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[–]blackhornatnight 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Literally no context and no information about yourself. How exactly do we give you an in depth explanation of your situation?
The only thing I will say is never ask a girl you like, "Do I look hot?" That is something a girl says to her friends when they have sleep overs and are taking selfies together for Chad.
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[–]blackhornatnight 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
No wonder she friend zoned you. You act like one of her girlfriends. Setting your hairstyle in the reflection of her glasses and then telling her how good looking you are? Wtf man.
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[–]blackhornatnight 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Best option is just to put yourself out there. Ask her out on a date. Escalate with her. Put your arm around her, hold her hand, kiss her. If she is constantly pulling away from you, you know she really is telling you the truth, and she isn't interested in you like that. Which is fine. Just scratch her off your list and go after another woman. When you find another woman, if you want, initiate contact with this chick again and say, 'how r u', and then drop into the conversation you've been seeing someone. It may make her see you as more than one of her girlfriends, and more like a potential mate. She may be like, 'omg where have you been hamza. ive missed you'. dont engage with her. say something like. 'good. out with new girl at a bar right now. ttyl.'
[–]adam_varg0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude, this is as gay bff shit as it gets..
[–]huge_gap2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's over dude.
You can't go back. You said yourself you've been Friend-zoned with this chick for a while.
Your lines are cringeworthy. Do I look hot? Fuck's sake man. I'd guess you were in a high school cafeteria when you asked that.
Women ask for validation with questions like "do you think I'm pretty?" In my experience only ugly girls ask questions like that. Hot girls already know because dudes validate and pedestalize them 24/7. Hell, in 2016 mediocre girls get a ton of compliments on online media after they photoshop away the fat, squish their boobs together, do a duck face and put on a couple of filters. Hot girls in my experience hate to be called beautiful by you, because they are begging you to distinguish yourself from the thirsty Beta horde. I occasionally talk down to my girl regarding her looks and she eats it up and agrees.
Here you asked what an ugly woman seeking validation would. You made yourself an ugly insecure woman in her eyes.
Anyway, stop pedastalizing this girl. You've been worshipping at the altar for a while. Grow a pair and strike out on your own. At least that way you might have a chance of fucking her if she sees you successfully bag other women.
Finally, stop acting defensive and butt hurt in your comment replies. This is the men's club, not a safe space.
[–]abdada3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
PS: I'd like an in depth explanation. Thank you.
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[–]DeputyDelicious 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take a good look other newbies. This right here is the male hamster.
Guy asks for stone cold answer. Gets stone cold answer. Tries to rationalize why the answer is wrong in the face of clear evidence that it is right.
How do I know there is clear evidence?
5.I used to be. I know it, because she's said she's had fantasies of having sex with me, but she said she immediately got rid of them.
Ever dangle food infront of a dog? It's running all over the place thinking it's incharge of when it can catch that treat, when really it's the owner that chooses if he can have it or not.
Further evidence
• I ask if I look hot
• She gets weirded out and says she never saw me that way, and then goes on to say that she sees me as a person close to her heart.
COMPLETE shut down. Over a very ambiguous fun question that is barely sexual.
[–]TheDonald2k162 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are hamstering away here. You have oneitis and it's as clear as day that she has friendzoned you and you are not on her sexual radar. She doesn't perceive your SMV to be high enough for her so she has put you into the friend zone box.
The problem with women is that once a beta, always a beta, in their minds. You can't just swallow the pill, become ultra alpha and then go to the same woman who viewed you as a beta in the past and win her over. Always hard next any women that have ever friendzoned you, that you orbitted, or put you in their beta box.
[–]KingRead0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I really hope your reddit account isn't your real name!!
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