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2

Eh I suppose that’s not bad at all then.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:45 AM
1

Yeah you got sucked into her frame a little. You might as well throw the Hail Mary and say “come over Saturday evening and find out”. If she says no or some more dodgy bs then next her
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:43 AM
1

Well, what do you want to do with your life?
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:39 AM
12

geez, have some sympathy. Losing a parent is an incredibly difficult thing to deal with. Some basic “sorry for your loss” would have sufficed. Also plating exes is retarded unless you absolutely know what you’re doing which I assume you don’t because you’re on asktrp. Also giving comfort isn’t always beta. Empathy doesn’t equal beta so long as you arent the daily emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:38 AM
1

I’ll say this as simply as possible. Trying to get together with coworkers is a bad idea. You should not have tried to kiss her because it can get you in big trouble and lose your job. It appears that you have scared her and the best thing you can do is not talk to her ever again unless she talks to you first. You made a big mistake by trying to kiss her at work.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:34 AM
3

Practice
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:27 AM
6

3-4 flakes for me personally is way too much. Once maybe twice is understandable but it sounds like she’s using you for validation with no intention of ever seeing you let alone ever fucking you
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:26 AM
1

I just don’t get why guys chase single mothers at my age. A friend of a plate is a single mom and while she’s fairly young and not bad looking at all she is a complete basket case and I’m pretty sure fits the first category you described. The dad isn’t in the kids life at all but she texts him a ton, she’s “dated” tons of different dudes and creates so much drama with each one of them and they just sit and take it and kiss her ass. Most of the dudes she’s fucking around with like that aren’t bad…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 02:14 AM
2

You answered your own question. By talking to many women
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:26 AM
3

What are they not inviting you to? Sometimes I have a group of guys that I like to go clubbing with and other times I have a different group that I enjoy just sitting around a bonfire with. Also is it possible that they’re busy? Have you tried inviting them out? I think regardless of what your answers are you need to not pout over it and make more friends so that you aren’t fixated on a single group. Go join a club or get a hobby where there’s lots of other people. Sometimes “friends” are shit a…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:19 AM
6

Do what makes you happy
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:01 AM
1

Yes that’s fucking orbiting. You either strike down the hammer and invite her over or move the fuck on
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:02 AM
3

You can’t get left on read if you only text for meeting up details(logistics). And if they leave you on read when you ask to hang, take it as a temporary no and move on until they reach out. Just get a big enough circle of women so that when one declines you, several others are hitting you up
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:47 AM
22

You say you dgaf but everything else makes it sound like you do. Learn to shoot shit back, take it lightly and as a joke. How would you react if a 5 year old said those things to you?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:45 AM
2

Lmao oneitis and don’t shit where you eat. Get her number first instead of daydreaming like you are and down the road when you switch jobs then hit her up to get coffee
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:55 AM
1

Get a job
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:53 AM
3

I wish I had known this years ago. I dated a girl who I later found out was being diagnosed with BPD. I saw her take meds almost every time I was over at her house late but was too much of a clueless kid to even question what she was taking
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:35 AM
3

He probably says this because body image issues are a symptom of almost every personality disorder. I’d say he’s exaggerating a bit because eating disorders can exist alone but they definitely are a red flag
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:32 AM
-2

If you want to gain anything by reading this reply, only read the top 20-30%. The rest is some bullshit hypothesis
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 01:25 AM
1

Implementing the stuff on the side bar is tough and that’s why you have to start with the basics like hygiene, lifting, and making sure your finances/home life is stable. It’s natural to feel down on yourself for not getting laid but it’s a catch 22 because feeling down isn’t a quality chicks want. I have faith in you and believe that you can accomplish your goals if you keep doing
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:37 AM
2

It could be an ioi but all you can do is keep pushing forward and see
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:01 AM
1

Press the charges if you want but you need to cut all contact with him. Just assuming here but it sounds like you’re mentally vulnerable because of all of the shit he put you through so I’d stay the fuck away from him and start moving on.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:59 AM
1

Holy dang man. Get some help or support. You need to start working on yourself and building a life that you actually enjoy. Being depressed and drinking yourself to sleep each night is not a stage of redpill and will only lead to more depression and drinking. Break the fucking cycle and things will start to look up
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:55 AM
1

My advice: Move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:53 AM
1

You are friend zoned
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:22 PM
2

I’m not saying that 3s and below don’t get dick from desperate ass betas but I am saying that they don’t get cock on demand like a 7+ could get
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:06 PM
15

The only women deprived of sex are 3s and below.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 07:40 PM
-1

Do what she’s doing. Go talk to him about her poor conduct
/r/askTRP03/03/18 07:38 PM
1

Just tell her you’d rather go out with her tomorrow because Saturday’s are more fun for dancing
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:48 AM
2

Don’t beat yourself up. I think you’re doing pretty good but you are right, you do have to keep improving. Setting those goals and meeting them incrementally will make your journey very doable. Best of luck !
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 01:35 AM
9

kino back when she touches you. Instead of looking for this magical opening to dance you just say “dance with me!”. Instead of repetitively asking her to hangout, you ask once and leave it up to her to reach out to you again. From your own perspective it might seem that don’t get as much leeway as other guys but the reality is you probably aren’t cognizant of how many fuck ups you make or you haven’t raised your smv enough. A lot of little things can fuck dudes up such as awkward or nervous body…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 02:32 AM
2

Ignore her and start gaming other women. She’s dead to you
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:20 AM
2

She’s being disrespectful. If you are okay with her immediately sucking his cock if you guys ever have a break up or big fight, then continue dating her. If not, then you should probably demote that thot
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:16 AM
3

Well you know the answer: soft next. Instead of sitting there getting fussy over her go meet other women. It’s a numbers game
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:15 AM
1

You messed up soft next
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:16 AM
2

Exactly, I don’t see the problem here. He passed the shit test. I’d say keep going with the fwb as long as possible
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:12 AM
4

Bro you had a good plate set up going until you got all emotional. Keep railing her unless she does something bad. You don’t cure oneitis by confessing your emotions and “breaking up” for 30 minutes, you cure oneitis by having other fucking options.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:09 AM
1

You’re doing great and getting to in your head over something silly. Invite her over. You can’t just magically gain experience and then come back to her later on. Sex is always awkward at first with a new partner especially after a dry spell but through time you’ll both figure out a good rhythm. She sounds really into you so she probably won’t mind you getting used to each other in bed. Good luck man and keep doing what you’re doing because it seems to be working
/r/seduction27/02/18 01:28 AM
1

I probably would’ve ignored him right from the start. He sounds a like a douche who deserves to be exiled
/r/askTRP26/02/18 03:59 AM
3

Op you are an idiot. There was no shit test. She was not even acknowledging your existence
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:23 AM
3

Make increasingly less subtle moves on her. You’ll know the answer after
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:17 AM
7

Buying a prostitute will get you your nut but you won’t gain a single thing from it other than the sexual experience. Don’t expect to be able to game women because you have a payed whore under your belt
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:15 AM
1

I’d say it’s a sliding scale. They’re all going to have quirks but some will be apparent and undeniably toxic
/r/askTRP23/02/18 08:43 PM
2

Turning your friends into red knights is often way too much work and takes the focus off of your mission. You don’t need to be teaching anyone how to be a man besides yourself and kids if you ever decide to have any.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 03:01 AM
2

Personally I’d recommend passively trying to improve your game
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 02:57 AM
1

anywhere they want besides where they make their money
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 02:54 AM
2

Should’ve chose a spot you enjoy with or without dates then
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:54 AM
2

Yeah doesn’t sound like it otherwise he’d probably never be in this spot
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:53 AM
2

You can’t really salvage this. If I were in your shoes I’d wait to see how things play out for a week while looking for other pussy. But the sad reality is that any woman who is disrespecting you by spending 6 days a week with a guy who expressed his desire to be with her despite her being in a relationship is not worth your time. Go find new pussy. Ol girl can never be more than a plate now.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:06 AM
1

Unless he applies some very good dread, which would cause her to back pedal into her plate position out of fear of losing him
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:00 AM
1

Don’t text her that gay shit. This is textbook baiting. She’s pulling you into orbit so damn easy bro. Soft fucking next until she comes back on her knees
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:58 AM
5

He’s saying don’t get caught up on “how to deal with her” before you even get her attention. Also fucking around with women with mental disorders is a recipe for disaster, speaking from experience
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:55 AM
6

Exactly. I think him pussyfooting and sitting in his car like an anxious beta is what really did him in
/r/askTRP23/02/18 01:54 AM
8

You can try to convince her but I doubt mentally toying with her will do much else than just hurt her. Just make sure you get genetic testing when the little sucker pops out
/r/askTRP18/02/18 08:18 AM
1

Depression is a very complex and often unique emotional state to be in. I cannot offer you tailored advice without hearing more but feel free to message me if you ever need to vent or want to talk about the things you are enduring. I know it’s hard, I have been there, and I just want you to know that there are resources and people available to you that can help.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 08:15 AM
2

She’s doing it to get attention from and meet men. There’s nothing to get, free drinks and easy dick.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 08:12 AM
7

You hit the nail on the head with how society reacts to loser-types. These guys are completely ostracized from social interactions with anyone who isn’t a loser like them. It probably does feel horrible to hold such a low reputation and to have most people not even acknowledge your existence or when they do it’s condescending or bullying. I have a couple friends of friends that are of the incel self defeatist type and they just feed off of each other and really begin to hate women and men who’ve…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:36 AM
1

