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Not even kind of does, he literally does. "Pay daddy to hold your hand and tell you what to do."
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 05:24 AM
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Lmao...bro Your girl is posting about catching feelings about other people. Why the fuck are even asking for insight. I would insight you to grow some fucking balls bro. Come on dude. Do better.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:23 PM
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Most men fail the alpha male quid pro quo by doing too much for the woman. But some men fail because they do not do enough. If a woman DOES meaningfully contribute to your emotional experience, you should reward her proportionately to what she has done. Women seek acceptance, and if they feel like they cannot get it from you they will move on and get it from somebody else. I fucked up here in my earlier red pill days. I went from a needy little bitch to completely cold. I swung the pendulum way …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 07:14 PM
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Also true, in this case specifically the girl hadn't been with many men however. The alpha she had been seeing since high school pretty much through college and married immediately after that. It was pretty much from Point A to Point B with her. Her ex was and is definitely text book alpha however. Get plenty of bangs (and everyone knows it), has a good job and makes very decent money, has a shit ton of social proof and is very well known in more than one place. Her husband doesn't hold a candle…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/20 01:37 AM
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Alpha widow is such a serious factor in this a girl. I know a women he basically married the guy that was getting cucked by her previous boyfriend for years but it was clear he didn't want to be committed so she gave up and married the friend, almost out of pity. It's been years and she is still obsessed with her ex. She finds ways to insert herself in his life anyway she can. If you recognized a girl is an alpha widow, RUN! You don't stand a chance.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 09:31 PM
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Never play cat and mouse, made that mistake too many times and you're always the mouse
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:41 AM
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Being a minority in certain places is absolutely a disadvantage. I'm not saying you can't overcome it. I'm not saying to whine it. Just acknowledging the reality just as I would an overweight person, etc. Some places it can be an advantage. I've lost dates because of my race, probably gained a couple of them too. It is what it is man.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 09:05 PM
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Tennis is a great example because you can look at the potentially greatest of time Roger Federer and illustrate your point. After being the most dominant man in tour for years, he went several years without winning a single Grand Slam title. Champion mindset however, he kept pushing on and putting in the work and would go on to win several more Grand Slam finals and have many close calls at others. It would have been easy for him to be outcome dependent and quit the game during his losing season…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 10:48 PM
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Broke up with a LTR girl End thread
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:36 AM
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Women don't just frame control, they out right gaslight. The quickest way to damn yourself is to listen to women's opinion on you. My father left when I was young and I was gaslight by women my entire upbringing. Mothers, sisters, teachers, aunties. "You are selfish," you're too aggressive," "you don't think about anyone but yourself," "you just do whatever you want," "you're mean" "you're stupid." The list goes on. I know many men with similar stories. I am 30 years old and just NOW beginning t…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/20 03:37 PM
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I have one more year left of school and I'm paying out of pocket so I'll probably ride this last year out and then I will be apartment shopping. Thanks for the tips.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 01:35 AM
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Read NMMNG, that was actually a huge catalyst of me finally seeking help. I'll look up that user guide, thanks.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 01:34 AM
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It's not what you say, it's how you say it
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 04:30 PM
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"There is no middle ground between two extremes (The jerk and the nice guy), We must become different by not trying to be different"
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 12:39 AM
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If you don't care then why does it matter 😏
/r/askTRP11/08/20 12:17 AM
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I hate this outcome independent shit. Don't be needy for an outcome okay but if you don't really want it, if you aren't ready to push and shove for it then you don't really want the come. Do be outcome dependent. Do push and shove what you want. I know what people mean when they say this but it's a meme at this point.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 08:36 PM
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Gold
/r/askTRP26/07/20 06:48 PM
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Yeah I read that one too and the whole thing sounded super sketch from the first place. They both said they got drunk and don't remember what happened and yet somehow that is the man's fault!? What type of bullshit perspective is that?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 02:06 AM
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Becoming a better man is literally what this sub about so you're going to insult a man asking a question on something he thinks will help him do so? I think you're the one in the wrong place here.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:46 PM
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There's a lot of weird shit that goes into NoFap. Dude's quit jerking off and suddenly think they're going to grow wings and fly and cure AIDS. Credit to what they do but the community is weird as fuck at times.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:45 PM
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Yeah habits and addictions are two completely different ballparks. I've seen the worse of alcoholics go a week or two cold turkey dry no problem but they are far from out of the ballpark. I feel like most people can easily no fap a week or so, maybe even in a month but the first time you give into the urges again, you are knee deep in it. There is the rare person that can go cold turkey and just be done but that is the super exception and not the rule
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:43 PM
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With this type of woman there really is no solution other than avoiding them at all cost and not allowing them in your life at all. We talk about red flags, well this is like a red light. Do not engage with woman such as this at all.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 09:12 PM
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He shows signs of growing some balls but once she puts that pussy in front of him, he turns back to simp mode. Getting cucked in his own home by a bum, one of the saddest things I've seen in my life.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 02:08 AM
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Very close to it, yeah. I don't even know how one interrupts something this incorrectly.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 09:35 PM
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I don't think this study is supporting what you think it does at all lol this is saying that men have less confidence in their ability to read emotions on faces, everything you're putting out here is more than a reach it's a nose dive. How did you even get your quotations from this study? Read it again.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 10:16 AM
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Holy shit, this is deep. Did you write this?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 04:25 PM
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If actions like that don't break your one-itis, real talk see a therapist ASAP. You aren't fixing yourself alone. Go to Church.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:37 AM
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You can absolutely have a PhD and still be stupid
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 03:31 AM
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Stop being a victim
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:11 PM
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lmao, none of those terms are used like you're implying they are and have no political bearings at all. 0/10 time, bullshit and nonsense. Just because you got simped out sliding in some girls onlyfans doesn't mean yo get to rewrite history champ.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 05:41 AM
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(I showed that I don't care) (I'm still wondering why this happens so often) You still care, think about it
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:03 AM
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That's the point, to keep you stuck. It's the cycle of self help and you aren't enough. Everything that goes wrong is your fault so continue buying our products even though the first 8 you brought didn't fix you. Self help is a billion dollar industry built on preying on others.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 06:37 AM
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Why do you need booze for a date? Calm down Bill Cosby. There are other sober people in the world believe it or not.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:47 AM
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Read the article on "Beta Bait"
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:41 PM
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Honestly dude you're very much still in your learn phase of life. I'm not much older than you and I'm a much different person I was even a year or two ago. Pretty much what has been said a few times, stop trying to internalize anything. Seek experience. You are going to continue to fuck up. You're supposed to. Never stop learning form your fuck ups.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:39 AM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:45 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I found a few places covered by insurance so I'll start calling around and see if they offer those as well if I can get in a spot. I know a lot of people are struggling right now through quarantine.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:16 AM
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I personally know I'm not easy to live with which is why I currently choose to live alone, do you know if things ever got better for him or is he still a wreak?
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:15 AM
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R&B is prime simping music, it's literally the entire genre
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:34 PM
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If you want to be "super" safe, you don't want to flip it after it's touch your dick since it could have precum on it and still impregnate her Yeah it seems super anal to think like this but I have a friend who got pregnant this way so buyer beware lol precum will absolutely knock you up and never let anyone tell you otherwise.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:39 PM
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If you have a job worth saving, don't say or do stupid shit online. Simple. You don't have to make comments online and it usually amounts to nothing anyway.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 08:57 AM
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Why is it your business lol let him live his life. Stop thinking you have all the answers. You don't.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:41 PM
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You must become a magnet, not be attracted to one. A magnet has scientific properties that make it attract all sorts of metals. IRL this is: Money, fame, good looks, reputation, success, status, masculine alpha behavior/mentality, an IDGAF mentality for sure. Magnets do not fucking care what you are, if you're within range, you will be attracted. This part resonated with me so hardly. As men we tend to want to draw energy instead of projecting it. You must be the fire to the moth. You must be wo…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/20 08:07 PM
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The best part of this is Pete's attitude. No anger, no butt hurt, just a man firmly enforcing his boundaries on his life. "Is this an ultimatum?" "No, there is no options...I am breaking up with you." Biggest example of frame control I've seen in my entire life, holy shit. Go Pete, go!
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:44 PM
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Just how it is, yeah. Some people can eat McDonald, play call of duty all day and then do some push ups once a week and look jacked as fuck. Some people can put in all the work and still never look as good as the other person. Genes are a huge factor but there's nothing you can do about it short of juicing so it is what it is.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:07 PM
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It's 80% genetics 20% what you actually do. A dude with good genes can start lifting and put in a year and look better than someone going for 5 years. Don't use that as an excuse though, Go put the work in, when the results come they come.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:51 AM
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You're a beta male for answering a month old thread with a shitty answer Suck my balls!
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:04 AM
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I don't think you took the right message from this experience. She very clearly chose to fuck someone that would get back to you on purpose. Dread game works both ways. She wanted to LTR you and she thought making you jealous would help in her cause since nothing else worked. She didn't contradict herself, this falls clearly in line with her intent. "I'll show him I'm a catch and I can get a man any time I want to." ​ You didn't leave things vague. If there's a chance she can hook you then thing…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 11:16 PM
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Results may vary, entirely depends on why they are canceling, what they are canceling, how soon they are canceling. Like most things there is no one size fit all answer.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:34 PM
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DARE, never DEER Read that post immediately if you haven't already
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:59 PM
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Why are you allowing disrespectful bitches at "your" parties in the first place...kick her out
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:21 PM
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lol
/r/askTRP02/05/20 07:20 PM
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For what?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 12:00 AM
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For what?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 12:00 AM
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Stop "trying" to be attractive and just "be" attractive If it's not a "fuck Yes" then it's a "Fuck No"
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 12:55 PM
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Ah yeah a bit haha thanks for clearing that up
/r/askTRP29/04/20 05:10 AM
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I mean bill "until my bill turns my Blue" ...what
/r/askTRP28/04/20 07:12 PM
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What the fuck does that even...bill!?
/r/askTRP28/04/20 05:53 PM
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Fuck RSD and Tyler and his bullshit Bunch of frauds
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 04:49 AM
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Agree and disagree. Despite abundance women will very frequently also have One-Itis and Women's One-Itis is way stronger than men's because they do have those options. I've seen many examples of woman turning down men who had all their ducks in a row, fit, handsome, sought after, all because one man strongly had their interest at the time.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 12:46 AM
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Is this actually a thing lol looks like it's private
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 11:49 PM
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Borderline Personality Disorder
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:43 AM
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It's also a great way to break the tension. Absence makes the heart grow fonder
/r/TheRedPill14/04/20 03:28 PM
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Just another beta white knight trying to save the day. If these girls are so uncomfortable then why haven't they told you directly? Why do they need this guy as a mediator? Nope, drop the whole group, block their numbers and never contact any of them again. A red pill man has no time for such games. Fuck em.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:25 PM
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This is absolutely white knighting. He is swooping in to save the Maiden's in distress. This is text book WK behavior
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:23 PM
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If you ever want to ruin your life, accept a woman with BPD into it. You'll kill yourself within a month.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:15 PM
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I was completely cucked when I was younger. Allowed her to ignore text, stay out all night with her friends without calling, turning her phone away when I was around, has more guy friends then girl friends, chronic weed smoker and she was always high, would let things slip that made me suspicious but I would ignore it, constantly rearranging plans, the whole nine yard. Yeah it's embarrassing looking back at it all but I learned my lesson and I know people go their whole lives never changing cour…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:13 PM
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And how is it wrong?
/r/askTRP12/04/20 10:57 PM
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Anticipation over attraction I like that, making a note of that
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 09:39 PM
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The other thing you have to keep in mind is you're just one faceless guy among the thousands in he inbox. Beta by association.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 09:20 PM
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Texting is inherently unexciting, because it's as far removed from an actual experience as it is possible. You don't build attraction when texting chicks, when there is not even the "experience" of being face to face with someone - there is no feeling. In fact, attraction is lost when you show people that you are willing to partake in idle chit-chat that leads to nothing - it implies not only that you are willing to waste your time, but also that you have no better "action" to take your time up …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 09:19 PM
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Doubt
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:12 AM
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Mood
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:01 AM
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Dance to a job and dream of doing better
/r/askTRP11/04/20 02:59 AM
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Ah, fair enough.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:56 PM
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I'm curious, looking at your profile it's pretty new. How did you even end up in a thread in this subreddit
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:30 PM
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No thanks lol but thanks for the answer, good luck with that
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:16 PM
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What exactly were you expecting?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 02:28 PM
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You're highly invested in the story of someone you dated over a decade ago who you didn't take seriously but like...I guess
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 12:52 AM
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I've actually never understood why guys are so heavy on getting nudes instead of just fucking them either so thanks for breaking that one down too
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:44 PM
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I guess that's the unfortunate consequence of seeing paying a woman as validation
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:43 PM
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Exactly. You know what is worse than a baby? Aids.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:31 PM
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Burden of Performance. It is, get used to it.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:26 PM
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Motivation is everything, Why are you doing it? What do you hope to accomplish here?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:24 PM
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What were you doing for 29 years?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:22 PM
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" I'm sure I don't have to say how funny it is to see a woman who's pushing 30 still working as a cashier and has an inflated value of herself still." Funny how the mediocre 35 year old man with no ambition still thinks he's above anyone in life. Seek therapy. You are fucked in the head man.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:21 PM
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Nobody is your friend or cares about you as a man and you have been living in a dream world this entire time. Welcome to the real, true and cold reality. Welcome to the dog eat dog world.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:38 PM
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No one ever said beta bucks doesn't get to fuck. Beta bucks fucks, they just have to pay for it. It's still a sexual strategy, just not an ideal one. This is the guy that takes a girl out on expensive dinner dates or flies her to Hawaii before he even gets a half assed hand job in the Wendy's parking lot. An alpha fucks regardless and doesn't even consider offering commitment or resources for pussy.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:34 PM
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These men are growing up in a society where the feminine is law and every woman they meet is a potential outlet for all there one itis beta desires
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:30 PM
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Not *so* plausible deniability
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:18 PM
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But with all those forms of media do these guys honestly feel invested in these girls? Are they really out here thinking the money give a shit about anything outside of their bank accounts and wallets. Then that leads me to the whole findom shit. I just can't understand how a man, a boy even, sinks this low in life that they would resort to this. How does a man lose the game of life so hard?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:17 PM
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Facts
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:15 PM
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The fact that literally any girl can get a following, no matter how fat or ugly and make money then yeah this is almost zero reason not to collect on free and willing money lol I don't question the girls behavior at all. That's obvious yeah.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:15 PM
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Outcome Independence and IDGAF attitude are the same thing wouldn't they be
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 07:30 AM
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People resented you for not getting pussy? I vaguely see what you're saying but I'm trying to clear the link here. Congrats on your recovery though, that's radical.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 07:28 AM
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The system is built around the feminine. You think of all the women in your life growing up vs the men. Single mothers, women teachers who make up the vast majority, my principals were even female. All my friends had either single mothers or mothers did the majority of the raising of them. Most instructors outside of school for me were all female. You take a jab at coaches but I look back on my positive male role models growing up and my coaches were literally the most that I had of it. The syst…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 07:26 AM
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You feel like beta bux led you to porn?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 02:50 AM
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Do you feel like living with a single mother lead to your gaming addiction and how did you break it
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 09:31 PM
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Really awesome metaphor here. Short, sweet and to the point and it's a great point. Coincidentally I have that same barrier. Great post, lot to think on from this one.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 09:26 PM
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*She's in another country* Stopped reading there. Stop. Just stop right now.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 03:57 PM
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Humans are literally evolutionary wired for community Consider this, the highest form of punishment for human beings next to death is SOLIDARITY confinement. Let that sink in. When the system wants to break down some of the meanest, toughest felons in the world. Men that would cut your throat just as easy as they would order a burger from McDonald's, they stick them in a hole and watch them lose everything. Missed the mark on this one.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 03:51 PM
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Bitch is crazy. Do not respond.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:23 PM
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To an extent yes but you have to be careful with abundance mentality. Some people take it the wrong way and only feel good about themselves when they have a lot of women and when they don't they go back to baseline. True abundance mentality though, absolutely.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 03:31 AM
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All of these boil down to being emotionally invested. If you don't give a fuck you pass all these test by default.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 04:30 PM
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"Leave the door open" mentality. That is what it's all about. Don't hold the door open though,
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:06 AM
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They don't want to hear the obvious truth lol let them be delusional until their unicorns give them the clap
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 06:29 AM
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Was raised nice, not a single mom but might as well be. Fawned over women. Tried to be the "good dude" meanwhile I hung out with absolute scumbags and yet they all had a steady stream of very attractive girlfriends and I was always single. A man gets tired eventually. Started seeking out what the fuck I was going wrong online and here I am.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:01 AM
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You can tell yourself whatever helps you sleep at night lol It's your body
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 07:09 PM
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Anyone who thinks it's only the drug addicted hookers who have STI's as I'm seeing in these comments is kidding themselves. Literally any girl has a pretty good chance of having one if she is sexual active as do you. That's part of the risk of being in this game. If you have a high number amount of partners, realistically you will eventually catch something. It happens. Inspection helps but a vast number of people can be asymptomatic and while the chances of them transmitting are much lower in t…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 05:04 PM
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Literally any woman can have an STI, you're kidding yourself if you think it's limited to any "type." AWALT applies here as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 04:58 PM
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Seconding this, also picked it up from NMMNG, definitely required reading if you haven't been through the book already.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 08:48 PM
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The thing is with the way orbiter's are now a days, they don't need to date the beta to get that validation from them. She gets that validation every time she logs onto her facebook, instagram, snapchat, onlyfans, patreon, tinder, whatever else bullshit women use now a days. You have to realize in the year 2020 that women have men fawning for them literally 24/7 and even paying for their attention. You absolutely can not fall into this category if you want to survive. If it comes down to being t…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 12:08 PM
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Learning and recognizing all the covert contracts in my life was by far one of the most transformative moments of my life
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 07:20 AM
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You are going to get MeToo'd so hard lol run now
/r/askTRP27/03/20 03:11 PM
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Anger phase No tip or advice will pull you out of it. You have to do some soul searching and pull yourself out. Could take weeks, months, years. Some never recover. It's the effect of being so far left your whole life that you swing way too right afterwards.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:01 PM
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You are invested in if it works so it wont work...you missed the message
/r/TheRedPill22/03/20 04:00 AM
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Absolutely true in my case and I had actually asked about this in Asktrp a couple weeks ago. How do we as men start to break this cycle? Both as individuals and at large
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:58 AM
26

