Fellas,

Been reading TRP for a year. When I found it, I cut ties with my LTR. Obvious she wasn't a fucking unicorn, but she was hot, financially stable, abundant submissive sex, cooked, cleaned, yadda yadda yadda. Went into the anger phase, lost 30 lbs, gym at 6 am, books on books on books, meditation, gaming women. Fucked a couple broads, but was overall monk mode. I became a huge dick and hated the nature of women. I grew outta that shit and accepted reality. In TRM, Rollo talks about vulnerability in a negative light. But recently, i started challenging the thought with some success. How the fuck are you going to escalate with out vulnerability? How the fuck are you going to not give a fuck if your not showing your true color? What I mean is fullly accepting yourself as a human being, emotions and all. If I find a girl I really like, straight up telling her that you like her. Being outcome independent is a pillar of a red pill man. It just seems counter intuitive to me. Thoughts?