Just fuckin hit on her and get her number. You have class with her for one semester so it’s not really a big deal
/r/askTRP16/02/18 02:45 AM
3

You should’ve struck while the iron was still hot. It’s probably too late now as evidenced by your attempts being met with a lot of resistance now. Soft next her. If she comes around again you need to ramp up the escalation but otherwise move on
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:51 PM
2

I don’t know man sounds like you’re pedestalizing her pretty hard right now. She’s a human, not a fragile glass vase, that will take dick whether it’s yours or somebody else’s, not
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:48 PM
3

If you won’t fuck her somebody else will is what he is saying. Quit pedestlaizing virginity because in a matter of years, or even months, she could become a massive slut
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:46 PM
1

You are not too late. You are young. It is going to be a very tough journey because you are starting from a weak base but it’s completely possible with hard work and dedication. My advice to you would be to focus a little on yourself first. Lift weights, get in the best shape of your life, work on being able to talk to friends and other males first so that you have some basic social confidence. With women the best way to get experience is by practicing. At first it is going to suck so much. The …
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:36 AM
2

I think most people that do nofap choose to do so because it’s the path of least resistance. Instead of putting in the hours at a gym or actively thinking about your diet or practicing social skills, you just withdraw a single behavior and expect results. It’s retarded. I think you should avoid porn but if you have to manually bust a nut every so often there is nothing wrong with that because it will make very little if any difference on your road to success
/r/askTRP13/02/18 02:32 AM
2

Lmao you’re sounding incredibly blue pill especially texting her something like that. You thought she owed you pussy and when you didn’t get it you had a beta meltdown. Man you gave her the prize before she even ran the race, not her fault she took it without doing the work.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 01:49 AM
1

Money does matter but not for getting pussy. You should desire personal success
/r/askTRP13/02/18 01:47 AM
3

Drop the plate if it’s getting too heavy. As for the unknown person you’ll just have wait and see what comes of that. Right now you’re fine but that is a weird email
/r/askTRP13/02/18 01:46 AM
1

“Need” oneitis
/r/askTRP13/02/18 01:41 AM
5

For god sakes be playful. If she’s literally rubbing your dick and you’re being a robot, she’s not going to know to suck it. You fucking be receptive and escalate man
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:40 AM
1

If it’s a girl you both just met I’d say you’re good. You did accidentally go back on your word but you both barely knew her. In the words of king chip “if y’all fell out over a chick that ain’t ya real nigga”
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:03 AM
3

I agree with this guy. If you need to jerk one every so often to relieve stress then do it. It also sounds like op has a lot of other things that need work that I’d prioritize over nofap
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:01 AM
3

If she’s not giving you a fuck yes then she’s not worth your time or you need to work on your smv more. If a girl said maybe to my offer I wouldn’t reply because it’s pointless. A maybe is a no in this instance
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:36 AM
5

You retard don’t shit where you eat, especially not with a thotty alpha widow
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:33 AM
1

By reading the sidebar and building a life for yourself
/r/askTRP10/02/18 01:31 AM
2

Sounds like her hamster is hitting so good speeds here. It is not rape unless he forced her (gun, blackmail, etc.) or if she was passed out. It sounds like she didn’t deny him and she sucked a cock willingly. Regardless of all that crap the point here is that she’s not going to or willing to suck your cock. You should next her right now before you get cucked, not sucked, and become her next #metoo tall tale to tell
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:41 PM
1

Your choice and it’s situational. If she seems a little unsure or nervous with your interactions then coffee nearby to start might be better
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:37 PM
2

Don’t even bother. from what I’ve read you are nowhere near suave enough to pull that off and you pretty much already gave her closure with your series of retarded replies which confirmed her reasons for leaving.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 02:22 AM
2

It’s not a shit test. She’s a slut and now sees you as a weirdo and a beta. You should block your ex on all platforms and stop behaving like a low functioning autist
/r/askTRP09/02/18 02:19 AM
1

You could always get a second opinion from another doctor or take your doctors advice. Nobody on this thread is going to have the expertise or the background knowledge about you to properly give you an answer
/r/askTRP09/02/18 02:17 AM
1

Save the talking for in person if you’re texting. Otherwise talking is literally a basic human function. Keep the convo light, funny, and a little flirty. Don’t be afraid to change location to keep things interesting and escalating towards your goals with the person
/r/askTRP09/02/18 02:16 AM
1

You should invite them over for “valentines dinner” and fuck their cunts and then send them home if you want. Valentine’s Day is retarded and is only good for picking up sad sluts at the club the weekend after
/r/askTRP09/02/18 02:14 AM
2

Get her number and invite her over. Stop pussyfooting
/r/askTRP09/02/18 01:55 AM
1

Please don’t take your life. You still have a chance. You have no ties to her current child. You can just hit the road and find a new place just for yourself where you can start anew. Please give life a chance and on the off chance that the baby she’s pregnant with isn’t yours then you can be completely free. I’d put your current house on the market immediately and take your car. With proof of her cheating there’s a very good chance that you won’t even have to pay her alimony. She can move back …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:43 AM
1

Usually they lasted only for a few weeks. I definitely got summer blues sometimes. I’m not sure where you live and you don’t have to tell me but you could be experiencing some seasonal depression? I’m going to assume your life is pretty out together but remember it is important to make sure you’re being healthy and getting time to do what you want and maximizes your happiness
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:36 AM
1

Isolate for sure. Ask her if she wants to get dinner at your place after then
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:34 AM
2

I’ve only experienced this in small patches but you could try aiming higher on the smv scale. That might make things more exciting
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 04:23 AM
4

Geez man you’re making lots of assumptions about op. No need to get upset
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:21 AM
1

That’s completely pointless. You’re still pedestalizing her if you think she is worth the drama you are trying to cause. Also you need to remember girls are manipulative as hell and she would easily spin this to make you look even worse. “See he texted me he cheated on me!! I knew I was better than his ass! He can’t even be loyal” basically you’d just be validating what she’s already saying. ghost her and get a life
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:18 AM
3

This. Seriously I as long as the person is succeeding at the job they’re doing and are making good money, then you can be alpha in any job.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:16 AM
8

You should not pedestalize one midget and go find and fuck some other short women that are actually reciprocating ioi’s. You should’ve subtly escalated a long time ago
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:10 AM
1

I had a girl do something similar. She fucked around with me a few times and then basically ghosted me. Probably some underlying issues or things going on
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 02:05 AM
1

It’s possible she’s using you to get legal citizenship and will possibly toss you to the wayside once she gets her papers. There is a certain amount of time you two need to remain married for if she marries for citizenship. Basically it’s a huge benefit to her if she marries you and divorces you for half of your assets all while you receive zero benefit. Huge risk very low reward situation
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:39 AM
1

Never marry her
/r/askTRP03/02/18 10:37 PM
3

She’s trying to lock down a beta with money
/r/askTRP03/02/18 09:26 AM
1

Drink to make things easier, it is an option. Also you just have to muster up the balls to do it. Sitting there makes you lame and of course nobody is going to approach you then. If going out alone is what it takes, then do that, otherwise you just need to quit overthinking it and get yourself approaching and dancing or whatever you want to achieve
/r/askTRP03/02/18 09:23 AM
1

Oh boy. If I were in your shoes I would have left her and all of this drama behind me long long ago. But since you’re in so deep and willing to eat the shit she’s feeding you then you might as well just agree and amplify or some bs
/r/askTRP03/02/18 09:20 AM
2

Why don’t you escalate and if you want to keep her at just friend level then you shouldn’t give a shit
/r/askTRP03/02/18 02:21 AM
1

Texting for anything besides making plans isnretarded. Your fault, soft next
/r/askTRP03/02/18 01:28 AM
6

What a disorganized mess this post was. Quit building up a sweat over one girl and go fuck the girl that’s actually spending time with you. If she wanted cock she’d accept your invite to hangout and suck it
/r/askTRP03/02/18 01:22 AM
1

Best of luck to you mate. Keep working hard, you can escape
/r/askTRP03/02/18 01:20 AM
1

This. Keep the shit she’s sending you on hand just Incase she tries to accuse you. Keep ghosting her too. If I were you I’d look into moving away from that area because that sounds like quite the toxic community for you
/r/askTRP02/02/18 02:48 AM
1

This is perfect. Op you just have to pass her shit tests more effectively
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:11 AM
1

I think she’s fine bro. She’s not pressuring you really and you guys sound like you’re having a healthy sexual relationship. Who cares what she calls you to her family members as long as she isn’t pushing the matter
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:01 AM
8

She’s trying to rope you into orbit by giving you just enough hope with heart eye emojis and shit but never actually giving into your desires
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:58 AM
1

Don’t take a woman’s advice about women. Don’t give her that explanation about why you don’t wanna talk to her anymore. Go no contact. Most times a woman’s advice is the advice on how to beta. And the cherry on top is you have admitted oneitis for a girl who’s not even seen your penis. Smh ghost her
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:18 AM
9

Do not message her again.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:11 AM
17

Then he just calls the cops
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:15 AM
2

What would you call the club?
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:14 AM
3

Although that could work it’s super high risk if he doesn’t want to break up with his gf
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:14 AM
2

If I was your friend and saw you do this to someone else in the friend group I’d probably lose all trust for you but it sounds like your mind is already made up
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:12 AM
4

lol he’s 14, he will be fine and this will a good little life lesson at an early age
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:09 AM
8

It’s an awful idea and will receive horrendous backlash. College students are mostly feminists and they will do anything to ruin your reputation if they find out you’re starting a male rights club
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:08 AM
-9

