Whenever I head out to a club and somehow make it to pulling a girl on the dancefloor. The same issue crops up - she will, after a while, start to want to find herself back to her friends.

And this makes it really hard to close her for the lay back at my place. Last night the same thing happened and the furthest I got her was outside of the club and then she'd stop and insist she needs to see her friends first (which inevitably would not lead to anything).

Even if a) It was her who initiated the interaction. and b) I had found reasons such as after-club food to isolate her.

How should I improve my approach? I'm suffering from ONEitis from an ex and just unplugged, and feel like I need to start spinning some plates to be able to gain experience etc.

Thanks people.