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We avoid high n-counts because it's a red flag for an undesirable personality

sumethreuaweiei · 2017-05-30T01:26:27+00:00

But what if the girl you were into had both a high n-count and a great personality?...

sumethreuaweiei

May 30, 2017

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Title	We avoid high n-counts because it's a red flag for an undesirable personality
Author	sumethreuaweiei
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	May 30, 2017 1:26 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6e4a9h/we_avoid_high_ncounts_because_its_a_red_flag_for/
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[–]failingtheturingtest0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It fulfills hypergamy

No, she wants the best quality man she can get. If you can't keep her interested, then you are not the best man she can get.

marriage for your image

You think that you're the only person that can tell she's sleeping with other blokes?

your sex drive

Assuming she isn't off fucking some other bloke when you want her. Or she's too tired from fucking some other bloke.

I assume you're just playing the devil's advocate here, because I doubt you're stupid enough to believe that the best relationship is to allow her to fuck anyone she wants and just regularly get her tested for STDs, get paternity tests to ensure your children are yours, and expect that everything is kept on the downlow and the fact that she's out fucking someone else twice a week doesn't get in the way of your sex life, her raising your children, or 'your image'.

No woman in the world can respect a man that lets her get fucked by another man. Although she might tell you she respects you, because it helps her use you.

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I'd imagine it's hard to dread in that scenario. What does she need to replace? A wallet. You aren't satisfying her, she's getting that elsewhere. You aren't making her 'feel' loved. The stuff she's looking for is already replaced by other dicks and your children. All she needs is a replacement provider.

Does it matter though if the kids follow the same type of marriage as you?

It would matter to me. You might have entered this relationship knowing the risks and fully prepared to take those risks, minimizing the ones you can, and controlling the important aspects (like paternity tests, etc). But it's hard to convey that while bringing up children. so your son could just as well think it's normal for a woman to sleep around, and end up raising the neighbourhood's children thinking that's the done thing.

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