i've digested TRP for a year or so, I understand the basics plus some extra, im packing some gains, got a dope haircut that fits my face, got a nice beard, good social circle and im on second year of college on a good course, and I dress well. Girls always notice my dressing and I get IOIs from it cause most college guys are nerdy with horrible haircuts and no style at all.

So, from this I get chicks IOIs, the problem is this: I dont do shit. I never approached a girl that gave me IOIs. But apart from this, the really part I want to focus is that I dont think straight or get urges when im with a chick.

For example: Thurdays I had a party of my college course, it was all well and I met lots of new people and I made small talk with this guy and girl, the guy was fat af and cringy so the girl then kept talking with me and actually we have a lot in common, during the whole night she was basically yelling "FUCK ME", touching me everywhere, only wanting to drink what I drink, telling her friends to wait cause I had gone talk to some other friends, and chilling way way way close to me.

Whats the problem with this? I noticed this but its like I didnt care about it, only when I got home was when I processed it all and was like "FUCK ME DUDE, AGAIN?!", and I keep missing this golden shots everywhere and as a result im still a virgin.

I dont understand, I get chicks after me and only after I lose my shot is when I wake up and go fuck it up even farther by being needy. I dont know whats wrong with me, I got everything in my life straight except for getting pussy, I just dont know what to do...

I just dont know what to do... Is it the fapping? I tried no-fap and it did jack shit for me for a couple of weeks, I got into sports, I dont play video games anymore (here and there sometimes obviously but not 10 hours a day anymore), I got lots of friends, im social AF, but I just fuck it up with chicks.

I know how I should act and what to do, but like on the example I gave when im in the act/situtation I just act like a mannequin and dont escalte verbally and physically so I basically friendzone myself and I know what I need to do to not do it again but when im with a girl it just gets removed from my head and I dont even think about it and then as soon as she goes away, like 5 seconds after the regret comes in and I get depressed and it fucks up my next weeks. What can I do?