Original post here: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6qk3us/random_message_on_facebook_after_no_contact/

but basically it was

An old girl I used to fool around with messaged me out the blue. I went no contact when she stopped the sex cause shed rather we just be friends. But i got the below on facebook:

-I would love to see you you know :)

-I tried so much last time to meet you and you didnt want to know. (She messaged 'Hi', 'how are you' a few months ago but i just didnt respond)

-You were my best friend it would be so nice to catch up in person

-I feel silly for trying. but whats the harm in trying again. Youve seen me do worse things lol. (not sure what she means by this)

(a few days of silence)

-anyway

-I just hope you're ok and happy

How can i play this. I would like another go if the rides open for business but don't want to meet for a friendly chat.

So I've stayed no contact and now I've got a message saying.

I'm trying to talk to you and be kind to you. I miss you and hope you all the best. Perhaps I will see you in the future at some point.

Imma respond this time but with what?