Hey guys.

I'm sure this question has been asked before... I wasn't able to find a post though so I'll ask it again.

Typical dude that likes girls here... Tried the nice guy shit, then tried pickup for a year or so, had a lot of success, but hated faking it, so I started working on my inner game.

My friend and housemate turned me on to the red pill, and helped me see what's what. I recently read The Rational Male, and am realizing the strategies us men use and women use to secure what their bodies want and need.

I posted a while ago in this group half-in, half-out of the matrix and got some much needed tough love which I'm grateful for.

Anyway... How do you guys reconcile calibrating to a girl with being honest about your sexual desire? I'm having trouble understanding the difference between calibrating to a girl's desire while being honest about your sexual intentions and backing down and shaming yourself for those intentions... What's the difference? How can I calibrate to a girl without neutering myself?

I often come across too intense by communicating overtly that I'm interested... I want to learn to calibrate my communication so I can stick it in more instead of pushing girls away.

Thanks for reading.

~Joe