How about “I’m leaving you, cheating bitch” and then ghost her or just ghost her
/r/askTRP30/01/18 02:06 AM
1

Don’t confront her like a beta pleb. It was a hookup and nothing more, sadly you have oneitis. Don’t talk to your boss about this, you’re turning this into a soap opera. I was in a similar situation where I fucked a 9 after starting redpill and I clung hard at first when she just wanted one night. You have to ghost her, move on, and fuck other women. If I can do it, so can you. You did fuck up by shitting where you eat because it will make this harder but if you collect yourself and start lookin…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 02:10 AM
1

Very important. You want to have your muscles to be define giving you a strong confident mantra
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 02:03 AM
3

You aren’t a psychopath. When you start dropping bad habits and become a successful hardworking individual it can be easy to notice lots or poor choices and novice mistakes. Don’t judge others too hard though, focus on your mission
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 01:58 AM
3

I think you’re lying to yourself. You are feeling fear and are psyching yourself out. Motivation is fleeting, discipline is better. Have the discipline to approach. don’t think about it, just do it
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 01:57 AM
3

The comments are insane. One lady claims that she felt the same way as the op and that it was fate because she ended up dating her now ex-bf’s best friend. Of course she tries to hamster her destroying a friendship and cheating by saying her ex was the one cheating not her!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:03 PM
4

Why not just plate women with big tits regardless of their attitude. Have a frame
/r/askTRP24/01/18 03:47 AM
1

Could depend on your height too. If you’re very heavy for your weight it may be okay to shed fat and water weight easily. Just make sure you’re eating healthy and exercising safely
/r/askTRP23/01/18 07:52 AM
1

Yes money can improve status which in turn improves smv but this is nothing new
/r/askTRP23/01/18 06:41 AM
1

Don’t shit where you eat! It’s okay if they ask you but you really don’t want to break professionalism and lose your job over some dumb shit
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:46 AM
5

You are retarded. Go
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:20 AM
2

Dude go to her house and nut on her face. Don’t fucking handicap yourself here
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:19 AM
1

Increase smv and approach more 9s and 10s
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:19 AM
2

Not a lot of context here. Depending on the shit talk it might be worth your while to publicly dismiss the shit she is saying and set her straight but if it’s just petty crap then I wouldn’t even allow myself to appear phased by it
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:17 AM
1

Don’t dm. You already have her pedestalized buddy. DMing her would just come off as creepy especially if your smv isn’t very high. You need to meet other women in real life and next time approach before you start getting oneitis
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:15 AM
2

This is pretty good advice although you don’t want to catch oneitis so don’t sink too much effort, thought, or emotion into this and keep your options open
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:05 AM
1

Just reply “why?”
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:03 AM
8

Soft next. Don’t send anything else
/r/askTRP23/01/18 01:54 AM
2

Tinder should be a supplement to you gaming girls in real life. It can be nice for down time but shouldn’t be your main source of women. Also a lot of girls on there do just want attention n
/r/askTRP23/01/18 01:53 AM
3

Seriously. Why make your financial decisions based on the possibility of getting laid at a job. If OP’s smv was higher he wouldn’t even be asking shit like this, he needs to probably hit the damn gym
/r/askTRP20/01/18 02:02 AM
3

You invested all of your chips on black and the roulette rolled red. But seriously man if she’s treating you poorly and making you unhappy it might be time to move on especially if she’s trying to withhold pussy now. This is why the red pill advises to keep plates so that one woman can’t pull shit like this. Ideally you should at least wait 6+ moths before if you do decide to go long term with a girl
/r/askTRP20/01/18 01:58 AM
3

Relax. She does sound fucked in the head but that isn’t your problem. You need to do nothing more than just invite her over occasionally and have sex with her. Stop chasing her around clubs or dealing with her dramatic antics. Get your shit together and only see her when it’s at your place or hers. Also meeting some other women might help so you can drop this chick without losing your pussy supply. Don’t text her your little “fuck off” text because it’ll only make you sound butthurt
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 02:16 AM
2

Actions speak louder than words. Try making a subtle move instead of saying “omg ur so cayute”
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 02:13 AM
2

I think you responded appropriately. You didn’t stop and talk, you stayed focused and held frame. Keep running and don’t let some little fucks stop you
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:04 AM
1

That is a good point. With lots of men lacking strong male role models, sometimes women tearing down a man can be the catalyst he needs to become a man.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:58 AM
28

Hard ghost. Why even involve yourself in such a shitty situation by choice especially with an ex?
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:24 AM
2

You have so much time to grow and improve. You’re young, giving up this early in the race is just plain silly
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:17 AM
4

Keep trying mate. You have to keep lifting, improving your look, and most importantly practicing. Make you your mission. Women shouldn’t be your absolute focus. The better you get at life through practice and work the more women will come naturally. Focus on having fun when you’re out with women. Keep reading the sidebar and keep trying, with discipline, you can do it
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:15 AM
1

Lmao you fucked up bud. You shouldn’t reply at all!!! That bitch wanted validation and she got it. Congrats on being her back up to her back up beta orbiters. Go lift and get other women mate
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:05 AM
3

Lol perfect
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:02 AM
4

Probably the best choice, she sounds a little crazy
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:01 AM
5

You are right in your assumptions. I’d say soft next until you’re both in the same town maybe? You could always turn her into a plate if you play your cards really well but either way ignore her for now and do not allow her to be in any position to make you appear weak or beta
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:01 AM
2

I live in the Chicago area and there are lots of places that do salsa or bachata nights and being able to dance well helps a lot in places like that. I’d say being a good dancer is seen as a plus to women if you’re in the right setting. Obviously if you’re going rock climbing it won’t help at all but if you go out to salsa clubs it’s almost a prerequisite and could be seen as attractive to women.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:53 AM
1

Will you ever see her again? If not, you pretty much can say and do whatever you want and basically use her as practice. If brushing it off has been working then I’d say keep doing that since it is working.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:44 AM
1

Be faithful and don’t try to tear men down from me personally
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:37 AM
1

My bad, she might just be joking around then. I wouldn’t take it too seriously, just keep the mood light
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:35 AM
3

She’s probably in a shit spot in life or still can’t accept the fact she was a cheating whore so she’s taking it on you. From the sound of things it appears that you are doing better than her and she’s a jealous cunt lol. I’d just ignore her and keep grinding to make yourself as successful as possible. Success is the best revenge and honestly it’s good you dodged the single Mom bullet. It’s funny how much hypocrisy is in that message when you really think about it. If you want to be real petty y…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:20 AM
1

Agreed, but this guy should not be appearing hurt from teasing. He needs some frame
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:15 AM
2

There’s also the times where the beta has deep ass pockets that she wants to get her hands on
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 02:02 AM
5

“The trauma you cause them” lol what? Blaming the male as usual. These women choose to have sex with these type of males. If there’s any “trauma” it’s being done by their own hand. If they want a sensitive and agreeable beta they have that option but here’s the red pill, they don’t want that.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 01:56 AM
4

Soft fucking next dude. One you took her virginity you were in a position of decent power because you got the sex you desired and she was chasing. Now it sounds like you’re a full blown orbiter and she’s brushing you off like it’s nothing! I would stop texting unless she texts first and keep texting only for logistics. Your frame is cracking man and I think she can tell
/r/askTRP13/01/18 12:34 AM
1

Look up the shit the singer Ginuwine is going through right now if you don’t believe this
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 02:15 AM
1

I wouldn’t say that stuff. And also I would defend myself and beat the hell out of him if he hit me first but if you feel like catching a beat down then do you I guess
/r/askTRP10/01/18 04:05 AM
2

Ghost her. She was gross enough to give you an STI
/r/askTRP10/01/18 04:01 AM
1

Why do you care what your EX wife thinks. She is worthless to you now. You need to meet other women because you clearly have none if you are reading this deep into a text sent by someone you shouldn’t even be talking to. Ignore her, leave her on read. Unless she is literally offering to suck the life out of your dick, there is no reason to reply.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:59 AM
1

You quit worrying about other people’s results and work twice as hard on yourself. Eventually you will get the results you desire with effort and practice. Just think, there are incels out there who probably envy you for even being able to land dates.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 01:32 AM
5

You stinky smelly piece of shit. How about you take a shower everyday like a god damn normal person and then maybe a female will want to be in your presence. If you want to attract women via scent you can shower daily and wear cologne instead of being caked in dry sweat and jizz. Weird fucker
/r/askTRP10/01/18 01:29 AM
3

Well I hope you at least learned your lesson. Never remarry and when a women suggests never being monogamous again, it’s a good indicator that she has no respect for you. Notice the hypocrisy, she’s allowed to fuck 100’s of cocks but once you find one woman she gets jealous. How could you allow someone who treats you so horrendously, and won’t even let you have any sliver of dignity, dictate your life. You need to go cold turkey. Stop texting and calling her because I know you are. You need to g…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 10:39 AM
2

She’s looking for attention and orbiters. If you’re a real top notch chad you could throw her a bone and see what happens otherwise I wouldn’t
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:51 AM
3

Personally I run but unless you want to be slender/skinny you’re going to need enough calories to support the cardio
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:38 AM
4

It sounds like you already know what you need to do. Hit the gym and get fucking cut. Club game can be a little hard especially if you come off as awkward but you’ll get the hang of it with practice. I think a cleaner look as opposed to a rap skater style for when you go out to clubs/bars would be beneficial. Also it’s important to remember that you can meet and game women anywhere. Since you aren’t starting school until September this gives you a perfect opportunity to get in shape, get money, …
/r/askTRP06/01/18 05:38 PM
13

