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4

"You've got great form... for a girl."
/r/askTRP24/05/16 04:17 AM
1

You're welcome to think that.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 02:48 PM
1

I get that. But you have some social control? You can't control your thought process all the time, but here you are making clear statements. You have some control. Start small and work your way up. You can do it, but you need to believe you can too.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:46 PM
1

Is everything in your life out of your control? Bullshit.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:40 PM
1

Only if you let it.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:32 PM
1

So put in the effort and change that. Easier said than done, but why come here if you didn't want to change?
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:31 PM
7

100%. She got dicked down and he didn't want her. She's a cum dumpster, treat her accordingly.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:26 PM
4

You're right in that regard. I've noticed some of the older girls are a bit more bitter, especially the ones that fucked and drank their way through school and don't look as good as they used to. Sorority girls are my preferred ones to take home, because you go to their parties, hit on their sisters and then fuck them too.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 06:11 PM
3

Just go after the freshman Alpha Phis, much easier.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:37 PM
1

92/84/51
/r/askTRP23/04/16 07:44 PM
7

Flexed arm hang was what kids in the 5th grade were tested on if they couldn't do pull-ups yet, we're basically setting women equal to children again.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 09:23 AM
1

Sure, it's possible.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 04:36 AM
1

I did the math. I don't think I could sleep that much every day, unless you power it in over the weekend.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 04:22 AM
3

72 hours of sleep a week? Damn.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 04:09 AM
1

Well you know what you need to work on. I would not have texted her "not nice" after she didn't pick up the call, though.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:47 PM
2

"Donald Trump" "Kanye West" a non serious answer. Probably not worth pursuing though. Next time don't call her phone, put your name in her phone and text yourself or have her put your number in your phone and text her something eyecatching like "Hot whoisthisguyatbar from the wherever you met her" Short conversations for numbers don't usually lead to closes, but you should still give it a shot.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:32 PM
1

Yeah don't give in. Lots of girls bring it up to me, who cares, it leaves them in a state of I wonder what he's doing or why he hasn't replied. Go with something short like what /u/cholomite posted and then never talk about it again.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:32 PM
2

Just don't reply, and act normally when you see her.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 01:21 AM
1

Time to flirt/ push for a meetup. "Duh, of course I am. Let's get drinks and catch up at X on X at X time."
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:01 AM
3

Go to /r/malefashionadvice , look at everyone else's clothes, and figure out what you like and what you don't, then go to the store and see if it works out.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 08:07 PM
1

Good, always make sure you're having fun.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:47 PM
4

Hence why randos aren't really worth it. "You know me AND think I'm cute? Whoa, do you do this with all of the guys?" Keep it fun, it's too early to try and meet up, she's obviously a little intrigued, but Facebook friend adds don't mean much to begin with.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:29 PM
3

Keep us updated.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:19 PM
7

One of my favorite lines is "Do we know each other or do you just think I'm cute?" if I have no clue who she is. Otherwise not really worth the effort, imo.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 06:47 PM
5

That's the hamster for ya
/r/askTRP13/04/16 09:54 PM
3

Whispering in her ear while you're hitting her from behind and saying "I want you to remember that when you leave here, this pussy is mine. Do you understand that? I want to hear you say it." They'll usually whisper first, have them say it louder and louder until you're satisfied then just wail on that pussy.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 07:15 PM
1

I suggest working your way up to it. I may have messed it up, but I told my last ex "You're my little slut." and it was instant "No don't call me that." Continued the sex, interesting moment though.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 07:14 PM
11

I reply "Absolutely." or "I'm a sexually liberated male, you bigot." or something else basically saying yes and that I enjoy being a "fuckboy."
/r/askTRP13/04/16 07:11 PM
6

The American Dream one is brutal.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 10:26 PM
4

Some lucky guy will get to marry them one day.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 10:20 PM
3

I've heard a few girls tell stories about measuring a dude's tool with a ruler because they wanted to know. It likely wouldn't come to that, probably.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 10:01 PM
4

Her friends told her to ditch you and become a massive slut. Get rid of this bitch already.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 10:26 PM
6

My go to when told that I'm a fuckboy is "I'm a sexually liberated male, you bigot." I got it from somewhere on here. *Honestly though, I find it to be one of the most unattractive things a girl can say and if she uses the term seriously, I don't consider her LTR material.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 10:22 PM
2

They don't have to be dress slacks. They can be like this, or be more traditional chinos. The point is, they are less formal than dress slacks while being more formal than jeans, normal pants and those tactical pants.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 05:10 AM
6

I hate everything about the thought of you wearing those for an interview haha
/r/askTRP19/03/16 04:37 AM
23

Definitely whiskey dick. Otherwise it's wham bam thank you ma'am, now get out of my house.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:48 AM
4

Read the Sex God Method. Sex is more than just banging away at her like she's a punching bag.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 08:10 AM
7

No.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 10:16 AM
1

Don't say anything about it. Its a bunch of bullshit Tumblr stuff, the girls who say stay away aren't girls you're gonna wanna fuck in the first place, going around saying stuff like "make rape legal." What a time to be alive.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:35 PM
1

