What's the point?

aldjfh · 2017-06-09T02:06:05+00:00

I am cutting for the summer right now and will have a six pack by halloween - and i know for a fact that even with a six pack and extremely good social skills - i ll still get blown out

.........You've already got two things I'll probably never have, especially social skills. Wtf are you doing, if I had those things I would be getting laid like crazy. Oh yeah I'm ugly as shit too so you probably have that going better for you as well.

I am not trying to be whiny or complain-y here. But really? Even with so much god damn work - i am still not enough to them?

Yeah. Your not. But your not alone in feeling that way. I am too. And so are millions of other guys.

Will we NEVER be enough? I don't know quite frankly. I haven't even been on a date yet and have been blown off 8, times (it'll be 9 by tomorrow if this other girl doesn't reply). And I'm 21

What I do know is that I don't want to continue this way and i really don't want to die like this. I have no choice but to hope to improve however unlikely that may be.

Also don't worry about whining. People on here like to play all tough guy but really the fact that someone is willing to admit they're life is shit imo is a better person then the dude bro who brags about how many girls he's banged.

VengefullyY0urs · 2017-06-09T02:40:08+00:00

You are completely missing the boat on the entire concept.

There is always going to be someone bigger, better, smarter, stronger, etc. There are always going to be women (or men) for one reason or another blow you off, and for many different reasons.

You owe it to yourself as man and person to be the absolute best you can. If you are seeking self improvement to get more sex, a relationship, or anyone outside of what you have direct control, you are in the wrong place.

The only thing you can truly control is yourself, so make yourself bigger, better, smarter, stronger, etc, but more importantly happy. Usually improvement leads to more happiness.

Sex is a bi-product of being a social, fit and interesting person (boldness helps alot too)

Relationships are a bi-product of having an awesome life alone, and a committed relationship would be a supplemental benefit.

I am cutting for the summer right now and will have a six pack by halloween

Good - focus on your goals and add more - for you not for anything else.

and i know for a fact that even with a six pack and extremely good social skills - i ll still get blown out

If you have a six pack and social skills - You probably wouldnt be pontificating getting blown out, because you would have too many options to give a shit. I would research escalation, human psychology, and go read the book of pook, 16 commandments of pune, Bang by Roosh, and other sidebar material.

Good Luck.

RedSkeller · 2017-06-09T05:39:56+00:00

You learn getting women becomes second nature when you self improve and learn about who you are and what you want out of life. Once that becomes the focus, women fade into the background. It's not about chasing tail your life, it's about living a life that provides fulfillment. You're focusing on your shortcomings with women and it's killing your game.

Title	What's the point?
Author	bunny_throwaway
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	June 9, 2017 1:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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