I have a LTR who is away for several months so I fired up Tinder and matched with a HB8 who I took out for coffee first.

Told her I had an LTR but that she’s away and that I can’t stay celibate for that long. All good so far.

Two days later she comes to my house, I kiss her but then she says ‘I can’t do this because you have a LTR’. Fine, hamster all you want. End up in the pool, take off her bikini top, kissing, half a handjob, fingering her but no PIV.

She leaves later on, I text her that it was fun and get a reply ‘Yes but we can’t do it again even though its tempting, you have a LTR’.

I tell her we can just meet up to chill. Reply ‘will you behave?’. I tell her that the last time I behaved was in primary school.

Next day I tell her to pass by, she makes up a shitty excuse.

Do I leave it at that or do I go for a final push?

My SMV is as high as it can be, rich as fuck, big house with a pool and a view, 6’6”, muscular and some professional success.