How do they get over it so quickly?

Laxman14 · 2016-01-13T15:36:11+00:00

They don't think like men. We'll form an opinion about something and be pretty solid about it for a while. With women, how they feel about something can change every single day. And when feelings are no longer being provided, which is what a woman loves about you, how you make her feel, then she moves on quickly to the next fix, unless she can't do any better than you, in which case you alpha widowed her.

OmLaLa · 2016-01-13T16:26:48+00:00

Women can’t love men unconditionally. Men can love women unconditionally. It's a survival thing.

GuitarHero07 · 2016-01-13T19:48:08+00:00

It's an evolved survival mechanism. In many species, including closely related apes, a new alpha male can come in and takeover at any given time. Sometime the offspring of the deposed male are killed. The females must now mate with the new leader. It wasn't so different for early humans. The tribe loses a war and the military aged males are all executed while the women and children are enslaved/raped and/or made to be concubines or wives to new masters. In fact this kind of phenomenon is documented even in more recent times....read up about war brides.

As they say, hypergamy doesn't care!

Here's a good read: http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/03/war-brides/

ShounenEgo · 2016-01-13T16:05:35+00:00

Girls don't love the way men do.

Men love sacrificially. Cheesy as fuck romantic songs sing "I'd lie for you", "I'd eat a bullet for you" and shit like that. They don't sell because they're hyperboles, they sell because this is how men feel and they need to listen to songs that reflect their oneitis.

On the other hand, women love men as in they're an item, like an iphone. And they always know that there is always another iphone to get in case their current one goes poof.

silver_nuke13 · 2016-01-13T18:19:23+00:00

Evolution. Just leave it at that. Because if you got eaten by a tiger and your woman cries herself to death instead of finding a new male to protect and pump her, maybe even your offspring too (only the protecting part ew), her/your genes won't go further.

Plus they're vapid, it's in their nature.

FrameWalker · 2016-01-13T16:48:31+00:00

I don't know man. Some women get t pretty rattled especially if they were the one dumped. They cut off their hair get tattoos and become sluts. They stop falling in love. Most women you meet have already been used up

night_rider1991 · 2016-01-13T17:33:39+00:00

They never truly cared about us from the get-go. Your question pretty much answered itself. Tingles > everything

Johnny10toes · 2016-01-13T16:09:16+00:00

They hamster stuff away. Go watch Memento. The guy in it has a bad case of not having a short term memory. Without giving away the movie he has to write stuff down to remember it. What if he would have written it down wrong on purpose? Next day he wouldn't know the difference. That's sort of how women are. They can lie to themselves and believe it. Guys can do this too but to a lesser degree. It's a broad subject though.

princepeanutbutter · 2016-01-13T16:12:07+00:00

They've had a constant stream of validation and therefore haven't spent much time idealizing the perfect man.

Men on the other hand may go through long periods of solitude, whether in teen years or later, where they develop the woman as an idea. They have crushes go unfulfilled, rejections, etc.

When you get oneitis you attach that idea to an actual woman, and when she is gone her use as an idol for this idea continues. The woman herself is not really important to this idea surviving, she's just an image at this point. It's why guys will continue to stew over girls that they know were awful to them.

balalasaurus · 2016-01-13T22:01:36+00:00

Their reality is defined by their emotional state. It's exceedingly difficult for strong emotions to be sustained for long periods of time hence the move from one emotion to the next and their ability to get over things so quickly.

RedBigMan · 2016-01-13T21:58:30+00:00

Easy.

If you are the one getting dumped she's already checked out of that relationship a month or longer ago and has branch swinged to her new guy.

If you dump her well she needs to find a new man ASAP because women have difficulty surviving on their own and thus evolutionarily have their own happiness tied to having a mate. So she's preprogrammed to start mate hunting as soon as that relationship is over.

Sementeries · 2016-01-13T15:47:26+00:00

Their feelins are fickle.

the_Zambony · 2016-01-13T16:10:52+00:00

They only care about how you make them feel

Asked and answered.

Throwaway244555 · 2016-01-13T16:19:09+00:00

If you're a alpha, she won't get over you.

