is 5 ft 9' and 135 lbs and your point is?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 04:07 AM
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Something you can do to lessen the burden psychologically is start looking at other girls again and start testing the waters with flirting with others. Start getting into the mindset of being the hunter. Don't actually go beyond conversation / flirting but start thinking about plan B through Z. This will help you with your one-itis. If she decides to stay, then you can pull back from that mindset.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 01:47 AM
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Hide your wealth during the courtship phase to filter obvious gold diggers.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 01:43 AM
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What exactly does you can't keep going like this mean? Why can't you keep going like this? Because you love her and it hurts to not know if she's going to stay or if she's going to go? The moment you feel you cannot live without a certain girl, is the moment you have officially put her pussy on a pedestal. The moment you invest more into the relationship than she does, then you’re already fucked and you’re starting to ‘lose’ her. If that's the case, if you can't keep going like this because you'…
/r/askTRP19/05/14 05:41 PM
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If you pressure her it might means she stays when she really should have left because she had doubts about the relationship. You need to let her come to the decision herself. That way if she stays you know she really values your relationship, if she leaves - it means the relationship had problems anyway and there's a higher chance it wouldn't have worked anyway (whether that means 6 months down the line or 6 years down the line). Some girls and some guys who are in a relationship aren't ready to…
/r/askTRP19/05/14 04:19 PM
1

I think this is a similar mechanic, but not related to going on or off hormonal bc.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 02:15 PM
1

Good to hear you aren't giving up. Moving to a new city where you don't no anyone is never ever easy. In that situation I think it's equally important to develop friendships with men as it is to pursue women. Going out by yourself is tough, I actually do most of my approaching / asking women out during the day because I find that women have much lower defenses during the day than they do at a nightclub where I'm in the bottom half of men physically. I only really go out for nightlife with at lea…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 02:46 AM
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I agree that lifting is important, but the OP wrote about how he feels lonely and hopeless with regards to women. The biggest problem he's having in his life is lack of success with women. "I'm the most attractive and fit I've ever been in my life because I changed for myself. I work hard and I have hobbies to occupy my time. I write music and see the sights. I'm trying to live my life to the fullest. And yet... I still devalue myself because my lack of success with women." Lifting more might he…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 12:21 AM
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You won't ever be a plate spinning dude, but you can find a relationship if you have low enough standards and you work on your inner game (confidence, self-belief, etc.) and outer game (being willing to make approaches, ask women out, escalate, etc.) Options: Approach everything with a pulse, become the biggest badass in history in terms of fearlessness/don't-give-a-fuck-attitude. Develop strong game. Move to a country where the average height is shorter and things might be slightly easier. But …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 05:30 PM
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Solution: Don't get married.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 04:13 AM
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You don't need to be an archetype alpha to get laid. You need to go out and ask out 50 women and one of them will end up sleeping with you if you take her out, get tipsy together, and escalate. You can be nervous and still get laid. You can say embarrassing stupid things and still get laid. Your hands can be shaking when you approach a woman and you can still get laid. Your problem is YOU ARE GIVING UP. Don't come here asking for advice when you have given up. You only live one life and here you…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 02:40 AM
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And further, men value youthful appearance in women way, way more than women value a youthful appearance in men. So women in their late teens through early 30s have tremendous power in the sex/relationship market but that power diminishes more quickly afterwards, whereas many men who are 37 are far more attractive to women than a man who is 20. Whereas you'd almost never see a 37 year old woman who is more attractive than a 20 year old woman.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 11:24 PM
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Examine the body types of runway models, Victoria's Secret Angels, and the girls on Brazzers or BangBros. The first is marketed towards women and gay men, the second is marketed partially to men and partially to women, and the third is marketed solely to men. You can see that the runway models are thin and don't have exaggerated curves, the Victorias Secret models are in between, and the pornstars bodies are the most voluptuous/curvy in a fit (not fat) way. Miranda Kerr is a marketing product ai…
/r/askTRP15/05/14 07:03 PM
2

Dunno if you realize this, but you can just slow down or stop mid thrust when you feel an orgasm building and the feeling will subside. Of course, the hard part is forcing yourself to actually do it before you get to the point of no return, but I guess I don't quite understand the problem you're having if you get to the 4-5 minute point. Now on the other hand if the problem you were having is that you had to keep pausing or slowing down in order to keep yourself from coming, I'd understand. But …
/r/askTRP15/05/14 06:59 PM
2

You have to be more specific about what you've done differently to get any useful advice here broha.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:45 PM
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One of the worst articles I've ever read. Your feelings about liberalism - whether right or wrong - don't justify disenfranchising half of the population. I'd argue that representative democracy itself is a poor system when the public is not qualified to judge the issues of the day and all major candidates have been bought by corporate interests, but you can blame culture, education, and regulatory capture for our political impotency - not the dangly bits between one's legs. And thanks for givin…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 02:38 PM
1

If it makes financial sense, go for it. Personally i don't see any problem with cosmetic surgery for things like this. It's only bad when people get obsessed and get dozens of surgeries to their face due to some sort of body dysmorphia.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 11:54 PM
1

As a short guy, as a guy in a wheelchair, as a disliked minority, as a stutterer, as a anyone that's typically less attractive, you have two options: Work harder, get rejected more, but eventually get what you want anyway. Feel bad that you're at a disadvantage and decide to give up. Which option seems better? There's no question - work harder. Like isn't fair. It's not. And you can't change some disadvantages you've been given. You just need to decide you're OK with that and are willing to work…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 11:07 PM
2

The important distinction is about things you can change vs what you can't. 'Alpha' behaviors can be learned which is why they receive a lot of emphasis here. So does physical fitness and career. Something like facial aesthetics or height aren't changeable and with these sorts of things the sooner one accepts one's self the better. The biggest thing is that it's relatively simple to get in good shape or to dress well. It's a lot more difficult and nuanced to act as an 'alpha' socially and behavi…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 07:01 PM
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Do you enjoy having sex with her? When you are having sex does her face look beautiful to you? If the answers to those questions are yes, then don't worry about it. There's always gonna be better some more beautiful girl out there, but it's futile to compare what you have endlessly to what you could get that would be better. If you lift weights yourself, invite her out to go the gym with you and have her do squats and lunges to make her ass amazing.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 03:21 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 04:25 AM
4

First boyfriend was an asshole. TRP doesn't support assholes. TRP supports and advocates for men to 1) avoid being a doormat, 2) don't be needy, 3) have confidence, 4) be a high value enough man that you can deserve the high value woman you desire, 5) understand that women are as shallow as men, just in slightly different ways and its therefore intelligent to be the best you can be by their standards, etc. TRP doesn't suggest it's necessary to be an asshole, be ungrateful towards your SO, to get…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 01:10 AM
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This is once again going to mislead people about what he means by vulnerable. But otherwise, a useful summary so long as people understand what Manson means by vulnerability. Here's the relevant explanation (taken from Manson's blog http://markmanson.net/power-in-vulnerability): "When most men hear the word “vulnerability,” their immediate reaction is to associate it with weakness. In general, men are raised to withhold their emotions, to not show weakness, and to ignore any hint of introspectio…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 09:25 PM
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Would you be interested in dating an obese woman? An obese woman with "dedication, dreams, and aspirations...a good and interesting person"? What about a girl who used to be fat but lost weight? Are you sure you're not holding women to a standard you yourself don't meet?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 06:06 AM
1

You shouldn't be in an open relationship. You want a closed relationship. So why the fuck are you in an open relationship? It's obviously emotionally painful for you. Get her to commit or breakup and spend your energy finding a new girl.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 03:53 PM
