Here goes my story:

1 year and a half ago I was spinning plates and i "believed" i was an Alpha ready male. Then suddenly in the beginning of this year i met a girl who i liked.

This girl has just left a relationship of 6 years last year. In the other hand she is planning to move to Australia in 2 years.

I use my alpha qualities and my game knowledge to get her and generate a good situation were i was "in control of the relationship". We started dating and seeing each other more and more, then i started falling into beta behavior and oneitis in general. To summarize my mistakes were:

-Nagging when she was unavailable to me.

-Worrying to much about her and her emotions.(Example: while having sex asking: are you okay? are you enjoying?)

-Making our relationship my goal.

-Forgot about other woman, just in fear she would feel threatened.

-Losing contact with friends or hobbies.

In conclusion i became beta and needy.

By month 3 i made the mistake to ask her for an LTR to which she answered me that she wasn't in love but needed a lot of time to fall in love and that she would like to continue seeing each other ( She didnt want a relationship then because she just left one, and because eventually she will go to australia) These are all excuses since i know that if she would really be into me that wouldn't matter. I made her promise exclusivity, and shed agreed. (more mistakes,I know).

By the end of summer I felt completely depressed. The relationship sucks, i spend most of the time trying to plan dates with her and she made little to no efforts to keep me around , just enough to see her ego validated and feel good by having a guy like me chasing her. Because of that i discovered TRP ( i had read about game a lot, Mistery, Neil Strauss, etc... but have never discovered TRP). Obviously my knowledge of the game was usefull to me to pick up girls, but to mantain them and be happy with them you need something else (The Red Pill).

1 month and a half after taking the red pill i have Lost 7 Kg, I train 6 times a week and i spend way more time with my friends and hobbies (studying TRP and Game, and sport) And most important i have sent her to the no contact zone ( not completely i'm afraid since i still answer to her messages and calls, need to toughen up...). We haven't seen each other for 3 weeks now and the thing is that she send me texts and call me at least 3 times a week ( never initiated by me), but never to settle dates... which i reply but my behavior is completely different, I'm way more independent, i stick to IDGAF attitude and i often tease with her and she is obviously more responsive to that.

But the damage is done, i don't think there is a way to turn back the tide completely into a Red Pill relationship and i'm not entirely sure if it's even worthy, since i believe is my Oneitis, Dopamine and Oxytocin talking.

And i though i was free of falling again into this trap but... 1 year of forgetting about game, of not focusing on woman motivations and most importantly on LOSING sight of my own personal goals and motivations had bring me back to reality.

Question is: There is a way to salvage the situation?