If you're a beta, she probably fucked 5 people while dating you.

MrFuckupKing · 2016-01-13T22:38:57+00:00

Women are emotional chameleons. The question concerning women is always whether what you see is actually what you are getting.

A woman can thoroughly convince a man that she loves him while actually hating him. She can fuck you for her own reasons and than fuck your brother for other reasons.

It does not make her bad or good but simply a woman.

They are consummate actresses because that is how they have survived in a world that is dangerous to them and their children.

Their brains are designed to deceive much better than a mans brain is. They have a completely different relationship to words than men and the ability to process information between brain hemispheres is much faster in women than in men.

A man who steps into the world of women is stepping into a world of espionage and intrigue.

If you do not understand this world and develop the skills to survive in this world you will get eaten alive by women.

They will mentally and emotionally fuck you up from trying to understand them from a male perspective.

The male perspective because of the power men have, blinds men to the power and by extension danger of women.

Men are notorious for underestimating women and women are very good at taking advantage of that fact.

She may be getting over it fast but the more likely thing that is happening is that she is trying to punish you (hurt you) by making you think she has gotten over it fast.

You are experiencing a "mind fuck" that accomplishes many things.

Women collectively do not allow men to see the truth of women.

This is how they survive and thrive.

Everything you think you know about women that women have taught you through the words they have spoken is likely a lie.

No woman, not even your mother, will ever teach you all there is to know about women. They always spin it somehow

soadaa · 2016-01-13T17:21:11+00:00

Evolution.

itsbooming · 2016-01-13T17:33:59+00:00

Explained in "war brides" on the sidebar or Rollo I think.

opening_eyes · 2016-01-13T21:01:12+00:00

Dude, you obviously haven't been in an LTR. (I guess that's a good thing?) Anyways, minute shit or comments from YEARS ago can be dragged out of their purses when it suits them, even if they assured you at the time the matter was settled.

"We have the same argument over and over again." That doesn't happen with a logical brain, or a mind that accepts conclusion.

MyLittleAtomBomb · 2016-01-13T21:03:36+00:00

Female lions rapidly switch alliances once the alpha male of their pride is defeated by a challenger.

It's not a 100% perfect analogy as humans possess higher brain function, but that's basically it.

imthemanyesiam · 2016-01-13T23:07:35+00:00

Girls have automatic abundance

whalingstation123 · 2016-01-13T23:47:41+00:00

Nah, they will be hurt if you are the best man they ever had and don't think they can find another of the same calibre in the near future, aka alpha widow.

I broke up this fall with someone who apparently found me very Chad, and she went on a sick leave for 2 weeks. 2 weeks. That's how bad she took it. She dumped her former boyfriend for many years in a heartbeat for me. Met her later to give her some of her stuff, and when asked I said I still would keep in touch, but I could not offer her my commitment. Then she said the worst thing about being dumped was that she assumed that I would go cold turkey radio silence with her (the ultimate rejection), since that was what she have done with every guy she dumped herself.

yolosun · 2016-01-14T00:18:39+00:00

Solipsism. The truth is what they make it. For as long as there's a hole in my ass the female hamster will hamster.

EntitledShitHead · 2016-01-14T01:12:23+00:00

Women re-write history in their head. It surprises me to this day. One of my girl friends had her boyfriend dump her. She talked so much shit about him to me. She told me he was 'garbage' and forced her to have unprotected sex and that he was a piece of shit. Two weeks later, the guy calls her up and they're back together now. I asked her about what she told me and she told me that she likes unprotected sex and that she only said that because she was mad at the dude...

TorboLeto · 2016-01-14T01:14:01+00:00

A female 7 could fuck probably 90% of men, simply by offering. A male 7 with no game probably couldn't even get 5% of women, simply by offering. And they'd probably all be gross women.

The game is easy for women, that's why. Even women who aren't good looking can score themselves a high quality guy... All they have to do is not get fat.

Title	How do they get over it so quickly?
Author	RpthrowawayRp
Upvotes	22
Comments	30
Date	January 13, 2016 3:17 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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