New to RP and having issues in 25+ year marriage. I now see that these issues are exactly to be expected when you put your wife first, and act like a mortar beta.

Losing weight and going to the gym M-F, looking much better in just 8 weeks, but have a long way to go. I am determined.

Besides "banging 10 girls", what other options do I have to reduce/eliminate oneitis? I am only now just at the starting phase of developing a social life outside of marriage, and I think that I am on the right path, but still way to obsessed with the woman that I have literally spent my entire adult life with, and still live with.