Hey guys, so this was new year's eve we were 5 friends in an appartment we rented on AirBNB and we decided to invite random girls with the help of a facebook group. Something like 8 or 9 girls joined us in small groups of 2.

We were drinking and everything was good then it was time to go out, some people went in a bar others in a night club so we got split up.

We tried to go to a night club with 2 hotties (8/10) from the appartment party but they got pre sells and we didn't so we had to wait something like one and a half hour to get in. We said fuck it it's not worth it.

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This is where we began texting some other girls from the appartment party and they were in a bar, great, we join them.

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I start talking to J (7.5/10), she admits she didn't like me in the appartment cause I was a bit mean to people blablabla but now she's starting to like me. (she says)
I'm like "yea i'm very direct, sometimes it doesn't go well with people"

I smile she smiles, we dance, she starts craving for my validation telling me "I'm also direct I like to say what I think blablabla" so everything is going perfectly.

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At some point I'm not sure what happened exactly maybe I was talking to a friend or something, I didn't have my attention on her and some guy starts dancing with her. Remember that in my mind, I had her, it was done.

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So I see that and go to him putting my hand on his chest and telling him something like back off ( first mistake ? probably) the dude starts backing off but J is like "no it's ok". That pisses me off. So i'm cucked and now start actively ignoring her, talking to other chicks not looking at her. She dances maybe 20 seconds with him and then she has her back on a wall just waiting for me to come back looking at me rapidly, at that point I can feel her gaze and I cross her glance one or two times but immediately look away and do my own things.

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At that point I still think I could have fucked her but my ego was telling me not to, she disrespected me why would I give her attention again ?

We leave all together because my friends mixed up with her group and on the way out she comes to me and tells me something like "what the fuck ? why are you ignoring me ?"

So I tell her "you told me it's okay, you danced with that other guy so i'm done."

She's like "but we're not a couple ! I do what I want !"
And I answer "Yes we're not a couple so you can understand that I lost interest after you dancing with some other guy can't you ?"

After that she's just mumbling some nonesense clearly very emotional and we part ways.

So, her dancing with this other guy was probably a shit test but should I just accept that much disrespect ? I mean, I invested some time in her, we danced and talked for an hour or so I don't get how I can tolerate that kind of behaviour without feeling like i'm losing all dignity.

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