Recently in an LTR and don't know how to deal with this situation, hoping you guys can help me out.

Here are the facts:

  • LTR is what you could consider a foodie

  • Girls night out on Friday at great restaurant

  • Because of schedules, Fridays are normally one of our evenings except when she has such events

  • LTR has been sick for about a month (nothing life threatening), she more than likely can use whatever she can get in terms of rest

Going off of this, I told her to come sleep at my place after the restaurant.

Turns out:

  • The restaurant turns into a club

  • Late reservation so that the girls (some single, some not) can stay afterwards for the clubbing aspect

I'm uncomfortable with her going out. Seems to me like she could just ditch her friends after the supper and come to my place. I should be her main source of male validation (honestly sole, but realistically that isn't happening in 2016). It's not jealousy, but to me a group of only girls in a club, even if they have BFs are there to hook up. And that's how all the other guys there are gonna think. So I'm unsure how to handle this situation.

BP me thinks: "bro, just talk to her, communication is important" don't think this is a good solution.

LTR me (80% Alpha/20% Beta) thinks: "dread the fuck out of her, don't respond to text messages from Friday till Sunday" I'm busy on Saturday anyways and she knows this. This is the solution that I'm leaning towards, but it seems passive aggressive and I'm not sure she'll make the connection.

RP me thinks: "bro, fuck the LTR and next her" don't think this is the right solution either.

Any recommendations on how to handle this?