So far in my life, I have only met girls from close social circles. I am good at gaming them if I'm interested, but I have yet to meet one who is above HB7. I've been lifting and improving myself for the past few years to the point where my SMV is now very high (to the extent that is possible for a college student who has no income) and I find myself making a lot of eye contact with HB8+ girls everywhere I go: Public transport, shops, events, college campus, etc...I have come to realize that I need to learn daygame as soon as possible in order to take advantage of these situations, but I know that I can also be very successful with nightgame. The problem is that I have never enjoyed going out. Whenever I go to a nightclub or pub with my friends, I never have fun. I hate drinking and I also hate the music in these places. I don't feel comfortable at all and as a result I always end up sitting in a couch with a boring, dead stare. I want to dance and approach girls, but there is something inside of me that keeps me from doing embarrassing things in front of my friends. Despite this, I keep going to those places again and again, but I am never successful. I make a lot of eye contact and even some hot girls have approached me, but I am unable to dance with them, it's as if I had a shield that prevents me from doing shit I don't like to do. I also hate waking up late in the morning, so I like to go back home at a reasonable hour.

My questions are: What can I do to change this (Drinking to make things easier is not an option)? Should I go out alone and force myself to get out of my comfort zone? Should I ditch nightgame and focus on daygame instead? Thanks in advance.