Because of the men involved in them
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 09:38 PM
3

"Beta males hate competition and hide behind contrived morals to justify their uncompetitiveness" Holy FUCK did I need that message today, this is one of the most timely articles ever...and really fucking accurate. Bless you sir.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 05:15 AM
1

SPY?
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:48 AM
2

I'm sure they are because if nothing else, they're bored.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:46 AM
1

I definitely have problems with the people pleasing in general
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:55 AM
1

That's not the context of the question, try harder
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:34 PM
1

I've actually never been with anyone over 30 lol but maybe one day
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:05 PM
15

Aids, herpes, HPV, Gonorrhea, Hep and every other disease been a thing forever and NOW you're worried about catching a disease!? Lmao...yeah...pretty sure Aids trumps corona pretty hard. Don't be stupid.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 08:22 PM
15

Not wrong but now the full picture. Women want QUALITY men's attention. Women don't give a fuck about the infinite amount of simp beta attention the get daily. Those dudes could be hit by a bus in front of them and they wouldn't blank an eye. If the attention doesn't come from a man who is actually desirable then it might as well not exist. So no, not attention. Worthwhile attention. Women also very much want the sex as well.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:41 PM
0

Glad to see this was restored...not sure why such a valid post was ever removed Anyway, very relevant video I stumbled on today: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nWtOPnbiAw4
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 12:43 AM
1

Just be yourself Did you really just say "Just be yourself" in a none ironic way in TRP
/r/askTRP09/03/20 05:24 PM
2

The red pill is still seeking female validation. If you didn't seek women at all you would be MGTOW...not red pill
/r/askTRP09/03/20 03:43 AM
2

Just started but I'm noticing slight improvements so far, definitely worth looking into when you can
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:20 PM
5

Gaslighting, ignore it
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:33 AM
15

There is nothing on heaven or earth that will get an ogre chick laid You really are living in a fantasy
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 04:14 AM
2

Came to comment this lmao what do most PEOPLE have to offer? What does OP have to offer? This just sounds like an angry incel rant.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 12:47 AM
2

That's where you get the No fap movement from
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 01:29 PM
3

Condoms don't always protect from HPV but yeah it helps
/r/TheRedPill18/02/20 10:59 PM
28

Practical Advice So what should one do? While your ultimate goal, the Ultimate Transcendent Purpose, should constantly lurk in the background, you need a practical plan of action for today, tomorrow, and next year. The first thing you need to do is start creating sources of journey pleasure for yourself. You can start with small, short-term tasks that you can easily achieve to obtain “wins.” When I was at my lowest, I started with a small goal: to brush my teeth every day. That small “win” gave …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/20 09:20 PM
15

I love how post like this always bring out the RSD fanatics, eager to suck papa Tyler's cock lmao. It's the new age of cucking. Just remember when you're 40 years old, alone and eating ramen noodles...he'll be using that 5 Grand you paid for a fucking bootcamp to send his kids to college. These dudes don't give a fuck about you and never have.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 08:46 PM
3

"Qualify your women" This is a very basic component of the red pill and always has been. Don't do this for performance. You should genuinely be doing this at all times. Why ARE you with her? That's an important question that you should be asking yourself. The fact that you're even spending your blessed time with her should make her feel special if you're a high value man and she knows you have a million other more important things to be doing than to be with her. Time is money. You'll never lose…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/20 06:47 PM
1

I know plenty of women who know more about sports than I do and discuss it at lengths daily, in fact the more hardcore football fans I know are all women. Maybe she needs to stop stereotyping.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/20 05:28 PM
6

I just started seeing someone for mine, hearing this gives me a lot of hope. Do you mind my asking what you were prescribed?
/r/askTRP24/01/20 04:59 AM
1

Same, my dad was always gone and my mother raised me basically. I never learned the term "Gas lighting" until I was much older but holy shit just reading the definition alone opened my eyes to my entire childhood
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 08:01 AM
1

Interesting
/r/askTRP18/01/20 11:48 AM
2

How can porn trigger depression and anxiety?
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:47 PM
2

Death Grip?
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:43 PM
21

Confidence is action in the face of fear. It's saying even though I'm scared to do this I'm still going to.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 06:36 AM
15

It is interesting to note that you simply regard those with conservatism with emotionalism exclusively, which is largely disingenuous. Those on the left (at least my interactions with them), seem to feel first, then think logically on how to justify their feelings to match reality. "I feel therefore it is". Conservatives on particular topics do this too, but you should approach things logically first, gather as much data as possible and then make your conclusions there. You must not spend a lot …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 10:43 PM
12

What in the name of cringe, Dungeons and Dragons style writing is this lol yikes
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 10:39 PM
1

Who is LAHWF?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 02:30 AM
2

Answer your own question, is it? How attractive are you? How together is you life? Are you even capable of getting more attractive women? Are you looking for a long term partner or just trying to get your dick wet. This shit is nuance. Stop seeking cookie cutter answers.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:29 AM
13

I feel like this in large explains social media and it's influence on women and society. At first the tribe was just Karen, Becky and Todd across the street. It was more compact. More real. Maybe you have your school tribe or your work tribe. Social media "connected: us. Now the tribe is everyone. The world is the tribe. Women seek the validation and safety of the mechanical tribe and it's completely changed their world views. Not just women though, men as well and this is the world we must comp…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 03:50 AM
2

Why do randoms know this girl has STD's unless they fucked her...
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 03:23 AM
1

