Virgin here should I lower my standards?

fruitofmyloom · 2014-02-05T19:58:22+00:00

Who gives a shit? It's not like you're going to marry her, so yes, lower your standards. My basic principle is to fuck every girl I can unless she's actually ugly.

evilraider13 · 2014-02-05T20:40:19+00:00

I was in the exact same situation. A lot of 5s and 6s show Interest but I found them annoying. I was a virgin till 20 and I dated 2 8s and I pussied out and did not have sex with them. After that, I lowered my standards had sex with a 6 and now it's really easy getting sex from higher quality women. Just trust me get it over with.

machimus · 2014-02-06T01:22:59+00:00

You should fuck some average women because you want to, not because it will "increase your value". If so many women are interested in you why the hesitation? Do 7-8/10's disgust you so much? That strikes me as a little weird, dude.

phasetwenty · 2014-02-06T05:28:34+00:00

If you're a virgin (at any age) and holding out for 9s and 10s you're in for a world of pain. Yes, include some 8s and (gasp!) 7s in there. Figure out what really drives you.

elderstorm · 2014-02-05T20:09:40+00:00

Just don't go whaling or get used to hitting on the ugly ones. You'll be anxious as fuck when you meet attractive women. I like to surround myself with as much pretty women as possible so it becomes like walking in nature surrounded by trees.

The_Turbinator · 2014-02-06T05:37:40+00:00

I always thought 1-3 was ugly. 4-6 was normal, or average weight decent face. 7-8 was model pretty. 9-10 was flawless.

The_Turbinator · 2014-02-06T09:12:23+00:00

Pussy has no face.

You have to learn how to walk before you can run, this means that you are going to have to come down to 5s in order to get rid of your v-card. If you are trying to get rid of your v-card with a 10 or a 9 you are setting yourself up for a huge disaster once you bed one. She might do damage to your image as a man that might take years to fix.

NahDudeFkThat · 2014-02-06T07:01:33+00:00

Sad as fuck fools out here tryna smash with sluts. All those who chase sluts are the reasons these hoes swear they can hang with the 9's and 10's.

Don't fuckin give no slut your time of day. Keep your standards high. If you are as attractive as you claim, simply get with a pretty, quality bitch and clap those cheeks. You said you already had a gorgeous LTR girl down to fuck and you screwed up - hit her up and work the charm.

Or meet quality bitches and clap them.

Zero need to compromise, no matter how hot these sluts are.

Lets_get_Medical · 2014-02-06T07:33:11+00:00

Brah If you want my answer , Fuck whoever you want. You are looking at having sex with women like it's a gameplan. If you would've fucked whoever and whenever, you may not be asking this question right now. You weren't blue pill for pussying out you were afraid and not willing to make the step. Face the fact you don't want to fuck up, once you accept it, life becomes easier, and make sure you eat pussy.

Don't tell me you don't do it, you are afraid to fail, due to lack of satisfaction for her and embarassment. I don't care what anyone says, but it's embarassing not being able to provide because it's in your nature, and there aint nothing wrong with that. If you were red pilled you wouldn't have any concern of this. It's your choice to be a red pill....but you have to be legit, and believe it and think it. Unless your some gifted actor you can't get someone to believe something you don't.

I may get downvoted, but I honestly want to give you an outside looking in perspective, and I'm not trying to accuse you of anything, but your doubt and IMO the fact you're rating girls means you still putting them on some type of pedestal. Just think about it if you talked to whomever you like and understand you like some chicks more than others and that's where it sits. You can blur the line between a 5 and a 10, thus making it possible to treat all the woman you meet the same. I'm pretty sure those 5's are annoying because your game is right, but the 10's don't feel the same. It's all in your head bra.

JimmyTheIntern · 2014-02-06T09:10:01+00:00

Your standards are yours, and there's no point trying to force attraction to women who repulse you. In my experience, fucking women I'm not really attracted to is a thoroughly mediocre time, but I know plenty of guys who don't mind. I personally refuse to compromise my standards, and it often leads to dry spells, but I would rather have a dry dick than take that risk with a girl who barely passes the boner test.

Go for the hotties, man.

heist_of_saint_graft · 2014-02-06T18:31:41+00:00

Q: "I really want to be a boxer but I've never sparred with anyone. Should I just train by myself in the gym and wait until that special day when I can fight a professional heavyweight? Or should I spend some time in the gym sparring with guys at my own level, learning how to take a punch, bob and weave, and hit back?"

A: _________________________

[deleted] · 2014-02-06T22:33:54+00:00

If you want to have sex alone then you should lower your standards.

SwallowPill · 2014-02-07T21:15:04+00:00

Dude, pussy is pussy. If you can pull down (and get hard for) a 5, 6, or 7 DO IT. Not only will it increase your value but you wont have to worry about being lonely or horny now will you?

rockmasterflex · 2014-02-08T03:34:16+00:00

We both know there is no way your dick is saying no to anything above a 4. Put a bag on their head and take em. Or ask them to shut up for 4 seconds so you can do the deed. As long as they aren't so terrible that they literally deflate your tool, you should just (WHILE TAKING PRECAUTIONS) fuck them. And don't get attached. You're college age FFS. Abuse their carouselling for your own good.

SovietRaptor · 2014-02-06T01:52:32+00:00

Women aren't experience points, and your SMV level doesn't increase by fucking them.

Figure out what you are worth genuinely. Work on improving yourself from there. It won't happen instantly, it may take months, but honestly just getting laid for it's own sake isn't the purpose of Red Pill. It's about improving yourself so you can raise your standards, not lower them.

Title	Virgin here should I lower my standards?
Author	MaziHehe
Upvotes	3
Comments	25
Date	February 5, 2014 7:49 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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