Could be anything. It's not really worth thinking about what's going on in her head, because you made an effort two or three times and at this point it's not worth it. Just move on. A lot of the time they just lose interest. Some girls will text back after the "come over right now" line just to see how much you'll try and get her over to your place, and they'll use it as validation.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:15 PM
2

Because you not texting them back when they texted "What're you up to," is a rejection, so now it's up to you to try again.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:06 PM
3

When a girl texts you that late that's her Hail Mary too, and no reply also constitutes a rejection. You could reply "Busy" and spin that hamster without completely ignoring her, then hit her up later. No real effort on your part.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:52 PM
2

Don't forget to say it with confidence and a smirk here, whatever you choose to say.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:50 PM
6

I'd probably tease her with something like "Let's go get coffee and I can help you with your German" knowing full well she speaks it better than me. I've read on here German women respond well to aggressive and forward actions, but your mileage may vary.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:46 PM
1

I think you're well within bounds of saying you're not comfortable with it and if she goes, she's not the kind of girl you want to be dating. Just leave it at that.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 04:07 PM
10

You should say nothing and support whatever statement they make if you value your reputation and academic career.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 03:53 PM
2

It's pretty anti-social. I'm guilty of it myself. I'll notice I'm in a better mood if I walk around without headphones. It's nice to listen to the music but you're shutting out the real world and lot of opportunities by doing it, plus if you're music's loud, you're not going to have good awareness.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 07:49 PM
11

"losing*, we're done"
/r/askTRP28/01/16 02:14 AM
1

I've read differing views on that. Once a girl gets downgraded from a position, she can't reattain that position. So if she was an LTR and gets downgraded to a plate for whatever reason, she can't become an LTR again.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:42 PM
1

It's subjective and there is no set packaging for a Red Pill man. A Red Pill man goes after what he wants and takes it, adjusts his lifestyle to fit his life mission, and leaves distractions on the side of the road.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 09:55 PM
5

Jesus dude, it's not that big of a deal.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:40 PM
1

Obviously you tell her no. You can say this in an A&A way, or say something that flips it to her bringing you something, etc, or even ignore it.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 11:05 PM
4

Just don't reply. It's not worth your time.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:10 AM
25

They don't think like men. We'll form an opinion about something and be pretty solid about it for a while. With women, how they feel about something can change every single day. And when feelings are no longer being provided, which is what a woman loves about you, how you make her feel, then she moves on quickly to the next fix, unless she can't do any better than you, in which case you alpha widowed her.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 03:36 PM
2

I mean yeah, I'm just listing options. I've read as long as you don't buy a supply large enough considered to be used for distribution, the authorities won't really care anyways. Can you shed any light on that?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 10:35 PM
2

There are some source subreddits on Reddit. You can also use the dark net, Tor, amongst others. Or make it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:44 PM
1

I'll chip in here. Take care of your teeth, your body hair, your haircut, your skin, and body odor. Here's two birds with one stone. Either start an intramural basketball team as the captain of the team, or start a group you can play music with. This could easily become a band, and you'll be able to spend time with people who are equally passionate about music. Or pick up another hobby such as hiking or another sport, like rugby. Add some yoga stretches, yoga can double as meditation if done pro…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 06:47 AM
2

Let it go, buddy. Hoping for all of that is a waste of your time and energy. One itis sucks. What else is going to suck is that she is going to move on. You need to too. If she moves back and reaches out to you, do what you want from there. This is not how you treat plates, by going to their parents' home when she is leaving after. As for the other plates, get over your current one itis, and start looking for higher quality girls or turn your attention back on to yourself. Much like those girls,…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 04:33 AM
1

Check out Mike Cernovich and his Gorilla Mindset podcasts, Victor Pride's Bold and Determined, Joe Rogan, and from there you will learn of others. Is there a type of podcast you specifically want?
/r/askTRP04/01/16 04:26 AM
3

Make friends with him. Turn him into an ally. Make sure he knows you can't be pushed around easily, and that he learns to respect you and he could be not only useful, but potentially a friend.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 04:25 AM
1

I realize that you have feelings for this girl, but this sounds like an awful idea. You're not dating her, you're never going to see her again, is this really the best use of your time?
/r/askTRP04/01/16 04:24 AM
3

I had something similar happen to where the ex (or current boyfriend) of a girl followed me on social media to see who I was. He never did anything. I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 07:04 AM
2

If she is of age and able to give consent, he has done nothing wrong. On the other hand, lots of bad things happen at college parties and you are correct that going to them is risky for him.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 07:02 AM
1

You can read The Power of Now, and move on from others.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:21 AM
1

What he described is something I would like to achieve. The way he described it though, what's stopping him from living in that blissful universe all of the time? How does he accomplish things?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:19 PM
1

Damn. Is there a PDF? I figure I'll keep reading Power of Now anyways. I was pretty dubious at first because he basically described himself as a homeless man for two or so years in this state of bliss that sounded like drugs.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:25 PM
1

Tight. I read What Every Body is Saying, The Way of Men, the Rational Male, but Way of the Superior Man wasn't something I really got through so I stopped. Book of Pook and Sex God Method round it out, as well as Art of War, and 7 Habits.. Art of Seduction by Robert Greene is on my shelf with 48 Laws. It would be great to discuss them.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:23 PM
1

