Long post, possibly unnecessary.
So a noobie here looking for what exactly I did wrong, Relevant background info: I am 6’2 175 hella skinny, not much luck with women.
So last Friday I am at a party with my university team ( ultimate frisbee club) and the women’s ultimate team. There a women came up to me and introduced herself to me as Sarah (my guess would be HB6). During the party she came up to me multiple times and introduced me to some of her friends whenever I got near her, I took this as a positive sign and eventually talked with her about fake id’s and me making an order for some of my friends. I got her snap because she wan undecided if she was gonna buy one. I was pretty drunk so I didn’t really flirt with her at all.
Two days later I snapped her asking if she was in a the fakes and she said no. Couple days later in a Thursday I snapped her with a snap asking if this was corny ( a callback to our conversation we had at the party) to which she said yeah. We snapped pretty much all day every 20 minutes or so.
Skip the part where had inter-mural fall league. While not on the same team we played in the same area as there are 6 different fall teams. I was looking for her but no luck until long the end when I was packing up my cleats and glanced up and saw her looking at me. She immediately looked away as did I. I hurried out as I was not feeling well ( chugged a couple beers before hand that did not sit well). She later snapped asking why I wasn’t at the after game meal at the dining halls that we all usually go to.
This is where her snapchats seemed to become less invested. While she did reply every time I snapped her ( I admit I creeped on her location to make sure) something just felt off. I ended the snapping at around 9:30 leaving her unread. The next day I slowed the snapping, basically only snapping her a super corny/flirty joke ( chipotle burrito with a caption of “can I wrap you in a tortilla and call you my bae-rito). She responded with a picture of her friend giving me the peace sign. Then I ask her if she is going to the frisbee party later and she says she is going to another university to visit her brother.
After a few more attempts at flirty snaps while I am partying I snap her saying that I think she is missing out on a good party. She responds with a picture of her and some guy also at a party saying I wish I was there. I say good cuz your hella cute. To which she replies with a picture of the same guy saying “thank you, xxxxxx” I say xxxxxx because I don’t remember/ too drunk. I immediately get pissed and snap back “oof, cold”. She doesn’t respond. I make the mistake of double snapping something flirty/corny (picture of a light switch; does this turn you on?”) to which she responds with “uuugggg no” ( this time by herself). I make another mistake and snap her back saying good.
So I know I fucked up big here and that it’s not recoverable but can anyone point out exactly where/how? I am thinking after she saw me at the inter mural game she didn’t like what she saw and was trying to give me hints. Maybe I came off as desperate? Did I give her too much attention too soon? I admit I haven’t added many girls on snap so I might have jumped the gun by snapping her too much.
And hey, I posted this so I can learn so please ease up on the read sidebar shit.
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