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Promiscuity reduces both men and women's ability to pair bond (means that the act of having sex with a partner for the first time becomes more and more meaningless and creates less of an emotional bond). When two highschool sweethearts or two newlyweds lose their virginities to each other, that creates something special and shared that they haven't experienced with anyone else, and their relationship becomes much more meaningful and important to them afterwards. But let's say they break up, and …
/r/askTRP10/05/14 03:42 PM
1

Hey doesn't provide anything interesting for them to work off of. You need to at least say something interesting if you expect something interesting back.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 03:28 PM
2

It flies in the face of the idea that men and women are equal, yes. The rules are predicated on the fact that men and women are typically not equal in their athletic abilities (mostly due to women's cultural disinterest in sports compared to men but also due to their evolutionary traits). You see a hypocrisy - women saying they're equal to men but making rules that show they're not as good at sports. But I'd argue that most women would readily admit that men are typically better at sports than w…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 02:52 PM
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Don't join a coed league if you're gonna get butthurt about the rules they make so girls will join. You should probably read even A LITTLE BIT about how the league works and the rules before throwing down $80 on it. They make rules like that so girls will actually join. Don't bitch about something you voluntarily signed up for. If your goal is to have a normal sporting league, join a mens league. If your goal is to meet women or make friends with them, join a coed league.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 02:11 AM
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rationalmale.files.wordpress.com and dalrock.wordpress.com are the best in my opinion. Dalrock has a section on Finding a Spouse http://dalrock.wordpress.com/category/finding-a-spouse/ and Choice Addiction which are very interesting http://dalrock.wordpress.com/category/choice-addiction/ http://marriedmansexlife.com/blog/ good for LTR game. heartiste.wordpress.com is OK but I can't relate to it as much since I don't spin lots of plates, I spin one plate at a time and do relationships.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 10:50 PM
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Vulnerability in a non-needy way means taking risks, putting yourself out there with the chance of being rejected or hurt. Think about what vulnerability literally means: capable of or susceptible to being wounded or hurt. This has nothing to do with telling a girl about your insecurities or revealing your emotional weak points. It means taking risks and exposing yourself to failure, shame, rejection, etc. Examples: Asking someone out. Not pretending you don't have nerdy hobbies and if a girl is…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 04:36 PM
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You need to learn and understand the concept of body fat percentage. And understand that the size of your muscles and your body fat percentage are independent and not related to each other. Lifting weights makes your muscles bigger, it doesn't necessarily make you more defined or shredded. Lowering your body fat does that.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 03:06 AM
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I agree that when you get to the 7+ point there are diminishing returns. Our disagreement might stem from the fact that I'm thinking more about a 5-6 who could raise her SMV 1-2 points by getting in better shape vs the same 5-6 becoming more domestic, and in this particular case - knitting.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 08:03 PM
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Yeah I agree with you on all points. It seems like you might have misconstrued the tone of my post? Or maybe I'm now just misunderstanding yours.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 04:04 PM
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LDRs are kind of fucked to begin with, and I mean that from the POV of trying to keep attraction, keep love, or keep interest. Figure out how to get her closer to you or shit's going to fall apart eventually.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 04:53 AM
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Sure.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:39 AM
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Nice vid, I was impressed with how precise your language is and how you don't use more words than necessary to communicate an idea, unlike most YouTubers. I think a bullet points summary might get better traction just because of the nature of Reddit, maybe you could put a quick glimpse / teaser of what the video is about in the text above to get people interested enough to click through to the video. Just saying that cause I think fewer people click through to video and I'd hate for your message…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:32 AM
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Yeah, it shows up as blank when I'm logged out. Anyway, I PMed /redpillschool asking him about this thread and asking for his feedback / thoughts so we'll see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:27 AM
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Well I'm pretty much pissing into the ocean anyway. It's mostly pointless to even try to stop online communities from deteriorating as they grow. I'm just glad I actually know of some good RP blogs to visit. Doesn't say [removed] for me. Is that where the text post content would be? I wonder if that's because I authored the post. Or maybe I've been shadowbanned. I actually have very little idea of how Reddit works.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:17 AM
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Well it sounds like you're admitting that the woman in really great shape is more attractive than the woman who's a great knitter. You'd rather compromise in order to keep her loyalty. But if the OP wants to maximize her attractiveness as an SO / partner, then you've agreed with me and she'd be better off getting into better shape, unless she wants to attract men who are afraid they won't be able to keep a hot woman. And I'm not trying to say you're doing it wrong, I think it's a smart move myse…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 04:14 AM
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Probably because I was too negative about things / wasn't nice enough. Idk. Btw, how can you tell it was removed? Just because it doesn't show up in new / rising anymore?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:11 AM
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I don't know of one. Eternal September effect is alive and well on TRP. I think moderation could be more active though in maintaining post quality, but they are volunteers and I'm not a mod of any subs so I'm not trying to be a critic. And they are fighting the inevitability of the Eternal September problem - as an online community grows the stupid and ignorant become a larger and larger fraction of its population.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 04:08 AM
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I agree with you, this subreddit has mostly gone to shit and it's been extremely bad for the last six months or so. Even someone like you who doesn't even like or see any value in TRP thought can see that this subreddit is full of shitposts. Shitty types of posts that now dominate: Field reports from some guy who got laid for the first time in 2 years patting themselves on the back, trying to teach others. Because fucking a drunk girl at a party is a huge accomplishment and deserves intense anal…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 03:44 AM
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I'd say if its not sexual then it's probably actually about drive - whatever that means to him. I think your idea about talking about it is a good one. Be non-defensive and seek to fully understand what he's thinking and feeling and where he's coming from. Ask questions to draw out all of his feelings and thoughts. Then after he's finished, figure out what it means, share your reactions, and come to some sort of actionable plan. It could be he feels that his life lacks purpose and he's recently …
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 03:35 AM
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I think the first question y'all should ask posters like this on this sub is "have you been gaining weight?" As a guy, there are 100 different ways to try to get a girl to keep herself in shape, and only 1 of them is to directly come out and say so. Not saying that's the case here but it's always a possibility.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 02:21 AM
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Cooking is probably the greatest domestic skill you can have, especially if you can cook healthy food that tastes good and/or good food that doesn't break the bank. Great way to appeal directly to a guy's senses and his stomach. Men look for many aspects of the love their mother gave them in a woman and cooking is a great example. Women do the same with their fathers and the men they seek, for example they want to be protected and want someone who'll keep calm in emergencies. As far as whether t…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 02:09 AM
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I agree, I just think a lot of people on this sub don't realize that for most guys having a girlfriend or wife in really, really great shape would be worth more than having a girlfriend or wife who is great at knitting.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 01:16 AM
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The most important thing you can do in attracting most straight men is to maximize your physical appearance given your genetics and to be a pleasant, fun to be around, kind hearted person. All of this domestic-ness doesn't matter if he's not attracted to you or you don't have a good personality. Just a thought.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 10:58 PM
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Yeah I know because I've had this happen to me. I don't know about you but I can be a perfectionist in a lot of parts of my life, but that doesn't work so well with sex because when you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself in sex it leads to a worse experience than when you are just fucking around and in the moment. You have to be in a very raw, unthinking place mentally to really enjoy sex as much as possible and focus on nothing but the good feelings. If you start thinking about specific …