I should be done with it by then, currently reading Power of Now, just finished Models, and have finished some others. What have you read?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 06:31 AM
1

I just got that as a Christmas present from a friend.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 06:14 AM
2

Damn. I'm pretty sure they put steroids in Spec Ops MRE's.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:05 AM
3

Is this the same Tai Lopez as the YouTube ads showing off his house?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 04:00 PM
4

That's quite a leap between 2 and 3.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 02:26 PM
3

Was it a bad southern accent? Stuff's gold to women from the northern states who come down here.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:50 PM
5

There is, straight out of the 48 Laws, but constantly being the jester with women doesn't always work.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 07:55 AM
3

There's more than one right way to handle a shit test, and if all you do is agree and amplify it's easy to look like a clown.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 12:50 AM
1

Exactly, that's what I was avoiding, and why I said what I would personally do, without casting any judgment on you. Do what you want,
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:07 PM
1

It's always a good idea to get checked, just for your health, because part of what we spout on here is keeping oneself healthy, and not catching diseases when they are sort of avoidable is part of that. If someone asked if you did have it, I think you're legally obligated to tell them. I've gotten checked a couple times, and it is worth the peace of mind. Personally, if I had a disease, regardless of whether it was harmless for me, I would consider myself very irresponsible to think it's ok to e…
/r/askTRP16/12/15 03:35 AM
1

Nowhere to go but up, I like it.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:11 AM
6

Get it treated to the best of your ability. You'll now have to tell every woman you're with you have it. You'll have to accept that your sex life is probably going to take a step backwards. Move on from that and devote that extra effort to improving yourself elsewhere. They'll probably find a cure soon, so, until then your options are limited.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:48 PM
1

Be physically imposing and large. You're supposed to be a deterrent, but able to handle people when they act out, too. There are bouncing employers who hire you out to different bars, but otherwise getting in on that can come down to knowing people and they set you up.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 05:41 PM
2

It's more a reflection on the current trend of women becoming even more vain than they already are.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 02:27 AM
7

I don't think you're gonna be able to stop that. It's who they've become, what society has made them. They'll drop you before they ever drop online validation.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 11:42 PM
3

The majority of Reddit is made up of losers. Outside of pursuing your own hobbies with people who also enjoy them on subreddits, there is not much point in proactively trying to show people the Red Pill.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:11 PM
5

If you don't want them there, you can politely ask them to leave for a while or stay in their rooms. Jumping straight in the bedroom if you haven't fucked before isn't always the best move, but if that's your only option, go for it.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 03:39 PM
2

Wear whatever's comfortable. You're in your own house, no need to dress up. Go ahead and keep the lights on for now. Are you going to start in your room? Why not start the wine in, say, the living room? I did exactly what you did last week, and I started with wine in the living room and a movie or tv show, escalated on my couch from there. The girl obviously knows what's up or she wouldn't be coming over for wine at night, but it's better to err on the side of not setting off her ASD. Tease her …
/r/askTRP05/12/15 02:18 PM
1

What about TB500 plus HGH
/r/askTRP05/12/15 11:11 AM
2

The male hamster is almost as bad as the female one. Don't rationalize and make excuses for it, if that's all it really is. If you're on the way to a hospital emergency room, then it's probably a bad time to game a girl, but if you're just waiting for a coffee, go for it, if it starts cutting into your time just end the conversation and go. Never miss an opportunity, that's how you stunt your own growth.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 04:27 AM
1

Accutane is a good treatment while on cycle if it comes up.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 04:25 AM
4

That's a lame thing to do. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 04:24 AM
6

That's a tough situation. If you wanted to stay with her, you'll have to come to terms with her being different the rest of her life, in a negative way that will negatively affect your relationship and your happiness. People may judge you for it and shame you, but ultimately you need to put yourself first. If you think you're strong enough to do it, go for it. I don't think many men are. I imagine the shit tests are on a whole other level, more varied, and the deep psychological damages may affe…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 04:23 AM
5

People on this sub, myself included, really like to talk about themselves. I think it's a qualifying attempt to the rest of the guys on here, so they "fit in."
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 04:20 AM
2

Girls don't want irony, and don't find it hot in this case.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 08:15 PM
1

I promise you'll she reply to that. It's in the same vein of genuinely calling a girl a loser.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 05:01 PM
2

It's a beta song, but boy can she sing. You can see in some of the lyrics that she's upset the man had moved on and doesn't care about it as much as she does,m. Now, she probably doesn't give a fuck about him, but she probably cares that he doesn't care about her anymore and doesn't validate her by picking up the phone to "get closure" which is beta. So he's doing a pretty good job. That's my take on it.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 05:56 AM
3

If you want to be done with her, don't contact her anymore. You don't owe her anything, don't give her closure, she doesn't deserve it and it doesn't help you. If you still want her to snarf your nuts, you can reframe it so that a FWB situation is possible.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 01:00 AM
6

You have to decide how much the sexual experience is worth it to you. If it really bothers you that she won't blow you, dump her. My personal opinion is my girl should be happy to blow me, she's doing it to please me and it in turn pleases her knowing she's making me happy. I have first-hand experience with it. It's weird she doesn't want to do it, considering it's such a small thing compared to sex.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 08:57 PM
9