My ex actually hit me up right around the same time LOL so you might be onto something
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 01:22 AM
1

Honestly I really didn't do anything, it was just a really weird month. One of the girls I hadn't even seen in like a year, she just randomly showed up at my apartment one night with one of my platonic lady friends and straight up was just like I want you to fuck me right now. I didn't even know they were coming over. I was literally 2 seconds from leaving to meet friends at a club and they just showed up. The other two were similar circumstances. It was just a really weird month where the unive…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 07:41 PM
2

I had this realization last summer. Had a fucking WHIRLWIND month when due to the craziest circumstances of my life, straight out a damn sitcom or something, I ended up sleeping with 3 women I had hard one itis for, one of them for years, within 6 weeks of each other. I didn't even do anything. All 3 of them came to me. The universe seriously put some crazy ass magic on me because I was and still am in disbelief over those weeks of my life and how it played out. However afterwards I was empty. J…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 01:44 PM
1

I find Headspace to be rather helpful actually
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 01:24 PM
1

Awesome, I'll look into the audio as well then. Thanks for the tip.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 02:38 PM
3

Finding it very insightful so far You might want to make your new years resolution "improve my reading comprehension skills" because this ain't it Chief Good luck in 2020, I suggest you pick up a few books as well. Several.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:08 PM
1

I don't do a lot of audio books so that's interesting, what makes you feel it's superior?
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:14 AM
1

Adding that to the reading list, thanks for the suggestion
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:14 AM
1

I've started meditation 5 minutes ever morning and it for sure has been giving me some increased clarity. Great point with the story, thanks.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:13 AM
2

I have, reading this book was my first step but thanks
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:11 AM
1

I purchased the "Headspace" app and having been using that during the week. I find the guided meditation for now helps me stay consistent and make a schedule and then I'll branch out into more after I finish with this. Thanks, glad it had a positive effect in your life.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:11 AM
4

I think you missed the part where I said I'm currently reading the book...
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:08 AM
1

I hate that the first thing that goes when I'm sad is my appetite. I train in the gym on most days and it used to be when I went to exhaustion I could force myself into hunger but even that doesn't work on most days now. What I've found works best is breaking meals up into very very small portions through out the day. I usually eat 4 times a day so I might break that up into 6 or so, eating small amounts at a time
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:43 PM
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Nothing worth having comes easily. Very few things are organic. We have to learn (or unlearn as the case might be) what to do and not to do. That is not the problem. The problem is once you learn those things you have to ACT on it and that is where most fail. They don't want to put in the WORK, they only want the results and they want them handed to them on a silver platter.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 10:43 AM
2

Short, simple and to the point. I like it.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 06:24 AM
3

Don't be silly, wrap your willy
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 06:57 PM
11

He did. He is openly a sex addict and was getting filmed but sluts he had brought home several times. Kid was caught in brothels like twice lol
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 06:46 PM
4

Something I saw quoted just recently in here Self-respect demands that we make a dedicated effort. Self-worth demands that we feel we are enough regardless of its outcome. Being ambitious and content at the same time is the great challenge of life.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 04:41 PM
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"So far Ive turned down them all down because I really don’t want more with her" Yet you cared enough to ask about about her after she practically cucked you...
/r/askTRP26/11/19 09:46 AM
19

MGTOW group is a fucking joke, I got banned for pointing out that all the movies someone said that show women as masculine were directed by men. They are literally cotton ball soft. I guess that's why they went their own way because they couldn't figure out any other way lol I kid...but nah, they are actually jokes. If you swallow the black pill then I'm just glad you're out of my way. One less competitor.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 05:53 AM
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If you would even consider following that up then I really have to question how desperate you are lol the fact that you are even asking is slightly concerning to me. No dude...no...abandon fucking ship. Right now.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:30 PM
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I literally wrote an entire post about guys do this here just recently lol I agree with you
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 09:39 AM
2

Super late reply but TLDR, he pretty openly uses his money to get women. He is by very definition Beta Bux. Ask yourself this question, if he were to lose everything tomorrow, if all his money were to go down there drain (which it very well may based on his lifestyle if he isn't smart) how many of his women would stay with him? I feel pretty confident saying 99% would be onto the next sugar daddy. Also his mannerism are extremely validation seeking. He is the very image of some kid who used to b…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 09:29 AM
5

It comes in waves, nothing in life is consistent unless you make it consistent Everyday you wake up that reset button gets pressed. It's a new day and a new start and each and everyday you have to go out and make it happen or it wont happen. Period. It's your actions that will dictate your beginnings and endings.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:07 AM
2

Absolutely. Genetics, evolution and years of Disney-esqe programming. Everyone wants to find their Snow White while she's busy banging the seven Dwarfs.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 05:33 PM
3

Oddly enough enough this just made me consider some of the low key covert contracts I have with "whores" in my life lol some good reflection indeed Look I get it. It's hard to turn against "the dream." Not only is it comforting but it's been instilled in us since birth. I'd argue that honestly you never lose it completely. It's like a radio playing at full blast in your head 24/7 and you can do is learn to temporarily mute it. No matter how red pill you become, no matter how many plates you spin…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 04:50 PM
9

Honestly I have what I can only describe as body dis morphia. I've been hardcore lifting for almost a decade now and I still feel like the same person. I'm jacked. Men ask me for advice, even strangers off the street. Women are attracted to me. I have the external influences that I know I have a killer body. Are far as internally though I feel the exact same.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:29 AM
1

Okay well if you would rather be a cuck and continuing the ruing of your own sex life while watching other men have sex on a screen then be my guess. Also you say you did Nofap but you didn't clarify if you were still looking at porn. Porn even in the absence of masturbation is still doing harm. Is porn the reason for all of your issues of course not but why contribute to them in exchange for being a virtual cuck? You gain absolutely nothing from porn. Nothing.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 05:33 PM
4

Being the guy who never commits who usually has his plates come back after dating some chump, been there and done that. It never fails. Girl is with an alpha. Starts thinking she wants commitment. Threatens alpha that she walks or he commits. Alpha of course says bye. She leaves and gets with some beta who commits with no fight at all. Usually is back texting within a month or so. Some never come back. Some take longer. Once you've been on the other side of this though it becomes so commonplace …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 04:34 AM
1

Coke is like alcohol for a lot of people, some may get addicted but there is plenty of high ranking people in the world that casually do coke lol plenty (Not at ALL advocating for it, just stating a fact)
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:59 AM
1

You need to see with your eyes and not with your ego. Eating is a strong addiction! Do you pay any attention to the obesity epidemic we are currently experiencing? Just what is causing obesity? Eating. Say what you want man but I know a fuck ton more men that are addicted to pornography than meth, alcohol, pain killers, etc. I think it would be pretty fair to say a majority of men currently alive, to varying degrees are addicted to pornography. It's so common we don't even treat it as addiction.…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 10:22 PM
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Porn is directly attached to your basic evolutionary need and dopamine receptors and has the ability to be stronger than any other form of addiction. This is science, not theories.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 02:34 PM
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For all that gets said about how women are degraded by porn, I never really looked at the perspective of how it equally puts women and sex on a pedestal. As these mystical creatures who can perform these magical acts that are so worthy of having that they mass produce movies on it. Really interesting perspective there but I like it. Makes sense really. Porn does pedestal women and sex. Not just traditional sex as well. It also does take away from real sex when it's not like the mystical acts per…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 02:30 PM
3

If you're putting yourself in that situation it has everything to do with Frame. Frame is partially dependent on environment, hence while one man might thrive in one situation where another would fall. As far as powerful men in strip clubs go, I'm far more talking about their actual interactions with them. If you've ever seen and witnessed how many of these men interact with strippers (but also women in general) then you would understand what I mean. Rich and famous doesn't mean alpha and in my …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 12:50 PM
2

I would say Dan Bilzerian is a Beta for a multitude of reasons actually, not a man I would model myself after. Successful or not.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 12:34 PM
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Great post, it is the man who is happy in a relationship, with woman and with his partners and equally happy completely on his own that will go far. Draw state from within and not your environment.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/19 09:41 PM
0

Didn't realize we were grading for spelling, you knew what I meant
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:41 AM
-2

Dominance Be dominate
/r/askTRP10/11/19 12:26 PM
2

Pretty much what my shrink explained. The meds will help but I still have several decades worth of bad habits that I have to slowly start to reverse. I'm just ready to get my life into some form of order, no matter what it takes. Thanks, you as well.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 10:01 PM
1

How did you feel like it made you into a billy beta type?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:37 PM
1

Mostly negatively I assume?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:36 PM
1

You say you are not working right now, how do you feel it has effected your professional life?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:35 PM
1

Some definitely might have been more understanding than others. Have you always known you had it?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:30 PM
1

My motivation is currently lacking far more than I want to so I do hope when I try meds I do reach that point that I feel like I can set goals and work towards them, that's what I'm seeking right now more than anything because it is so hard for me and has been my whole life. I can see how that can be negative for relationships but with us I guess when you live your whole life unable to focus and suddenly you can make you even feel a sense of lost time? Like maybe you feel like you can finally ge…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:29 PM
2

Okay thanks for that explanation. I feel like in my personal case a lot of my anxiety and depression steam from my ADHD. My problems with focus have hindered my ability to get and keep jobs, finish schools, relationships, etc. All of this has kind of just piled up on me. Right now I'm working on just trying to establish some form of normal life finally. Good luck to you too.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:25 PM
1

Got you, thanks for that warning. If I do try out medication I'll try and look out for that then. Is it just porn that you've felt affected by them in that way?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:22 PM
1

I might start doing a trial of Ritalin in the near future but I'm still doing my research on it. Haven't seen much on it affecting sex drive however. Not positive.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:36 PM
1

In what way do you feel like the meds have effect porn consumption, the stimulus of it?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:35 PM
2

I suggest you do your research before you speak on things you don't understand, I hope no one in your life is effected that has to suffer your ignorance
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:34 PM
2

What ways have you found to mitigate those downsides?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:28 PM
1

What kind of things have they had you doing as far as CBT and do you feel like it's helped a lot?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:26 PM
2

In what way do you feel like medication didn't make you the best person? I feel you on the overload part. When people ask me to do multiple things at once I reach that frustration point easily or forget and it definitely impacts my relationships all around. How much did medication help you would you say?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:21 PM
1

Probably for her husband (Seriously) Cuckold culture is crazy right now
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:04 PM
2

I didn't stop believing in it because I never knew what it it was to believe in it in the first place What I did do was redefine love
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:23 AM
3

That small subtle point you brought up is really the crux of it all. The simple fact of posting about something does mean that minimally you are invested to some extent, correct.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 03:36 AM
1

No problem, this was a lesson I unfortunately quickly learned when I gave in and created a snapchat. I've been in your position before and it's hard because as a man with our logical brains, a woman dirty talking and sending nudes leads us to the obvious conclusions that she's down to fuck and this simply isn't the case a lot of times. They send them to many men to get their validation and then tease the thought of a meet up to keep them coming back (because eventually we grow tired of the run a…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 03:34 AM
4

Venting is fine. There is very few places where men are free to vent about being men and this is one of them. That's a major part of the appeal. To go off topic a bit and address your partial comment, unfortunately you'll find that the women who are overly sexual before meeting up will also be the most flaky. Often you are not the only man they are doing so with and it's mostly just for attention and validation, it's a pretty big red flag in general. You addressed it correctly by withdrawing att…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 02:34 AM
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And that's completely fine, the important note is that you've admitted it and more importantly that you are working on it. Good luck to your brother.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 12:54 AM
7

The unconscious nature of it is definitely one of the greatest dangers it holds. A lot of time these men don't even realize how deep these attachments they hold on to really go. Strongly advocate meditation for these purposes.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 08:12 PM
1

Basically this
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:10 AM
1

Learn to stay with those women long enough to experience their bullshit...detachment will come
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:57 AM
1

They want the "sure thing" One of the biggest red pill moments of my life was a girl I used to fuck labeling me as a "sure thing" kind of guy and from then on out I did a 360 on my attitude lmao yeah...never be the "sure thing" guy or you're going to have a rough life buddy
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:26 AM
4