/r/askTRP06/05/14 07:02 PM
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I can totally see why she did it Dude, you're a giant pussy. There's no reason for any woman to cheat. If she wasn't a massive slut and a shit-tier person she'd break up and then go fuck another guy. The truth is you don't value yourself or have enough dignity or self-respect. You shouldn't be making excuses for the person you're with fucking other guys, that's ultimate beta behavior. Totally out alphaed in both cases. Not an excuse for her to cheat, and you don't need to compare yourself agains…
/r/askTRP06/05/14 03:15 PM
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You shouldn't beat yourself up too much about this. Sounds like you'd prefer a girl who's a little bit more submissive in bed and there's nothing wrong with that. And as you've probably realized, the going soft thing is because you're getting in your head and putting too much pressure on yourself. You feel like you are having to put on a performance for her. In order to avoid that problem you need to forget about what she wants and just relax and enjoy yourself. I'll assume you can overpower her…
/r/askTRP06/05/14 05:42 AM
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"when you improve yourself, you can have any girl you want" It's great to be optimistic, but most people can only raise themselves so much on the SMV scale. Maybe I'm just jaded but I'm getting sick of this "once I lift weights and improve my game 9's will be raining from the sky to suck my cock" attitude.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 09:24 PM
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From "this one girl who will not be attracted to this new man", it sounds like you think being slightly more alpha and not failing shit tests is going to make all women magically want your dick. Sorry doesn't work that way. It just means women who would have already given you a chance before are less likely to next you. There are a thousand reasons a girl wouldn't be interested in you that are outside of your control. That's why in the manosphere/PUA/seduction/TRP communities it's repeatedly str…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 04:19 PM
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I find it astounding that you think your job is more labor intensive than your husbands despite the fact that he makes 20 times more money than you. You don't understand your husbands work, you probably have never had an intellectually demanding job in your life, and you don't understand that mental and creative exhaustion is accumulated much more quickly than physical exhaustion. I work in a creative field that yields six figures and I take many mini-breaks throughout my day and put in less hou…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 03:25 PM
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For anyone who is a noob at fashion or struggles to understand what looks good on them or how they'd like to define their style, the best thing thing you can do is go to a mall and visit several stores that have mannequins dressed in a style you think you might like, and then try on dozens of different clothes and look at yourself wearing them in the dressing rooms. Take pictures of them all if you want. Ignore prices because the point of this isn't to buy clothes but to identify what styles and…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 09:43 PM
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Taking videos is fucking great. It's awesome to be able to watch your own homemade porn. But why is evidence even necessary? What is he proving? Nothing as far as I can tell. Unless he's just trying to prove how high his power level is, in which case who gives a fuck. As I wrote, this is a self-congratulatory backpat post. There's not even any real strategy used here that's interesting.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:48 AM
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Be very careful bro. A lot of women will suggest a FFM threesome and do it for a while and then use that as an excuse to guilt you into letting them to a MMF threesome cause its only fair right? If that's something you don't see yourself being into then I'd tell her upfront right now that you aren't crossing that boundary. If she still wants the FFM then great, you've got yourself a cool girl that you can bang other women with. But just be aware that a lot of times women who want other D use the…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:44 AM
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If you want to know why women in Sweden and Norway are so beautiful, just look at the sexual strategy of the Vikings. They just took the most attractive women from villages they raided back with them. You can still see the results on both the UK and Scandinavia's women today.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 10:25 PM
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That's silly. Guys would never get laid if they didn't do everything. I disagree. You can get laid without doing 'everything'. A girl can straight up ask you if you want to fuck, or she can start escalating physically with you before you do anything with her and she can lead the escalation. You can also get laid without going after taken women. Which is getting laid without doing everything. "I don't think it's right to act in a way that gets a girl" to cheat is blue pill thinking Nah, it's comp…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 04:09 AM
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Perhaps I don't understand your point in saying women only get "seduced" by guys they're already attracted to in reply to my comment. I agree that you only bang someone you are attracted to. I'm saying I don't think it's right to act in a way that gets a girl who wouldn't have cheated with someone else five minutes later to cheat.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 03:36 AM
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Let me flip the script. You have a unicorn. She's a perfectly sweet, submissive woman who will suck your dick when you get home from work, is fun to talk to, and is loyal. And she's about a 6 or a 7. You're at your buddies bachelor party. He's rich and there are practically as many strippers as there are guys. One of them is physically your dream girl incarnate. Throughout the night she pays more attention to you than the other guys and you keep catching her glancing at you out of the corner of …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 03:04 AM
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Right. And my point is it's going further (and possibly IS crossing a line morally) if you actively convinced him to go out for drinks with you knowing he's underage, without any concern for consequences for him or his loved ones, purely because it will be more fun for you if he does. But if he was already going to go to the bar and you weren't going to be able to stop him, I think it's not your place to stop him. Basically if you went out of your way to seduce a taken woman, you're an asshole (…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:13 PM
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Your argument and this discussion aside, the phrase 'sexual strategy is amoral' simply means we discuss strategy and sexual realities on this subreddit without consideration for morality because it's up to each individual to apply sexual strategy in whatever way fits within their own moral code. It doesn't mean that nobody has any moral code or no moral codes exist with regards to sexuality. It means morality is individual. It's the same as if I said 'rifle marksmanship is amoral'. Rifles can be…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:10 PM
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The phrase 'sexual strategy is amoral' simply means we discuss strategy and sexual realities on this subreddit without consideration for morality because it's up to each individual to apply sexual strategy in whatever way fits within their own moral code. It doesn't mean that nobody has any moral code or no moral codes exist with regards to sexuality. It means morality is individual. It's the same as if I said 'rifle marksmanship is amoral'. Rifles can be used 'morally' or 'immorally' depending …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:04 PM
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So would you consider situations in which you seduce the girl as being "active" and situations in which she came onto you as being a "lack of good"? I could sort of see your point if that's the case. If a girl goes out of her way to wear a slutty dress and hit on guys at a club when she's married, then obviously if you didn't go home with her someone else would have. But if you are initiating the flirtation or gaming a girl who just happened to be at the grocery store, then you're being active. …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:59 PM
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Hey thanks for taking the time to answer my question! Good post, and I've read it in the past but I reread it just now. I'm not sure I understand exactly though what I should take away from it given the context of my question. In the post the Subway guy is a supplicating, needy, validation-seeking errand boy for his wife. Assuming I am in the dominant and non-supplicating role in the relationship, I won't be seen as "beta" in that sense. I'm more worried though about hypergamy in the sense that …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 06:49 PM
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Hey Rollo, First, thanks for your writing. I find the writing of both you and Dalrock to be lightyears ahead of everyone else. You're able to take a nebulous game concept concept and distill it down to just what needs to be said and nothing else. I'm an early 20s man who has an alpha mindset, has his shit together and makes a lot of money (and no debt), and has swallowed the redpill and understands his own SMV, attraction triggers in women, and hypergamy and alpha bucks/beta bucks (and dual mati…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:47 PM
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So I think it's really cool that you got laid and all...but what value does this post bring to /trp/? I really didn't get a single message from this post beyond "Hey guys I visited a college town and had sex with some girls I know". What the fuck? Honestly, the fact that you posted a video of yourself fucking the girl screams to me that you posted this for validation.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 03:23 AM