I'll play Devil's Advocate and tell you that if you're not getting the sexual experience you want and you can't teach her or warm her up to it, dump her and find a girl who will do what you want. You're not responsible for her hang ups.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 08:41 PM
1

Consider doing power stances in the morning too, along with breathing exercises posted on this sub for even better results in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 07:43 PM
1

I've never snow-skied there, I wouldn't know. Water skiing there is pretty nice, though. A quick google search brought up some nice "alpine" resorts near Chicago, though.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 04:59 AM
1

Columbus, and Grand Rapids aren't tooooo far either.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 04:56 AM
2

It'll be worth the good job, and it's pretty close to Indianapolis, Milwaukee, etc, so you can check those cities out too.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 04:48 AM
1

You could always go with mock surprise and say "No way, I'm the nicest guy ever," with a smirk, then change the subject.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 02:07 AM
2

I have mine enabled. Girls know when I'm ignoring them. They've commented on it before. Try both and see what your results are.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:09 PM
1

I got lucky in that out of the people I showed it to, one ended up being my best friend on our RP quest
/r/askTRP28/10/15 05:41 PM
1

A girl that you have fucked and will continue to fuck, but do not invest emotionally in. She's the girl you text to come over at 2 in the morning, not the one you bring home to mom on Easter Sunday. Now, a girl can upgrade from plate status. She has to earn that upgrade. But during that time, you are not dating her.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 01:54 PM
1

Desperation.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:47 PM
2

Yeah, it really doesn't matter as long as you don't slip into a negative mindset. Honestly, sometimes playing from behind like this can be more fun. On the other hand, I usually find the juice is not worth the squeeze at the end. I really just enjoy the chase and the hunt, most girls are meh.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:50 PM
2

You can't convince her to fuck you. Try radio silence, or say "lol" or "no way, I'm the best" Extricate yourself from the situation or commit allllll the way.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:11 PM
5

It's a dumb question that warrants a dumb response. "I'm 6' in heels." "I was 7 feet tall before the accident." "Do you have a thing for guys shorter than you?" Have fun with it, or just ignore it.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:23 AM
0

You're not wrong.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:20 AM
0

You're not wrong, but that's not what I meant. I've done the same thing you have, and whereas many men will stay in that position hoping to get back in the good graces, women typically hop onto the next dick pretty quickly, and how they feel about you has now changed.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:50 PM
1

The sexual strategy here is amoral. However you decide to use it is on you. It's like owning a gun. The ownership of that gun is amoral, what you do with it, say hunting to put food on the table for your family or going downtown and killing people for their possessions, determines the morality of that ownership.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 03:00 PM
1

Don't count on her staying true to that statement. She'll likely replace you.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 02:49 PM
4

I'm ok with him getting wrecked so we can get another album.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 07:52 PM
2

Read twice. Read the first time for recall, and the second time for understanding.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 11:25 PM
3

Which would you recommend reading? I'm also reading How To Become A Rainmaker by Jeffrey Fox
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 06:21 PM
2

Ultimately, your game is more a reflection of who you are, and the the more genuine you are when you practice game, the better your results will be. If you're a more solemn and introverted guy, boisterous peacocking might get you outed with girls who see right through you. That's something I've learned as I've applied game and figured certain approaches don't really work for me. Master what you have now, it is better to be a master at one thing than a jack of all trades in others. Enjoy the Book…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:46 AM
0

It's fine to use other's methods and systems to a point, but after that you can't rely on them. They are crutches. You will start walking on your eventually, using things you learned from Chateau Heartiste, RooshV, reading field reports and posts here in asktrp, until eventually you don't need it anymore. If you've ever read The Book of Pook, which you should have, you'll remember the Don Juan and the people who consistently came to them, and those who rarely did, and those who rarely did were m…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 02:45 AM
1

Rainmakers don't make excuses.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 02:24 AM
1

There is a site called Odesk where you can do freelance writing for people. They post jobs they want done, and you do them. Check it out.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:07 PM
1

A quick google search brought me to www.python.org. I would also suggest subscribing to relevant programming subreddits, which also contain great sources.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 01:00 AM
2

Which one? There are plenty of sources to learn Python from. For writing, just write down your thoughts, read books and articles by established writers, pay attention to the details of how they write, how their content flows, how they deliver their message, and apply it to your own writing. Once you're confident in your writing, look up Odesk.com You can become a freelance writer for people who want certain jobs done.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:50 AM
13

Learn some new computer languages, such as Python. Practice your writing. It's a great method of reflection, and if you get good enough you can create a source of income from it.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:36 AM
6

That's not true, man. Daddy issues are a red flag, and one that many people should know how to identify. Don't try and stifle the conversation.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 12:34 AM
-1

"That's Mr. Asshole to you." "You're such a flatterer." "You love it." This is a shit test that has so many possible responses.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:16 PM
5

I think the other guy has lost his way. I agree with your position on her massive emotional baggage and the possibility it isn't even true that happened to her. I think that you're understanding theory and applying it in analysis but aren't sure if you're right because he so vehemently so attacked you. The only thing you'll have to learn from this conversation is that some people don't get it and can't detach from emotional logic.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:51 PM
6

