Background:

I'm 5'7" proud Indian descent male from the ATL, GA! I have a LTR, who I love but get frustrated by (seldom). I don't "Spin Plates" anymore. I want to settle down and start a family with the right person. I think she is a good match for me and is similar to me in goals/mindset. I'm a little weird. I'm a shredded dude with six pack abs, I own house/car/etc., I have an income over 150k, I'm under 30, and I have an abundance mentality.

Problem:

I was at a pool party with LTR. We were drinking and hanging out. I'm playing beer pong, she is sitting next to me. There was a random dude that we talked to at the party and met there for the first time. He came up and rubbed on her leg. She told me about it afterwards, within like 5 mins of it happening. She said she wanted to leave and told me that dude rubbed her leg. I asked her if she said no and asked her what she wanted me to do? she got mad and said she wanted to leave the party. 20 mins later we left. and now she is super upset, i didn't realize she felt molested.

Looking back, I feel like should have confronted the dude about his inappropriate actions and consoled LTR. I was focused on my pong game and didnt realize she felt molested.

What should I have done? What is the alpha move?