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If you haven't listened to Bill Burr's podcast before and want a taste, check out this clip: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rl5JDzvkEA0 Will warn you that he talks about sports a ton so if you like sports it'll be a plus but if you don't give a shit then you might not like his podcast as much.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:54 PM
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I'm so fucking sick of people on here saying you can't have female friends. If you have true abundance, if you have 5 plates you can choose from to suck you off a day, then you're not gonna be thirsty. And if you aren't thirsty for a girl, then you can both share a good friendship provided you both provide each other value (could be humor, shared interests, common friendgroup and good company, etc). It's only when you are thirsty for a girl that you can't truly be just friends. So if you haven't…
/r/askTRP09/04/14 09:38 PM
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BMI is a stupid indicator. If you want a number that correlates to whether a woman is fat or obese you'd use something like body fat percentage. And it's cute that you think your personal racial preferences of beauty are shared by all heterosexual men in the world. Sorry bro, different people are into different things.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 01:51 PM
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This was incredibly fascinating to read. The best part is if you published the same story it would be lambasted as patriarchal and outdated in its diagnoses. In 1984 we were just starting to see the effects of the sexual revolution in terms of delayed and never materializing marriages, insane standards and women who overvalued their own SMV until they were 35 and could only attract cats. But if you asked anyone 30 or below today about what was different before and after the sexual revolution, th…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 11:18 PM
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Slightly entertaining but because its fake there's nothing to be learned here.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:20 AM
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Seconding Lord_Perseus statement. TRP is about sexual dynamics not white supremacy.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:18 AM
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Ignoring the rhetorical question, you obviously know what you are doing and this advice isn't needed by you!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 03:47 AM
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:) :) :) :) :) I'm having fun. Are you?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 03:26 AM
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You can ask for those things and she'll say yes if she has enough desire but you can only get her to go so far. As you said that's only the case if the woman "is a pleaser and wants you" - aka the desire was already there. You didn't negotiate her desire you just guided it. You guided her in how to please you but she already wanted to. http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/25/the-desire-dynamic/
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 03:20 AM
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Not really. Not all women use hormonal birth control, and I believe it's still present in hormonal birth control using women to a lesser extent (but I'm trying to google and find out more about that right now). And OK, actually if you are right - this might actually mean it'd be a good idea to have your LTR go off of hormonal birth control before making it more serious (if you are the marrying type). You'd want to do this test anyway so if you're right it'd be a good precaution (and you also wan…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 03:15 AM
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Yes.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 03:12 AM
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Dude you might be retarded if you are jerking off everyday and wondering why you don't want to fuck your wife. Don't jerk off for a month and see if you feel differently at any point. It sounds like things would honestly be better if you used her body as a masturbation device because you obviously must have a sex drive and pussy feels better than hand. Have you tried just starting to have sex even when you're not in the mood? Sometimes a person doesn't feel like having sex but if they start doin…
/r/askTRP23/03/14 04:04 PM
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Just means a situation in which a girl is stringing you along (and she knows your interested in her as more than friend). Usually used on this sub to describe situations where the girl is enjoying the validation she gets from having a fawning admirer. At least for me, I don't consider a friendship with a girl to be a time ho situation unless you aren't actually getting a quality friendship out of it AND you are lusting or crushing on her. But if you don't care about her romantically and are just…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 09:05 PM
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I believe it's perfectly valid to have female friends. Just be aware that all signs are pointing towards her wanting you to be just a friend. It's admirable to pursue a girl and then go your own way if she isn't interested romantically, and it's admirable to pursue a girl and then agree to just be friends IF you actually enjoy her friendship AND you aren't thinking about how you want to fuck her or have a crush on her in the back of your mind when you are with her. But if you are crushing on her…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 09:02 PM
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It's pretty obvious what she wants (a time ho). It's pretty obvious what you want (to fuck her brains out). You guys don't want the same thing. Why are you still spending your time on her?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 07:45 PM
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Well he could record a video with his phone logging into Facebook and opening up the chat - that would be a lot harder to photoshop than a screenshot. At the end of the day you are right that it'd be up to the dude. But I'm just hoping someone would tell me if I was dating a whore.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 03:58 PM
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You said yourself that when you put yourself in his shoes it pissed you off. Can you imagine if you were still 20 and somehow you ended up in this situation. Would you wish that someone revealed her true nature to you if they were given the chance? You have the opportunity to truly shape this man's life. If I were you I would pull the trigger and fuck this chick over to help him. Because if I was him I'd want someone else to help me. If you aren't gonna be able to fuck this girl, who cares how s…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 03:18 AM
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After watching this video I understand and can empathize with the oppression of women in modern society (which I clearly couldn't before as I'm on /trp/), and I will henceforth stop catcalling women (which I do, obviously), stop victim-shaming women who were abused and telling them they had it coming (which I obviously do. clearly reading and posting on /trp/ means that I think women who were raped or abused were at fault.) I am a changed man. I will no longer rape, no longer make lewd comments,…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 08:05 PM
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My best friend is teaching English in China right now.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 03:52 PM
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You should be moving to a new city bro. Lookup unemployment statistics and find a place with a better outlook. Or get a job working on an oilfield in South Dakota or Northern Canada. Or get your ESL teaching certifications and then go teach English in China (and slay Chinese pussy).
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 07:09 AM
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Uhhh...I really wouldn't point anyone towards VB. Jesus Christ if you want to shuffle this guy towards enterprise-dom at least suggest C# or Java.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 04:12 PM
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I actually kind of wonder if it isn't a consequence of the fact that 20Nation and many other posters here are likely banging women with much higher SMV than I am. Men and women who are 7.5-10s are naturally going to have more orbiters/followers/opportunities and anyone with so many options is going to have a harder time being faithful. I know if I was in a relationship with a Latina 8 but I had a blonde 8 and a Japanese 8 being flirtatious it would be hard as fuck for me...but that sort of shit …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:28 PM
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Seems like it's probably an interesting read but I would be very careful about extrapolating these experiences out to all women. The type of woman who is more naturally monogamous wouldn't be interested in a casual uncommitted dater like 20Nation. If a girl is easy to fuck for you she's easy to fuck for others. In before I get called out for NAWALT, I'm just saying these women are likely shittier than what you deal with if your selection criteria are optimized for finding a single trustworthy wo…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 06:21 PM
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Not really. It's an important factor depending on your priorities and goals and your SMV. I like to give myself every advantage I can in all situations because my greatest strength is strategy and analysis. It's not limited to just women it's how I accomplish every goal I have.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 05:42 PM
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I'm in the process of planning an indefinite nomadic lifestyle and so I've been thinking about these things for a while. I'd recommend looking at sex ratios of the universities you're looking at attending and of those university's cities. This map is quite useful as far as Europe goes: http://imgur.com/uEe5mF7 This is a really great forum for doing the type of research you're doing. You can use the search function to find threads about countries or cities you are interested in: www.rooshvforum.c…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 04:50 AM
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Tanning is stupid. This is a picture of a man who was a truck driver for 28 years. The left side of his face was exposed to the sun while driving and the right side wasn't.