"These guys often grew up around people who harshly rejected them and people who made them feel like their value as a man depended on how many women they could get. But trying to feel alpha by getting women always fails because they become dependent on women for that feeling, which makes them wanty, which ends up repelling women and making them feel even more insecure. You need to feel alpha first, and THEN get women, not vice versa." I recently received a very harsh reminder of this lesson myse…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 09:24 AM
2

I just grabbed " The Inner Game of Tennis" this week, finishing up the Power of Now and jumping to that next but glad to see it referenced here now
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 12:32 AM
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I have to disagree with most the advice given so far. Dude you have to realize something, you are a fucking stranger. A lot of times it's just for protection. There's some weird mother fuckers out here. You don't treat the guy badly, you befriend him. You engage him. If he doesn't engage back or acts hostile, you don't let it effect you. The girl will notice that. She knows you want to fuck her. She knows her friend wants to fuck her. She knows most guys want to fuck her. This is a shit test at …
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:17 AM
3

Holy fuck, literally just caught one itis for a girl this weekend EXACTLY like this and for exactly this reason. You nailed it accurate as fuck. Every time I get one of those girls that gives innocent unicorn vibes I fall back into bad habits so fast it's insane. Through practice I am much better at breaking out of it now but it's still there. I'm glad this is the top comment, everyone here needs to see this one. Everyone. Then read it daily.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:44 AM
2

That is an awesome and hopeful way to look at it all, thank you
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:41 AM
2

Just started the book and so much is already making sense, thank you so much!
/r/askTRP19/09/19 06:36 AM
2

Spoiler Alert: EVERYTHING is an echo chamber It's up to choose to pick your echos
/r/askTRP08/09/19 04:29 PM
2

Thank you for the advice and for sharing your story and no contact was definitely always going to be the next move. I just recently moved out so it's viable for me for the first time now and I'm very much looking forward to embracing it. Thanks and glad you were able to move past it yourself.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:36 PM
2

There is nothing to respect
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:18 AM
2

Every single time, AWALT always
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 05:42 PM
2

And my mom also does that "Feminine in public, screaming banshee in the house" bipolar shit. That used to bug me so hard when I was kid and I could never place my finger on why. Now I know.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 05:45 AM
6

I had an Epiphany moment just this week. I was visiting my parents house and only my dad was home at the time. Out of nowhere my mom gets home and starts screaming like a banshee for no reason. I was not in the mood this day and for the first time ever I basically told her to fuck off. Both my parents were stunned. My dad has absolutely no control of his house or her and she still going insane, he's yelling at me to apologies, I double up and tell him to fuck off too. At this point he's like yea…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 05:43 AM
9

I use to think the women in my life were crazy for bitching about everything in this exact manner but really it's just AWALT, bitches are literally all this insane...yikes
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 07:24 AM
21

They don't look at the increased responsibilities that men have, only the potential opportunities that a limited amount of men actually have. Damn...what a fucking mic drop right here though
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 07:22 AM
2

Does your ADHD contribute to your dopamine addiction
/r/askTRP25/08/19 01:36 PM
28

As someone who trains with a lot of body builders I was about to say this lol plenty of body builders have ugly as fuck girlfriends. Plenty. Out of shape and fat ones even. Not remotely uncommon.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:25 PM
2

Most men will never believe it but this shit is so true. I only had 3 and I went through this moment. I thought I had it all. Thought I final got the prize for all my hardwork I put in. I enjoyed that shit for like a month before it became a burden. To the point that I wanted to go back to my previous life instantly. Chill with my boys, hit the gym, play some games, fucking just be with myself even. Girls were constantly hitting me up, you feel obligated to meet up because you know there's 100 o…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 10:52 AM
32

You can read about AWALT 24/7, internalize all the reading but until you go through it, Until you have that experience, until you go through that anger, that hatred, that pure unadulterated rage, fury and fire of going through it yourself...it's just something every man has to go through alone. Buckle up because you're in for a bumpy ride. You're about to experience more anger and hatred than you ever have in your life. It's good. Embrace it. Don't let it consume you though. Analyze it. Learn fr…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 10:46 AM
38

I'm fit, tall and reasonably wealthy. One of my plates bounced from me to a fat, out of shape, short and unemployed loser. The shit is WILD. You nailed it lol.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 10:42 AM
13

To steal a quote from a blog on Amused Mastery " I’m not saying there’s never a time for anger. There is. There is a time for red hot passion and white hot rage. But your operational mode should be one of… say it with me… AMUSED MASTERY. Cool-as-fuckness. Imperturbability. "
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:39 PM
2

I love your explanation on "Should." I usually like to be as direct as possible, like straight up hey come with me to this but I will be trying the "should," the next few go around
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 08:48 PM
2

The red pill is entirely about sex lmao it's a sexual strategy. If you want to meditate, each clean, lift heavy and go home and suck your own dick every night then that is fine...but it ain't red pill. So angry and yet so wrong.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 09:57 AM
2

Knowing something and applying it are two widely different skill sets and concepts. This applies to every factor in life.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:13 AM
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Another guy I work with, this dude is a dead ringer for Don Draper. His wife is a god damned cow. At first, when dealing with this guy, I kept thinking "what the fuck? How? Seriously. How?" Until I got to know him. His personality doesn't match his looks even slightly. Total goofball, immature as fuck, stupid jokes, terrible with social cues. This guy is like a caricature of a Magic the Gathering or Dungeons and Dragons nerd; but in Don Draper's body. I brought this up to a girl I work with, and…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 12:08 PM
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I see where you're coming from but not how you worded this. This isn't a new or foreign concept here and can be summed up way more simple. Vetting is flawed at its core because men will invent ways for a woman to pass if he wants her to pass. If a woman shows interest in a man 99% of average men will make a woman pass just because of that fact. At its core it's ego yes. Anyone that shows interest in you is automatically a unicorn. She is not like those other girls...until she is.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 11:44 PM
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I agree with all...but bitches still ain't shit lol
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 07:09 PM
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Her instagram got deleted lol RIP
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:22 PM
3

Damn, that is deep but accurate. Crazy analysis.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 01:30 AM
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Agree with all of this, to expand a little the center of so many problems is the "wanting." The wanting for sex, a relationship, women in your life, etc. These are all biological and in no way should you turn away from them but the thing is once you actually get these things you find that the build up is often more pleasurable then the results. As they say for every hot chick there is a man out there who is sick of her shit. Women are great, sex is amazing but nothing is worth sacrificing a calm…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 06:50 PM
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You really laid out the cause of most of the anger phase here. Men are mad because they were lied to about women yes but also because of their own behaviors and what they allowed to pass as acceptable for so long. I look at my own behaviors before my awakening and I see myself in all of those traits you listed. I would be mad at women for rejecting me who probably didn't even know I desired them. I would do favors for them, be kind to them, I would expect them to "just get it" because at the tim…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 07:44 PM
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Did you even watch the video? Social media creators haven't never denied their agenda is literally to get you addicted and they even explain how they do it and you honest believe there isn't some bigger beast pulling those strings behind the scenes, not even bothering to hide? Wake up.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 07:55 PM
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I've been doing a lot of theory work and linking it to red pill lately and I've been heavily focused on the sunk cost fallacy and Pavlovian theory and yet I hadn't yet made the link to Skinner Boxes and Operant conditioning. So many holes I've been pandering on have just been filled, thank you for that. Operant conditioning explains so much on where we are and how we got there right now and even how we're either going to stay here on change. I've be musing heavily on this over the weekend. I fee…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 07:52 PM
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I didn't think I would see my point played out right here in the actual comment section. We are actually doomed lads, holy fuck. Just throw the whole damn planet away. It's a wrap....yikes.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:22 PM
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Though the top comment is accurate I find this to be far more so the reason. Three words. Social Fucking Media. Dudes are so eager to hype up every ugly ass of pussy that the validation does to their head and they carry it into the real world. Even the most nasty, fat, 3/10 woman you know across the street will get likes and validation if she shows a little ass on Instagram or snapchat. Men have become beta's in mass and will worship this bottom barrel chick at even the small chance she will not…
/r/askTRP24/06/19 08:42 PM
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You pretty much nailed it, yeah, the theory dictates that you will not take action when the perceived loss is greater than the expected gain. If men knew for a 100% fact that every approach they ever made would immediately lead to hot passionate sex, 100% of the time then there would be absolutely no approach anxiety. It wouldn't exist because you would know that there is a guaranteed gain without any risk However that is not most men's mindset when they approach. They think this is going to go …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 02:48 PM
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I think he's referring to a more evolutionary meaning, think prehistoric times. If you took too many risk you often times would not pass on their genes because that man would die first. Try to mate with the wrong woman and it could mean being clubbed to death.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 12:21 AM
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Side Note: This same theory helps explain Approach Anxiety and many other theory as well
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 09:23 PM
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Winner
/r/askTRP15/06/19 12:16 PM
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You're in denial, if it was "just a plate" you would not care as much as you do, not even close friend
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:28 AM
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Best comment I've ever read here, 20/10
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:25 AM
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To an extent I believe so. I think we as a culture trivialize sex so much but at the end of the day I always come back to this hard fact of life as a whole. If we don't have sex we don't reproduce. If we don't reproduce we die out as a species. In my opinion it doesn't come any closer to the core of life itself than that.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 06:51 AM
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You overcome that fear by learning not to give a fuck if you do lose her, in fact never phrase it like that going forward. You aren't losing her, she is losing you. YOU are the prize. Not her. It's her lose. Change your mindset.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 06:46 AM
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Absolutely. When people say it's a Lagging Indicator they more so mean success with women, not that they will just come to you but that your game will be better
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 03:54 AM
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Imo this "lagging indicator" is just another version of red pill delusion that if you improve yourself/get ripped/whatever, women will come automatically to you (or atleast semi automatically). I haven't seen anything happen automatically for "normal" high value guys. It only happens if you are actually rich, athlete, or some level of celebrity etc. Nothing happens "automatically," you can lift, be rich, have a big house and none of that matters if you aren't working on your game. Bitches aren't…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 02:38 PM
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Game isn’t gonna get you that far if you’re a broke fatass living in moms basement. There's a broke fatass living in moms basement getting pussy everyday. Arguably in the 18 - 25ish range you'll find that to be the main dudes fucking (Outlaw Biker Status) Game will always trump traditional "Values"
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 09:44 AM
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This is obviously lol you know the answer man. Come on now. And they were literally trading pictures afterwards AND she didn't mention. Man don't ever in your life need to ask about some shit like this again. She should have been nexted before the phone even left your hand. Bitches get cut for a quarter of this bro, where are you balls at!?!?! Damn....just....yeah damn. My condolences .
/r/askTRP24/05/19 05:05 AM
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People are so cowardly in the face of the truth lol you should be blessed that someone took the time to tear down your errors here, this is the kind of scathing review I would have killed for back in the day when I was still make these same errors and even to this day honestly. Bless you Beegoop for enforcing the true order. Keep fighting the good fight Everyone will do well to listen to sound advice such as this as will I, all of this is on point 100%
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 04:34 AM
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He's Catholic so yeah, basically TradCon.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 01:36 PM
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This basically goes against every tenant of the red pill so where do you stand with this?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 02:34 AM
1