Do you want us to tell you you're right? It's the Internet, why do you care?
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:38 PM
1

What an amazing title. I'm looking for it in his newsletters he sends out, do you know when he published it?
/r/askTRP21/09/15 07:23 PM
1

Maybe he was cucked by a black dude. I agree though, he makes good articles about more than women. It's just to a point where it's not helpful and alienates readers. I signed up for his newsletter when the shiv would be more about post-wall women and hamsters running wild, I don't even open his emails anymore, and haven't seen a game post recently, which is what I loved him for, because he was so creative and used reader input and analyzed situations and lines. Almost like Reddit, just great int…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 07:13 PM
2

I think you should read the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:39 PM
2

He's gone a slightly different direction in recent months.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:32 PM
1

You don't have to do all that. That's a little ridiculous. A lot of this stuff is placebo. One of the only ways to increase it long-term permanently is steroids, which in fact might be the only way.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 06:11 AM
1

You thought it would get you somewhere, but where exactly? Set long-term goals. Improving just for the sake of improving doesn't help you. Improving so you can better realize your life goals is what helps you and is what will get you out of this rut. When your daily activities and your long-term goals are congruent with each other and you know you're on your way to accomplishing them, you'll be much happier. Apply SMART to your goal-setting, that is very helpful.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:26 PM
1

Welcome to the club.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:57 AM
1

If you're going to make up an excuse, just tell her "change of plans." That's it. Doesn't really matter what the excuse is, it's really not worth it at this point. Unless she arranges or suggests something, don't even text her back.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:04 AM
1

Don't limit yourself here, pursue both if you're going to do Tinder at all. Confidence in that situation is what gives you confidence in that situation. To get good in this specific area, just go practice it, that's where you'll get your confidence there. You can do both, so why not do that? Body recomposition.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:53 AM
1

The result is worth the effort put in. Man, that's the vast majority of male society now. Don't get your hopes up. You might have been, but people don't want to be told or feel like what they're doing with their life is the wrong way or bad. Most people can't handle that kind of criticism.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:50 AM
2

I don't think it'll help. They're constantly trying to undermine you. Fuck up once and they'll jump all over that. Remember, they're group thinkers, if they start to shun her because of you, I bet she'll drop you.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:37 AM
2

I agree, next. She noticed the text, girls always notice. Next this girl, she's not worth your time. If she reaches out to you, continue talking then. Don't give girls attention who haven't earned it.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:35 AM
1

"Nah."
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:32 AM
2

Every relationship is transactional in nature. What do you offer to the other guys? Sometimes, just hanging out isn't always enough. On the topic of making better friends that are not boring, meet guy friends at your local gym or those who share your hobbies. Not everyone is worth investing a lot of time into, as you've noticed with friends who suddenly weren't great friends anymore. On your last note, you are who you hang out with. People judge you by who you spend time with. Also, your friends…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:30 AM
1

You're making excuses for Tinder and you're using Tinder as an excuse not to go talk to girls in real life. Gaming girls on Tinder is vastly different from gaming women at the bar, at the store, at the gym, etc. The best way to learn is by doing. Don't be afraid of rejection, the worst thing she can say is no. In the grand scheme of things, she doesn't matter, she's one insignificant girl. Don't let your fear stop you from living your life, which is exactly why you broke up with your LTR, right?…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:26 AM
4

Just my $.02, but your conversations with girls might go a lot better if instead of spending time talking about movies, you can talk about cool things you did in that time instead. Tell her about that one time you went zip lining over your local lake rather than discuss Mean Girls with her. If she brings up a movie, then maybe you can move that towards a date back at your place where she shows you the movie.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:20 AM
0

Google it.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:17 AM
4

Whisper "alpha" after each rep, that should do it.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:11 AM
1

If she has roommates, that ASD and LMR goes way up. Her roommates might judge her. Easier to control what happens at your place, so I prefer taking them there.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 11:39 PM
6

Computer programming is pretty useful. Harvard has an open class on that you can register for and do assignments and learn about programming.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 07:01 PM
2

Yeah, a lot of his stuff is actually brilliant and fun to use.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 01:34 PM
2

"Well, you look like the kind of girl that could use two." "Is he hotter than me?" "Me too, don't tell him I'm talking to you." "Right" Depends on how you want to play it and your style. Plow on, or just shoot for telling her where you are gonna meet, but I find that that's not as successful, you need to beat this test and then go for the date setup.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:35 PM
3

I had a great time fucking a girl while high. Too high to realize the condom busted and then proceeded to cum inside her.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:30 PM
1

I think the shits and giggles were worth it, it's the little things. What a funny date.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:21 PM
2

Sounds like you've put her on a pedestal. I've always understood dating, in a TRP context, to be about inviting her into your awesome life to partake in things you enjoy doing, rather than going out of your way to do other activities. If going to the movies isn't really you, don't do it. I really like to go kayaking, that's still a "date" if I bring her along. Sounds like you're slipping with this girl, though. Catch yourself, because she sure as hell won't.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:55 PM
1

Lie and say you're in a committed relationship then. You're not fucking anyone else at your place of work, so it's not like it would matter to them either.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:12 PM
2