/r/askTRP25/01/14 07:58 PM
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If Pook was written plainly I think it'd be a great resource, but for me the style of writing is a little draining. Rational Male and Chateau Heartiste are great. Haven't seen Sixty Years of Challenge before.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 06:28 AM
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He's actually written a blog post about how people misinterpret his use of the term: http://markmanson.net/a-note-on-vulnerability An excerpt: "For some reason, a lot of guys are misinterpreting this as a recommendation to go out and spill their guts and gush about all of their problems to every girl they meet. This is pretty much the polar opposite of what I’m recommending. When I say “be vulnerable,” I mean be undefended, don’t censor yourself, don’t alter yourself. It’s not a behavioral presc…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 05:44 AM
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I'm most worried that this place could turn into a backpatting circlejerk over how bad men have it and how evil/shitty women are. All the links to external blogs from deluded post-wall women or to AskReddit/relationshit posts by beta dudes are funny, but they aren't useful or all that instructive. On the other hand the theory posts, links to good, well-respected blogs like Dalrock or rationalmale, cultural discussions, and discussions about strategy and specific field reports / scenarios are gre…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 05:41 AM
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You've completely missed the point on Mark Manson's "vulnerability". He uses vulnerability to describe putting yourself in harm's way: speaking your intentions and desires plainly to women at the risk of being turned down and being clear about what you want - if a woman doesn't want what you want the sooner you find out the better. Read what he writes about polarization. His whole thing is to be vulnerable (read risk rejection) and be honest about yourself so that you polarize women and men towa…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 05:34 AM
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The reason it's a problem is that writing hyperbole like "Outside of their reproductive system - there are none." reinforces negative stereotypes about /trp/ and pulls it towards such extremism. These sorts of discussion groups can quickly become echo chambers that gradually move towards either extremism or being watered down. Both are bad. It's important to keep both from happening.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 06:45 PM
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"There are very, very few "good" traits that a woman can posses, at least western women. Loyalty? Lolno they are all sluts. Hardworking? Lolno why work when I can sponge of the state/divorce rape some beta sucker. Honest? lolno women lie ALL THE TIME without even realising it." You are the bitter guy hanging out in the corner of /trp/. Sorry that your mom wasn't a good mom and you've never had a good female friend that you weren't thirsty for.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 06:27 PM
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The word manipulation is used when you don't like the way person A is acting upon person B. The same act that you view as manipulation I view as social interaction. The same act that you view as social interaction I view as manipulation. Save the word manipulation for heinous acts and people - not guys that are getting laid by displaying attractive qualities and behaviors to women. Takes two to tango (or have a ONS).
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 06:26 PM
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I don't disagree with anything you wrote. My original comment in this particular comment chain was meant to steer the consensus to more of a happy medium between "Women are no different than men, once you cut through all of the preconceived bullshit about what a man or a woman should be you find a person, and that person has good aspects and bad aspects." and "The entire concept of TRP is based on the fact that men and women are not the same." I just think it's important to draw the distinction …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 06:23 PM
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RE: "Women don't think like men do". - They don't. They are more empathetic, more easily relate to the emotions of others, are naturally better at reading body language, social cues and customs, and communicating. There are differences between male and female brains. I'm guessing you wouldn't disagree with those positive differences. It's merely a byproduct of the types of discussions we have here - sexual strategy and gender norms - that we often must discuss some of the high-level differences …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 06:06 PM
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How's the bitterness of the pill you swallowed last week treating you? Think it's gonna start healing soon? I think we should start bitterness-shaming the same way we support fat-shaming. We need to encourage new members not to scorn women just because they are playing the sexual strategy that they're naturally dealt / maximizing their own happiness (sometimes at the expense of men, GASP). It's weak and unproductive.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 05:54 PM
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Women are no different than men in most non-sexual / non-emotional ways. A kind human is a good human (male or female). A hardworking human is a good human (male or female). An honest human is a good human (male or female). The point he's making is that we don't judge women by LOL SHE MAKES GOOD SANDWICHES AND SUCKS DICK GOOD SO I LIEK BEING FRIENDS WITH HER - which is the stereotype of PUA/men's rights/trp/etc. We might care about arbitrary or sexual things in romantic partners but not when we'…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 05:52 PM
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The same qualities that are positive when present in men / make men fun to hang out with or be friends with are the qualities that individual women possess that make them enjoyable to be around. Kindness, humor, loyalty, wit, compassion, being entertaining, etc. Just because this sub is about discussing sexual strategy and gender norms / relations doesn't mean individual people aren't individual people. The stuff we discuss on /trp/ is the 10% of psychology that no one ever talks about. Doesn't …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 05:49 PM
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Examining individuals is always more useful/meaningful than looking at population traits, but I'd defend the observation is that there are more logical women in these fields.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 10:09 PM
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I find your approach to be good but it's not as subtle as I'd like. And expecting BJs is a pretty easy commitment (in my world). Whenever guys say their girlfriend or wife doesn't give them because she doesn't like to - I literally can't understand how that flies. I'm more interested in how to get a girlfriend to want to give me a massage (quick scalp or foot rub, or full body) or cook me food without being asked. That shit sounds so servile that most women will flip their shit if I were to ask.…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:32 PM
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I dated a female CS major for two years. Less feminine than many women, but SO much less bullshit. So much less emotion-based rationalization. The two main reasons it didn't work out and I didn't want to take it longer term were she wasn't quite the prettiest girl in the world and she wasn't the best conversationalist. But if you are looking for a girl that thinks more logically than most men do, look no further than women in engineering, CS, or scientific fields. If you abhor illogical people -…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:24 PM
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You flipped his question backwards. He wants to know how to get her to do things he wants without asking. I'd also like to hear his questions answered.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 06:40 PM
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Well the first thing you should probably realize is that /trp/ is SOOOO not a cohesive thoughtmovement. You'll see people arguing here with each other about all sorts of things all the time. For your particular question, I think most /trp/ers wouldn't suggest that leaving your wife is ethical or the right thing to do. I can't answer for others, but I wouldn't condone it. I adhere to most Judeo-Christian values. But if I ever get married, if my wife stops being the person I married (gains 200lbs …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 05:21 AM
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Everyone else has already pointed out that /trp/ understands thats part of women's attraction towards men and we don't hold it against them. Just laugh when they won't admit it. But what does bother us is when a woman gives you a false impression that she's sexually/physically attracted to you because she wants to marry you or use you as a beta provider, when she's really not feeling all that passionate or attracted (physically, sexually, the "spark", etc.) Then five years later she might realiz…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 05:04 AM
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So you're saying that most women would rather marry Brad Pitt, George Clooney..or even the handsome owner of the country club...than me. Huh. Well statistically I'm probably not going to be the one to marry the smart, nerdy girl from the cheerleading squad either. And I'm definitely not gonna have a harem with the female cast of Firefly. Have all my girlfriends been my top choice? Fuck no. Would I rather have dated Olivia Munn? Yes. No shit sherlock. Yes women are more hypergamous than men. Yes …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 04:36 AM
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Parts of this article are good, but don't shit talk lube. We're not shitting all over guys that need to pop a pill to get hard as they get older, so let's not shit talk women who need a bottle to make things more slippery.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 04:35 PM
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You assume that self-improvement exists only for the sake of pussy? That's depressing as fuck bro. Do you know what else you can acquire besides women in this world? Money. Power over both women AND men. Status. Being the best at whatever skill you desire. You might have drank the MTGOW koolaid a little too hard. It's not an excuse to sit around and be a waste of human life. You don't have to be a badass to get women - you can be a badass because you want to.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 07:08 PM
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Keep on that horse. Being more than average is a war not a battle and you're starting at an early age.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:21 PM
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The only thing that will ever motivate you more than hedonism is if you want something else more than you want food, games, porn, TV, etc. People will give you all sorts of bullshit, feel-good, pretend things that motivate them, but these are the types of things that do most of the actual motivating: Power Sex (Men or Women) Multimillionaire lifestyle Being the best The status that being the best affords In essence, you have to be obsessed with being more than average. In whatever way. You only …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:13 PM
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You're nitpicking over semantics and looking for a reason to argue. Stop doing that. This is subreddit that's mostly read by men and most of the content is written for men - to help improve men, to talk about men's issues. Don't take offense when we don't use the word human for everything.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:09 PM
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The point is that playing video games, porn, and sports are really common time-sinks that could be spent achieving goals. It's not about those particular activities. If your goals or long-term desires are to improve at gaming - or have as much fun gaming as possible - then you should be gaming 8 hours a day. But the idea and what the spirit of this whole post is about is that a lot of people have OTHER goals that they are losing sight of because of escapist time sinks.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:06 PM
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Well I have a little looser definition than just emotional state. I define frame control as "What other people do doesn't change my own beliefs, self-perception, or how I will act or respond". So if someone has logically convinced me to change one of my beliefs, that's kind of a change in my frame (which includes my worldview). But yeah you're right that in a practical sense the important part of frame control is the outward emotional state you are displaying - the way you deal with being wrong …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:50 PM
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It kind of looks like you didn't read my whole post - or maybe you just skimmed it and didn't really parse the meaning. The entire post was about how a lot of people are misusing the term to mean what you quoted or the sentence before it rather than understanding the true meaning. Reread the post title: "What frame control is and isn't." You just quoted the part of the post describing what "What frame control...isn't". I wrote that part as a caricature of how people might overcompensate or contr…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:46 PM
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I think the only useful way to draw the line is to base it off of what it will take for you to accomplish your personal goals whether they are career goals, financial goals, fitness goals, or whatever. If you prioritize the most important things to you to accomplish in the next 10 years and try to be honest with yourself about how many hours per week or per day you should be spending on working towards those goals, then you can be extremely guilt-free with how you spend the rest of your time. It…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:44 PM
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Definitely.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:37 PM
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Not sure how this is related to what you quoted or what it implies. Studying hard in college got me a job that pays more than most Americans will ever earn. But then again I didn't major in barista arts.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:33 PM
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I agree that you don't need to do anything to be a man other than have an X and a Y. But I will argue that self-discipline and ambition are what makes a man great. I should have said at the essence of being a great man (or great person for that matter).