Plate spinning 101
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 04:45 AM
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Nope just facts
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 04:30 AM
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Plate spinning 101, it's 1st grade but the basics must be drilled
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 04:29 AM
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Plate spinning 101, it's 1st grade
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 04:29 AM
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Plate spinning 101
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 04:28 AM
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Plate spinning 101
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 04:27 AM
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And it is, to a certain extent. But on it's own it's only good until the money shot. After that you need additional skills. Plates, relationships etc. the worst you can say about PUA is it's limited, and depending on the system, outdated This exactly. PUA told you how to get the women...not how to handle and maintain them. Like giving a child bunch of matches.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 10:21 PM
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I'm operating under the knowledge and my experience of the kind of man who is usually quick to shout out these kinds of platitudes in the face of someone offering real wolrd and practical advice. Call it what you will.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 05:15 PM
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Values must be cultivated. Simply repeating them in your head isn't enough. To steal a quote from Mark Manson: "Values require more than a simple choice to believe them. You don’t just wake up one day and decide, “I’m a happy successful person!” and become it. Values must be cultivated, consciously tried and tested and steeled by experience. Values are worthless if they don’t contain some sort of real-world manifestation, some tangible benefit in the form of positive experience." If you're reall…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 05:12 PM
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I may attempt this if I choose to make a new one and start over. I have a mate who uses this as his main form of game but he's also a bonifield world traveler so it works really well for him as women add him and see him visiting all these great places and I have seen it in action through him. If you live a life such as that and can convey it through your social media then yes it is highly effective, agreed.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 02:16 AM
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Codependency is the true "beta", absolutely right
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:47 PM
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She is a narcissist and he is a codependent. I'm actually writing a post for TRP about this later today because I find some interesting links between this dynamic and TRP in my psychology class the other day but more or less, codependents fear loneliness more than anything in this world. They will trade their dignity, their freedom, their entire life away just for a sense of being with someone. Once that bond is made between a narcissist and and a codependent it is very hard to break. We see thi…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:44 PM
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Also if reality TV Cena is the "Real" Cena which I think is probably closer to the true him then the WWE him, he is far from a "nice" guy. He clowns her on the regular, is actually pretty sexist, stubborn and oh let's not mention the fucking 40 page contract he made her sign before she could even live in his house. If Cena is anything like how he is portrayed on that show then he ain't no beta bitch I'll tell you that much. Men could learn something from him, especially with the contract deal.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:23 PM
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That shit was not real dude, people spotted them together hours after the so called "Break up." It was meant to give total divas more views and that's all. Nikki Bella and John were on every talk show and daytime TV the following weeks because women and betas eat that shit up. Admittedly it was possibly one of the best PR moves of all time. Every brought into and I'm sure it got them more views then just going into the wedding.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:16 PM
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You might need actual counseling my dude, if you're actually getting off to the thought of other dudes fucking your girl then that's past TRP in my opinion. You might be a little mental. Maybe your testosterone is low or something or maybe it's so past anything I can imagine desiring that I just can't relate. Hopefully some advice given here helps you.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:54 AM
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Agreed, guys think a girl sending nudes before you meet is a slam dunk when it can really be the kiss of death. Women are validation junkies, don't feed into their addiction.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:13 AM
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This exactly, you're way over thinking this man. Hit them up and you either fuck them or you don't. The end. You claim your SMV is high but it's really not if you're sweating shit like this in the slightest.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:07 PM
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If you're still lusting after a girl you haven't even met then you're asking the wrong questions, it is way deeper than that. Also yeah probably is some fat dude.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:11 PM
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She did you a favor and showed you her true colors. Be glad she did so this early in the relationship, this is a good thing. You paid for the entirety of the date and she could be bothered to put up for some fucking ice cream? Hard next and shoved out the door with authority. Next.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:07 PM
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You can't next her lol you've never even fucked her. That's not how this works. You can't end a relationship that never existed. Either try to fuck her or just keep going with business as usual and don't give her any of your time.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:03 PM
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I was with you until "They are a small subset of girls." Nah my dude, this is the digital age. Even that quiet nerd like girl has 20 dudes she string along in her text messages ready to fuck her at any time. Don't fool yourself. Awalt, not unicorns.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:59 PM
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The man equivalent if validation is sex. Men want sex. Women want validation. I don't why you're having a hard time grasping the concept that people want to be wanted. It's a pretty basic human principal. If you can't understand that then you may be emotionally stunted.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:55 PM
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No lol not likely. You're nobody to her, why would she care if you go no contact. Move on bro.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:52 PM
1

You're probably a younger dude I'm assuming, you'll be fine. Rest at least 4 hours in between, eat a good high protein and moderate carb meal, replenish your electrolyte, go lift and get a good night's rest. Also stretch.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:50 PM
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Exactly. Only difference is the validation you feel because "she sent it to you." News flash, she's a whore. She's sent it to everyone else too. Welcome to the club.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:20 PM
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It's all beta bait and validation junkies. The man is validated because here is this woman showing you her naked body. The woman is validated because then you fawn over her and tell her how hot she is and how much you want to fuck her. If I could give one advice tip in game it's that once the woman has your validation she will not fuck you. She already has what she wanted. You're showing her you're just another drooling beta who loses his mind at the site of a tit or butt cheek. Tell her to stop…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:19 PM
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Sorry for your loss. You met this girl during an extremely vulnerable time for yourself and it's natural she would leave a strong impression at that moment. Minimise reminders of her, tell yourself that it's over and there is no getting it back because your ego will try and force you to keep coming back, move on and meet better and more receptive women. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:57 AM
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SnapChat is the most Beta producing app ever made. Delete that shit immediately.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:28 AM
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The external has absolutely nothing to do with the internal. You can polish a turd and paint it gold but at the end of the day it's still a turd. Looks won't fix it, women won't fix it, money won't fix it. You need some deep introspection on what it is you really want out of life and go for it. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:34 AM
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I agree with you on all fronts here. The reason the system worked back then was because if a woman was found to be cheating it could be the end of life society wise, not to mention the man was usually the bread winner and unless the unfair and female centered courts of the present, she would not have received any benefits for her misstep. Exiled from society and your income, it truly would be a form of suicide. You could debate of course if these women were truly happy with their circumstances o…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 12:03 PM
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Honestly this is the real problem here, true facts
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 11:47 AM
2

Yes you are. No offense meant, I was being a meta faggot bitch just a few days ago. It happens. Move on brother.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 11:46 AM
2

Mine literally did the same exact thing. AWALT as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 11:42 AM
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This is probably one of the most encouraging threads I've read in my entire time in TRP. I made the same mistake as OP a few days ago and have been beating the shit out of myself for falling into the same hole with the same predictable outcome. The main reason I was angry with myself is I KNEW the answer to the question before it was even asked and yet I still chose the wrong action. Ignorance truly is bliss. When you make these kinds of mistakes before you're self aware the only thing that burn…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:51 AM
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Perfectly written. To believe reading some advice online means you'll never fuck up again is not just egotistical but it's damn near idiotic. People believe they'll read the sidebar and turn into some form of God. You will mess up. You will continue to mess up. You will mess up for the rest of your and to believe otherwise is unwise. Humble your and realize this information is a safety net. When you inevitably screw up you have your red pill knowledge to fall back on and rebuild and know how to …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:15 AM
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She can only wonder what another man is like when youve been her only partner her whole life. Its a favourable state. She can, with greater ease, dismiss the notion that another man might fuck her better, having no supporting evidence I disagree. I feel like if anything this would just entice her more. There is not a single thing more arousing to a woman than the mysterious and unknown. This is the same reason I dismiss the young brides theory. If you've ever known anything who got married befor…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:56 AM
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This honestly deserves a post of it's own, so much truth in here. Look up "Nose Dive" in the Black Mirror series if you ever want to see the theory you described here played out in real time. It perfectly illustrates the validation dilemma you laid out, highly recommend it if you have't seen it yet.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:46 AM
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I think part of it is that Americans, we're kind of raised to believe that there are problems but in the end everything will work out if you just do what you're supposed to and live a virtuous life. And historically, this really has been true for most. Now that it may not longer be true, it's very unsettling. In my 29 years of life, I just recently came to that epiphany and it was the most earth shattering realization I ever came to. In my early 20's I strongly believed everything would be okay …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:31 AM
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The king is dead, long live the king! This is profound and deep on another level. Accurate.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:21 AM
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I feel like a lot of Tradconism hype is nothing but nostalgia for a time that never even existed. People envision the "Leave it to Beaver" type family and think that's how it really was. One of the main laws of TRP is you cannot negotiate desire. Divorce was taboo back then so when a woman was bored of a man she couldn't just bail out and gain half his assets like the women of today. That doesn't mean these men were respected, still receiving none starfish sex if sex at all and infidelity was hi…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:12 AM
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Absolutely agree. One Itis has always been a majority reason of what makes men find this place, myself included. That would definitely explain what it's such a common fantasy, especially one you learn technique on controlling certain things (or attempting more so would be accurate)
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:56 AM
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I'm working on a follow up post on outcome independence and frame control now, hopefully you can find some of the answers you're looking for in there but I'll keep an eye out for your question as well. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 04:31 PM
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"Don't want to drive really far." I mean do you want connection or don't you? If you're not willing to do what it takes then that indicates subconsciously that you really don't want it. You can use Facebook to seek out events around in your area, try and find something that would have a lot of people. Otherwise on weekends, drive out a couple miles to the nearest big town, book a hotel and go out a few nights. Do this often.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:32 AM
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On a deeper level I feel like all men know at some point they aren't being taught the correct way. That's why women constantly reassure such men. To keep them asleep. "You're perfect just the way you are." "Someone will love you if you just keep going." "Just be yourself." The message is constant and clear. Keep following your failing strategy and give into female solipsism so you can be harvested at a later time. We've all heard these exact phases and more at least 100 times on the path to reco…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 09:22 PM
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If you think these are the only types of men getting success with women then might I suggest you spend less time online and more inside the real world. It won't take you long to discover you are misguided. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:55 PM
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When I say Disney Love I'm referring purely to the Man to Woman fantasy played out inside the film's. The happily ever after kind of love where a man can swoop in and save his princess and she will love him forever with adoration and loyalty for nothing more than his bravery and class for the rest of both their days. What you're describing I would more closely label as a Red Pill kind of love. Ultimately that kind of love is the true mission of the pill. The mission to have so much love and resp…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:52 PM
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Unicorn hunting is certainly a dangerous game. Even once you are deep into the pill the temptation to think you've found one can remain with you the rest of your life. It is something that must be kept in constant check even once unplugged. Men naturally want to hold on to hope that they're out there.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:41 PM
2

Prize mentally is literally Red Pill 101...that is 99% of the concept. I would expect everyone to.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:10 AM
2

This Also: "listen I acted like an insecure bitch at Festival, but you disrespected me and I won't accept that, but let's just put this bullshit behind us and have a fun few days on holidays" Don't do this. That's beta as fuck. Might as well kiss her toes while you're down at her feet like that
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:07 AM
1

I'm more interested in knowing why you're being a jealous beta over a plate, you're clearly in scarcity and have feelings for this girl. Go fuck 10 other women.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:04 AM
1

Also if thought for a second that saying I love you was going to attract her than you clearly haven't read a single thing here.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:02 AM
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The answer to "There's this one girl," will always...ALWAYS be to move on and get another. Every. Single. Time. No bitch is special. Stop giving your resources out for nothing in return and have some respect for yourself.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 11:00 AM
1

The very definition or at least at large sum of being an alpha is to be a leader. If not of others than at least yourself. If you're following then you're beta. Period.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 10:51 AM
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Have you taken a recent look at divorce rates? You're deluding yourself if you don't think it's that bad. If you honestly think you're going to live out whatever traditionalist fantasy your grandparents lived through, maybe even your parents but I doubt it, then you have a mean wake up call coming. We live in a hook up culture. Blame the internet. Communication has never been easier and now branch swinging is as easy as women signing on to Whatever dating or social media app she wants. To even p…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 10:42 AM
2

Also 29, I leave with you a quote I just saw on here not too long ago... "The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is now." Stop thinking, start working
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:59 PM
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He's an alcoholic, drug addicted loser who puts his life and career at risk over a break-up when he could have another bitch in a second using his celebrity. Of course she left him, he's a fucking loser. I see your point though, some men are delusional enough to think women will stay with them and help them through their bullshit. That's weak to even consider though. No one likes a loser. Men or women. Women can get away with it more, men can't. Burden of performance.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 08:03 PM
2

I mean I'm 6'3 and built like an athlete, this guy was maybe 5'10 and visibly does lift but not nearly as well in shape. As a tall person who is reasonably good looking, people on these boards over hype this looks shit. People really need to go out more and really see with your own eyes who is scoring these women. If you're think it's always the handsome Chad then you're 100% wrong. In my personal observations money will always take you farther then anything. Call it beta or whatever you want bu…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:27 PM
3

