I've been lurking on /r/theredpill for a few weeks, and it's definitely some eye opening stuff. I've been lucky to never be a true beta bux situation, but I've definitely had a good dose of BP. First a story:

My ex-GF and I had been in a long distance LTR for 2.5 years. I was horny and cheated on her. I'm not that much of a dick to hide it from her (as a friend suggested...), so I was honest with her and we broke up. Since then I've swallowed TRP and have began to wonder about things (being hungover helps too).

When I first met her things were great. She was attractive, educated and probably most importantly not a whore. She is from Eastern Europe and has good family values. She is happy to accept the wife's responsibility of staying at home, raising the family, looking after the house. I was the third guy she'd been with, the other two were random hookups because she thought sex was the thing you had to do when you are young.

She actually didn't have that good of an upbringing, so from what I've read on here I am quite surprised she is like this (and also wondering...). Her parents had her far too young, and they split up a few years later. She lived with her mom, but her dad was still around although their relationship wasn't great. He now has a second wife and kids from her.

Things went down hill over the last year or so. I got relaxed, and moved from RP mode I was in initially (although I didn't know it at the time) to BP. She was always stubborn and jealous of me having girls as friends, but she became demanding and insecure. She said that I shouldn't go to bars because there are women there. She started refusing sex. Even though we only saw each other maybe once a month, twice over a weekend was too much. By this point I'd had enough, I brought up breaking up which led into us having a fight and then we stopped talking. A few days later an opportunity came up and I took it.

Since then I've swallowed the red pill and this has given me a different outlook on the situation. The problems weren't so much her being demanding and insecure, but that I shouldn't have let her been so dominating over our relationship. If she wants to act like a whiney bitch then fine, but I should have been alpha and not let her get her way.

So my question /r/asktrp is can the red pill be used to fix a situation like this? I'm guessing the answer is yes, but I'm wondering more for specific advice / stories. Have you used the red pill to fix your relationship? I'm also wondering whether the same can be done to women in general. Can you meet a whore and turn her into a respectable wife who won't cheat on you, run away with the kids and take all your money?