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:59 AM
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You think Kobe Bryant has read books about reading basketball? I'm pretty sure if anything he'd have written books about how to play basketball. Kobe owes his success to time spent on the court, not any videos he may have watched or books he may have read.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 06:52 AM
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Fuck reading a book on frame control. The only education you need on frame control beyond short little Reddit posts like this one is life experience. Go out and try shit, talk to 1000 people, ask women out, escalate physically, have sex with the small percentage that are into you, get into relationships or have plates, and try to maintain your frame. That's the education you need.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 03:01 AM
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It's impossible to overstate how big this effect is. It happens when highschool sweethearts go to different universities. It happens when dating college students intern in different states. It happens when one partner goes overseas to Iraq or Afghanistan. It happens when either partner has frequent or long business trips. Being present is one of the biggest barriers to cheating. And if we're not present for long enough, we forget about our partners. Out of sight, out of mind. And if we're honest…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 10:54 PM
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Yes and no. I can see how you'd read that into what I wrote, but I never said you shouldn't admit you were wrong or change your views to accommodate the new perspective. Being wrong is being weak or unintelligent - not attractive. So it IS unfortunate/unlucky if your frame is shaken by logic. It means you were wrong/weak. If it was a friend or an acquaintance of course I'm gonna admit it and thank them. If it's a girl that I'm interested in, I won't thank her (seems too supplicating), but I'll s…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 10:35 PM
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This is a beautiful mindset. Everyone should be seeking to turn their real life into whatever it is that they are reading/watching/playing to escape to.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 10:15 PM
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A lot of people are reacting negatively to this post because it requires admitting that entertainment and escapism are not investing in yourself. Or because they are strawmanning the OP and making it look like he said to avoid these things cold turkey. He didn't. He's not saying you shouldn't pursue entertainment. He's pointing out that these common forms of escapism can trick your brain into thinking you're self-improving, a bad-ass, or are succeeding (when they aren't actually improving you). …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 09:22 PM
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The boring-ness thing definitely exists, but it's not because they find their SO less attractive over time. The male desire to stray is in SPITE of the fact that they find a woman they love more attractive than they'd find her if she was a stranger. The boring-ness thing is the exact same for men and women: Imagine a world where at age 25 everyone chose to pick either a yearly vacation at the world's best beach resort or the coolest nightclub spot in the country. Once you picked you got to go on…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/14 02:55 AM
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I'm not the guy you asked but: Yes, guys will find an 18 year old '6' hotter than a 30 year old '6' hotter than a 50 year old '6'. But would an 18 year old guy have sex with a 30 year old '6' if she offered? Hell yes. Does a 30 year old guy find his 30 year old '6' wife attractive? Oh yell yes. Does a 50 year old guy find his 50 year old wife attractive? If she kept in shape and didn't balloon, then yes things might be a little saggier than before, but he'll still find her attractive and you can…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/14 02:30 AM
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Personally I say do all the manipulating you can if it's to create good emotions. I manipulate a girl to make her feel good by both telling and showing her how beautiful, feminine, or sweet I perceive her to be. I think "manipulating" a guy to feel powerful, masculine, or good in whatever way is one of the best things - and undervalued things - you can do in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 02:14 AM
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Honestly this is so, so, so easy but I've met only a few girls who do this. Feign physical weakness, vulnerability, or helplessness, or if not fake - play up these things. What is the caricature of a masculine man? A strong, dominating man. Lots of women will embrace submissiveness to allow a man to feel dominant, but nobody ever plays up the weakness. Pretend you need help opening a jar (even if you don't), and then after he opens it up give him a hug and tell him you're so glad you have a big,…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 02:08 AM
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Personal relationships matter to me. I enjoy having relationships with both friends and family where we value, love, and at times self-sacrifice to help each other. I'm not sure what DOES matter to you. But to me, even if I were to be an emotionless robot seeking to maximize my resources, wealth, and power I would still value my relationships with others (including family) because having those relationships provides me with unique opportunities and support.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 07:54 PM
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I'm really sorry that the author has a shitty family, but I think the article goes a little too far. My family at the very least isn't a net loss on my life, and I don't think that most people would feel that way.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 07:40 AM
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If you had a son who was early 20s and he had to get a job in just one city there though, where'd you tell him to make his home base? I want to travel around Europe and explore but ultimately I will probably have to stick around one location the most for work.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 10:06 PM
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You've been to all those places? Do you post on RVF? I'm a recent university graduate who does software/web development and I'm in the unique position of both wanting and being able to move and work overseas. If I prefer pale white women, am only 5'6'', and don't care if I'm in a kind-of shithole, where should I go? I'm not looking to get married until my 30s, but I like LTRs. I'm willing to invest in social circle, making a lot of friends, and I don't need to have sex on the first date. Given t…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:59 PM
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A place with less entitled, fat women that's not a complete shithole. If I had a dollar for every couple I see here in the midwest USA where the guy is in good shape and the girl is fat, and lost a dollar for every couple where the guy was fat and the girl was out of shape, I'd be a multibillionaire. And women here have enormous entitlement and bitch shields. I like white women. I've read that there are less landwhales in Eastern Europe and the dating market is less skewed. But like you said, ot…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:55 PM
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I don't know what I'm going to do. Only that I want to leave America and find a better place. I'm kind of hoping there's a happy medium between America and Saudi Arabia. What do you think? As a European, where would you recommend a young guy with no attachments holding him back go? There may be no such thing as a green pasture, but which pasture is closest to green? People like Roosh act like Western European women are just as fat feminists as Americans, but the obesity rate isn't at America lev…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:50 PM
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What if you are a young guy with decent SMV, move there, lie and act poorer than you are, make friends and build a social circle. If the women are less entitled and more feminine then it seems like it might be a worthwhile investment for a young guy with location-independent income.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:41 PM
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Are you from the West originally? I'm planning on leaving America and traveling through Germany, Scandinavia, Poland, Ukraine, Russia to find a better culture for the next year+. It'd be really cool to be able to pick your brain.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:22 PM
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Do you speak from experience? If so I'd like to hear why.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:19 PM
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Yeah I forgot about that. Man rapes a dog? What a monster. Woman rapes a dog (dogs can't consent hurr durr)? Pussy pass to the rescue.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 01:49 AM
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You guys are masochists haha.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 06:02 AM
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I've been reading /trp/ for a while, but for some reason seeing the comments to that thread made me fully understand the depths to which society whiteknights. Is there a single thing a woman could do that /r/relationships/sex/relationship_advice commenters wouldn't justify? I'm waiting for the "just found out my children aren't actually mine" /r/sex post where the commenters tell the poster that he should view his discovery as a kinky side of his wife that he's been lucky enough to discover.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 05:25 AM
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The higher your self-confidence and self-worth, the harder it is for you to understand how being humiliated could be a turn-on. That's not to say that anyone who gets off on humiliation is completely lacking in confidence, but it does indicate that they have some hidden insecurities. If a girl you're with really, really gets off on humiliation it's a pretty clear indicator that she has some self-worth issues. Not that that's a bad thing in moderation, but if she's into extreme humiliation she pr…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 11:52 PM