I would say one of the hardest parts of unplugging wasn't when I wasn't getting success with women...it was when it was. I run with a pretty rowdy bunch and I can say I've seen it all. Women in relationships, engaged, married. I've seen women laughing as their boyfriend called as one of my guys was nailing her. I've had women joke about how much of a beta their fiance was while she was sucking my dick in a club bathroom. I see a lot of people saying they sometimes fall back on the blue pill but …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:17 PM
2

I've had times when I've been social proofed out the ass, DHVed, push and pulled, only to be beaten out by the Chad hosting lines of coke in the living room. Listen to the man.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:00 PM
1

You're hurting because you identify yourself with your game. Your game has become 'you', who you are. Because your game isn't as good as your friends', it hurts and you feel like your persona is being rejected. Instead, reframe game as a toolbox. Say you have a knife in the toolbox that isn't as sharp as that of your friend. So you feel hurt? Of course not, you simply sharpen your knife or buy a new one. Fix the tools and continue. This 100%. The thing that's hurting is your ego. You attached yo…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 04:57 PM
7

Keeping using condoms so when she cheats on you, you don't get the herp derp
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:46 PM
1

It appears your question is why some men take the Chad route and some go the Nice Guy path when choosing sexual strategy. Personally I say it's around 70% upbringing, 20% genetic, 10% other factors. If your formative years are spent are parents who beat the fact that you should love and cherish and respect women, then you're going to take to it. If you're lucky you'll have an even decently alpha father to protect you during this time but seeing as most men are borderline cucks, the odds aren't i…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 05:29 AM
5

"The Flow Effect" And yeah all of this is brilliant. Has me rethinking my regime now.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:16 AM
1

Meet in a public place and tell her to bring you your things, do not go to her place. That's asking for trouble.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:02 AM
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It's not even worth it at this point, the cards are already laid out on the table. He doesn't need to expose her because he already has. She said he has nothing to worry in relations to the app and yet she puts it back on her phone thinking he was unaware and she got caught. The jury has already read the conviction. She's guilty.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:00 AM
1

Some men never make it past the anger phase. If you ever truly digest the RP then there will be at least some point that you grow to hate women as a whole. That's just a fact. You learn to work through it and accept the nature of the beast for it is but there will come a point in your journey where you ask yourself are bitches even worth it and then you have to grow from there.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:57 AM
2

Asian women are by far a class if their own. Don't even get me started about meeting their parents. You will be grilled about your resources and profession like no other. Asian communities are extremely materialistic and even a plate is held to certain fiscal expectations. Not even stereotyping, this is all from personal experience having dated almost exclusively Asian women the last decade. It's been a ride and still is.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:50 AM
2

I'm curious on how hypergamy works in those places with arranged marriage. I'm sure it's been looked into on here but as it doesn't effect my life in the least, I have never looked for it. Obviously the underlying biological factors are still there but with the social consequences firmly in place including possibly even being killed if you're caught cheating or refusing sex with your husband, I'm curious what the overall relationship satisfaction is for the men and the women and those circumstan…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:38 AM
7

When a woman says "You have nothing to worry about," You can be sure as fuck you have something to worry about lol run.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:31 AM
3

Good suggestion but honestly this is way past Dread repairs. Once you're into levels of deception this high then hard nexting is the only answer
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:27 AM
1

That's kind of how I feel, you can't kill something that is part of you. Molding it sounds more efficient.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:19 PM
6

Honestly the lines are pretty blurred right now in my opinion. TRP/MGTOW/Incel/PUA/RSD/Tap dancing monkey/Whatever. The principals are different but you have the same guys dipping in and out between them, borrowing one theory from another and then molding it to their own definitions and never really going anywhere. Then there is the few dedicated between the classes but it seems so few and in between. At the end of the day, you read what you want, take what you can from it and then live your lif…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:43 PM
1

That's a great analogy. I've definitely seen the ego do some men in gym-wise. ego lifting is a killer. I think half the challenge is separating ego from genuine self esteem.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:54 PM
4

If you are friends with cucks who get visibly jealous and are threatened by their own friends and who date girls who would disrespect them by blatantly flirting with their friends in front of them then the problem is you need better friends. No you don't put on a pair of panties to protect your "friends" egos
/r/askTRP24/06/18 12:17 PM
2

Absolute facts here. No humble brag, I'm tall and fairly attractive and until I started employing game, I crashed and burned way worse than men objectively not as attractive as me and shorter. The reason RSD says "looks don't matter" is to get little beta bitch incels out of their pity party. Of course looks do matter but what the fuck good does it do you to stay at home crying over something you can't change? Take what you got, optimize it through fashion and lifting, get out there and put in w…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 01:35 AM
1

Absolutely nothing because why would you
/r/askTRP23/06/18 08:32 PM
1

She "tried" and yet she had no problem doing it with the guy before you. Don't kid yourself here man but it's your life.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 08:30 PM
1

8) 'Rapport Bombing' Women are selfish. Women will take a perfectly good conversation and intentionally sabotage it for feelz. If you follow her down this path, you'll get no lady-hole. Anticipate it so you're not caught off guard. Not "whoa, wtf", but "oh boy, here we go. How can I maneuver around this back to sexy-time?" Example A: I was at a college hitting on some milf going back to school. The vibe was happy, conversation was going good until she decided to talk about how her husband passed…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:26 PM
1

Have sex with her, I'm not even sure what the question is here. Porn is plentiful on the internet if you need to learn how to have sex?
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:24 PM
1

Max 300
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:21 PM
2

Stop hamstering and ask her to suck your dick. If she does then there is your answer
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:20 PM
1

"Desire cannot be compromised" https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/ She's not attracted enough to you to do it, that's the short version of it. Deal with it or hard next
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:06 PM
1

So these "beta males" don't excel with women and yet you're butthurt that they got chosen over you? You are a special kind of delusional Buttercup, get back on the short bus
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:58 PM
1

Who cares if she's getting banged by your best friend, Chad or the entire Golden State Warriors starting line up. She's a plate, why get jealous? You feel nothing as you bang another one of your plates
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:54 PM
3

Hey I missed your call last night, let's meet up at [insert plans here] Don't use that line you posted up there, that's horrid lol
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:49 PM
2

Love
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:47 PM
1

Boys will be boys, if she responds in kind to it then hard next her
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:40 PM
2

There is a VERY small subset of men that can efficiently run social media game. If you're traveling around the world, going to different parties and locations and exotic places everyday then yeah you can DHV by constantly putting up stories of your exciting life. If this isn't you though or you spend all day at a desk with nothing exciting to share daily then don't even consider it. Number.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 07:53 AM
1

Yeah you're in a bad spot. The usual prescription here would probably be a soft next...but you work with her so that is not an option (hence don't shit where you work as has been stated.) Honestly you're probably going to self destruct here. All I can say is be prepared to learn a lesson from it when you do because you will and try and at least minimize damage to your job when you go off the deep end.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 07:45 AM
1

Step one would be actually following my first suggestions yeah lol this is exactly why you block her on all media, why trigger yourself for no reason?
/r/askTRP23/06/18 12:46 AM
1

That's part of the problem, I have many times. It is not an everyday thing but sometimes I still have hope.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 11:12 PM
4

Funny lol "A simple hello can lead to a million different things." That line is actually golden
/r/askTRP22/06/18 07:24 PM
4

"Every guy with oneitis is egotistical and insecure. Every single one. He has a need to control the situation and make things right. He has a need to prove himself and/or her that he can make things right. He needs to do these things to satisfy the ego, and only filling that void in his life, due to his underlying insecurities, will do that for him. So, the more he tries to control the situation, the more she feels smothered and the further she drifts away. Because of his ego, he then cannot und…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:33 PM
1

Would you mind explaining the link between neediness and control a little? That resonates with me but I've never heard that concept before. Thanks.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:46 PM
1

If your frame even remotely depends on the external you will break down EACH and every time because you are putting your faith in things you don't and cannot control. Friends, family, women, jobs, life, all these things will let you down more times than not. You must bring your frame and confidence from inside. Look up "inner locus of control." Read "No more Mr. Nice Guy" and "Models." Learn to tell people to fuck off. Learn to put yourself first each and every time and FUCK what other people th…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:55 AM
1

Stop obsessing over strippers, you're making yourself in a literal cuck. Far worse than any beta. Fucking a stripper will not make you Chad, you'll still be a beta minus probably a few thousands dollars and plus a few STDs. Do you have a stripper addiction? I think you may have a problem.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 07:30 AM
1

I don't find these ideals to match the general ideals of this sub at all, not sure where you pulled that out from
/r/askTRP21/06/18 07:28 AM
1

You spend a lot of time seeking validation and approval from people, a lot of whom you don't even like (or should not.) As was stated, this seems to stem from a complete lack of confidence and self esteem. You attract what you feel like you deserve and right now that's not sounding like a lot. Improve your mindset.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:50 AM
10

Where is this rule from lol emojis can be perfect for cocky funny vibes, don't agree with that at all
/r/askTRP21/06/18 03:13 AM
1

This is a train wreak. Lost frame, failed shit test, beta bait, it's been a while since I've seen this much wrong in a single situation. If you even need to ask if this was childish then you clearly have read nothing of the Red Pill for this to even be a question. Get to reading and never do this shit again.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 11:21 PM
2

If I had a dime for every time I've received a literally identical word for word text like this after plowing some girl in a "relationship," I would be a very rich man. Engaged women as well. It's just hamster talk to excuse her action. I once had a plate tell me she cheated on her ex "because she was sad," so it was okay. This is it. This is how deep the hamster wheel goes. Stay in this game long enough and text like this will soon be second nature to you so get used to it. Rather to be on this…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 12:23 PM
2

As a fellow horse rider, it's nice to pull this up to a page full of Ford hate lol very clean. I have a way older model as of now but am looking to upgrade soon. Specs for this and additions you've added to the stock?
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 12:11 PM
3

Don't seek out canned responses, learn how to deal with shit test. Namely agree and amplify and cocky and funny
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:54 AM
1

You don't. You're not only mourning the last of the girl but you're mourning the lost of a reality that you probably lived with your entire life. It's the first time you've experienced that someone you thought "loved" you will just as soon drop you like a bum off the street and that stays with you the rest of your life. Don't forget about it, learn from it, grow from it and continue to live your life despite of it. The pain will still be there. Use it as motivation.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:20 AM
1

Do yourself a favor and stop watching RSD videos. This coming from someone who was a fan for close to 6 years, been to multiple free tours and a hot seat. In the early days there was genuine value there but so much of it is marketing bullshit now that it's not worth sorting through it all. The only one I vouche for at this point is Madison as he tells you straight up man advice and not just how to chase after women. Do not feed into this trash.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:06 AM
3

Welcome to the world. Women flake, get over it.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:58 AM
40

See the rewards you get for commitment?
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:57 AM
1

Block her on all platforms, move on with your business. You don't get a pat on the back for doing things you should be doing for your own good, your reward is having that trash out of your life.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:32 PM
25

This exactly. The greatest ability the Red Pill has given me is the ability to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:19 PM
1

Why didn't you hook up with her on the night you brought her back and kissed her in the first place...
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:11 PM
1

A crush? How old are you? This is literally the definition one Itis, "there's this one girl." You've already put her on a pedestal so there is no technique that's going to save you here, go fuck 10 other women.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:41 PM
2

Even knowing that you're joking and I still cringed at this...at least I hope you are
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:36 PM
1

It's definitely in the required reading of the manly library but not exactly life changing. From a Red Pill perspective, the biggest takeaway is pay close attention to Mystery and his slow decline into madness when he starts to let women dictate his life. I consider it a cautionary tale more so than anything.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:34 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:30 PM
23

Getting laid is great but there is millions of things that are great and far more fulfilling. The Red Pill teaches you that the most important thing is your own happiness and women can't and will not change that. If you're genuinely happy as you stand now then so be it.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 05:14 PM
1