Demote her to plate. She has massively disrespected you and I don’t believe you attempting to “dread counterplay” will be enough to offset her hypergamous mentality that she clearly has. She probably does not value you much or at least as much as her ex if she’s talking like this. Do not wife up alpha widows bro
/r/askTRP06/01/18 05:32 PM
1

you are retarded
/r/askTRP06/01/18 11:08 AM
1

Don’t text her again you buffoon. Don’t ghost her but don’t reach out to her. Let her come to you and if she doesn’t, no big deal
/r/askTRP20/12/17 03:21 AM
3

I would involve someone higher up if that is possible. Try to document what you can and if you think an in person meeting could help just make sure to keep her office door open. What is being done to you is bullshit and a classic case of a feminist putting feelings over logic. Fight this
/r/askTRP20/12/17 03:18 AM
1

That sounds like a pretty nice deal. Just text her somewhere you’re gonna be anyways and voila she appears
/r/askTRP19/12/17 01:10 AM
1

You obviously haven’t read the sidebar you lying bitch. This is probably one of the most pathetic things I’ve ever read on here. There will be other women who will satisfy you sexually, you have severe onerous. You should never have to beg for a woman, ever. My advice to you is to pick yourself up, grow some balls, and cut this toxic piece of shit that you call a girlfriend out of your life. She is literally treating you like absolutely dogshit and you’re justifying it because she tickled your l…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 08:47 PM
1

you can start with board games I guess but don’t be afraid to kino especially in a playful way. After a while you can suggest turning on a movie and then it’s easy mode from there
/r/askTRP09/12/17 01:53 AM
1

Good shit bro, I’d say you’re in there !
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 01:40 AM
1

Are all of you really that successful at having women pay for themselves? That isn’t a matter of success. That’s a mater of you just not paying for her. She can pay her half or not eat. Tell the wait staff to split the check right at the beginning.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 03:25 AM
2

Seeing her in person would be better obviously. Unless you know that you dont live too far from her I’d still avoid DMing because you could just become a texting orbiter. Unless your text game is on point, then do it
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:20 AM
3

Unless you look pretty damn good, don’t DM
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 02:12 AM
2

Apply subtle dread. Dread with plausible deniability y
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:05 AM
3

Hey, your bed and the cats suck. I can't sleep here. Talk to you later.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:05 PM
3

You are scared
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:05 PM
8

That app would lead to creeps stalking women. Just go get tinder or meet women in person like a normal human being
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:03 PM
5

“Falling out of love” that’s all I had to read to know that this is eventually over. She is playing mind games with you. She is wearing the pants in this relationship now. Don’t get manipulated like this man. In reality you should start moving on but since you’re trying to save this sexless relationshit id advise going to the gym without her from now on, lifting hard as fuck, getting some good dread going by meeting other women and spending time with friends, and learning how to get a pussy wet.…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:00 PM
6

What the fuck. Move the fuck on. She is treating you like dog shit and your availability allowed for her to put you into beta orbiter status. “Have a safe trip” even though she hasn’t spoken to you in week? That’s textbook orbiter behavior. Dude go fuck other women because clearly she knew what she was doing. She probably has hundreds of guys just like you in her past. Have some self respect
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:54 PM
1

Yah that’s creepy. Just showing up to a girls job without her asking to see you probably put you into extreme beta or omega category in her mind. You came off thirsty af, scary, and she acted accordingly. Move on and try again
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:27 AM
5

She’s trying to waste your time. Next
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:25 AM
2

You can’t fix this. You opened up and she saw this as beta and now wants you to be a friendzoned orbiter. Cut her out of your life before you waste more time
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:24 AM
13

Holy fuck bro are you blind? Massive red flags! She’s disrespecting the fuck out of you and likely cheating. Fuck her one last time and dump her, don’t stand for that shit
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:21 AM
3

You could say you’re happy just the way you guys are or be straight up and say you only want fwb
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:20 AM
3

The relationship is over. The best thing you can do is completely withdraw yourself here. Texting and calling her that much will only make you appear weak. I know it’s hard but you have to really just give this whole situation space. Soft next until she reaches out to you, if ever
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:16 AM
1

Smash away, I think you should just stay away from any serious relationship obviously
/r/askTRP07/12/17 02:17 AM
5

Why are you expending so much effort for one girl who doesn’t respect you enough and isn’t attracted enough to even “cuddle” with you. Confessing your feelings probably came off as pretty weak. You need to read the sidebar and stop being so needy. Go chase other women. I guarantee if you had a rotation of at least three bitches you’d not give a shit about this girl and she’d probably be way more interested.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:12 AM
3

Approach anxiety is a catch 22. It doesn’t go away until you start approaching
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:10 AM
6

There wasn’t a single question mark aside from the quote in that entire post. Also you’re not on your throwaway now
/r/askTRP06/12/17 03:51 AM
6

What the fuck is this? Disenfranchised oneitis bullshit. How about you work on your flirting and appearance (go lift) at a place that isn’t your job.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 03:00 AM
2

Probably to cover up the fact that’s she cheating so she doesn’t get caught by her LDR or maybe she thinks you don’t know about him or some shit but either way to cover her tracks
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:12 AM
1

You need to lift, dress nice, and game other women. This bitch has put you into beta orbit hardcore and she knows exactly how to keep you there. go find women who are actually interested and stop wasting your time
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:08 AM
2

If you live in the U.S. it might be worth commuting to save yourself from a tremendous amount of extra debt. You can still be involved with the campus community a lot if you commute but it’ll take a little more effort
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:57 AM
3

Enjoy it while it lasts. Don’t put a kid in her
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:22 AM
3

You put yourself in quite a shitty situation. You should have never spoken in person and it would be all over right now. Do you want to be with her? If not, then why take her back? I feel like you dumping her scared you a little, you knew you would not have a vagina to cling to. I think the relationship is most likely doomed whether you like her or not. What you do with this information is your choice. You know your situation best, but please, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:47 AM
2

I think you realize your mistakes. Don’t hit her up again. Go meet other women. It’s better to invest into something new than to continue to invest in a failing project
/r/askTRP03/12/17 09:32 AM
2

Why’d you break up? Either way the best thing you can do is distract yourself with life. Workout, go to new places, spend time with other people. The busier you are the easier you’ll move on.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:23 PM
1

Have you tried reaching out to the friend. It sounds like you’re being pretty salty. You can’t control who others want to be friends with
/r/askTRP02/12/17 10:13 AM
2

You took a big fat L. Next her. Don’t bother reaching out to her ever again unless she hits you up first asking to get fucked. Go lift and go talk to other women
/r/askTRP02/12/17 02:01 AM
1

I agree with this guy if they’re a good pal
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 01:24 AM
2

Lol I agree he sounds like he’s gonna cry because he got downvotes
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 01:21 AM
2

I wouldn’t apologize or explain myself in the other example. Women make men wait all of the time, you could just say “busy day” and leave it at that
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 05:44 PM
1

Women will shit test everybody. And if she finds a poor alpha yes she will still chase him for sex but stay with whoever is supporting her
/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:42 PM
1

You don’t go saying “I’m sorry” in the work example you can say it was your mistake but saying sorry is stupid.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 09:17 AM
3

I notice he does not give her attention; I do. He does not compliment her or notice differences in her looks; I do. Quit talking like that, that’s gay as hell man. “I notice when she does her hair in a braid, I know I’m mr right and deserve to marry this cheating slut whore” You sound like an angry little wuss. Dude you can either get this bitch to come over or keep doing what you’re doing without being salty. What you should be doing is getting in the gym so you look better and talking to other…
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:59 AM
2

If she’s not fucking you and not your girlfriend then there isn’t any point whatsoever to buy her a gift. She clearly rejected your one advance, why the fuck would you waste time and money on her. You need to read the fucking side bar and get some self respect
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:51 AM
1

Bs, all women have boundaries to an extent. HB8 is not going to let beta bob touch her or be in her presence. Yeah awalt but you aren’t going to be the next branch if you’re too beta to get past her basic boundaries
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:48 AM
2

Ah yes mother hens. This is when a wingman becomes super useful. The wingman flirts up the hen in order allow you to freely spit game to the chick. If you are solo and recognize the hen before she swoops in, you can kiss up to her a little so she doesn’t see you as a threat. Mother hens benefit from playing this role by potentially scoring the chads friend and also serve as a powerful anti-beta shield. Your best bet is to have a wingman or be very very sociable yet firm in your actions.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:38 AM
5

That’s a good opourtunity. And don’t just blindly go for it, obviously you want to feel out the situation a little and escalate slowly
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:35 AM
0

I’m mocking him for saying it so much
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:26 AM
11

Invite her to hangout at your house alone and go from there
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:25 AM
5

That’s super individually based. Some girls will joke about anything while others may be very conservative in their jokes. I’d say in general just stay away from politics and being overtly sexist
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:24 AM
5

You shouldn’t have even went up to her. If she came up to you then that’s different but you need to cut her off.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:02 AM
3

Slowly ease into it. This is something I had to work on too. Just start slow by making eye contact every so often or consistent intermittent eye contact with people you aren’t intimidated by. I’m sure there’s good YouTube guides out there too
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:00 AM
1

Do you have a decent haircut? Do you dress nice? Are you approaching? Practice makes product and I’m willing to bet that you’re failing in at least one of the three things I asked?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:49 AM
6

