What to message her?

christophertracy92 · 2018-10-29T09:41:27+00:00

"she's probably a 5 or 6/10 but I'm probably not any better atm " - Chicks fuck up. You have no chance going in with that attitude. At least DHV.

Iron Rule of Rollo Tomassi #9
Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for — women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t seriously consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-Depreciation is a misguided tool for the AFC, and not something that would even occur to an Alpha.

You could ask how her night was or whatever, it doesn't really matter. Make your intentions clear from the begging , otherwise she will LJBF you or keep you orbiting.

Cut to the chase soon after you start chatting and ask her out.

Bruchibre · 2018-10-29T08:04:31+00:00

Yeah you can do that as an opener but keep it short don’t start chatting. As soon as she replies switch the conversation to “let’s meet up”.

Title	What to message her?
Author	j_complex
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Date	October 29, 2018 6:52 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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