Yeah, I forgot about the term AMOG, that's exactly it. Yours is simpler, I'm a little too wordy.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 04:02 PM
4

Alpha is situational. You may not be the alpha on the horse ranch but you can be the alpha in a business meeting. Don't try and force it. At its core, there are qualities that all alpha males exhibit, but when it comes to different situations, your life experiences and personal skills is what will put you over the top of others.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 02:49 PM
4

You can plow on and push to see if he actually exists, you can joke A&A and still get the number without pushing the confirmation, or you can leave. Like Johnny Bravo said, "Well, you look like the kinda girl that could use two boyfriends."
/r/askTRP31/08/15 04:54 AM
3

Many numbers are inflated so you buy their protein supplements when you realize how hard it is to hit a massive protein goal. Why eat it when you can drink it, kinda thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 04:08 PM
1

Mental math comes into play when you're calculating where the bullet hits when you're shooting at a 25m target and where it will hit if you aim at the same spot for a 300m target. Sometimes the target doesn't have a set distance, you need to mentally gauge where it is, where you need to place your sights, and then you may even need to account for wind, because that will affect it. It may be negligible, but it does have an effect.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 11:04 PM
2

It's football time, you're both crazy.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 08:00 PM
1

I'm in the Army if you have any questions. PM me.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 05:43 PM
2

Will perform research and report back.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:34 PM
2

I agree with Jessie_James, it's not the cologne that makes you more attractive. You're attractive and as a result the cologne smelled good. Unless she has a daddy complex and you wore the exact same cologne he used to wear...
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:09 PM
1

U.S. Army, message me if you have any questions.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 04:46 PM
0

I'm not judging you for your choice. I think men should be able to financially abort a child if they choose not to want to raise it. Those are just your two options. I feel it's easy to talk about now but when confronted with the issue how do you think you would react?
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:58 AM
1

You need to have a time where you read, and a time where you go out and practice. Read theory or game for an hour, and then go apply what you've learned and see what works.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:57 AM
0

Ultimately it's up to you whether you're ok with it or not. On the one hand, you're not tied down and have no responsibility, you're not on the hook financially. On the other, you're contributing to the decline and putting your own offspring in a very bad spot, one you might have been in yourself when you grew up.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:44 AM
1

Focus on that anxiety issue. Don't read for completion, read for understanding.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:42 AM
5

Block and delete on all forms of communication. Erase her from your life. She had her chance, don't pay her any more attention.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 09:04 PM
1

Laxman14 will take part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:56 PM
1

My counter to that is to check it out for yourself. A mild dose for your first cycle might be just enough to put you where you want to be, without damaging your heart. I googled that condition, and it appears benign and nothing of real concern, as most people have no issues. This is up to you. If it does have a detrimental effect, stop use. If it doesn't, you experience a higher quality of life. If you decide not to go through with it, you will have to rely on mental techniques such as meditatio…
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:36 AM
2

There's only so much changing your diet, getting enough sleep, and working out can do for you. If you are concerned about your levels and want to change them, ask your doctor about TRT. There are many supplements and habits people here advocate to naturally increase your testosterone, but the difference between those and TRT is vast. Do some research and decide if it's for you.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:53 AM
2

I'm guessing they'd be beginner to intermediate in content information. Personally, you could tackle topics that don't get touched on enough here or the video medium would provide a better understanding of, like IDGAF attitude, or maybe a day in the life of yourself. Your habits, how you conduct yourself. That might be too much personal info to put on display, but monkey see monkey do is a good way to learn.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:12 AM
1

I think you know what you need to work on, then. You don't need others approval, and other people will almost never make the right decision for you in your life if you let them. Go to the doctor and discuss your options. Start taking control of the rest of your life. It's scary at first, but only because you're scared of failing at what you think you could be, you're scared of your potential. Go take care of it.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:10 AM
4

Make this choice for yourself, it's not any of your dad's business. Essentially what you are asking him to do is validate your decision. You wanted him to agree you had low T, so you felt like you had permission to go. The only permission you need is yours. If you want do something about it, do it, don't ask other's opinions when it's your body, ask a professional.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 12:54 AM
3

Would it be all sorts of RP topics, or would you mainly focus on one topic or another? Say, game or theory or Alpha example, etc.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 12:52 AM
7

She's shit testing you. Seems to me she wants to make you jealous. Don't react, just swat the phone out of her hands and fuck her. At least, that's what I would have done. She's not at my place to talk to other guys, if she wants to do that, she can leave.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 08:50 PM
2

I took a semester off and joined the Guard. Did wonders for my outlook and discipline. I found the TRP shortly before and worked on it during basic. I can tell you I'm better for doing it, but maybe it won't be the same for you. What you can do is go Guard throughout college, join ROTC, get a contract, and then your tuition is taken care of, you have a monthly stipend, a once a month obligation to drills, and you commission into a 2nd Lieutenant at the end of your time in college, doing whatever…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 05:39 PM
1

Why fix it? Go radio silent, if she texts you "when she gets back" then she texts you when she gets back. Listen to Abdada and lead your interactions better next time.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 10:42 PM
3