You’re a real one fam
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:42 AM
7

If the dude is your friend, then you’re an disloyal coward. If she’s just some random chick and you know dude won’t have a mental break down and kill you, then go for it all day!
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:38 AM
3

If you need drugs to improve your social abilities, you’re either autistic or a dumbass. Man the fuck up and quit doing drugs because you’re too much of a pussy to talk to another human
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:35 AM
3

“Stay in your lane stay in your lane”
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:33 AM
2

Who cares. That’s one less person you have to worry about interacting with, which in reality is nice. You’re there for him, not her. Stop giving a damn
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:33 AM
3

I doubt he has the power to track you unless he works for the phone company but I’m pretty sure that’s still against the law. The dude sounds like a total crazy beta. Your best best is to file a police report if he threatens harm and be prepared to kick his ass if he does show up, which I doubt he will because he’s an all talk beta
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:30 AM
9

Of course just next her. If she texts you eventually then fine talk to her but otherwise no no no
/r/askTRP01/12/17 01:13 AM
3

Fuck and plate her. And girls with lots of one night stands are rarely ever ltr material
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:37 AM
1

You’re clearly ignoring the advice of everyone here and defending her your oneitis. I wouldn’t fuckin ever marry or get too emotionally invested in to a girl like that. You’re not going to listen to me but just be ready for when she eventually starts branch swinging or bitching at you for not accepting that her and chad are just friends
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:26 AM
4

You did nothing wrong. She didn’t listen and was a bitch
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 01:33 AM
8

“I swallowed the red pill” and “I’m ready to jump into a ltr again!” There’s some clear cognitive dissonance happening here. She’s a soristitute, has admitted to being a slut, a party whore/alcoholic, and you think a relationship is a good idea? Dude she’s probably only clingy because you’re keeping her at arms length. I guarantee if you commit and open up, she will be back on Chad from the party’s cock again in an instant.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:55 PM
11

You are fucking stupid for believing this crap. She has been fucked by 100s of old wrinkly cock. that is the truth. Why would you ever enter a committed relationship with someone who holds the title “escort” “prostitute” or “hooker” You are being dumb
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:51 PM
4

Alpha fucks. Beta bucks.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:48 PM
2

First off, gaming on dating apps is skewed because they get hundreds of cocks at the swipe of a picture. You could probably pull more 8’s in person than on shitty apps. Also if you think you can’t do better then that means you need to improve yourself physically and mentally. Going back to an ex is oneitis especially when you have the mentality of “I can’t fuck any girls that are hotter I’m only getting 5’s on my shitty app”
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:01 PM
1

She’d lose respect if you did anything other than move on so you might as well get one last nut
/r/askTRP29/11/17 07:38 PM
1

Soft next, ignore until she schedules or suggests a plan
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:58 AM
1

All your fault, you should just go smash one last time and move on from this dramatic ass shit
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:37 AM
3

If she’s truly a plate then you need to stop giving a damn because reality is she has probably fuck 5 dudes since you broke up. If you have feelings and do give a shit then you need to move on and fuck other women. The reality is, if you ask about it, you are going to seem like a little bitch. There’s no point in asking because you already know the truth, she is fucking other men and lying to you. What you decide to do with that info is up to you.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:27 AM
10

Save texting for making plans only. You offered a plan and now it’s her turn. Don’t be all clingy, she can handle one night without a reply
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:21 AM
1

Lol k you go do that champ
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:19 AM
3

I don’t think so either. It’s like arguing with someone who cites themselves lol
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:14 AM
1

My god that’s why you’re all upset 😂!? “A girl was a meanie to me and bwocked me in instagwam :,(, now I have to eat at her restaurant and not tip!!!!” See how dumb that sounds? Go spend your time wisely bud
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:13 AM
2

You shouldn’t push because she doesn’t give a shit about you clearly and it’s incredibly unlikely that you’ll ever fuck her. Why climb Mount Everest for half eaten chicken when you can walk to the bar and buy some.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 03:11 AM
2

Shut the fuck up
/r/askTRP29/11/17 02:32 AM
2

That is literally a great rule. You’re too autistic and blind thinking you’ll fuck her to realize it
/r/askTRP29/11/17 02:31 AM
3

Bro go fuck other women. You’re investing so much on stealing from another dudes cart that you don’t see all of the pussy on the shelf. Soft next her and don’t reply ever again unless it’s her hitting you up to hangout. Go meet other women and quit being a bitch with oneitis
/r/askTRP29/11/17 02:30 AM
1

This is so fucking stupid 😂. Dude who gives a shit, just move on. What could she have possibly done that was sooooo foul?
/r/askTRP29/11/17 02:21 AM
5

Don’t make it an official long term relationship then. You’re already anxious before anything has happened. Just remember, it’s your turn not your girl
/r/askTRP29/11/17 02:20 AM
4

If you want to show you’re out and about then post a Snapchat story of you being out. Using that location broadcaster is retarded
/r/askTRP29/11/17 02:18 AM
1

Fair point
/r/askTRP28/11/17 03:09 AM
2

In my opinion, no woman, no matter how nice, is wife material. It sounds like your goals differ from the standard redpill agenda but either way it is important that you get your say on the situation. Don’t let her whip you around and call all of the shots. Assert yourself a little man and start saying what YOU want. P.s. I think homeschooling can make your kid socially inept
/r/askTRP28/11/17 02:59 AM
12

Aim high. You dont have to and shouldn’t fuck any woman you are not attracted to. If you find that the women you want aren’t receptive, you need to work on yourself more and optionally dial back your standards a tiny bit but do not fuck a woman you’d consider a “monster”
/r/askTRP28/11/17 02:49 AM
1

Go do your own research
/r/askTRP28/11/17 02:07 AM
2

Join a club. I started volunteering every so often and my god it has opened some doors
/r/askTRP28/11/17 01:53 AM
20

I doubt she’s trying to get any validation. She probably just wants you to come get your golf clubs. You still have feelings clearly
/r/askTRP23/11/17 05:42 PM
1

Go fuck other women. If you truly believe you don’t have oneitis, you can flirt with this girl as much as you want still. Either way you need to broaden your horizons and talk to and fuck other women. You don’t want to pour too much energy into a bitch who clearly only cares when she feels like it.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 02:29 AM
2

You need to shift your focus on to other women. Do you really think she’s going to change her feelings towards you? If she was actually interested this time around then she’d be asking to watch Netflix at your place instead of dance academy. The only positive I see from going to dance academy is getting better at dancing to attract future bitches. If you want to go to dance academy, go for it, but don’t get your expectations up
/r/askTRP23/11/17 02:20 AM
1

Don’t call her out. That’s what betas do. “Why are you not replyinnngggg!! Are you not into meeee no more??” That screams clingy fucking beta orbiter. Your best bet is to stop texting her until she reaches out to you. Go meet other women in the mean time
/r/askTRP23/11/17 02:10 AM
1

Ask for her number before you get oneitis. Inaction fosters anxiety. She will lose any interest that’s there if you sit idle
/r/askTRP23/11/17 02:05 AM
1

You have to hangout with her and escalate or tell her. Continuing to orbit won’t get you any ass. It’s highly unlikely that she will go for you if you’ve been orbiting a long time but it’s worth a shot and isn’t impossible.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:17 AM
1

Tell her you want to be just friends and that you need some time to yourself. Just think, what would a woman say to you if she wanted to make you only a fuckbuddy
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:23 AM
1

That is perfect
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:52 AM
1

Don’t make excuses. You need to approach women and stop hamstering by calling your fear “not caring”
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:52 AM
1

I only had to skim this to know that you need to move on from her. The fact that you have to even ask if it’s worth it, is a red flag in its own right. Fuck other women and do not tolerate this psycho bullshit
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:51 AM
2

Demote her to plate if she’s a good fuck
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:49 AM
2

You are a retard. There are clear indicators of consent/interest and if you aren’t receiving them, then she doesn’t want you
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:05 AM
4

In your first paragraph I’m already seeing mistakes. Never apologize especially for something so dumb. Texting all day is also bad! She’s already making you her beta slave by getting you to take her to redbox and get cigarettes. Also cigs are disgusting. Not to mention you didn’t escalate the entire night despite being alone together. Asking to play mini golf isn’t a mistake at all. You later entered her frame and are now letting her call all of the shots in regards to scheduling without her off…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:00 AM
1

Just tell her to come over and watch a movie with you. You need to keep texting to a minimum
/r/askTRP19/11/17 09:50 PM
3

She displayed a little interest but my god doing anything she suggested would give her ego a massive stroke. I’d tell the birthday dude to give her your number and just leave it to fate. No need to get hung up on her anyways while you could be fucking with women who are really into you
/r/askTRP19/11/17 08:37 AM
2

Are you in good shape? Do you have experience spitting game? Also when you’re going out you should focus on having a good time and not so much getting laid. I think you’re too freshly hurt from cutting off your oneitis and need to focus on improving and stabilizing yourself a bit. It is always still good to flirt with women but being outcome independent is important. Id recommend monk mode for a little bit and getting into some good redpill literature when you have the chance
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:59 AM
3

This is a great answer. Cool it on the texting period. The salesman doesn’t keep trying to sell you the car after you’ve already committed to buying it. Shes dtf if op can keep his mouth shut for now
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:47 AM
10

I had a huge fallout with my ex prior to red pill and I see her often around campus. I don’t interact with her at all. I don’t acknowledge her existence and just go about my day. If those old emotions come back you can just be social and interact with others you know, it helps a ton. If she decides to interact with you first just be polite and short.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:44 AM
3

