I'm a kid, 17. Took a girl "out" yesterday for the 2nd time. She shares a lot of morals and beliefs with me, which are conservative and sort of religious. The only difference is I'm relatively experienced for my age and she has no experience and doesn't want any.
I've made very good kino and made sure to keep up physical contact very well and truthfully I've never been this bold, I was playful and teasing but didn't do anything particularly sexual.
So, she seems receptive and not like 'stop touching me you fucking creep!!!' yet I bring up talking to girls and asking for their numbers etc. and she tells me that's weird and if someone did that to her she'd run away yet here she is out with me (I've known her for a year) and she also mentions that she'd have to know someone for a really long time before she knows she likes them and that she's never liked anybody yet once again she's here with me.
The weird thing is I haven't done any beta bux shit, I haven't bought her anything, I haven't gone out close to her for her convenience or anything. In fact, she travelled ~45 minutes to my neighbourhood so I'm absolutely baffled as to why she'd tell me this other than to throw me off. The one thing that almost worked though was when she mentioned that if I told her I liked her or if I were to try making a move she'd just stop talking to me which blatantly smells like bs because here I am.
My first instinct was "this shit is a shit test" because it blatantly seems like one, just figured I should see what you guys think or what the perfect response would be. After yesterday I haven't said shit to her and plan on letting her come to me, at least that'll give me some indication as to if I'm right or not.
She seems like LTR potential, but if I have to move on I don't think I'd lose anything. Just curious because this behaviour is something I haven't seen before given I'm just a kid so I want to understand it more.
Cheers.
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