So I'm a big guy.

This post is not meant to come across as a humblebrag btw.

6'4" 225lbs, pretty damn lean/ripped.

Anyways I'm usually much bigger than most guys. I've been told my size is intimidating, a lot of guys are afraid to even talk to me. I have the same effect on women too..

I try to act natural/chill but people cant quite chill out or still act weird around me.

A lot of the talk on here is to remain stoic, if I do that I would look serious which I think is a detriment. Should I act like a big teddy bear/goof to get these women to be able to relax and chill out around me?