Invite her over to your house, slap on a movie, and try putting your arm around her. If you can’t accomplish any of that by next weekend then you’re an orbiter who will likely never have a chance with her unless she is 35+ with a kid and nobody else wants her
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:41 AM
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“I had fun but it’s time for me to ghost baby” What the fuck? You sounded like you did pretty decent despite her LMR until that. That line is pretty cringey shit and sounds like a quote from some shitty 90’s action movie. For future reference if you’re actually ghosting somebody, you don’t state like an autist “hello m’lady I am going ghost on you”, you just fucking do it. If you told a bitch during sex “I’m inserting my penis now baby” it would sound retarded, how is this any different? Move on…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 12:43 AM
5

Yeah I agree with this. You have to get them to invest first before they give a shit about being ignored
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:51 PM
1

It means forget what has happened and move on
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:32 PM
0

Are you retarded? Who gives a shit what she says. Cut all ties with that piece of shit woman. If there’s any takeaway from this it’s that: women are attracted to money, power, and like flaunting their men off to betas and other women. Go lift. Go fuck other women. This bitch is dead to you, there is nothing you can do except to cut all ties and block her on all social media.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:26 PM
1

Yes, you are acting like a thirsty freak. This was completely autistic of you. You should’ve went to the party like a fucking man and not added her on Facebook. Cut your losses, she will not give a shit about you if she catches wind of your thirst. Go to the gym and read that sidebar man.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:23 PM
2

Yeah I agree with the other guys, quit smoking and vaping. That shits not cool and being exposed to it second hand is super annoying for your friends/people around you. Cold turkey is very hard, so I’d recommend slowly weening yourself off. You can also try replacing the habit by bringing hard candy, gum, or my personal favorite, water to use whenever you feel that urge. There’s lots of good addiction and quitting forums out there for you to use to help. Whatever you do, do not up the dosages of…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:14 PM
6

You should go talk to other women and stop fixating on one girls text. If she texts back, great, set up a hangout. If she doesn’t text back then don’t text her ever again.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:05 PM
2

You’re incredibly young. Just focus on school and staying active. It’s okay to cry for now just keep on working on being more resilient. Things get better
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:27 PM
3

Sounds like you’re trying to half swallow the pill and therefore it’s leading to shitty outcomes for you
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:26 PM
2

It’s fine to initiate hangouts. When she gives LMR just change the subject real briefly and then keep progressing. If she still puts up LMR then you should stop but don’t be afraid to give a little resilience yourself bud
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 06:32 PM
6

Don’t overthink it and just escalate man. Sex is about enjoyment, if you’re real nervous you can use your little “it’s been a while” line but I doubt you’ll need it. Don’t beat off the day of or night before or you might have trouble keeping it up.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 07:47 AM
2

“Still trying to work shit out with” “10months” Dude you sound beta as hell. She’s clearly playing fuckin mind games with you and you’re eating it up. Don’t let this slut manipulate you into her beta orbiter. You need to soft next her and not talk to that ex-friend anymore because he clearly doesn’t give a damn about you. If she wants him there is nothing you can do to stop it. Stop being her doormat. Move on and fuck other women, it’ll do wonders for you.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:26 AM
1

She sounds pretty awful. Just move on I’m sure she won’t ever take responsibility for being a bitch.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:24 AM
5

Go for it
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:19 AM
1

Redknighting is often more effort than it’s worth. I understand that you care about your friend but all you can do is offer your opinion if he asks and offer him that same escape option before his wedding. I doubt he will change his mind and all you can do is support him if things go south
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:18 AM
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This is so autistic. Women give terrible advice about gaming women when talking to men. Also stop talking to this chick. She used you and continues to do so and you’re just allowing it like some doormat. Cut contact and get your advice from experience.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 02:13 AM
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I think the other comments are right that you’re a hypocrite. On the other hand that relationship is basically sour thanks to both of your dishonesties. Don’t expect this to last
/r/askTRP14/11/17 02:14 AM
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Sounds like she’s turning you into a beta orbiter. Messaging on instagram for conversation is just plain retarded. You should’ve asked for her number or to hangout when you first had her attention. I doubt she’s very interested given the circumstances you’ve described. Definitely next for now unless she agrees to hangout but don’t bank on that at all. Go game other chicks
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 06:02 PM
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This is why you shouldn’t text for anything besides making plans because retarded little nuances can upset you both. Dude just wait a day and set up a hangout. If she says no just soft next her until she hits you up again
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:22 AM
2

Start approaching and going out to places with your friends. You have the looks down, now you just need to get out there and game some women. As others have said, get tinder too.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:16 AM
2

Keep her as a plate man. You’ve said it yourself that she’s not ltr material. If you think you’re too weak to keep her at plate level then a soft next may be in order
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 01:06 AM
1

Why don’t you offer to have the drinks right at your place?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 01:04 AM
1

This might not be exactly what you’re looking for but entering a long term relationship helped me improve in bed significantly. It gives you consistent experience and let’s you get to try lots of new things. A long term plate could easily help get your sex game up, don’t be afraid to experiment different positions and different levels of teasing/foreplay
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 01:02 AM
2

No point in moping. Just meet her again in a spot (your house) that is more favorable for escalating
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 01:00 AM
8

Alpha doesn’t equal asshole. Charisma, likability, and being a strong example are all alpha traits
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 12:58 AM
2

Shit tests will happen regardless of how much a girl is into you. They’re going to test the water no matter how much they love swimming
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:25 PM
2

Don’t get worked up about it, just start by calling him the wrong name too
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 08:23 PM
8

Too confident? What the fuck dude, you sounded more clingy than confident. If a bitch is ignoring you, don’t keep texting her and texting should be reserved for planning to meet up anyways. I don’t have any advice aside from moving on before you get oneitis and you need to develop more of a prize mentality for yourself. If she gives a shit about you she will reach out, until then go fuck other women. Also quit smoking, it’s unattractive
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:21 AM
3

That video was awful and didn’t talk about the fuckin redpill at all! Red pill isn’t about skin color, it isn’t about supporting neo-beta-nazis, and you can be on either side of the political spectrum and still take away lots from this forum. CNN and that report are quite frankly retarded. They had to fish images from places like 4chan and other forums just to add to their propagandous narrative. I think I speak for everyone here when I saw that we don’t support hitler, we don’t support racism, …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 11:21 PM
3

Have you thought about meditation? As lame as it sounds it can help clear your mind and reduce stress if you get into it. Also practice and experience will always help get rid of self doubt
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:19 AM
2

Lol I missed that. Regardless she sounds pretty awful. No point in focusing on a hoe especially at such a young age
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:08 PM
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She is not wife or girlfriend material. She is treating you like the beta you are being. Fucking curve her dude, she probably is approaching the wall and now is trying to lock down a guaranteed house and income after all of those years of the cock carousel. Nothing is wrong with you, she is a manipulative slut who is now trying to pretend she isn’t a slut to get a slice of the pie and a ring. Again, LEAVE HER, she’s using you and you aren’t even getting pussy from it!
/r/askTRP29/10/17 08:06 PM
1

Amused mastery
/r/askTRP28/10/17 05:20 PM
3

She is being beyond dodgy bro. Fucking next next next. Don’t even bother talking to her anymore unless she is texting you first with plans
/r/askTRP28/10/17 09:34 AM
3

Can you explain your situation a little less retardedly?
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:03 AM
1

If the your friend is dating her, he probably doesn’t consider it cheap pussy. It’s one thing to be Eskimo bros with some plate or booty call and another to fuck with your bros ltr
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 02:05 AM
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You did the right thing. The only other option was to demote her to friends with benefits but that would’ve probably made her even more mad from the sound of things. She’s a disrespectful little bitch so if I were you I’d start moving on ASAP and starting fucking around with other women. Don’t talk to this girl anymore unless she wants dick
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:03 AM
1

Well I think you’ve done a good job at identifying what needs to change. Now you have to make some sort of plan to fix these things. I’m not sure what’s wrong with your apartment or car but those can be fixed. You don’t need a Lamborghini to drive a bitch home. Just make sure your apartment is clean and tidy and if something is broken you or the landlord can fix it. Start saving money and you’re doing better than lots of people so you have every right to feel at least somewhat confident
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 01:14 AM
1

I think every person will have a different opinion on each one of those
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:41 AM
2

Working out obviously, joining a martial art is a great idea, any hobbies you like you can invest more time into, and just get out of the house and do events and shit! Free time is incredibly nice to have
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:40 AM
2

You shouldn’t have to avoid things you want to do because you’re scared she might think you’ll pay. For me I have never bought a girl anything first. I am willing to pay if they forgot they’re money or it’s a special event like a birthday. Also I definitely don’t buy for a girl I just met
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:34 AM
1

If someone’s truly your friend you won’t fuck around with their girlfriend. Not worth losing a true friendship for some cheap pussy
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:32 AM
2

Solid fucking advice right here
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:26 AM
2

I’d ghost him personally. Also what the fuck were you doing telling him your business and financial moves, that’s personal shit and sharing it with a bum ass is just dumb. Either way I’d not let him around anymore and start going out with people you actually trust. Be polite at family events but otherwise fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:23 AM
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I think incels know the harshness of life and reality pretty well. They don’t have the rose tinted glasses like blue pills, however, they’re all faggots. They see reality for what it is but instead of realizing they can change and reap the rewards, they just play dead and give up
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:15 AM
1

