Went to a plates house to chill. I told her I was coming on the premise to talk, when I get there I go into cocky/funny mode and convo flows. However when I escalate by kissing she always stopped it going further, never really giving a clear reason why. After 4 attempts I leave. Later on I get a text from her saying the reason nothing happened is because she's not 'feeling' it anymore and asked to be friends instead. So guys what went wrong?