Idk if I have a disorder (nothing diagnosed) or if it’s a testosterone thing. I’m in the process of ending things with my on again off again LTR (mutual kinda decision we’ve come to) and she says how I’m so abusive and controlling and also a big one is aggressive. Idk how much of this to take to heart? She’s not a mentally stable person in the slightest and suffers with really bad anxiety and apparently my behaviour makes her feel very anxious and trapped. Am I just a cunt or could it be the case that I’m just holding frame so well that she can’t take it?