What do "plate dates" look like?

CopperFox3c · 2016-10-24T15:24:32+00:00

I'm pretty much always seeing multiple women at once. Sometimes I take them out, sometimes I just have them come straight to my place or vice versa. It depends on what I want to do, and how much I like them.

You may want to read the following: Guide to Plate Maintenence ... remember all girls start at the bottom, and have to work their way up. Don't start treating a girl like a girlfriend or even someone you're dating till she's earned it.

You also might wanna check out Blackdragon's blog about managing non-monogamous relationships. Good stuff.

JamesSkepp · 2016-10-24T16:21:59+00:00

Setup logistics, then go silent. Jusat before the date text for confirmation.
Grab a drink 1on1 (she's not a plate if it's social). This is optional, maybe 4/10 times that this happens (mostly b/c I want a drink and she need s some ASD preempted, lasts maybe 1h total maximum, longer and you risk triggering "spending time together"). No serious subjects, foculs on vibing with sexual subcontext, escalate.
Move to your place. Escalate to sex.
If she leaves by her own volition, you're on the right track (you're only for sex). If she wants to stay (whatever the reason she may give you, however plausible and logical, it's a powerplay) keep your boundaries ("i gotta get up early" or similar, if she persists "it's a bit too early for that for me")

Should I keep it strictly sexual

As much as you can. You are what you do. Therefore if you behave like a bf, you are a bf. If you behave like a fuckboy, you are a fuckboy, at least in her mind.

poochman · 2016-10-24T19:59:01+00:00

Whatever you feel like doing. Don't ever feel obligated to do anything with a girl you don't want to. If you just want to smash then invite her over and do that. If you want to go out somewhere to eat then do that as well. And don't ever ask her what she want to do. Remember she wants to be led. Once a girl is attracted to you sexually, she will just enjoy being with you. As far as paying for stuff for girls, that's a personal preference and depends on your financial situation.

Personally, I enjoy a nice a meal out from time to time (and can afford it) so I don't mind rewarding my plates with dinner if, and only if, they are keeping my balls completely empty regularly.

wont_tell_i_refuse · 2016-10-24T22:50:52+00:00

The basic structure of a plate date:

Come over
Fuck
Leave

Anything else is an add-on (maybe I add "get drinks" to that template, or decide to sleep over) but those are the requirements.

If you already smashed she's probably down for the basic template a couple more times, after which I personally vary it up with drinks or a movie.

desno · 2016-10-24T19:19:27+00:00

coffee>drink>her place for me on a first date. (Living with parents, ugh)

After that I meet them at their place, hang out chat, drink some wine, fuck, maybe drink more and fuck more, even just go for a walk and go back to hers and fuck even more.

meh613 · 2016-10-24T20:33:29+00:00

Plate dates? There is no hard formula. Some plates, one takes wine tasting. Others one takes to restaurants. Still others, one invites over and carries out their rape fantasies with. Just as all men aren't created alike, all plates aren't -- irrespective of what TRP says, AWALT applies only with certain traits, not that women have a code that, once deciphered, can be washed, rinsed, and repeated till the end of time with the same results.

Nikelu · 2016-10-24T21:24:58+00:00

Morals aside, cause its TRP we talking. Plate dates for me don't really exist. I keep it 100% sexual , she comes to my house I give her good sex and I demand good sex and rarely some services (make me food, help clean my place, clean my clothes) as well if she is cool with that. Most girls will agree to that because they want commitment from you if the sex is great. It is better to have sex at her place, because if you bring girls in your house like I do you have to be very clean and no long hairs must be found . You can play it off by saying that's from a girl I fuck or my mom visited my place the other day but it's better for you as well if you can avoid all that. Just tell her I like having sex more in your house, feels better and all that bs.

If you think a girl is worth more than your sex and if you really like her and enjoy spending time with her because well you are a human sometimes and whilst fucking is good, some "good" girls will want more than that. I know AWALT and all that shit, but if you like her you can upgrade to friends with benefits. You have sex and all that stuff but you may watch a movie together or grab a coffee. There is a tier list goes smth like this plate>fwb>ltr so keep that in mind.

corsega · 2016-10-25T01:50:20+00:00

I don't take my plates out in public. Come over > talk a bit > fuck > talk more > leave.

The one exception to this is when I brought a girl to a party because I wanted eye candy. Interestingly enough, after this night I never saw her again. Not sure if correlated.

seedang · 2016-10-25T03:03:47+00:00

For me, really depends on the girl and what I want to do at the time. I like going out and doing stuff, so I'll use it as an excuse to go to some restaurant i want to try, or just to have a girl along if I need to go pick something up at the mall or whatever. Remember, girls seeing you already with an attractive girl increases your value, so you shouldn't be scared to take her out in public, unless maybe you're in an LTR.

1Maverick1 · 2016-10-25T00:04:36+00:00

You should ask your mom bro : ^ )

Redbeam100 · 2016-10-24T18:08:36+00:00

It's okay to drink coffee and have a talk about whatever. It shows you're more than a erect Penis. Show some depth of character.

the-bum-hammer · 2016-10-24T19:49:09+00:00

What do "plate dates" look like?

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Title	What do "plate dates" look like?
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Date	October 24, 2016 3:07 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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