Clever.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 06:07 PM
2

Exactly. It's more like a pat on the back, acknowledge it, but don't make a deal of it. In the end they don't mean much outside of them openly displaying their attraction for you, but in a way that can go wrong if you overplay your hand.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 02:38 AM
2

To get what you want from her, you're going to have lead the interaction and pull her into your frame. Create a fun atmosphere. Above all else, you need to enjoy yourself and the date, don't worry so much about her. Because you are fun, she will have fun. Be playful, tease her, and as she opens up and begins to step into your frame, you can initiate kino, and slowly escalate from there. Keep it fresh. Go for a walk, switch venues, whatever. If she's not responsive, learn from it, don't beat your…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 11:42 PM
2

As long as it doesn't appear to bother you, it shouldn't bother them. I don't believe women look at it as big of a factor as they do height, physical appearance, etc. I can see this helping you out by having some rock hard abs and flashing some chicas when you have to do your injections. I would frame it like I frame any other vulnerability, I make a joke about it if it comes up.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 05:54 PM
1

Accessory exercises help squat and deadlift. A lot of it is mental as well.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 05:35 PM
3

You could look into hunting, hiking, kayaking, fishing, camping, skiing, snowboarding, surfing, etc. Depends on what is available around you. You won't know if you like it until you try it. On a side not, having it as a hobby just to have it and it not actually being an expression of who you are is not a good one.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 04:46 AM
7

You'll find your male friends may start shit testing you about your changing appearance, saying how your shirt is too tight, etc. If they're good friends it's lighthearted, mine will joke with me and then ask for advice. Be fun about it and don't take it personally. The women in your circle may start looking at you differently as well. This can affect your relationships with the guys because they may feel threatened by you, and they may react accordingly, by being more aggressive with you or mak…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 04:43 AM
1

This is where being socially aware, knowing when to not push the interaction any further, and practicing game come into play. You can watch videos like RSD to see how they flirt with women and come off as non-creepy, or watch natural alphas in your environment. However, what it really boils down to is being confident and attractive. Attractive in this instance means more than physically attractive, it can be socially attractive, your humor, how you make them feel, etc. They will likely not remem…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 04:33 AM
1

The same things that work on other women. They are still girls, there's nothing special about "college" women. They tend to be a bit more free-thinking and easier in a college environment, however. Act like it never happened. Don't let it bother you, and if it does, don't let them know it does. Cultivate an abundance mentality and forget about them. Depends, if they call you a creep maybe. You can earn a reputation as a player, and this can hurt you in some ways, but the world is huge and the ch…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 04:27 AM
1

I'm guessing you're not exclusive. If she doesn't stop after you use the other methods of passing this test that others have suggested, you can always pressure flip and say yes, I thought you were seeing other guys.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 09:17 PM
1

If she's asking in regards to her sexual health, you should tell her. It's not unreasonable to ask you to wear protection with them if they know you're sleeping with other people.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 09:03 PM
2

Wait until you start seeing results. That'll change your outlook. If you do it at the same time each day, are consistent with when you go, it'll be much easier. You're building it up in your head, when it's really not THAT hard. Once you're in there doing it, you'll feel much better.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 11:31 AM
2

What are you scared of? It's not just the gym, it's something else.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 03:52 AM
1

Motivation comes and goes, but discipline is unyielding iron. Some days you won't want to go to the gym, or read extra articles for work. You'd rather watch Netflix. Discipline comes in here. To create a new habit, one that really sticks, I recommend sitting down and creating a daily schedule. If you do the same activity at the same time of the day. Going to the gym every day at 0600, reading a chapter in a book from 1700-1800, etc. This consistency is what best helps creating habits. Being inco…
/r/askTRP17/07/15 01:49 AM
1

Absolutely move your stuff out. I honestly think you should start over. Leave this girl, because you have pretty heavy oneitis, and you're not in control of this relationship. Demote her to a plate is my best advice, find other women, and get your emotional health in check.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:17 PM
2

Exactly, I'm in no position to demand exclusivity of my plates. Some plates make themselves exclusive to you because they hope you'll commit, this is the better outcome. Even then, they won't stick around too long if they never get the carrot.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 07:22 PM
6

Is it technically unfair? Yes. But he can still do that if he so chooses. Some women are ok with it.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 07:16 PM
2

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/r/askTRP15/07/15 06:16 PM
2

I know what you're talking about. I balance good sex with feeding them just enough about me to keep them interested. I'm a big knotted ball of yarn, and they want to figure it out, and I let them unknot me slowly. Keep them chasing you with engaging mystery, be unpredictable with the experiences you provide them. For instance, I took a girl out to a field to watch a meteor shower, hung out in the field, had sex in it, etc. Usually it's bar, my place, or invite her over, movie, my place, and I li…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:18 PM
14

You can't control her fucking other guys. What you can do is let her know that that is fine, but you no longer want to see if her that's what she wants to do, if you do care about her seeing other guys.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:14 PM
1

She shouldn't be the one giving chances, it should be. You are stepping out of your frame and into hers. You thought it might be better, and instead of making the decision for yourself, you put it on her. I want you to objectively look at this situation. All benefits aside (sex, cooking, cleaning), now throw in all of this emotional turmoil and her knowledge of your insecurities. You COULD save this relationship, but you're taking a step back by moving out. You'll seem wishy washy, not committin…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:13 PM
1