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I think a lot of it has to do with taboo. Being a slut is a taboo for women. So breaking that taboo can be exciting for them. For a guy it's also somewhat of a taboo because as a dude you'd never want your significant other to be a slut because it makes her untrustworthy / she could get knocked up by another dude. But with ONS you can let go of that worry and relish that she's a slut because you don't need to worry about raising another guys' kids. Beyond being a taboo (even though it hardly is …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 11:32 PM
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It's ALWAYS easier to see a situation for what it when you're a third party whose emotions and ego aren't invested so I can't take credit for being all that perceptive. My advice mostly stems from my personal experiences and the feelings I've had after LTR breakups. So I'm really just projecting my insecurities and feelings onto you. But I think there are common patterns of behavior that a lot of men go through after an LTR breakup. Don't feel bad or feel like you are beta for being disappointed…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 11:25 PM
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It's possibly a factor but I don't think it's a driving force. The "bad boy"/"girls love assholes" meme is a misunderstanding of female attraction. Women are attracted to non-neediness, confidence, risk-taking, assertiveness, indifference and other value-displaying behavior. Assholes often display many of these behaviors, but the "women love bad boys" cultural trope misunderstands and thinks that you have to be an asshole. That being mean is what attracts women rather than non-neediness, confide…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 09:50 PM
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I think the healthiest thing a person can do in a situation like yours is to completely stop thinking about the past and analyzing it and dedicate yourself 100% to the present and future. It's hard to tell if you are still troubled by what happened or wish it would have worked out differently, but the fact that you made the post (and the length of both your relationship with her and the length of your post) suggests that at the very least you're disappointed that you weren't as redpill as you co…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 09:23 PM
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Girl was: Emotionally/psychologically unstable Selfish Money-obsessed No 7's worth that. No 8's worth that. No 9's worth that. Not even a 10's worth that. The 10's going to look like a 6 in fifteen or twenty years anyway. If she's annoying as fuck to be around then you'll just be hating yourself at that point. Pussy is never worth being in an LTR with someone that you'd never be friends with if they were a dude. It's worth fucking a girl who has the three aforementioned issues, but those are abs…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 08:44 PM
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Yeah I do fuck buddies and some of those fuck buddies turn into relationships so that would be fine. I do software, so I'm trying to get a remote gig where I can be location-independent, in which case I will be able to travel all over Europe and see what it's like. But if I can't get a remote job, I'm planning on find work at a startup in Stockholm, Berlin, Amsterdam, or one of the other startup hubs in Europe, in which case I'd moving there without knowing what it's going to be like. But based …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 02:38 AM
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I'm an American but I'm currently working in Colombia and my SMV here is off-the-charts here compared to what it was in the Midwest USA for a whole bunch of reasons. If I were to work in Stockholm, would being 167cm tall mean my SMV is extremely low by default to Swedish women? Are y'all a bunch of giants there compared to me? I don't want to move somewhere where I'm in the bottom third of men in terms of physical attractiveness. It can definitely be overcome with game, but I'm not sure how I'll…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 02:18 AM
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The American perspective is omnipresent in this sub, but I haven't heard as much about the state of femininity vs feminism in Europe. Would you mind describing how good/bad it is in various parts of Europe? Or at least how good/bad it is where you are? As an American with a desire to travel all over the world, it'd be cool to know what to expect in different parts of Europe.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:53 AM
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Mark Manson: bestselling author, digital nomad, and former dating coach. Writes about the psychology of modern life and culture, sex and dating, travel, and masculinity. Wrote Models - the book I point people towards who are having a hard time reconciling theredpill with "being yourself" and keeping a healthy attitude towards women (as opposed to the bitterness that some redpillers experience).
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:49 AM
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Mark Manson's Models.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:45 AM
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If you actually want advice, please give more detail. You may feel like you described all that we need to know, but to one of the other commenters and myself (and I'd guess 100+ people who've read this but didn't respond), you're being extremely vague. Let me summarize my understanding of what you wrote: 1. You're engaged and have a son. 2. Your girl is disagreeing with you / arguing with you about things and not using logic but rather pseudo-science. (you might actually give us a single example…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 11:17 PM
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http://markmanson.net/archive
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:15 PM
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"also typical in my country for boys to try kiss a girl right away" Sounds exactly like Brazil to me. That's not to say that there aren't other cultures that do the same.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 04:27 AM
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You sound like you're probably Brazilian? AMIRITE?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 04:18 AM
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Dude..I don't think you need to worry about rising inflection for questions. The whole reason it sounds stupid is because people who use it for statements sound like they are making everything into a question. But you don't ask questions with a rising inflection you're gonna have some sort of opposite problem. I'm not sure what it would sound like but I'm pretty sure it'd be retarded.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 06:29 AM
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First: I've made posts like this before and been in your shoes. I can empathize with how hard it can be to try to write up cogent statements of belief, defenses of your statements, clarifications of your statements, etc. at one's highest level when one is responding to twenty different threads of conversation at once as you are doing here. So kudos. Having read this thread and your replies, I offer the following: Most people in this subreddit don't live their lives trying to make the world a bet…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 07:18 AM
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While I agree with you that stay at home moms weren't viewed negatively by the EE women in the study, I agree with Vornash's condemnation of American culture and think the EE women would agree as well. American women are manly and American men are womanly. That's the view the Eastern European women had, not just my view. The study states that the EE women "strongly believe in equality for men and women in the legal sense. At the same time, they accept male-female differences in communication sty…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/13 01:21 AM
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This women isn't worth your time. Even if you you are just keeping her around for a steady supply of sex. If she was just a promiscuous girl you were keeping around for an easy supply of sex, that'd be one thing. But paying for her rent/food + she got gangbanged by three dudes (three is a threesome, four is a fucking gangbang dude. the chick you are spending this time with was fucking gangbanged.) = she's not worth it. This woman is not only not girlfriend material, but she is OPEN and TELLS YOU…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 11:19 PM
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These passages really resonated with me: "I simply I feel like part of my personality is trapped on some bed or I am strapped to the chair. I am sitting in the class and I feel that I cannot be myself. I cannot appear in a way that I really am, naturally, because the expectation that you shouldn't be too personal and you shouldn't be too feminine." (Hungary, age 22, 2 years in the US) "Eastern European women find it difficult to decipher gender-related norms in American culture. When asked about…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/13 11:05 PM
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It's ironic that you describe opinions you disagree with as 'baby-talk' because that's an incredibly immature way to argue. Wasn't aware of the 40 percent quota for board positions. I agree that that's a pretty stupid attempt at treating a symptom without changing the cause. But I obviously don't give as much of a shit about it as you do. So as I understand it you don't like egalitarianism because you view it as a slippery slope and you think feminists will never stop pushing for more ground. Gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/13 02:26 AM
