What if any is the difference between a good person and a good man.

I thought about what I wanted in life and I thought: I want to be a good person. Aristotle in summary describes that as someone who is selfless and empathetic and who lives a life doing the right thing and contributing to the good of the world. But sometimes this clashes with being a strong, successful and this a good man. So which is right? And if being a good person isn’t the right thing how do i come to terms with this.