What am I doing wrong to not secure dates?

intl_plyrs_clb · 2019-08-20T21:54:26+00:00

What you're doing wrong is saying stuff like "We should" and "What's your schedule like".

Instead make solid plans with a location, date and time.

Try instead something like "Let's continue this conversation at BAR in LOCATION at TIME".

SmoothAssumption5 · 2019-08-20T22:19:49+00:00

You cut off the conversation too early.

MentORPHEUS · 2019-08-21T02:36:52+00:00

I said what city I was in then got no reply

Probably just geographically desirable in this specific case.

This happens a lot..am I asking too soon?

Not necessarily. I recommend tell, don't ask; show some leadership qualities without coming off demanding.

If you keep striking out, can you get IOIs and follow through from women 1 point lower than your target SMV?

Title	What am I doing wrong to not secure dates?
Author	SmoothAssumption5
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	August 20, 2019 9:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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