So I have a friend, let’s call him Rick. Rick was sort of bragging about how he “handles” his “relationships” with women. Rick showed texts and everything from a model, him being extremely crude and direct with the model initially saying no and then boom they’ve slept together. Rick tells me that the icing on the cake is that she feels like he gave her money. Rick sells...product. Rick shows cashapp and turns out, model is in the deficit of around $600 to rick. He literally threw her $60 and she thought the world of it which is what opened the door for him to sleep with her. He asks to see what have I spent on my girl seeing as she disrespects me often. $3.6k over less then 2 years. That’s not dates. That’s not gas. Strictly cash app. I nearly beg for sex. Go 2-3 months at a time. Now, while she is mean af, she doesn’t really take advantage or even ask for anything, it’s just what I do because I feel a woman should be taken care of. I’m simply looking to some insight and perspective. Is there a balance? What’s the “sweet spot” of being pampered? Should I pull back? Am I doing something wrong?

TLDR: am I spending too much money on my gf/women in general?

Also: at any given time Rick may have more cash on hand but we make about the same.

EDIT: oh god reading this again it sounds like prostitution or something but no, I’m a serial monogamist in a committed relationship and have traditional and perhaps incorrect values as far as taking care of women. Rick is my friend who has a gf and uh....dabbles on the side. But this woman is in love when he’s done far less. I get personality and such but...yeah just everything else is the same

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