So this girl I've been dating for several months has seen me through the worst. She was there when my dad passed away, she's seen me cry, and she know's about my insecurities and fears. I also stay at her place. Yea I know I'm pretty fucked. For some reason she won't "give up" on me though. But I've had some bad episodes where I've gone off on her for no reason due to emotional problems.

Last week I offered her to have me move out, because basically I feel like I will never be able to work fully on myself and let go of her if I feel like I have to be there at all times. Immediately she sent a text to one of her friends that lives 6 hours away, saying she might come visit this weekend. Then she proceeds to start taking all my shit and breaks out in tears and says you might as well break up with me now because this is just going backwards.

Keep in mind she actually moved down from that city 6 months ago and has no friends here and has no gone to visit since. She's now telling me that she's going this weekend and that she does not want me to come. She wants some "me time" with her friends up there by herself.

She know's how insecure I am about her going, all that shit. We still have sex on the regular, she cooks all my food, does my laundry. Spends most of her time with me.

Discuss.