I am trying to get over an oneitis. I haven't contacted her in more than three weeks. Background: We dated for about two months. There was a lot of chemistry and it was lots of fun in the beginning. But then she got busy with her new job and I got needy and sent a few too many cringy texts. She pulled away.
Since she became distant, we have tried to meet up on three different occasions. But on all three occasions, she jus straight up ghosted on the day that we were supposed to meet up. Like not even an excuse text from her. The weird part was that the last two times were also her ideas. The last time, she even reminded me a couple days before the date. Nevertheless, when the day comes for the meet up, she just has this tendency to drop off the face of the earth. And there would be no communication from her until I reach out to her again, like a day or a week later, or in the last incident(the third time) I still haven't heard anyhing from her.
I realized that for the sake of self-respect and my own sanity, I needed to next her. Hence zero contact from me for the last three weeks or so. But recently she's been liking all of my instagram/facebook pictures. Yesterday, I posted a picture of myself on facebook. She was the only one to "love" it.
Is she trying to get me to talk to her again? What's my move? Keep ignoring her? or re-engage her?
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