Passing a comfort test is pretty easy. You just give them a nurturing response or something a little bit beta. Ex: “chad I feel like everybody hates me and that you’re just going to leave me!!!” Chad: “don’t worry I’m here for you” If you search comfort test in the little search bar I’m sure there’s some post about it
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:11 AM
2

Why the hell would you develop oneitis for someone who’s taken and clearly not very loyal!? Dude take a step back from her for a little bit and keep messing with some other women in the mean time. Don’t make a dumb decision to pedesalize her of all people
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:02 AM
2

Then do the internal work or just start approaching and overcome the fear by facing it
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:57 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:56 PM
3

Yeah you fucked up bud but if you’re in “monk mode” you shouldn’t give a shit. Monk mode is about working on yourself physically and emotionally. As for noticing interest you can read some threads about ioi’s(indicators of interest) and it’s always good to assume attraction in general
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:44 PM
1

My fucking god you’re retarded. Hopefully you learned a valuable lesson. Read the entire sidebar and don’t post again until you have it fucking memorized
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:10 AM
2

Wow this is just pure hamstering. I’m a lean guy but never would I embrace being underweight just to justify my rejections. That is very bitch made. You need to bulk the fuck up and face life as it is. You might also get less rejections if you actually put work into yourself and your appearance
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:34 AM
1

Keep on improving then homie. Then when you are the shredded rich chad you’ll be the one doing the rejecting
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 01:22 AM
2

Although these are basic concepts for redpill, I really enjoyed how you wrote this. The in text examples are perfect for redpill noobs who are on the fence or in disbelief. Sweet post man
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 01:18 AM
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That’s retarded. You should just always be firm on your opinion. Only disagree if you truly disagree. Also, part of being a man is being able to admit you’re wrong when you are.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:30 AM
1

You are not in love. You’re just lusting hardcore and getting beta butterflies because people get nervous thinking about things they’ve never done. Read the sidebar and work on improving yourself and maybe then you’ll be able to actually sleep with a woman instead of losing sleep over what if’s and inaction.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:28 AM
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You can either tell her to come see it in person or fuckin next her
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:25 AM
2

I would say I agree with you on not ghosting forever. It’s one thing not to reach out and another to just block them on all facets. I think the fundamental thing here is that you’re being the chaser. She should want, desire, and be chasing you. You need more of a prize mentality my friend. I think it is okay to keep in touch with her but having oneitis and making her your only object of affection is unhealthy and damaging to you. Keep improving upon yourself and focus on your life. She is out th…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 04:52 AM
1

Their place is always an option. I’m not sure how laid back your parents are but your home could work. A car is risky but can work
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 11:25 PM
1

I think abc put it pretty well. Yeah a lot of them are most likely just a one night thing but you can always ask to see if they’re from the area and get their number.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 06:11 PM
2

That’s good that you’re able to introspect like that and I agree that if you’re trying to get in her pants again then you might have to change. Alpha doesn’t mean being mean. You can try implementing game on her again but I think if she isn’t receptive it’ll eventually boil down to you having to move on. Remember you don’t want to focus all of your attention on one girl when there’s millions out there for you to meet
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 06:09 PM
3

Raves or concerts are good for under 21
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 06:17 AM
3

Get out of that shit now. She sees you as a beta to some extent and probably has something wrong with her if she acts like that. Any woman who tells you to “kill yourself” should be ghosted. Go fuck other women because you need to get over the oneitis you have for this scumbag. The only thing you should ever send her in the future is you pumping some other bitch on Snapchat.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:54 AM
2

Are you ever going to fuck her or be with her again? If the answer is no, you need to move on.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:47 AM
2

Don’t tell her you lied. If it bothers her that much you’ll have to next her. You should’ve never gotten trapped into her frame enough for her to ask that question and get an answer out of you in the first place
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:45 AM
2

I think if you only send those two things then it’s fine. But yeah wait until tomorrow at the very least. Let her mind wander
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:44 AM
1

Lmao coming from you that means nothing. Go back to watching your movies, you illiterate fuck.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 03:41 AM
3

I agree with tiway22, calling her bluff could prove to be a very effective way to manage this. You get to fuck her, she’s no virgin anymore, and it’ll allow you to see other women without shame if she does break up with you. Definitely try to get her to have sex with you again
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:00 PM
3

Definitely start seeking sex from other women. Don’t tell this girl, but basically make her a plate. She’s being an idiot and there is likely something going on behind the scenes here. Like I said i would not commit to that chick, you need to meet other women and use them as dread man
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:59 PM
1

“#meeeeeetoo”
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:55 PM
2

I wasn’t saying it was Sabrina paterski. Learn to read stupid bitch. I was talking about the throwaway account that commented and telling you not to listen to him. Is your account named throwaway? Didn’t think so. So gather the context before you go charging people up, you ignorant cuckold
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:31 PM
2

Wait til next week. Escalate and get them digits boy
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:21 AM
3

Just buy the fuckin flower. It’s basically tradition for school dances
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:19 AM
1

Don’t listen to that beta throwaway. He’s been posting about that Sabrina slut a ton on asktrp and clearly has oneitis for her despite never having met her. Honestly needs to be banned
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:16 AM
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I personally think you’re getting a little too hung up on it. The first girl bought you drinks so that’s a very good sign and the second girl sounded okay. Yeah you didn’t get the kiss or lay but so what, you had fun and didn’t buy anyone else’s stuff. I’d say for sure give the first girl another hangout especially if she reaches out and maybe meet up with the second girl too if she pursues or shows some strong interest
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:13 AM
1

Then good job so far.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:35 AM
3

Never focus all of your efforts on one woman! You wouldn’t bet your entire stack for one meh hand, would you? The same applies for women, you need to cast your net wide. Texting conversations to this chick is dumb. You should only text her about meeting up. If she agrees to meet up, then you should put some game and effort into escalating. If she is being dodgy, let her chase you and don’t entertain her shit because you could be talking and meeting women who actually give a shit. You don’t have …
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:31 AM
11

Quit fantasizing about fictional whores you’ve seen on your Netflix binges. Go meet some real women and find out bud
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:26 AM
1

I second this. Hikes if done right can escalate super easily.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:02 AM
7

I know plenty of women who’ve ridden the cock carousel and have never had a boyfriend. Quit pedestalizing some smart whore. She will never even know you exist and she’s definitely no unicorn
/r/askTRP17/10/17 05:01 AM
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There are so many beta comments in here. I personally commend Steve jobs. He acted like a Chad and stayed on his mother fucking mission. His ex clearly wanted to just gold dig and was just being ungrateful of the middle class income that jobs was willing to give to her and the daughter. Jobs took care of his daughter even if it was at arms length and shut down a gold digging hoe every time she tried to manipulate him. Fuck everyone saying “jobs is a meanie who hurt his old girlfwend’s fee fees”
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 01:16 AM
1

On top of what others have said, tinder is a woman’s app. The top women on there probably get every single guy they swipe right on and have hundreds+ of cocks to choose from
/r/askTRP15/10/17 04:44 AM
1

No it doesn’t
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:41 AM
1

Fuck other women. Jesus Christ, even your analogy is shit, it should’ve said how can I enjoy driving nothing when I drove a Camry once, because that’s what you’re doing, driving nothing instead of working to get at some other cars. She was nothing special I can guarantee that. She is a slut. If you fuck other women and get some goddamned variety you’ll be over her in a heartbeat. Hell maybe you’ll find a new oneitis
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 12:28 AM
2

By getting out and doing things. Then cold approach
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 06:10 AM
1

Quit being a jealous clinger. Flirt with other women if it bothers you that damn much. This is why multiple plates is recommended, so you don’t catch fucking oneitis
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 06:06 AM
2

^ Solid advice!
/r/askTRP13/10/17 12:51 AM
1

Personally my text game isn’t top notch so I can’t offer any pointers. However, if you search “text game” or “texting” on theredpill sub there’s plenty of decent guides to do it
/r/askTRP12/10/17 11:19 PM
1

Just remember your tools man! Agree and amplify, pressure flip, etc. those can be used against others too.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 11:15 PM
28

There’s no fully dedicated articles that I could find but the term used for these defendas on redpill is “mother hens”. Mother hens boost the attractiveness of the rest of their group by having themselves as a comparison. Mother hens are jealous creatures who try to play the protective card in a poor attempt to seem picky like their companions. An easy way to get around mother hens is to have a wingman flirt her up. Mother hens usually back off if you kiss up to them a little at first or if they…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 07:34 AM
3

Don’t completely ghost her. Just let her put forth all of the effort. If she doesn’t say anything then fine. Talk to other women in the mean time
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 07:12 AM
5

Don’t just start a fight for no reason. My advice is to just bite the bullet and talk to those people you are afraid of. If you sit and think about it, it could take forever. If you bite the bullet you could have talked to those three types of people in a single day.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 07:11 AM
6

By not giving a shit. It isn’t some competition with your plates. You’re using them to satisfy yourself sexually and romantically. Having multiple plates keeps you level headed Incase one of them starts acting shitty because you know you can drop her and have those other options.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 03:01 AM
3

That’s a very genuine question. I’d say you have the right idea by knowing you need to continue practicing. Getting in good gym time also helps boost your self confidence because of improving aesthetics and just the natural testosterone boost. If you find your hand trembling you can always have it halfway in your pocket. If you’re that nervous just take a deep breath thru your nose and exhale out of your mouth. It gets easier I promise.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:59 AM
8

