Tl;dr; Tinder date cancelled once, asked me again on the same day, vibed well, got her back to my place which is 20 mins away and she said she dont want to do this in the middle of foreplay ( half naked ) and left and unmatched.

So I matched with this girl today on tinder. She was 32 (normal looking profile, no body shots, just face). I had a small chat and she actually asked to have drinks. We setup the time 9 pm near my place. 2 hrs before she said she is not feeling well so have to cancel. I just replied, 'ok. Feel better'. And went on to watch world cup with friends.

Right around the time the match finished. I got a message its weird but am i up for a beer. I replied and we setup the place which was 20 mins from my place ( i was there already so it was convenient ). So we met she was decent looking and we vibed well, we were laughing, joking, having a good time. I started escalating and we were making out in the pub. I tried to move her to my place but she said she has to go back home. I didnt take it seriously and still started proposing the same. Anyway we left and were on the way home. She got a call 3 times from her dad. She got pissed off but handled the situation.

So we were back at my place, she played the music, we started making out, i lifted her carried her to the bedroom. She was showing asd. while taking off the clothes but i kept going at it after short brakes. So all was off except the pants so i started towards it and she was like 'they are not gonna come off for a little bit more time'. I stopped but at this time i just pinned her hand behind the back and said 'so we are gonna take slow eh' in a teasing way. A few moments after she asked where is the bathroom and when she came back after a few minutes she was like, ' i think i should go home now, i mean you are really nice but i just got out of a relationship and i am not ready for this, i am sorry if i made you think otherwise'.

I was pissed at this point because i felt she was playing games and said 'ok'. Just that. she started dressing up and i wore clothes as well and started minding my own business, she stood at the gate for a second or so. Maybe she was expecting we will kiss again. But i just looked at her and then she left as if she is pissed. She unmatched a few minutes later.

This has never happened to me before so i am just a little confused. Actually it did happen once but the girl was a virgin and she came back the next day. The question i am wondering is did i do something wrong in bed or at any point . Because it seems the scene changed very quickly. The only things i can think of is that 1) she said she doesnt like being submissive and i pinned her hand. 2) Also she mentioned her ex twice and said a weird line 'do guys just sometimes stop messaging and then all of a sudden say hi'. I didnt understand the context so she explained that she dated this guy who stopped messaging. Then she was like i dont know why i am saying this. This was just before entering my place. But apart from that i am lost.

It did shake my confidence a little bit just because it just flipped so close to actual sex and after so much effort on both our parts. And especially the fact that she unmatched, normally before this girls reconsider and come back or write something.

Did it happen to anyone? Any explanations ?