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I do believe men and women deserve equal rights and opportunities. I think that it's pointless to try to enforce equality IE make everyone equal. But I think everyone deserves to have the same access to things like education, and to not be discriminated against. Regardless of the color of their skin, their sex at birth, or whatever else. I think when a person applies for a job or a position at a university they should be accepted or rejected based on their merits and achievements and things like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/13 12:27 AM
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I wasn't disagreeing with you by saying neat. I was saying neat to the not being banned thing. And yes, I agree that we all see things differently because of our own biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 10:48 PM
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Neat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 10:30 PM
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The first link you posted was interesting. The second seemed interesting but hard to draw conclusions from. I don't have enough knowledge of the history of the feminist movement to really understand the historical context of the letter. ...inane baby talk? I don't even understand what you're trying to imply by using that label. Great. You've really changed my views. Please elaborate on what you meant by Sweden is already ahead, but do so without linking me to a blog. Just give me a few sentences…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 09:51 PM
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The political cartoon you posted decrying feminism was created at a time before women had the right to vote in the US. It's hard for me to take the author's criticism of feminism seriously given that fact, as I view him as having outdated and immature views. I could argue that abolitionists seem rational now but they were extremists in the 1800s. Your point doesn't really make much sense to me. As humans we've generally always been moving in a direction that could be described as "progressive" a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 09:02 PM
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Fair enough and actually the point I'm most willing to admit a lack of confidence on is just many /trp/ers are extremist vs non-extremist. I read /trp/ but don't read Reddit logged in or upvote/downvote. So I'd like to believe that it's pretty useless to judge the readership's level of extreme-ness by upvote count. I think the extremists themselves are the ones who are motivated and give enough of a shit to upvote all the cutesy butthurt posts. But like I said I can't say that with any real leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 08:46 PM
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Looking at the post you linked me I can immediately see the assertion that marriage is a losing proposition for men and the assertion that boys are not well-served by the public education system. Beyond that I honestly had a hard time following the post, albeit that I didn't click on any of the links. In regards to the first issue, I agree completely. Marriage is a legal construct that provides tax benefits at the risk of becoming a wage slave to a woman if you or she decides to divorce. I will …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 08:05 PM
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Fuck I had a big post written up and i accidentally closed the tab. Short version: I agree with everything you just said. That's exactly why I'm not posting on a satire subreddit like /tbp/ but against feminism. Because I believe 99% of feminists just want equality and are sympathetic to men's plight in prison rape, workforce safety, child custody, etc. when asked about those issues. I believe agreeing with feminism and reading manosphere/PUA/redpill literature are not mutually exclusive, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 07:07 PM
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This is exactly why I read it and why most people read it. They are the only places you can share offensive ideas. This means that a Nazi could share his ideas there. But it also means someone could share an idea that most people wouldn't think of because it's outside mainstream thought, but actually is really thought-provoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 06:51 PM
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Are you familiar with 4chan? It's full of really, really, really offensive stuff written by both trolls and actual racists, homophobes, etc. It sounds like you'd probably call it toxic and hurtful to people of all races, genders, belief systems, etc. On the other hand I'd call you over-sensitive and susceptible to being easily trolled. Anyway, 4chan is also full of absolutely hilarious and insightful posts the next thread down. 4chan pretty much invented internet memes. So many funny memes came …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 06:42 PM
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FUCK. I wrote that while a little drunk last night and I meant "I don't believe in rape" as in I don't believe it's right or OK to rape. I don't believe it's excusable. Not I don't believe in rape as in it doesn't exist. Of all the fucked up ways to misconstrue something that was literally the worst I could possibly write on this subreddit. I am going to edit to to say "I don't believe rape is OK." but I will leave this comment so it's not like I never wrote it. I really, really hope no one uses…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 06:28 PM
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From wikipedia: "Social construction of gender difference is a view present in many philosophical theories about gender. According to this view gender roles are socially constructed, meaning that society and culture create the roles, and that these roles are what is generally considered ideal or appropriate behaviour for a person of that specific gender. Stronger versions argue that the differences in behaviour between men and women are entirely social conventions, whereas weaker versions believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 06:21 PM
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Fair enough. Guess we'll let's see what happens! Hopefully they'll prove you wrong and we'll be able to find some common ground. EDIT: Aaaaaand I already understand way more where you were coming from with your comments here. I have to admit your pretty much right about all of it, especially "instead of taking responsibility for everything other member of TRP may have said." Trying to do that was hubris.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 06:53 AM
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Like everything else, social validation is good in moderation and bad in excess or in absence and I really don't care about the opinions of anyone on Reddit. I'm going to forget I ever posted this in short time. I did so mainly out of curiosity to see if any other lurkers would come out of the woodwork. I agree with you that it's unhealthy to create a group based off of obsessing over how stupid the things are that people on an internet forum are writing. I could find 10,000 fucked up anti-clima…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/13 06:28 AM
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This must be someone who believes in 100% conformity and adherence to dogma and can't wrap their head around the idea that there are some good ideas in TRP but that there's just as many retards here as there are in the rest of the world.
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Why are you under the impression that you need to "swallow the redpill"? Why are you under the impression that you can't read this sub or the main one even if you think a lot of the posters are complete retards or bitter as fuck? The truth is that there's a huge portion of the sub that is 14 year old keyboard warriors who don't do shit in the real world, there's a lot of guys that were burnt by girls in the past so they are telling themselves all women are shit as a defence mechanism, there's a …
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Well the easiest thing you can do is eat her out and finger her for 5x longer than the average guy would so she gets off multiple times and has already had her mind blown before you even have PIV sex. Standard advice: tease her / keep making her think you're going to give her pleasure using kisses and light touches (while teasing you go everywhere except nipples/pussy, you should be kissing inside of thighs, around the breasts just not nipple, neck, etc. while your fingers are tracing lightly ov…
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This question is directly answered by Mark Manson's book Models. His model of attraction is based around both status and non-neediness. Before I get accused of being a shill, if you search hard enough there are PDFs floating around online.
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Forget monk mode. If you want to learn to meet girls, then go read some good resources on game on /r/seduction or /r/theredpill.
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My point is that there's no "should do". There's no fucking guide book that says "this is the step by step process through which you should live your life". It's like asking - "Hey guys, I finally made enough money to retire early after doing Get-Rich-Mode! What do I do now?"
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What do you want to do? Do that.
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I think there are lots and lots of girls from the age range of 16-25 that aren't alpha-widowed and haven't been super promiscuous, it's just that they can be hard to find, you're less likely to find them at a club but more likely to meet them through a friend of a friend of a friend. More difficult the older you get. More difficult if you're in an alpha cock-carousel hookup culture like NYC or LA. But they exist, it's just that you have to lock them down while they are still young or haven't bee…
/r/askTRP
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TRP is about realism and pragmatism. Telling it how it is and taking action to deal with the reality as it is, not taking action based on an ideal world. Do you live in a place where it's realistic for you to find a girl who meets all the requirements you have and only has 3-4 sex partners from LTRs? Are you going to find someone who hasn't fucked a few dudes in her life that she hasn't known for very long, AND is emotionally stable, hot, and not boring as fuck to be around? To me, 10 at age 28 …
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