I dated a girl for 3 years before she broke up with me at the start of summer. Broke up bc I had a lot going on and neglected giving her attention. She settled for some beta a month later and is now in a long distance relationship with him. Idk how serious.

I took the summer to get over the break up and improve myself. Lost a lot of weight, hit the gym everyday, studied red pill theory, and got busy with school. I'm over her now and wouldn't get back with her bc of how things ended.

Her and I applied and got into the same university at a big city while we were together. We both moved to attend the same university.

Her brother passed away so I went to the funeral in our town to pay my respects to her family, despite not seeing or talking to her for months. We talked at the service and I could still feel chemistry with her.

Offered her a ride back to the city so she tagged along while I ran errands. All the while I was light hearted and fun, cracking jokes, making her laugh, and free of outcome. Complete 180 from how beta I acted after the breakup.

Stopped by the store bc she wanted some wine. We stopped at my place to drop off some food I bought, then went to her place to drink the wine.

While in her room I could feel the intense sexual tension. I slowly escalated by touching, saying sexual things while push-pulling, and wrapping my arms around her. All the while I kept telling her I was leaving soon. She didn't reciprocate but didn't push away either.

At the end of the night, as I leave, I go for a kiss but she gives me the cheek. I didn't give a fuck about the outcome, I just wanted to seduce her so I didn't let the rejection phase me. She texted me as if nothing happened, joking around, right after.

My question is how do I go about making her a side plate with minimal effort? I would NOT go back with this girl considering she has a bf, yet she invites me, her ex, to drink wine at her place. If she would do that to someone else, she'd do it to me so it's a turn off for a rekindling of a relationship. I honestly just want her for sex, and if i could seduce her once, I'm confident I could make it a regular thing and keep her as a side plate. I'm not spending any time validating her bc she has a beta bf to do that. Also talking to other girls at the moment. Just asking bc I had intense sexual tension with her and want to escalate if I'm ever in the situation with her again.

TL;DR Reconnected with an ex over her brothers funeral. Had intense sexual tension while we hung out over a bottle of wine a few days later, despite her having a bf. Escalated and went for a kiss but was rejected. Didn't care about the outcome and I'm over her now. Want to know how to make her a side plate with min effort or if it's even worth seeing her again considering the intense sexual tension we shared. Don't want anything out of her aside from sex.