So a plate of mine has pulled back recently and said she "wants to take things slow". She has also been acting abrasive and disrespectful. I pulled back and let her come to me. In doing this shes pretty much cut contact down to a fifth of what it was. (Talking to much was dumb on my part I know) So I soft nexted for two days but she still has this attitude and is not back to how things were previously. Would you guys initiate another longer soft next, or just hard next? Also after the soft next, do I resume along as normal and just ignore the drama? Any help is appreciated, thanks.