Been messing with this one girl on and off for a while. We'll get together, have awesome sex, she'll tell me how she needs more of me in her life and to call her for booty calls and all sorts of shit. I assume a lot of this is just her trying to get me to chase. Basically I only text her when she reaches out, I make a date, and generally it's pretty good. But every once in a while she'll reach out late at night, I'll invite her over and she'll reject me.

Usually at this point I go no contact for a while, she'll reach out and I'll start over. This has happened twice or so before, where she makes up some bullshit why she can't come see me with no suggestion of another date or time, I always ghost and wait for her to come back.

Recently tho this scenario happened, and she gave me "im adulting, Im building my resume..." etc, after 930 / 10pm. Then a huge brick of emotional nonsense. I tried a few short text flirts to see if she was just playing hard to get, but nope she didn't come over. 3 days later I get a text on a Saturday night pretty late (930+) "are we something this weekend". I really didn't like this message, so I decided I wouldn't respond and focus on life. Fast forward nearly a month and she sends me a provocative message "guess im keeping this" and a photo of some stuff she's taken from my home. This is probably some push / pull woman shit, but my spidey senses are going off that this is just going to be a huge problem long term if I don't just axe her.

Am I too autistic?