Geez man. Get out of the house for starters. Get a decent haircut. Go to the gym and sign up for a membership and start eating more if you’re a skinny fuck and less if you’re a chunker. Talking to customer service workers for starters is a safe route
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:54 AM
5

Stop texting her, period. Make her ask to hangout. In the mean time you might as well start looking for and getting at other chicks. Girls don’t like clingers
/r/askTRP12/10/17 12:24 AM
1

Quit texting for conversations. If your text game is shit, texting should only be used to make plans. If your in-person conversational skills are bad too I’d reread that sidebar and work on talking normally first. Having an interesting life helps
/r/askTRP12/10/17 12:21 AM
3

I’d say definitely don’t set that as a boundary and don’t stress over it. Girls do dumb shit when they go out together but you can’t stop them. If she cheats or goes out a ton you can always next her
/r/askTRP12/10/17 12:17 AM
0

Bullshit, half your comment was telling us to “drop the front”. You’re full of shit bud
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:35 PM
1

If you think you’re red pill enough, you could try to fuck her and go ghost again. Otherwise I’d say ignore her ass and go chase other tail.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:01 PM
0

Lol maybe it’s not all of us that is wrong and instead you. Get over yourself and your cheating gf
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:54 PM
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“What’s beta about that” Reread your post and that’ll answer your stupid question
/r/askTRP10/10/17 05:16 AM
2

My god dude get a hold of yourself. When I was about 18 I was in an almost identical situation so I’m gonna extend an offer for you to pm me if you want. First off she isn’t worth a damn. She is not special and you’re only overly attributing these traits to her because youre infatuated. She was hurt by previous guys actually means she was a slut and rode dicks and now feels guilty that chad didn’t settle down. What you need to do is fucking emotionally move on. That relationship is essentially o…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 05:14 AM
2

Don’t listen to these moronic pseudo-alphas. If a doctor is telling you that lifting is off limits there’s probably a reason why. If I were you I’d research your condition and if you doubt your cardiologist then get a second opinion but there is no sense in doing something that could cause harm to you. Again I do not know your medical history but doing sprints is a good muscle builder and can keep you in solid shape. Make sure you’re eating sufficient protein too. Aside from the muscle tone I’d …
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:05 AM
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I think she was giving some last minute resistance or anti-slut defense. Either way you should’ve just pushed for it in a light and playful manner. “I’ll just tuck you into bed and go” “we can just go up and watch a movie” or some other bs but yeah you could’ve possibly got the lay. Better luck next time
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:46 PM
2

Best of luck to you mate
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:40 PM
2

I’d say just let her fume. Don’t be overbearing and make sure you pass her comfort tests. If she wants space, give it and if she wants to talk then talk. Dont go full beta but be comforting if you really want to fix things. Despite that advice I’d still say long distance is a dangerous thing for a young man like you. I’ve slept with a girl who was “on a break” from her long distance boyfriend of 3 years and then she went back to him. Long distance is very hard to pull off without fuckery
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:33 PM
3

If I were you I’d gain her trust and fuck her like she wants and then ghost her for a few days just to see what’d happen! The catholic upbringing could legitimize her number but otherwise I’d say she’s fucked easily more than 1 dude probably more like 10
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:30 PM
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How did she even find out you slept with another woman? And I’d say it’s pretty dumb to do this ldr especially since you are so young, she’s far away and could easily cheat, and you’re pedestalizing her. Quit your oneitis. Long distances fail more often than not
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:25 PM
6

This is called mother henning. Usually the uglier girl of the group try’s to protect all the little cuties from getting nabbed up. A good tactic for this is having a wingman. He can flirt up the uggo while you slay. It’s possible to be flirty with the mother hen yourself and get her to accept you and let you do whatever with her friend according to things I’ve read on red pill but I’ve never successfully pulled that off
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:17 PM
1

I’m with the other guy on this. Marriage is a dumb thing to look for especially that soon. How could you even know if you wanted to marry someone before you ask her out? If you’re attracted to women I’d say only beat your meat once a week tops and start working on your physical health and social skills
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:08 PM
0

I was reading your replies and I’d honestly reccomend therapy until you are comfortable with conversing with others. Therapy can be sort of hogwash as you get further along but at first some cognitive-behavioral therapy could do wonders for you. Working out and eating a good diet can help you a little to improve body image and just natural confidence. Maybe try talking to guys over team chats on video games. And don’t over think it too much. If you put too much pressure on yourself you’ll end up…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:20 AM
1

You could be asexual? Just get out and keep your body healthy and be successful. If doing it isn’t for you then so be it. You are the ruler of your life
/r/askTRP07/10/17 02:15 AM
2

Move on, why would you even talk about having kids and marriage; even if you’re blue pill you should at least wait until you’ve been dating for a long while. Cut off contact, stop buying drinks, and go meet other women.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 12:50 AM
3

Let it pass and what the heck man, when a chick asks if you’re fucking other girls you don’t give her a straight answer. That’s a basic shit test and you didn’t pass it. Don’t put that pussy on a pedestal, there’s always better ass out there. Ignore her until she crawls back
/r/askTRP05/10/17 02:39 AM
1

Dude, stop giving a shit what one dumb bitch said. All you can do is improve yourself as much as possible and not pay any mind to her. She’s probably ugly
/r/askTRP05/10/17 02:35 AM
3

Play the field man. Take what you’ve learned and implement it until you’re comfortable. You’ll learn what works when. And for frame you really just have to put yourself in some uncomfortable situations from time to time and not crack. And by uncomfortable I don’t mean something like streaking, I mean going to that party you only know one person at or approaching the hot chick and not letting her treat you like you’re shit
/r/askTRP05/10/17 02:20 AM
6

Mate shut up. She was trying to use him as free meal ticket. She invited him out to lunch and then tries to put him on the spot by stating while they’re in line that she now doesn’t have the money. She’s full of shit and so are you for attempting to justify it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 07:33 PM
1

Prefacing this by saying this is all anecdotal from the two big cities I frequent. I think it depends on the spot and the person. If you’re just an average guy the cut off is probably around mid to late 30’s but I’ve seen some old guys (late 40s) get along just fine in some trendier spots. Usually the older guys that I see that are actually successful in clubs are in shape, appearing wealthy, and chill. Some spots that I’ve been to get wide varieties where nobody gives a shit about the ages, alt…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 12:57 AM
2

Pretty shit post here. You tried quantifying something when you could have just wrote about it instead. Your equation is garbage and doesn't work for shit and you had the nerve to call it "gargs law" as if you had proven and tested it many times. The premise almost has some merit but I think most of us know higher smv and not committing to sluts is good. Bad science and bad post, try again.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 11:57 PM
2

Just do a basic power flip and say that they can't handle you
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:57 AM
2

Well you could either not fuck her or just play it off as starting a relationship and saying it just didn't work out
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 12:23 AM
1

Talk to more people and practice it. Sitting at home, reading and thinking about charisma won't make you more charismatic. Raw field practice will. Talk to anyone even if they're some old guy or a cutie
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 12:22 AM
1

Well if you live near any large cities you could attend events there such as concerts. Once you turn 21 bar game becomes an option too
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 12:19 AM
2

lol just don't fixate on her and maybe time to chat up some new chicks
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 12:19 AM
2

There's two reasons she wouldn't do it: 1. She wouldn't ever do that or 2. She isn't attracted to you enough. You cannot negotiate attraction or "convince" her unless she was going to do it already and was just putting up resistance as a shit test
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:22 PM
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In a nutshell it's about sexual strategy for males and becoming the best version of yourself. I'd recommend reading the sidebar and some of the top posts of all time. You can take a lot away from this sub if you truly become invested in what you learn and apply it to the real world.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:19 PM
1

Have you considered going out of town for college?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:17 PM
8

He isn't an edgelord, he's correct. You are a beta bucks and you are funding her and her sexcapades too. You can fund your children without being cuckolded
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:40 AM
3

Good on considering her as not ever being a keeper, I'd just recommend the red pill 101, it sounds like you sort of know your shit but just let her get the best of you a bit. Just keep practicing and you'll be all good
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 02:25 AM
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It definitely sounds like you could use a sidebar refresher. Practice some amused mastery with her and stop going into her frame. For gods sake it's super obvious what she's doing. She's trickle truthing like crazy "I just did handjobs with my clients". She's a slut mate and quite frankly you should treat her like one. Don't pay for your "dates" and she is already starting to consider you a beta bucks because she is not letting you treat her how probably 50+ men before you have treated her. If I…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 02:15 AM
2

Holy triggered. I don't really agree with this post but my god you sound like a miserable soul. Also so many women define their worth through men daily.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 04:12 AM
1

That article is such trash lol. Of course a woman would gladly deny truths of the sexual marketplace. I used to be in denial of this sub-Reddit too when I was younger but the things talked about here and the sidebar material has rang true time and time again. Any newcomers, I recommend you come here with an open mind and really try to understand the ideas that are written. Compare them to what you've witnessed in your life. There is a lot to be learned here even if it doesn't align perfectly wit…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 02:27 AM
4

If I were Amir I'd hit that woman with the most vicious uppercut I could muster
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 01:12 AM
1

This read like that damn denko story. Mate whether this is fake or not just go fuckin lift
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 09:45 AM
1

Stop worrying about women think. You are very young and this is the perfect time to grind rather than cashing in your tokens now for some shitty puss. You should be studying hard, working out, eating right, hygiene, and making friends with bros. the women will come later but they should not be your focus now. Stop overthinking and start doing the things that will make you into who you desire to become.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 02:40 AM
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