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What I am gonna do ?

trealmephisto · 2020-06-24T21:01:13+00:00

I am 21 M .My best friend (F21) making out with 17 yo high school boys . This situtation makes me womit .How can I rescue from this situtaion as her...

trealmephisto

June 24, 2020

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Title	What I am gonna do ?
Author	trealmephisto
Upvotes	0
Comments	31
Date	June 24, 2020 9:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/hf9ed8/what_i_am_gonna_do/
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Okay you know what, I will actually try and work you through this. Ask yourself how would you actually go about convincing her what she is doing is wrong? How do you think that conversation is going to go? Do you think it is fair she is doing something that makes you want to vomit? Have you even had this discussion with her?

My point is simple. She is not going to stop what she is doing. If she thought it was as disgusting as you do, she would have stopped. If you attempt to confront her in any way about this, she will act as if you are the strange one, and then give you shit for "telling her what to do, what are you my parents."

You honestly have two options:

A. You tell her how you feel, she gives you shit, and you guys fight and probably end the friendship. Even if you guys make up and stay friends, she will probably STILL keeping making out with young guys.

B. You move on from her or even distance yourself from her. If her actions are so deplorable that you develop such a high level of disgust over it, you need to rethink this friendship as she most likely will not stop. This means you need to ask yourself how important your friendship is to her.

There you go. I know you probably won't like this answer, but I am not here to coddle you. I am hear to give you the cold hard truth. You come here for your questions, we are not here to echo chamber a feel good answer that is not borne in reality. I have been in these kinds of situations before. Always look out for yourself, treat yourself as number one, but also understand the world doesn't revolve around you. She may not consider your friendship to be important enough to stop making out with whoever she wants, that's just life.

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