It is better to separate. After bringing that up, it's over. Just break up with her, it's best for the both of you. You need to get out of this situation, you don't need any extra stress in your life when there are thousands of girls out there just like her, who you can be in a better position with.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 04:39 PM
1

The effort to eliminate your oneitis, re-establish your frame after she's seen you crumble, etc. She might have not found another guy yet, considering she just moved here. I experienced something similar with an LTR, she only took so much of it before it was over. While it may seem ok now, the foundation is being chipped away. The concept is called branch swinging. If you feel you need therapy, you should go. However, you should be doing what you feel you should be doing for your sake and not fo…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 12:28 AM
2

Here's an article by CH that may help more. Has anything else changed?
/r/askTRP14/07/15 10:16 PM
1

Sounds like it's time to end this relationship. I'm sorry for your loss, OP, and you've already realized the mistake you made by showing your vulnerabilities (not small ones, real ones) and broke down. I would consider ending the relationship. Never show her your insecurities. The amount of effort it would take to right this ship would be better spent in working on the areas you've named.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 10:11 PM
6

If she seems uninterested and won't tell you why, consider dropping her down to a plate. If it's a medical issue, or she's currently dealing with some life experience such as a death in the family, that's something else. All that aside, you can't negotiate attraction, so trying to convince her to have sex with you won't work. Implement dread game.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 10:06 PM
1

Good point, thanks.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 11:10 PM
1

Yeah, just ignore her. Confronting her really won't solve anything in my opinion. Unless you wanna get nasty, you can always start a rumor about her and absolutely ruin her. Otherwise, it's just toxicity you don't need in your life, and your bros shouldn't pay attention to her, just give them a heads up if it really bothers you. On a somewhat related note, a girl I used to see but never had sex with is going around telling people we did. Free advertising or something to ask her to stop doing?
/r/askTRP11/07/15 10:59 PM
3

I can only assume a negative impact. I wouldn't get too emotionally involved in this girl's life. Her mother is only a source of negativity in her life. I don't see any benefit beyond plating this girl, and even then I would be skeptical. Just avoid her. Sounds like a mess you don't need in your life.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 04:42 PM
1

It's not bad or good, it's just nature. If they cheated on their current partner with you, then they are someone you shouldn't take seriously. She was never yours, it was just your turn is a mindset you should have. It helps you from getting oneitis, realizing that there are men out there who are better than you, and accepting her hypergamous behavior.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 04:37 PM
9

No. There's nothing wrong with the sexual preferences you carry. It does not make you racist for not being sexually attracted to someone of a certain skin color or ethnicity. I have black friends in my life, but I am not as attracted to black women as I am to white or otherwise, and there is nothing wrong with that.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 05:18 AM
3

There's not much point. No sense in arguing with someone over a topic to try and prove your point, because it almost never works. It's a waste of time you could spend on something else. I used to do this on an anonymous social app and try to convince others of the validity of my points, but what it boiled down to is I wanted to be right, and it didn't add any real value to my life outside of a cheap gratification in "knowing how dumb these people are" and how they "just don't get it." Ultimately…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 05:12 AM
22

That's what I've got going on. I read a post on here awhile back about the power of contrast, and muscularity with glasses was one of them. Kent look doesn't get balanced out by the inconvenience of glasses or contacts, though.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:55 AM
4

Very. There's a sweet spot where the length of the shirt hits so that is more suited for casual wear. Different fabrics are good for different climates, as well.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:54 AM
1

Text her when you want to text her. According to all of the theory here, and I don't always practice it as best I can, your life should be so full of living that it'll be natural to text that girl during pauses in your lifestyle to invite her to take part on your awesome adventure. Once you start overthinking it, you've lost. Don't put too much thought into it, text her when you want to text her, text her what you want to text her, but using text to set up physical meetings is the best method, b…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 03:54 AM
1

Depends on your personal style. What works for you may not work for someone else, everyone's game is different. There is more than one way to answer this question.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:29 AM
-1

Sometimes a straight answer is the best answer.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:15 AM
23

Maybe you should write about another topic. If it's for a college assignment, I don't see the topic being received well. First rule of Fight Club.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 03:47 AM
9

This is the best answer. It's simple, but conveys a lot. She's gonna put effort into maintaining how she looks for you so you don't leave.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 10:09 PM
5

You could post ads on Craigslist through a public library. You could go door to door telling them about your services. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain here.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 10:14 PM
3

Offer to do manual labor for a day, offer to mow someone's lawn, there's lots of ways to go about it, these are just a few.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 09:56 PM
2

I would have gone with "Shut up baby, I know it." and then invited her over. Ball's in her court, forget about it and do something else. If she texts back, she texts back. if she doesn't, it's not worth your time worrying over.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 04:47 AM
1

You're not going to get your money back, sorry.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 08:11 PM
35

Seems like she doesn't want you to view her as a slut. Provide some comfort to her, but nothing that would make you seem like you're taking it to a relationship level. She views sex as a big deal it looks like, assure it wasn't that big of a deal. Just my take.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:25 AM
2

Put in time on Stronglifts and keep with it. You'll get there.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 11:59 PM
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