Use your social circle, meet new women through your friends inside of it and then escalate from there. You have to be very careful with social circle game as news spreads. Any over the top errors can be spread like wildfire among your group. Just keep it pretty low-key and casual and see if you get any indicators of interest from someone.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:52 PM
5

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:42 PM
1

Not a problem, I'm 28 and personally still figuring out what I want to do professionally right now so I find myself at a similar crossroad. I think that's typical for around our age, it's certainly a transitional period in a man's life. Good luck to you.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:53 AM
3

She might as well have said come over and put your dick in me. Honestly all you have to do is not screw it up. Bring protection, don't be a complete beta, make a move and this should be a pretty easy in.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:49 AM
1

I don't even see the question here...she is just a plate and you're still having sex...okay. Where is the issue here?
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:44 AM
3

If she's consistently "joking" about breaking up then that's not a shit test, that's a red flag.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:42 AM
1

You could have asked your question without the theatrics but maybe look into a career in play writing lol on that note, you have to do what's best for your own life. Ask yourself do you want to continue working a job you don't enjoy and look back on your death bed and say that you had not lived or do something about it and get a job and life you enjoy
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:40 AM
2

No
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:37 AM
2

You're nothing more than a "pick me," a woman who deems every other woman as below her or low class to try and elevate herself as above the herd. Degrees and occupation do not exclude you or any woman from AWALT. Get off the high horse and ride back to reality.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:32 AM
1

How old you, how old are the women, what is the nature of the party, are you hosting, are your friends hosting, how big is your social circle going to be at this party, there are variables.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:16 AM
2

You rejected yourself lmao you literally didn't do anything. Okay, she was talking about sex for 2 hours and you did...what exactly? Absolutely nothing. You didn't escalate, you didn't initiate kino, you didn't try and leave the venue with her, you didn't push and pull, you didn't lead her, you literally did nothing here and then counted it as a rejection? You need to read...a lot. Soft next her, monk mode for a month or two and just read game because you're lacking it. Good luck.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 09:08 AM
3

Dread and jealousy will always beat out validation and attention. Textbook.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 06:30 AM
2

"You haven't earned it yet" is a classic shit test, she's testing your frame. The fact that you're in school doesn't change a thing, if anything it makes it even more likely that everyone is getting the same nudes. Maybe even some of your "boys." If she's really a virgin then naturally she's going to want to take things slowly but if she's as sexual aggressive as you're describing then that sounds like a stretch to me. Either way, if you want to make it happen then you have to cut the back and f…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 11:04 AM
1

Life plays out quite differently than theory but it's good to have a balance of both, good luck to you. What was your initial ban even for?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 10:51 AM
3

I mean the fact that you even questioned her about the food date. That's bait and you fell for it. She wanted to see if you would get jealous over it and you did. Even if that wasn't your intention, I can tell you that's how she interrupted it. If you're just plates to each other then she shouldn't be asking about hairs in your shower and you shouldn't be asking about her food dates. It's irrelevant.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:08 AM
1

You're about to go to university aka pussy utopia. Don't even think about one random slut, up your game and be ready to go through ass like chewing gum the next 4 years. Do not waste your college life in a relationship.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:03 AM
1

This was LMR, not a shit test. Look up LMR techniques, particularly freeze outs.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:00 AM
2

If she's a friend then why are you over thinking this as if you're fucking her. Open the damn snap, it's a mute point. She's a woman and she parties with you. I'm sure she has other woman that she brings with her to party too. Keep her as a friend and game her friends. If you're not a complete slouch she might even wing for you if you're worth it.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:57 AM
1

You are her gay best friend, congratulations. If that fact doesn't fill you with enough rage to pull yourself up by the balls and stop them there is no hope for you. She would rather paint your nails and go dress shopping with you right now then she would fuck you. Learn game, go out more and never invest this much into a woman you aren't fucking or even one that you are again. Good luck
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:53 AM
2

Why are you investing this much into one plate? Who cares who she's fucking, you're fucking other people too. Tell her you want to keep things open and if she doesn't like that then to get to stepping.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:49 AM
1

If she's not putting forth any effort at all then that's going to be a hard next for me pretty quickly. I like women who like me and while some are more forward than others of my plates, we have minimally a good 60/40 investment ratio at worse. I'm not going to always initiate no, she's going to show me some interest of be nexted.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:44 AM
1

Same
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:40 AM
3

Keep spinning your plates or I can almost promise you that you're going to end up alienating your One-Itis. The Burden of Performance. Right now you have your ducks in a row, you have options and she knows that. That is partially why she is attracted to you. If you cut all your other plates, start doting on just her and lose your other options then the countdown for beta town is inevitable. Don't trap yourself here.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:38 AM
3

I can't stress test #2 enough. Tell her no, temporarily remove attention from her, disagree with her, do all these things and see how she responds. This is truly the test to be measured. Countless times guys will do everything for a woman, only to tell her no once and have her go ape shit. Tale as old as time.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:35 AM
2

It's very amusing to see how women respond to you removing the validation you once gave them and polarizing is certainly the correct word choice. They tend to lean in extremes, one way or the other but as you said, at the end of it you can definitely say you know where you stand with them.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:37 AM
1

It can apply to women you have fucked as well. Once you have bedded a woman you can be slightly more relaxed on these rules but still occasionally treat them as shit test, especially if she stops putting out like she was initially. Depending on the type of relationship you have with her, you will need to mix in some level of comfort. Don't over do it though or you will quickly land in her beta orbiter circle. It's a strong balancing act but maintame frame no matter what and never give her too mu…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:34 AM
2

I'm actually writing a post on TRP right now that I should have out in a few minutes relating to this slightly but TLDR, use it very sparingly for exactly the reason you already know.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:40 PM
1

I can't tell you anything off of a selfie, what's your game like is what we need to hear. You could be a model for all I care, if you have no game then you're not going very far. The line of attractive people that crash and burn is unlimited
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:37 PM
7

Your biggest mistake was being vague in your date timing. You were finished at that point. You should have said "Hey meet me at X place at X time on X day." You're the man, you're making the plans, be specific about what you want. That wasn't a shit test she sent back, that was her genuine answer to seeing you as a guy who wants to take her out but don't have any sort of plan. Do better in the future and probably just next this one at this point. Soft next and maybe she'll be around down the lin…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:35 PM
1

Oh I absoutely would never respond to that, I was specifically curious about your statement on opening the story in the first place but I see your point now.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:30 PM
9

It's an attitude, not an action. Believe it and it will ooze into everything you do. Not texting first, ready to walk away at any time, enforcing your boundaries, accepting no shit, the list is unlimited
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:03 PM
5

"College 3 hours away" Trust me pal, you're not the only one that's fucking her. Do what you will with that information but know it to be an undeniable truth so you better get to plate spinning
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:01 PM
2

I've had girls tell me about their boyfriends as I am plowing them and he's blowing her phone up. As was stated, actions over words
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:58 PM
1

If she ask for them, send them. Otherwise there is really no need. You're already fucking. She has seen you naked. It's pretty beta bait outside of that. If she wants to see you naked then tell her come and suck your dick
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:56 PM
16

Not dumb, you knew the answer but you needed to hear it. Every man has been there before and probably what led them to this place to begin with buy yeah that's a hard next. "Sorry I fell asleep" is literally the "I fucked another guy last night" meme #1 Hard next
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:52 PM
1

How so?
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:44 PM
7

Honey Trap AKA Beta Bait Any response to this lowers your SMV into the trash https://youtu.be/ZicbNWhMHhw
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:44 PM
2

Go out more
/r/askTRP17/06/18 11:48 AM
3

If you're overthinking a simple question like that then you're already dead in the water, abort mission.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 11:46 AM
2

If she dumped you then it's highly unlikely and further more wouldn't be worth the effort. Stay out of scarcity and find better women.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 11:44 AM
2

Texting is for minimal conversation as possible to setup a meet up. They less you say, the less chance you have of fucking up. Lay a little attraction, setup a date, make it happen
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:38 AM
1

You can start by caring about what to talk about. She's not going to just walk up to you and say take me away, you've been watching too many movies. Learn to have a conversation like a reasonable human being, learn to isolate, learn to lead, learn to lay down logistics, learn to push and pull, learn to apply comfort when needed, learn shit test, basically learn game. The knowledge is out there.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:34 AM
3

It's old school technique but it served me well back when I was starting. 10 seconds rule - You have to 10 seconds to approach a woman upon seeing her. This removes time from you escaping in your head and promotes action More or less "just do it" or know you'll never get anything you want in life. Easy choice to make honestly.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:30 AM
2

Nailed it and her boyfriend is a tool and hook, line and sank into it like the beta he probably is.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:24 AM
4

He's extremely insecure and she is trouble. Delete their numbers and stay far away from both them. I say this with urgency and seriousness. These are not people you want to associate with.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:23 AM
1

I got you. Personally I choose not to "love" someone that I know is incapable of loving me back but that's my personal priority. What even is love anyway, a feeling, a chemical or a lie we tell ourselves? Probably a little bit of it all. Every man has to make his own choices though, if you choose to "love" but can separate yourself from the outcome still then I genuinely wish you the best of luck with that my man. Maybe I'm just jaded, maybe I've just lost hope, maybe a little bit of it all. If …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 06:48 AM
1

Honestly, the only way to learn it is to do it because no one will for you. You have to decided that you're going to take a risk and try it or you'll be stuck in the same situation for the rest of your life. Go out, game, initiate touching once you receive indicators of interest, use innuendo, be a sexual being. Sometimes it will go good, sometimes it wont. Use common sense and know if you need to hard stop before you're the next #MeToo story. Good luck
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:04 AM
1

Is it really him that's limiting your success? That's pretty presumptuous. How do you fair when you're alone?
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:58 AM
1

Girl gives you her first blowjob (allegedly) and contacted you first after and you're worried if you're in there or not? Enjoy this level of problems now while you're young son because it gets a hell of a lot worse after lol at maximum this was just a light level shit test. Totally ignore it, set up logistics for a meet up soon and see where it takes you. She already is pretty much throwing herself at you, she's going to make you at least do some of the work.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:53 AM
1

In your example no, it's not. Unless he is posing a direct threat to you or touches you, then opposite of what you think, most confrontations and certainly fighting can actually be extremely beta. It comes down to frame control. You're living in your own world, you are an anchor and nothing can rattle you. If someone is taken by rage, anger, they are emotional. They are weak. If you by contrast are cool, calm and collect, guess what? You're holding frame. You are in control and this little boy w…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:40 AM
2

If this was a first date, soft next for now. The ball is already in her court to reschedule since she's the one that cancelled. If she contacts you genuinely wanting to reschedule well then there you go, if not then you have your answer.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:34 AM
1

You're both moving in 3 months, who gives a shit? I don't think monogamy is on her mind either knowing these facts. At any point, it's not for the man to bring relationship logistics. If a woman wants to move on to something more serious, trust me, you'll know. Then you tell her how it is and she can make the decision to be okay with that and leave. Until then continue pumping and dumping. I think you over-estimate women's want to turn a FWB into a relationship. A majority of women you meet will…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:25 AM
3

She's not yours, it's just your turn AWALT
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:29 AM
2

Honestly just forget about her and move on. Your life is improving, you have other plates, you apparently know how to attract other women. Leave your ex as an ex and continue doing whatever it is you're doing now.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:29 AM
4

Depression is real my man, seek therapy and probably let up off the green some.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:25 AM
8

Plates or not, that's the realities of being sexually active. STD, Unwanted pregnancy, no barrier is 100% You must weigh the risk to rewards ratio and decide for yourself as a man, is it worth it
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:23 AM
3

She's not yours, it's just your turn You don't love her. She's your only option right now and now that she's moving away you're stuck in scarcity. It's not love.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:30 PM
3

That link sums up 80% of the questions in AskTrp, saved.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:28 PM
2

I mean it really doesn't matter "why." It could be a number of reasons. Women shit test, it's just a fact of life. Learn how to deal with them and move on.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:27 PM
13

Tell her that you love her, that she is your everything and all you want to do is love and support her and make her happy by any means. She'll be gone by sundown...
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:24 PM
2

Better way to put...what exactly? She's going to her party, you're going to get drinks. Okay.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:18 PM
2

You already know the answer and you're just looking for confirmation. Stop doting on a single girl, go out, improve yourself, meet more women
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:17 PM
1

I mean I honestly don't see the problem here, in the end you're still meeting up, you're still having sex, the rest is pretty null and void. I believe you're over thinking it personally. Once the plans are set YOU should be assuming that she's going to show up. You don't need to keep rechecking. If she doesn't then drop her.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:15 PM
2

Trust me, I'm not breaking your balls on the texting thing for no reason. I've done the same in the past and I wish someone had slapped some sense in me when I was your age or even earlier. You still have a long way to go but be glad you're starting to wake up as early as you are. As far as this girl goes, I would honestly just mark it as a lost cause my man. You are far too invested in this girl and at this point you are way too deep in her beta pocket to even hope for redemption without puttin…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:05 PM
1

This exactly. Love is a power play. If you're not the one doing the manipulating then you're the one being manipulated. Women are not capable of the Disney style love that you're imagining. Read up on the "Burden of Performance." One Itis is a false prophet and obsession. It is not love. https://therationalmale.com/2014/09/23/the-burden-of-performance/
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:44 PM
2

And now she's lying about lying despite the fact that you have physical evidence of it? Get out now. Girl is a psycho path
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:33 PM
1

Then I'm unclear on what you're saying because I'm reading your post as saying don't be afraid to fall in love despite of Red Pill truth. Correct me if I'm wrong here?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 09:31 PM
2

No reason to be sad by this development, you're actually moving in the right direction now. You will not find fulfilment in women, in fact you can't. You're now sobering up to this fact which is a great thing. Find fulfillment in your money, your job, your lifting, adventure, science, religion, research. Find fulfillment in your mission and have women and sex as a mere accessory. You cannot make your woman your mission or women as a whole. Keep going down the path you are currently walking.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:28 PM
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You're dead to her as far as a sexual partner potential, there is no hope of recovery. Soft next and move on and hardcore work on your game son. That text exchange was nauseating. Texting is to be short and for logistics only. Not...whatever that was I just read. Try hard and desperate.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:18 PM
2

Hard next, she disrespected you by lying. She could have simply said she had a change of plans and left at it at that, the fact that she had to lie about it would be a deal breaker for me. I expect more than that.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:14 PM
14

Should have beat her ass. Equal rights means equal lefts.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:09 PM
5

Women don't find branches, they already have them. At any given time most women have a few branches they can swing to at any given time. The more attractive, the more she will have. Thus "She's not yours, it's just your turn." Once your novelty wears off she will cock carousel to the next one.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:04 PM
1

Always plenty of time to learn. Study game, lift weights and don't allow your money to make you think you should fill a woman's provider role. Alpha fucks not beta bucks
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:02 PM
1

But has she since?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:00 PM
2

If you have fully swallowed red pill knowledge and still honestly believe a woman is capable of love, then you're either rationalizing or have yet to fully digest it. This of course is solely my opinion. You're free to do as you please and hey maybe you're even right. I wish you luck.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 02:55 PM
1

Lol, *alpha
/r/askTRP16/06/18 02:50 PM
1

Agree and amplify
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:40 AM
1

If you don't have abundance than get it. Improve yourself.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:36 AM
1

They say don't hate the player, hate the game but you shouldn't hate any of it. You should adapt. You know the truth. You have two option. Get with it or get run over. Simple.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:21 AM
1

What is butt hurt about taking your talents elsewhere where they are wanted? If the Lakers want me to play for free but Golden State is offering me an exclusive one year 25 million dollar contract...is it butthurt of me to trade teams? Think about it
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:10 AM
1

vandaalen pretty much nailed it. She got everything that she wanted out of you. Time, attention, validation and even a free meal. However on the flip, if she previously hadn't been mentioning her boyfriend then she may actually have been planning to fuck you and you dropped the ball by not making it happen. All you can do is next her honestly at this point, you have shown your beta cards. How to avoid it in the future is never be this doting on a woman you haven't even fucked yet. Aloha fucks no…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:31 AM
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Two words: Amused Mastery Seeing a butt hurt and to be frank, downright creepy message like that is a good way to dry up every panty within a 1000 mile radius and possibly end up on a watch list lol that's pretty bad yeah. If she wants to be with you, she will be with you. Clearly she does not want to be. This is one itis. Move on.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:21 AM
1

One flake into a two month relationship with a woman is pretty solid actually. Unless it becomes a habit of you have reason to suspect foul play, this would be a pass as far as I'm concerned. Pay close attention to her actions following this.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:18 AM
3

It's lonely at the top for a reason. People don't like to see success because it's a reminder of their failures. Disregard them and continue winning.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:15 AM
2

Always actions over words but flirting doesn't amount to anything. Until you actually bed her she is just stringing you along. Make it happen or hard next. No in between.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:13 AM
1

Gtfo now and never look back
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:12 AM
0

It's a pretty straight forward concept honestly. Women will say they love you, can't wait to see you, are devoted you. Etc Then they flake, cheat, disrespect you, etc. Your actions speak so loudly that I can't hear a word that you're saying
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:10 AM
1

This sounds like virtue signaling if anything. Define "love." There is nothing noble or profound about "love" as we have defined it, it is a fools errand and there is absolutely nothing brave about it. It sounds like you're trying to apply red pill principles to blue pill means. Go ahead and "love" all you want, you'll be the next one typing a cautionary tale. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 09:07 AM
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The experience of a man is truly universal as this place has taught me. My mother didn't initially use suicide as a threat until I was much older and preparing to move out. That was her last ditch effort to keep me, "If you leave me I might kill myself." It truly amazes me how similar so many experiences are. Good luck to you my man.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:37 PM
1

It's a hard fact to awaken from. I'm definitely still working through my anger phase from it all but I am thankful that TRP is giving me hope for the light on the other end. That's what keeps me going.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:33 PM
0

They're all sluts, stop deluding yourself
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 09:07 PM
1

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/ Always be a Skittles Man
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 08:05 PM
1

She absolutely wants to hook up still, no woman on this earth would text afterwards and certainly wouldn't apologize (women never apologize unless it's to serve their own purpose). She actually wanted to hook up still even the night in question but was giving next level LMR due to her hamster. Know that eventually if you don't fully commit to her she will eventually walk away. Be okay with that. Remember: "She's not yours, it's just your turn" Enjoy it while it last and then walk away gracefully…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:36 AM
1

I agree with Glennus but to add to that, I almost feel like it was a weird combination of LMR (even though you had hooked up before they can still fall back on this)/Comfort test/ and a shit test. Leaving was the only thing you could have and should have done here honestly.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:13 AM
1

Had a girl that I was admittedly an orbiter for months until she decided to break up with her boyfriend. We hooked up a few days later and had pretty decent sex in my opinion for an entire night, she definitely seemed to be enjoying it. The week following, she hard ghosted me after we had been speaking almost daily for the months before. It's a weird leap when you go from an "emotional tampon" to a lover. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. My ego wants to say maybe if I banged it out more…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:10 AM
1

"Brother" It wasn't her brother lol...next
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:01 AM
1

How old are you currently
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:54 AM
1

Leave
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:50 AM
1

If she already flaked then why are you still chasing her...
/r/askTRP15/06/18 01:01 AM
1

How can I get her to understand that going with her slutty friends is completely unappropriate without sounding insecure (I'm not) or controlling. Yes you are. If she is going to cheat on you she's going to go it in the super market just as likely as she is in a nightclub. Get more plates and stop stressing already damaged goods. I question your self-esteem even dating such a girl in the first place.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:55 AM
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Alpha Widow, most women have that "one." I wouldn't say it's a break up level red flag but accept the fact that if this dude so happened to suddenly come around, she would drop you for him in a heart beat or minimally cheat on you with him. Make no mistake about it or "maybe," know it for a fact. Would not make her more than a plate.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:53 PM
1

"She's not yours, it's just your turn" Simple
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:47 PM
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Not much to be said that hasn't already so to keep it clean and simple: Treat them all the same because they are all the same
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:34 PM
1

The bad thing is that I still want to get the pedestaled girl. That’s neediness obviously. Don’t say me “next” her because it doesn’t truly sound like alpha-ish since a true alpha can cure himself and get whatever girl he wants. You're hiding your ego under delusions. I'm not saying this to sound superior to you but because I can relate to it. It's something I've had to fight within myself. Don't delude yourself into thinking you can be "alpha" enough to get any women because ironically it will …
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:32 PM
1

You are a senior in HS and about to enter some pretty pivotal segments of your life after graduation, you shouldn't be tied down right now anyway. Get used to this because women cannot be trusted period. She will lie, her friends will lie, hell your OWN friends will lie to you. Trust your instinct. Most people advise against directly communicating things such as this with women but honestly I would straight up call her out. Not to get the truth from her but to see how she responds. Watch her eve…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:12 PM
2

No More Mr. Nice Guy is essential reading, I go through it minimally once a year. It's worth refreshing here and there.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:01 PM
1

I turn 29 next month as well so I'm glad to see others in similar phases of their journey as me at this age. Still finishing school, some work experience but I've had a decent amount of lays over the past few years. Way more than my "younger" years but I still have a long way to go in all aspects and sometimes it just feels social dysfunctional to be this age and still figuring so many things out. The important thing to remember is we still have a long ways to go and the best is still ahead if y…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 08:55 PM
1

"So I can use game and dread to keep my wife pure and wholesome and she'll never divorce me. Because alpha, bro". Nailed it, exactly the mindset that I think I'm trying to escape right now. It's not that I don't have the knowledge, it's that I'm fighting against accepting it still and trying to believe that I can use it to control the outcome of everything if I get "alpha" enough and like you you said a lot of people are still stuck in this phase. Thanks for breaking it down like this, that quot…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 04:46 AM
1

Yeah I was having trouble interpreting it in the original context but reading through the comments in here, I'm thinking he meant something along the lines of "The fantasy of using your red pill knowledge and skills to obtain blue pill goals and ends." So yeah it would be closer to a blue pill fantasy but under the guise or delusion of the red pill. For example when I first started learning Red Pill, I thought it would be my answer to picking up my one itis of the past and I would go back and tr…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 07:01 PM
2

Very well said and something I am for sure still working through myself. I'm getting better at seeing things as they are and responding appropriately but there is also still that part of me that wants to against all logic, hope and pray that a firm grasp of RP principal will allow me to still attain some form of blue pill goals and comfort. I will be more firm in turning away from this delusion in the future, it's admittedly still causing me to make very detrimental decisions despite me "knowing…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 03:29 AM
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Absolutely not, if you would even consider trusting a woman raw and putting your finances and far more importantly your health at risk then you still have a lot more to learn. STD's are very real and while some are easily curable why even take that risk when you can minimize it. I wouldn't even consider it.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:30 AM
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Absolutely, this is a trap I've found myself fallin into, especially when I first started so you're spot on. It's like the whole world opens up to you when you first begin reading and almost take on the new knowledge like a super power that can do no wrong. While it's definitely a way better strategy of course nothing works all the time and especially not when you really want it to on "that one girl." Thanks
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:22 AM
4

Any hobby you care about because it gives you purpose other than chasing women. A man needs things to occupy his time with, preferably beneficial things such as lifting, meditation and researching things such as business and health. There is a place for things like movies and video games as well but don't let them occupy too much of your time. They are time sinks.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:33 PM
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I was reading an article on overcoming One Itis and something in the comments stood out to me: "I don't really think one-itis can truly be stopped until you genuinely feel a deep source of internal validation and abundance mentality. This goes beyond fucking N number of women, because we know celebrity guys who have gotten 1000s of lays still get massive oneitis for lower SMV bitches. Oneitis is a function of low self esteem and needing something external to feel fulfilled. It's obsession and fi…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 10:55 PM
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